this video will serve as your texting Bible it doesn't matter what your skills are or which goal you're talking to in this video I will explain everything you need to know about texting in detail and if you ever feel confused or face any issues with texting come back to this video and you'll 100% find the solution to your problem the first thing you need to understand is that the purpose of texting is to set up a date and meet the woman not just to chat the goal of texting is not just conversation but meeting up
listen carefully as a man you won't gain anything from texting it's a waste of time and won't bring you any benefit this is the first point I want you to understand the second point is that a woman will not develop feelings for you just through texting and this is the mistake that many men make they text just for the sake of chatting no you should use texting to get to the stage of setting up a date and here I'll slightly diverge to talk about something important men who talk to girls who don't live in the
same city if you live in one state and the girl lives in another that means you shouldn't waste your time with her and I'm not criticizing anyone but if you're talking to a girl who doesn't live in your city why are you talking to her what will you gain even if you meet once a month or once every 3 months you need to understand that this is a losing equation for you as a man there are hundreds of thousands maybe even millions of women in your city so why are you looking for a girl in
a Nova City think carefully before you waste your time and energy on this finally the third point I want you to understand is that texting is just a conversation in the digital world this digital conversation although it has rules different from The Real World Is Still still just a reflection of the real world this means that to succeed in the digital world you first need to know how to communicate in the real world if you've been following my series on how to attract women you probably won't have an issue with this because I've explained everything
you need and you likely already understand how a woman thinks if you haven't watched this series please when you finish this video go back and start from the first episode so you can get the most benefit from today's video now let's return to the topic of texting from my experience I've noticed that the mistake I used to make and that most guys make when texting is that they don't know when to ask a girl for a date that's why I'm now going to explain a basic concept in texting you need to know what stage you're
in are you in the stage where you should ask for a date or in the stage where you should just continue the conversation or are you in the stage where you need to build attraction the important thing is that you know which stage you're in now now I'm going to give you a compass that I want you to hold on to this Compass will help you figure out which stage you're in if you're texting a girl or want to start talking to one there are four stages you might be in stage one the silent stage
this is when she leaves you on read and doesn't reply this means that attraction has dropped don't worry we'll discuss this in detail just be patient with me stage two the testing stage this is when she criticizes you disagrees with you or talks about other guys if you've watched the entire series you already know that I always say girls test guys it's a biological Instinct they have and they do it without realizing it I also always tell you that I'll make a video explaining how to pass these tests I apologize for the delay but soon
I'll make a video where I explain these tests in detail stage three The Logical stage this is when she starts discussing topics with you logically or sometimes emotionally stage four the attraction stage this is when the girl starts showing her attraction towards you like sending you her pictures reacting positively to your pictures or hinting at a possible Meetup in any text conversation with a girl you'll always be in one of these stages 100% you need to know which stage you're in right now so you can act accordingly and don't worry I'll explain what you need
to do in each stage to make it clearer let's assume you're in the stage where the girl has shown her attraction to you and what did you do you continued talking to her and carried on with the conversation here my friend you've made a big mistake why are you still talking to her when you reach this stage it means you should ask her out if you don't ask for a date and just keep talking after a while she'll reject the idea of a date because you didn't recognize the stage you were in and didn't take
the right action or let's assume you're in the first stage where the girl responds with a few words and leaves you on read without replying further then you go ahead and ask for a date that's another mistake you've taken an action that doesn't fit the stage you're in so once you know what stage you're in it's time to figure out the right way to handle the situation with the girl but before I tell you what to do in each stage I need to explain something about the world of texting if you've been following me for
a while you'll know that women are emotional beings for them the world of texting is an emotional game and all of their actions are based on emotions as a man you won't be able to play this game with her because you're not an emotional being you're a logical one that's why in this video I'm explaining things to to you from a logical perspective I want you to understand texting from a logical point of view and approach it that way so you don't get pulled into the emotional game that women try to involve you in this
