when we talk about flirting there are three types of men the first is the one who doesn't know how to flirt at all and ends up in the friend zone the second is the one who doesn't know how to flirt and comes off as awkward and the third is the one who knows how to flirt well trust me when I tell you that after watching this video you'll realize that flirting is actually very easy and you'll understand why you are always facing rejection when you try to flirt so welcome to your complete guide on how
to flirt note this video will explain in detail the process of flirting how to do it and how to influence the mind of the girl you're flirting with so that she remembers you as a person of high value not just someone chasing after her so please pay close attention and listen carefully because what I'm about to share with you today will take just 10 minutes but the knowledge you gain will stay with you for life why flirt to answer this question let's look at a conversation where there's absolutely no flirting going on Guy where are
you from girl Melbourne Australia wow so you managed to survive all the deadly animals yeah nah seriously though I've heard it's one of the world's most livable cities or something why' you move yeah it's a pretty great place to live I moved because blah blah blah and the conversation just keeps going spot the issue if not here's the problem the conversation is 100% platonic there's no flirtation no spark nothing that creates any kind of Attraction it might as well be two dudes chatting let's be blunt the guy in this example he's going home alone at
best he goes home solo at worst he's going straight to the friend zone and let's be honest that's way worse it's a dead end a complete waste of time and it leads absolutely nowhere and that's why flirting is such a crucial part of Seduction it gets her thinking about the two of you in a romantic context and makes it clear that you're a man with sexual intent not just someone looking to be her body so if flirting is what separates you from being just a friend and makes her see you as a guy she could
sleep with then why are most guys so bad at it let's dive into the most common mistakes almost every guy makes when it comes to flirting when it comes to flirting a lot of guys make the mistake of being way too obvious why is this an issue it kills the mystery and when the mystery disappears so does the excitement Intrigue makes things fun but being overly direct ruins that Vibe here's an example of awkward obvious flirting girl I love sports bras guy I bet you'd look amazing in a sports bra too obvious so what should
flirting actually look like as we will see in this video great flirting is much more subtle it works through implication rather than saying things outright this creates more mystery and Intrigue leaving women guessing and wanting more being overly direct also kills the excitement of intrigue for example ex Le this is why it is generally unwise to compliment women based on their physical looks aside from making it seem as though you've never been with an attractive woman before an unattractive trait in and of itself you kill any mystery there might have been about your intentions on
top of that being too direct sexually eliminates a woman's ability to absolve herself of feelings of a sluttiness by reasoning that sex just happened women have been socialized to feel shame and fear about being perceived by either herself her friends or even Society at large as as was or sexually promiscuous so when you're too direct with a woman you've only recently met and make it clear you're going to bang her most women bring up some excuse or just disappear you can think of this as their anti- cons slot defense what you need to do instead
is give her a way to rationalize myx as something that just happened plausible deniability for example I've got this awesome pool table at my place will'll go play around while you and her both know what's going to happen this example gives her a way to rationalize it away she can tell herself that she's just going back to your place to have some fun and see what happens rather than that she's going to your place to have sex with you which would leave her feeling dirty and on anyway so what's the lesson don't be so direct
if you hang out with a group of male friends chances are you engage in a lot of banter however unless you're gay which you're probably not if you're watching this video that banter doesn't have any sexual undertones the problem is a lot of guys use that same kind of nonsexual banter when they're trying to flirt with women for a clear example of the difference between friendly and sexual flirting think about the difference between giving a girl a high five and holding her hand one is purely friendly while the other is undeniably sexual unfortunately most guys
tend to play it safe and avoid making bold riskier moves as a result their interactions with women lack any kind of sexual tension or undertone moving on here's how to avoid these mistakes and become an irresistible flirt earlier we discussed a common mistake most guys make when flirting being too obvious so what's the solution be subtle how do you do that it's simple take your blunt clumsy and overly direct flirting and make it more indirect remember this example of clumsy flirting from earlier now let's make this more subtle by being indirect girl I love sports
bras guy really well believe it or not I love girls who love sports bras see the difference in both cases the guy is showing interest in the girl but in the second example it's indirect he's implying his attraction without laying all his cards on the table implying that you like a girl or that you're attracted to her is far more exciting for women than just bluntly saying hey let's by creating Intrigue and leaving things unsaid you show that you're not the type of guy who's chasing after anything with two legs on the other hand being
overly direct and clumsy makes you come across as desperate like you'd fool for anyone who gives you attention by skillfully wrapping your intentions in subtlety you not only generate excitement through mystery but you also project yourself as a high value guy someone she should want to be with speaking of being a high value guy let's move on to the next method of flirting when you're dealing with high quality women women or really any women but especially attractive ones you're going to get tested women will test you to see if they can throw you off balance
