so there's certain expectations Society has created about how men should treat women and if you follow these rules which you probably do because most guys do women are always going to see you as the nice guy and they're not going to fully respect you because unfortunately life does not actually operate and work like a Hollywood movie now to switch this up a little bit Julia's here she doesn't know the rules yet but as I break down each rule she's going to get a chance to react and either validate or challenge it this should be interesting
now before we hop in I wanted to let you know that the ultim men's health supplement gains Club Greens Plus test is finally back in stock rule number one treat her as your equal so we're taught that we should treat women as an equal partner right it should be a 5050 partnership that's the rule that most men follow but you definitely should not I'm curious where you're going to go with this because like I want to be treated as an equal and I want to be respected and have the same respect so I'm curious so
what I'm saying is do not treat her as an equal treat her as a woman so for example there's one guy in my coaching program in recently he was dating a girl this is after like 1 or two months of dating and he set up these plans where they were going to go on this like Winery tour and then go to the beach after and he said come to my house at this time and then the day before she was like hey how about you actually come to my place this time since I went to
yours last weekend and what he did was he treated her like an equal partner and he said okay yeah sure I'll just I'll just do that and what ultimately happened was about a month later not only because of this but because of other things like this she lost interest lost attraction and dumped them he shouldn't have treated her like an equal partner he should have treated her like I'm the man you're the woman I'm going to lead you know what let's just stick with my plan I got a great day plan come over at this
time that would have maintained the polarity there this is the reason that for most of y'all relationships when it gets 6 months in all of a sudden it feels like you're hanging out with your friend instead of with your girl friend and then you lose all of the sexual tension in the bedroom and things start to feel stale and most people just like accept that's how it's supposed to be and live with it yeah well when you put it that way that makes sense if you want to keep that masculine and feminine energy or things
are just going to get really stale you're saying that but most women don't want to submit to a man and a lot of guys out there are afraid to even try and Lead like this because they're afraid women are going to hate it yeah but I think that women hear the word lead and they feel like you can't do this you can't do this I'm going to control us I'm going to say how it is but if you just do it properly women are just going to follow I mean I think there's going to be
some women who probably are really hard-headed and don't follow but I will say if you approach it more of a from a mindset of look I'm the man you're the woman I lead you follow I got us rather than like no you got to do what I say I'm too insecure that I don't think you're going to actually do it it's going to go a lot better rule number two Treat Her Like She's special you ain't special well I mean I think you want to treat her like she's special but not like put her on
a pedestal and think she's like the best thing since sliced bread but I think you want to have that spark with her girls want to feel like they're special but when you make them feel like they're special they don't respect you and I think this goes back to Hollywood movies cuz that's always the same plot right the guy simps for the girl he treats her like she's special then she ignores him for a while but at the end she chooses him and they live happily Ever After too many guys are doing this and not living
happily ever after no I agree with that but I also think that like if you're in a relationship with a girl she wants to feel that you're only interested in her and like no one else I don't know like that women want to believe that but it's not the reality so the way you prevent this is you never give special treatment to a girl just because oh she's a friend of a friend or because I know I met her at the gym bro or because we we used to know each other back in the day
and we met up again so it's actually this really special connection in college there was this girl Mary and she was my best friend my roommate his girlfriend it was her best friend right so we're always hanging around together and because of that I was like I don't want to overstep the boundary right this is a special situation I want to take it slow cuz I'm sure she wants me to take it slow also what do you think happened Mary lost interest I actually did get a hand job from Mary but but then she lost
interest well when you put it like that of course like you don't want to sim for a Girl Like that's never going to work out but I think what I was referring to is like when you're in a relationship with a girl it's a little different the key is to have boundaries strict boundaries for example if a girl flakes on a date once maybe you give her a second chance but the second time she's always out you always have strict boundaries for yourself because that way you can't trick yourself into thinking well I'll give her
a third and a fourth and a fifth and a sixth chance because she's special and what's even scarier is if it actually works and the girl eventually agrees to date you and you guys start hanging out because now you're entering this relationship from the ultimate point of weakness with a girl who knows she can get away with whatever she wants and you've already trained her that look I'm going to walk on eggshells and I'm never going to do anything to upset you or cross a boundary because you're special and I wouldn't do that like even
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to learn more see more testimonials and apply now rule number three that you should not follow you got to have good game so this one's a bit of a change up might not be what you were expecting but whenever we picture The Ladies Man or you picture the Hollywood movies where it's the ladies man it's someone some who's really smooth with his words right he knows exactly the right thing to say at the right time and his words just turn the girl on I don't know where you're going with this I'm curious well from my
experience this causes us to put a lot of pressure on oursel that when we talk to a girl we got to say the right words or else we're going to be [ __ ] and she's not going to be interested in us and for what I've found living in the real world for almost 34 years now is that's not how it works and the guys with the hottest girls it's not cuz they're the ladies man who's smooth with their words usually the guy who we think of as a player is a guy who has not
