if and when I have a son these will be the 15 laws that I will pass down to him and hope that he will live by because bro over the last 10 years I've been on this journey of self-improvement and I've had to fight for every ounce of growth that I've realized with my finances and my dating life my body with my mindset and during those 10 years which is a long time I had to go through so much failure rejection embarrassment self-doubt and that's why I created these laws these will allow you and hopefully my future child to reach your goals in far less time than it took me and with far less pain and make sure you watch all the way to the end because if you mess up even one of these things it is going to completely [ __ ] up all of your progress number one a bad truth is better than a convenient lie we only lie when we are afraid when we're afraid that telling the truth will lead to a negative outcome so for example let's say that you cheat on your girlfriends now you have a decision to make do you tell her the truth and risk that she breaks up with you or do you lie to her and hope that she never finds out and that everything stays smooth sailing and of course you're never going to do it again right now I've never cheated but I did want to lie to someone recently because my friend asked me if I could go on his friend's new podcast and I wanted to lie and say I'm a bit busy now but you know maybe next month when the reality is I don't want to do this guy's podcast I'm never going to do it I don't know him but you know I didn't want to be a dick and make things awkward so what I did was I told him the truth anyway I said look you know I really don't feel like doing your friend podcast if I'm being honest because here's the thing when you lie to someone now going forward into the future you have to keep up this false reality you're always going to be afraid that your girlfriend's going to find out that's going to give you this this level of anxiety I'm always going to be you know waiting for the next month for this guy to hit me up again and be like how about this month can you come on my podcast now lying to someone will always rob you of your peace of mind it's better to lose the girl or lose the friend but it happens because of something that's true and that's real you'll never regret that number two problems are a feature not a bug so question for you bro right now in your life what is stressing you out maybe for you it's your finances or maybe you have this weird family situation going on you have to deal with you have a health issue you're going through or you're getting sick and tired of getting no attention from females for me right now I'm just feeling overwhelmed bro we just moved back internationally to the states and we've had some travels since then I've had so much work pile up that I'm trying to get through this week and every day I just wake up feeling like like I'm [ __ ] drowning and in these moments of weakness we allow this stress to consume us and we start telling ourselves that that if I could just have a girlfriend if I could just have enough money to stop worrying if I could just have all this work done this week that I could finally be happy and relax stop lying to yourself bro that is not how life Works your life is literally never ever ever going to be free of problems and guess what and this might [ __ ] with you a little bit but the more that you try and do the more that you're going to expose yourself to more problems right now if you're single and you're just working a job for someone else guess what you have relatively low problems in your life versus if you're dating a girlfriend and you're running your own business that's a lot more exposure for [ __ ] to go wrong now your girl is bitching at you because you're working too hard and not giving her enough attention and you're working so hard because you had to fire someone who completely [ __ ] up and lost your company $220,000 last week I'm not I'm not trying to stress you out bro the point is that you need to start to look at your problems as challenges like a video game whatever's in front of you right now that's your current challenge once you beat that you're just going to get to the next level and face the next challenge number three confidence is not in your head right now it is literally impossible for me not to feel confident and I'm not saying that to be cocky like I'm the [ __ ] man I'm I'm always confident I'm saying that because over the last 10 years I've built up the proof I've built this YouTube channel from zero subscribers to over 1. 6 million that was hard I didn't think I could do that [ __ ] I went from being a lonely path itic simp to dating hundreds of women and finally marrying my my dream girl despite having to go through a bunch of [ __ ] rejection and embarrassing things I've built three businesses from zero to over seven figures per year and the fourth one's almost there too so now it's not about hyping myself up I'm confident I'm the [ __ ] I've just proven to myself time and time again that I can do things that I didn't think were possible to do and that's how real confidence comes and this means that you must get started right now before you feel ready because if you're waiting to feel confident before you start approaching girls or you're waiting till you feel prepared before you start that first side hustle guess what that moment's not going to come because you haven't done these things you haven't conquered these challenges yet you are going to doubt yourself you're going to overthink every [ __ ] step you have to