this video we're going to dive into the mind of that girl you like but who's ignoring you we'll discover how she thinks and I'll walk you through step by step to understand exactly what you need to do to make her chase after you there are two reasons why a girl might ignore you either the ignoring is a test or she sees you as a guy with limited options you saw her liked her and started giving her way too much attention making her feel like she's the only girl you want and that you're willing to do
anything to please her because you believe you don't have much value and your only dream is for her to notice you I think you get the point now how do you know what's the reason she's ignoring you spoiler alert it's most likely the second reason why because the test of ignoring only happens when a woman is interested in you so if this girl who's ignoring you is someone you've already gone out with or you sensed she was interested in you at some point then it's probably just a test but if she wasn't interested in you
from the start and shows no signs of caring then you're likely facing the second issue I'll talk more about the ignore test in a future video in this series but today we're focusing on the girl who's not interested in you and is ignoring you I'll share with you a tech techque that will make her start chasing after you to remind you the reason a girl ignores you is that she senses you don't have many other options in your life and she feels like you're chasing her because she's the only one you care about and don't
worry this isn't one of those videos telling you to date a bunch of girls to seem like you have options trust me the game is much simpler than that I still remember when I first realized this issue I asked myself how do I fix this problem it wasn't a mistake I was making it was just my reality no girl was interested in me and this wasn't an issue that could be easily fixed I thought long and hard and told myself if a girl likes a guy who has many options and I don't have those options
then the only thing I can do is lie and this was one of the biggest mistakes I made in my dating life when I would talk to a girl I'd start lying making up stories about imaginary girls I had been with I would talk about girls who didn't exist and lie just to make the girl I was talking to think I had options but despite this the results were the exact opposite and here's where I want to stop and give you a piece of advice please don't make the same mistake I did because this approach
leads to only two outcomes either the girl will figure out you're lying and trust me she'll find out easily and lying is a huge attraction killer because it makes her feel like you're willing to do anything to get her approval or the second outcome is that she'll understand that you're trying to convey that you have lots of options which means you're seeking her approval and if you've been following my series on how to attract women you'll know that this is one of the biggest mistakes you can make whether you lie directly or try to hint
that you have many options all you're doing is making the situation worse so please don't be like me and make that mistake now the question is how do you make her believe you you have options without lying when you actually don't have any when I first got into the field of learning how to attract women I realized that women don't care if you have a lot of options in your life or not what matters to them is how you interact with them if you treat her in a way that suggests you have options she'll assume
you do and the best way to do this is through a technique I like to call the qualifying technique now I want you to sit down focus and listen to every word I'm about to say qualifying means screening or filtering and it's something you would only ever think to do if you you had a lot of options and you needed to filter them out so just by qualifying a girl you are instantly subc communicating that you have a lot of options because only guys with options would ever do this this is one of my favorite
technique because it's so powerful and so overlooked by other guys this is also the best way to solidify a girl's attraction for you to go from flirting and small talk which might fizzle out and die at any moment too I really like this guy and I want to know more about him how can I impress him and make him like me more remember the Mantra be the Chooser not the Chaser qualifying is how you make her feel like you're choosing her over other girls like she's starting to win you over and impress you and not
because of the way she looks but because of who she is as a person you want her to feel like she's winning you over not just a random girl you're chasing and in order for that to happen she needs to know that you like her for qualities other than just her looks if you don't qualify her in some way she will get the impression that you're just saying whatever it takes to get into her pants or that you don't have a lot of options and you'll take pretty much any girl you can get but when
you do qualify her she will get the impression that you are choosy because you have options and that you have chosen her for a specific reason so how do you qualify a girl and make her feel special and unique here are three of the best ways to do it but before we continue please give it a like we want this video to reach 3,500 likes anyway let's move on on the qualifying question ask her a question that gets her to share some qualities about herself and then acknowledge her for those qualities for example you know
I've met so many people tonight but for some reason I'm drawn to you I just feel really comfortable talking talking to you and I don't know why that is I'm so curious what would you say is your most positive quality I mean if you had to say one thing what would it be imagine asking her that she's going to think to herself what can I tell this guy that will make him like me more then she's going to start telling you about herself hoping that you like her and accept her for those reasons she's going
to sell herself to you and when you accept her just say wow that's really cool I like that about you she's going to feel a little more special in your eyes like she's not just a random girl and you're actually interested in who she is Plus plus now you're starting to learn more about her and finding new conversational threads to open up and continue talking to her about here's another example you know I wasn't sure what you'd be like before I came over here but you're actually really fun and easy to talk to and I'm