may sound strange to you but this is just how women are for them dating is like a game and it's part of their nature consider it an unavoidable reality but when you enter this game and see it through a logical lens you can win because logic is your strength this is what I try to do in all my videos even if you don't always realize it in this series I'm not just giving you information I'm trying to shift your perspective on dating so you see it in a more logical way if you'd like me to
make a video discussing the logic of men versus the emotions of women let me know in the comments now let's get back to our topic and go through the stages one by one by the way these stages aren't in a fixed order you could find yourself in any stage and sometimes you might even start in the attraction stage so let's begin with the first stage the silence stage in this stage the girl doesn't respond or takes a long time to reply or she might not seem interested in this case you should avoid overwhelming her with
messages don't send too many and don't ask for anything that requires a response most importantly don't bring up a date the only thing you can do is leave a simple comment like reacting to her story or saying something that doesn't require a reply the goal here is to maintain your value and not show any neediness even if she doesn't respond the second stage is the testing stage here the girl might start provoking you talking about someone else or disagreeing with you this stage is relatively easy because all you need to do is pass her tests
I'll explain this more in a dedicated video but briefly here are some ways to pass these tests one completely ignore what she said two take a comment and turn it into a joke three give a response that's completely unrelated to what she said in this stage don't ask for a date yet because attraction is still being built stage three is the conversation stage where the conversation flows more naturally and might even involve exchanging voice messages at this point you can ask for a date in this stage I want you to apply everything you've learned in
this series like qualifying techniques or asking emotional questions and try to incorporate them into your texting but remember texting is slightly different from talking on the phone or having a face-to-face conversation to succeed in texting you need to include a lot of humor in your messages the funnier your texts the more positive responses you'll get from the girl one key to text messaging success is to avoid using the girl's real name instead give her a playful nickname like munchkin cutie or my dear these nicknames will help you get faster replies here's a text messaging technique
I've personally developed that Works quite well you hey chickp how good is your memory on a scale of 1 to 10 huh well 10 you okay let's test it if you lose you're buying me dinner ready huh yes you what color shoes was I wearing when we met H hm I think black you wrong answer young lady now you owe me dinner big time then call her immediately after even if she gives the right answer still call and playfully argue that you had on a different color shoes see how simple this is all you need
is a bit of creativity and you can easily secure date after date with minimal risk of rejection the the reason some guys often get rejected is because their messages are just too dull they send texts like can I call you are you free would you like to watch a movie not only are these messages boring but they are also practically asking to be rejected here are a few examples of messages that will get you quick and positive responses you won't believe how badly I embarrass myself today my mom would be so ashamed call me I'm
starving I'll let you buy me a burger if you promise to take me out my cousin's here she's just like you you have to meet her this is the best day of my life I finally did it buzz me when you're free as long as your messages include humor mystery and a touch of excitement you'll always get positive responses Now we move on to the final stage where the girl starts sending you her pictures or showing significant interest such as engaging positively with your pictures at this stage if you haven't met her in person yet
it becomes essential and Urgent to ask her for a date if you don't ask for a date at this point you risk losing her if you like the girl and want to keep talking to her you must ask her for a date if you don't she'll either place you in the friend zone or stop talking to you altogether now you should have a clear understanding of the text in game like any game There are rules you need to know and follow to succeed in short these rules are in general keep your text short and to
the point they should be emotionally stimulating she should feel something from your text you should not be texting her all the time you are a man who has important things to do texting her constantly is not one of them every text should serve a purpose to spark her emotions or to set up a date send her the first text within 48 Hours of getting her number don't ask boring questions don't try to impress her don't be mentally waiting for her to respond go about your busy day as you normally do and respond to her texts
when you get a chance text like a man don't ask her too many questions instead of asking questions make statements and commands and here we have come to the end of our guide in the description you'll find the link to the full series for free on YouTube if you're still watching at this point don't forget to hit the like button and if you have any questions leave them in the comments so I can know what challenges you're facing take care Str emotional flicker you are my everything we know we could have done it better thought
for the little things we wanted and know it was good together