take do it anyway the confidence will come later number four the fastest decision maker wins so if you think about it life is really just a series of decisions that you make one after the next and this means that if you get stuck on a certain decision you're postponing your life you're postponing your growth so for example last week I was talking to the Beast Nation guys and one of them is facing this huge life decision and he's been putting it off for months unable to pull the trigger on one hand he could choose to start pursuing his passion for making music and do that when he gets home from work or on the other hand he could take that time and put it towards getting the next certification he needs to get his next promotion of work but he doesn't have time for both now obviously if he pursues making music he's not going to make more money but he's going to be able to enjoy his time doing something that he loves if he goes the promotion is not going to be as fun but he is going to make more money sooner but if he continues to sit on the fence and do nothing well he's not making more money and he's also not pursuing his passion that's a lose lose so next time you're facing a tough decision realize that it's a tough decision by definition because both options have value there's no wrong answer the only way you fail is by not committing to a decision in the first place number five alone you are [ __ ] [ __ ] bro [ __ ] so I want to share something with you and that is that in my life I have never faced a single fear I've never confronted something that I'm deeply afraid of until I found another man who was also working towards that same outcome you know with women I wanted to start talking to girls and putting myself out there for Years bro for years I was afraid to do it I only did it once I realized that my cousin Matt who y'all have seen in the videos he was also working towards the same fear that we'd start going out together starting conversations with girls and everything went up from there stay beastly I couldn't do it alone with YouTube I wanted to do YouTube for years but I was so afraid to put my face out there have other people judge me it was going to be so embarrassing I only took the leap of faith and started uploading once I met the big homie Dave and he was also looking to start putting his content out there for the world before that I was too afraid I didn't have the courage to do it on my own like humans are weak bro you're always going to find another reason to procrastinate and put off facing your fear and that means you're never ever going to change your financial situation or your dating situation or your body until you surround yourself with like-minded men who are working towards those same outcomes and that is literally why I created Beast Nation Beast Nation allows you to instantly tap into a tribe of like-minded men who are all pushing each other and working together to keep leveling up he literally Accel accelerated my progress my growth as a man by a decade I even met my newest business partner who joined my team through the Beast Nation Dave really cares about her success I feel like it's like way undercharged because he's just providing so much value it took me 2 years to even get to know some people like like minded in this field uh and with Beast Nation like you get to know the first people after a few days there's an interactive map that allows you to quickly find other guys in your city it's a private Discord server so you can instantly get feedback on any situation you're facing in your dating life or with your side hustle for example you get to directly speak with myself on the weekly live coaching call so I can give you feedback as well and we even have step-by-step modu to help you launch your first side hustle master your dating life and more so if you're ready to get to the next level just click that first link in description or go to the beast. com to learn more see more testimonials and join up now number six do not be too cool to date so I get it you're red pilled you're focusing on yourself King you're just stacking your cash up you're getting jacked you're not worried about women women are [ __ ] distraction once you level up they're's going to come to you anyway right all right okay so imagine this this you have 10 million in your bank account you have a shredded sixpack and you still have not put yourself out there with women yet you're still waiting for them to come to you guess what bro if you're still not able to make the move on the girl confidently start the conversation ask her out and Lead things forward all that [ __ ] money in your bank and that shredded six-pack abs it's not going to do it for you the females are still not going to make the move on you you still have to learn how to do that like bro I worked on my dating life before I had any money me before I had any Clouts and I do not regret it in fact it was a crucial part of My Success because it taught me to face failure and rejection like a [ __ ] G and guess what I also had some amazing experiences and relationships with girls back then some memories that that I'm not going to forget it was enjoyable too number seven contribution breaks the curse all right so speaking of women let me ask you a question right now if your dating life is not at the level that you want it to be do you think that a you should just think about how bad it is and complain about it B maybe watch some YouTube videos about it C put it off until you feel ready cuz I did all three of these things for Years bro and nothing changed I was just