much going on in the rest of his life and he invests all of his time into meeting and sleeping with women and if you have a friend like that ask yourself is he actually getting the types of girls that I'd want cuz almost always I find these guys get a lot of they sleep with a lot of girls but like a lot of average looking girls from a girl's perspective usually when we have options the guy that's like loud and obnoxious and like talking to everybody usually comes off as extremely creepy yeah for me what's
been the most effective has been focusing not on the words I'm saying but just taking action and making the move at the right time obviously leveling up our life getting a better body in the gym dressing better making more money those things will unlock access to a higher tier of women usually but even more important than that is just being the guy who makes the move if you see a girl you like going in talking to her maybe you slip up on your words and mess it up but the communication actions speak louder than words
and that's for women as well you were the guy who came up and asked if she wanted to hang out maybe you didn't perfectly like neger and do like the Push Pull and the dhv in the perfect way to make yourself look like a boss and spin her around definitely old pickup Artist movie but a lot of times from my experience that actually makes us come off as more confident and just more straightforward and less [ __ ] rule number four just be yourself just be yourself bro I do not agree with this one this
is the number one piece of advice that women give men if you ask like your female friend or your sister how do I what should I do with this girl I really like her oh just be yourself bro it'll work why do girls do this I think it's cuz they want to like in reality it sounds like a nice thing right like just be yourself it's all going to work out don't worry about it but it's not like really good advice well it's not advice it sounds good but what does it even mean it's like
no I was actually going to go over there in like a costume and pretend like I was Uncle Sam or some you know what what what was I going to do if anything is just an excuse to go in without a plan and treat her like you would treat anyone else just be yourself and then you end up treating her like a friend and then that goes back to the equal partner thing it's you go in the friend zone but I'm so sick of guys saying I'm not going to change myself for a girl I'm
just going to act like myself and if she doesn't like me she can leave yeah this is something that that butt hurt guys say you've had some bad experiences with women and to be fair I've been there before I think most of us have been there in the current dating market and it's not about changing yourself for women it's just about changing how you move with women and understanding how they work and adjusting your game plan accordingly if you're obsessed with the Matrix movies you can still be passionate about that and talk about that maybe
don't wear one of like the graphic T-shirts from the movie though no I see this happening all the time like guys want to like just wear their style that they've worn in high school and don't really want to change but girls are judging you based on what you're wearing like you look less attract acve if you're wearing a matrix t-shirt well the good news for all of y'all is that next Monday November 20th The Edge Black Friday sale goes live this is going to be insane up to 50% off the entire website and that includes
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twofold because I think there's a time and place where men should talk about their feelings suicide rates for men are through the roof there needs to be a place where men men feel safe to be able to share that kind of thing what the suicide rat forinite through the roof because women they're not telling women enough about their feelings but continue but I just you're saying bottling it up I'm saying like men shouldn't feel that they need to bottle up their emotions they should have a place that they can feel to talk about it however
you don't want to be that guy that's like oh my gosh babe I'm this I feel like this really hyper emotional because that's not attractive to women yes I think we can all accept women are more emotional than men some people maybe don't want to accept that but that is why it's important to be the leader in the relationship and when things are a bit Rocky not necessarily between you but maybe there's an extra stressor in your life or you're traveling or you're moving or she got some bad news from her family you want to
be the one who's able to be like the rock that's able to say hey it's all good I got us I'm going to figure this out it's not a big deal if you're emotional all the time and oh my God this is really anxious I'm not sure how we're going to I don't know how I'm going to make it through the next day do you think that woman's going to have her her need for like stability and protection satisfied how's she going to feel safe in that relationship no she's going to feel extremely anxious and
this going to be like an anxious relationship yes so of course communicate when there's an issue or if there's something deeply wrong in your life that you haven't told her about tell her about it in a calm way but don't don't be emotional and just sharing every little feeling you have unless you want to dry you know dry them all up I feel like girls say this when they feel like they can't understand a man like when he's mysterious and she's like does he like me does he not like she has to say like I
just like wish you opened up more to me and like told me how you're really feeling there's a Common Thread here and that's that women like to say things that sound nice but they don't mean anything or maybe they're slightly manipulative with this last one but women just like to say things that sound nice even if there's not like some concrete game plan or reasoning behind it maybe it's like a [ __ ] test like they're just seeing how you're going to handle it they're like oh is he really going to open up and become
a s or is he going to handle it like a man and tell me no no they want to know if the guy's into him but then when they get the confirmation they're like out my Felicia yeah now look something else that most men don't understand is how dating apps work most men think that dating apps don't work which is why I recommend you watch this video next will show you how to enter that top 10% of men on dating apps to get all of the matches so click there to watch that now and I
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