it's a way of gauging your confidence if you show that you couldn't care less and stay unfazed you pass the test and her attraction for you grows if however you get defensive insecure or start trying to justify yourself you fail and her attraction Fades these tests usually come in the form of sned remarks tricky questions or unreasonable requests for example I bet you use that line on all the girls how many women have you slept with buy me a drink so how do you pass these tests the easiest method is to agree and amplify what
does that mean simply agree with what she says and take it to an exaggerated almost absurd level here's how to handle these tests girl I bet you use that line on all the girls guy yeah I wake up every morning surrounded by women is that good girl how many women have you slept with guy today not that many girl buy me a drink guy sure would you like my ATM pin too moving on let's take a look at a flirting technique that I personally find quite fun act like you're the prize most hot women know
that they are the prize they have dozens if not hundreds of guys hitting on them every day but guess what you can flip this whole boys chase girls Dynamic on its head how by insinuating that she is the one chasing you that she's just another girl who's hitting on you and trying to seduce you you frame the conversation as if she's the pursuer and you're just an innocent victim of her incessant attempts at seducing you how do you do this you frame her as the pursuer while positioning yourself as the prize by playfully twisting her
words and actions to make it like she's hitting on you attempting to seduce you and trying to turn you on here are some examples girl I love sports bras guy don't try to make me think of you in a sports bra girl want to grab another drink guy oh I see how it is trying to get me drunk so you can take advantage of me girl inadvertently staring at you while thinking about something guy are you trying to seduce me guy I live just around the corner we can go and grab a drink at my
place but only if you promise not to try anything girl massages are awesome guy think you can seduce me by offering me free massages girl no guy good because it won't work moving on let's take a look at a method of flirting that puts her on a roller coaster ride of emotions and makes her order more into you but before we continue when you finish watching this video go back and watch the series how to attract women if you only watch this video and try to apply it alone you'll face many problems that's why you
need to watch the entire series to fully understand how women think pushp flirting as the name implies involves a playful mix of pushing her away and pulling her back in both physically and verbally here's an example guy you're too cute for me to handle Sho here he's pulling her in emotionally by saying he finds her cute but at the same time he's pushing her away this contradiction creates excitement and keeps her on her toes here's another example guy you're awesome you're like my little sister he's pulling her in by complimenting her but then he pushes
her away by comparing her to his little sister which is definitely not a romantic comparison this creates a playful tension this back and forth push and pull Dynamic creates Intrigue and excitement making the girl more invested in the interaction on top of that pushpull flirting demonstrates that you're a high value guy why imagine you meet an incredible woman who seems perfect for you funny Charming intelligent and smoking hot but then imagine she just throws herself at your feet no challenge no effort required suddenly she doesn't seem as high value as you initially thought you might
even find yourself losing interest you'd be thinking I thought she was a high quality woman why is she making it so easy women feel the same way this is why they often lose interest in nice guys who buy buy them drinks and F over them yet are drawn to the jerks or bad boys who play hard to get as Thomas Payne once said what we obtain too cheap we esteem too lightly it is dearness only that gives everything its value pushpull flirting demonstrates that you're a high value Guy moving on pretend that it's her fault
a good starting point is to accuse her of trying to seduce you for example if she talks about her house in a completely innocent discussion and she's asking you how something can be installed related to home electronics Furniture Etc ask her are you already trying to bring me to your place I'm not surprised even though it may seem hard to believe women enjoy this kind of teasing don't be surprised if in the future she actually tries without joking to bring you to her place make her understand that you're a man who knows what to do
with a woman women love men who know how to treat them and love them however you can't just go up to her and say hello I'm a good lover on the other hand you can use sexual Illusions for example if you've invited her to your place and you've just made a cocktail and she says wow you're good at that you can make eye contact and say I'm good at many things she will understand the illusion and will want to know more encourage her to use you women often accuse men of using them for sex so
why not reverse the roles next time you do something for her don't forget to say so you're already using me I can already see that soon you'll be using me for other things she will find this role reversal hilarious additionally it's an innocent funny and non-offensive way to bring sex into the conversation and this is how you will have completed your comprehensive guide to flirting but before we finish finish the video I want to let you know that I've created an online course that contains a step-by-step formula that will make women attracted to you regardless
of what you think you're lacking in it you'll find exactly what women are attracted to in a man on a deep psychological level Beyond superficial things like height looks or money you will find the link in the video description anyway if you have any problems let me know in the comments this was the dark needle and take care of yourself it is never black and white can't have one without the other the dark without the light