miserably alone and single and really aware of the fact that I couldn't get girls things only started to improve when I started to actually start conversations with women and then actually ask them if they wanted to hang out and actually set up the date I was actually swiping on dating apps contribution breaks the curse whatever thing you feel like right now is this big problem this big curse how can you contribute to it more and more and more if financially you're broke right now what more can you do can you get a second job can you start a side hustle can you take a course online to learn a programming language so you have a new skill to get a better job can can you talk to your boss and ask them what needs to be done so you can get the next promotion and the next raise all of these are viable options what more can you do stop focusing on the [ __ ] curse and start focusing more on how you can contribute more number eight women are just the icing I used to always believe I used to always know that once I had a girlfriends then my life would be so much better because I'd have someone to come home with and spend time with and have sex with and kiss and go out on dates with and you know go to the corner store with it would just be so amazing to share my life with someone else and I was I was wrong about that if you picture your life being this cake you know the Main Ingredients the eggs the butter the flour those things are your career your Fitness routine your habits your mind mindset women and your relationships with women they are literally just the icing the nice pretty design on the top of the cake I don't need a woman in my life to be happy I can still wake up go to the gym grind on my businesses hang out with some friends watch a little Netflix to end the day and that's [ __ ] awesome Yes I'm a married man now and I fully acknowledge that the right woman can add value to your life but it's just the icing on the cake don't make it the main ingredient number nine almost out of fingers failure is is not failure so my biggest failure in my dating life was probably My First Girlfriend you know after losing my virginity at 21 years old and getting my first girlfriend of like 24 years old after a year she broke up with me and I was I was devastated I felt like the only girl who whoever loved me was gone and that only happened once in 24 years so like what what was the likelihood of that happening again it wasn't going to happen again that's a big failure right one of my biggest Financial failures was investing you know upwards of a million dollars into the stock market towards the IND of 2021 right when it had peaked and before it dropped like 25% that hurt that was a lot of numbers in my bank account that went down so the interesting thing about these failures is that they were not failures at all they were actually catalysts for some of the biggest growth periods in my entire life after losing that first girlfriend and having that validation that love stripped away from me it was a painful fire but I let this fire under my ass to make sure that there was no longer luck that I would have another girl in my life I put my head down and got to work that's just before this YouTube Channel took the [ __ ] off before I got in the best shape of my life after I lost all that money in the stock market well I had to completely re-evaluate how I was investing and I knew about dollar cost averaging but now I knew about dollar cost averaging and I was never going to make that mistake again the only failure in life is not trying in the first place if you're waiting on the sidelines now waiting for the right moment to hop in you're failing that's a failure putting yourself out there going for it with your dating life going for it with your side hustle for your career and falling in your face that's not failure that's great growth number 10 officially out of fingers testosterone is the daddy all of you know that testosterone is the key male hormone and it's responsible for us being able to build muscle and lose fat and have a sex drive and feel motivated and have energy when we don't have a healthy level of testosterone we feel like [ __ ] and we move like [ __ ] and that is why it is critical to do everything in your power to optimize your testosterone levels and the number one biggest thing that you can do as boring as this is is to optimize your sleep they've done studies that show if your sleep deprived for just a few days your tea levels can drop by 15% so if you're not getting 8 hours of quality sleep per night what the [ __ ] are you doing bro the simplest hack is just to go to bed earlier if you're waking up at 700 a.
m. every day you can't go to bed at 1:00 a. m.
it doesn't the math doesn't [ __ ] add up you're screwing yourself now of course diets and supplementation can also make a big impact and that is why we developed this Greens Plus testosterone powder it's a Daily Greens powder with a bunch of organic Greens in there which is just amazing for your overall health but it also has ashwagandha and Tonga Ali extract which are the two most proven clinically natural compounds that boost tea levels it's just a no-brainer supplement for men if you're interested in trying it out I'll throw a discount code on the screen a link in description to get your Greens Plus test today number 11 easy looks maxing so when it comes to making yourself a more attractive man obviously if you have more money that's going to make you a lot more attractive to women but that can take some years to build up obviously building muscle and shredding down