I'm kind of curious about you now what's something really interesting about you just make sure that whatever she tells you you accept her for it otherwise she'll feel like she put herself on the line and got rejected but when she sells herself to you and you accept her for it she'll start to feel like she's won you over with her personality not her love looks this is really important since a lot of really attractive women are used to men valuing them only for their looks and they get sick of it real fast this will set
you apart and distinguish you as a guy who has standards who filters his options and who has chosen this one particular girl because she's special and different no you don't have to accept everything in it and please watch the entire series to fully understand because if you only apply what's in this video you might end up in the friend zone anyway two the self-fulfilling prophecy you're going to make a statement acknowledging a certain quality that you noticed in her when she accepts that your statement is true she'll feel really good about herself and she'll start
to act more consistent with that quality around you for example you know there are a lot of really cute interesting girls here at the bar but I'm just really having a great time talking to you I'm not sure if anyone has ever told you this before but for me it feels like you're really open and that's so refreshing a lot of people are really closed off when they first meet someone so I appreciate that would you say that's true you want to end a statement with a question that invites her to say yes because once
she says yeah I guess I'm pretty open she will start to act more consistent to that and actually become more open around you the key is to make it a genuine statement something she'll feel good about saying yes to plus she'll feel like you recognize something valuable about her that no one else understands and you both share a special connection you would feel the same way if you liked a girl and she went out of her way to recognize something unique about you that she appreciated making you different from other guys around her make sense
another example know what I like about you you're so bold like you don't filter yourself at all you just say what's on your mind and don't try to censor it and I really like that it's refreshing it makes me feel comfortable around you but I mean that's just my impression I could be wrong would you say that's true the key is to make it open-ended and positive something that will feel good for her to say yes to and to make it vague enough that she can't definitively say no you accept her for being something and
once she steps into that frame she feels like she should be that kind of person in order to be accepted so she becomes that person around you and feels really special and lucky to be with you once you do this you shouldn't be shocked when she really starts to open up to you and feel emotionally close as if you've known each other for a long time and of course be prepared to open up and be genuine with her as well other great qualities to look for in her open fun intelligent adventurous spontaneous confident sexually confident
easy to talk to finally here's a great qualifying statement to say to an extremely good-look girl I bet a lot of people don't realize how smart you are this is a truism for a lot of really attractive women they wish more people would recognize their intelligence since most people only recognize their beauty that's true of most people whatever they are used to hearing they don't value as much and there's usually something they secretly wish more people would recognize them for pretty girls want to be told they're smart and smart girls want to be told they're
pretty before we continue I want to let you know that I've created an online course that contains a step-by-step formula that will make women attracted to you regardless of what you think you're lacking in it you'll find exactly what women are attracted to in a man on a deep psychological level Beyond superficial things like height looks or money you will find the link in the video description anyway let's move on three notice and acknowledge when she qualifies herself quite often girls will qualify themselves to you all on their own and you don't even have to
do anything except notice and acknowledge her for it for example girl bragging and telling you things about herself in the hopes that you will accept her for it girl chasing you with her positive body language facing you getting close to you Etc girl touching you and showing direct interest demonstrating that she likes you and wants you to like her back girl asking if you're single girl showing off for you whenever you get the feeling that a girl is qualifying herself to you meaning she's doing something with the intention of impressing you and getting you to
like her more you should acknowledge her for it and show appreciation just tell her what she's doing is cool tell her you like her put your arm around her do something to accept her and let her know she's winning you over if you don't acknowledge her for doing these things she's going to feel like she put her neck out there and got rejected and probably withdraw and start acting cold and indifferent toward you but when you do acknowledge and accept her she'll feel great and keep faing you so pay attention and notice when people qualify
themselves to you it's happening all around you every day just stop and recognize it by the way you don't even have to do this only with women I often qualify other guys for doing things that impress me or for being a certain way that I appreciate and it makes them feel awesome to know they are seen and appreciated it's just a really cool thing to do for other people acknowledge the things you appreciate about them out loud for example I often start conversations with Friends by saying you know what I like about you know what
I just noticed about you hold up I got acknowledge you for just a minute when was the last time someone told you how awesome you are for doing XYZ by the way I'm thinking of starting a series about social skills but I'd like to know your opinion first if you want me to talk about social skills let me know in the comments now there's one more thing I want you to know if you only apply what's in this video it might be the fastest way to end up in the friend zone that's why I urge
you to watch the entire series to fully understand women's psychology I'm sharing knowledge that took me years to acquire and I'm giving it to you for free and don't forget to tell me about the problems you're facing in the comments I genuinely want to know the issues you're dealing with in your life so I can also know what to talk about in the next video I Lose Myself give my heart away [Music]