that can make you a lot more attractive but again that's going to take you 2 3 years to get there that being said there's two things that you can do literally today in the next couple hours that can make you go from you know a 6 to an 8 easy number one is optimizing your hairstyle in the past I've had different haircuts that definitely didn't match my face shape and my type of hair and that made me uglier objectively so what I'd recommend doing is taking a look at Google Maps for barbers in your area and then scroll through the reviews and the photos until you find one who not only has good reviews but you can tell from the photos that he's actually an expert Level Barber who can manage a variety of different hairstyles he doesn't just give you like the copy and paste fade then make an appointment and go talk to him and see what he recommends like my current hairstyle I'm not saying it's it's amazing but it's a lot better than it used to be and I didn't think of this Barbara recommended it and number two update your wardrobe I'm no style Guru but I understand that getting clothes that fit my body well not too baggy not too tight and just have simple neutral color patterns that is a Timeless classic masculine look like go through your current wardrobe throughout the [ __ ] that doesn't look that good if you're mb's Nation post up some selfies in the Discord community and I can give you feedback myself and then select a few versatile pants and t-shirts so you look good when you go outside number 12 ego is the enemy so I've realized that in the past basically all the weakness that I had and all the bad decisions I made were because of my ego we tend to get so obsessed with this image in this idea of who we are and we don't want there to be any chinks in our armor we don't want there to be any weaknesses that other people can see that's why for years I was afraid to go on YouTube because I thought other people were going to judge me for it that's probably why you're still not out there approaching girls cuz if a girl rejects you well now in your head you have to come to terms with this this concept this idea that maybe I'm not attractive to girls and it's more comfortable just not even to confront that and to maintain the safe you know safe image in your head that you're still this top G when really you ain't [ __ ] like at the end of the day we're all humans we're all imperfect we're all flawed no one's figured it out if someone's pretending like they figured it out well they're just [ __ ] pretending I don't have all the answers bro these are just laws that I've learned from all the stupid things that I've done you must separate yourself from your ego you have to be okay with knowing that a girl is not interested in you because you're too short because you don't have enough money because you're just not her type you have to be okay with that you have to be okay you know putting yourself out there on the internet if that's something you want to do and that there's going to be 20,000 people who think you're a complete loser I just know that when I started focusing on the actions that I'm taking and the things I'm building instead of how other people perceive me everything started going in my direction man number 13 [ __ ] yes or no so question for those of y'all who have a girlfriend right now is that relationship is it adding to your life or is it subtracting to your life because maybe you have sex and that's great but maybe she bickers at you all day and that's not so great maybe you guys get to watch movies together at night and that's great but maybe she has some toxic traits that constantly give you anxiety and you're always worried about the relationship and worried that maybe she's going to break up with you if it is not a clear W then what are you doing bro we already talked about the cake you you can have an amazing cake on your own why are you going to take some icing that's expired and starting to rot the rest of the cake that otherwise would have been perfectly good I get that being alone is scary my second girlfriend it was a toxic relationship that I stayed in for way too long CU cuz I didn't want to be single you have to be strong bro and you have to be honest with yourself if you're dating a girl and it's not a [ __ ] yes then it's a no if it's not clearly adding value to your life and making things easier for you you know what to do number 14 saying no is actually saying yes so tell me if you can relate to the situation it's Friday about 5:00 p. m. you're at the gym getting your lift in excited to go home have a big dinner wind down for the night so you're ready to crush the weekend and get after your goals then you get a text from your buddy and he says hey bro you want to come out with us tonight maybe they're going to the bars maybe they're going to a party and deep down you don't really want to go because you know then you're going to sacrifice how you feel the next morning cuz you're probably going to drink not get enough sleep but then there's this fomo because what if there's a cute girl you could talk to and also like I don't want to say no to my friends if I could hang out with my friends that doesn't feel right what you have to realize is that sometimes by saying yes to other people that means that you're saying no to working on your goals because you're allocating time that you should be working on your side hustle or your Fitness grind or whatever it is and instead of doing that you're just doing something to make someone else happy and even beyond that in order to grow this YouTube channel the 1.
