I think this video is the most important one in the how to attract women series because I will explain to you the personality traits that make any woman on this Earth wildly attached to you however there is one thing that if you don't understand it you will never succeed with women and this thing is related to this statement you might tell me now and this is something I often see repeated in comments women are different and each one of them is unique listen to me carefully because what I'm about to say is very important and
I want you to remain aware of it for the rest of your life when we talk about attraction we are disc in something instinctual for example imagine I tell you about a person who is feeling thirsty if I asked you what they need the answer would be they need a glass of water would you ask me what that person looks like they could be black white asian African Indian it doesn't matter who they are the answer will always be that they need a glass of water because water is an instinct for us as humans now
let's talk about attraction imagine I told you there's a girl with a beautiful body and a pretty face and we brought a straight man in front of her and asked him would you like to sleep with this girl the answer would of course be yes whether he is tall or short fat or thin it's impossible for him to say no yes of course people have different preferences some are attracted to blondes others to brunettes but as long as the girl has a beautiful body the man's answer will always be yes because this is something instinctual
something we cannot control and that we all share the same applies to women but the difference between men and women is that men are attracted visually while women are attracted emotionally so if you can trigger the right emotions in a woman she will be attracted to you it doesn't matter what you look like her answer will will always be yes and this is why the man who is surrounded by many women tends to be more attractive to other women because all women desire the same thing I will explain this to you today and I will
give you traits that will make any woman on this Earth fall in love with you this video won't be like the others because it will delve deep into your mind as a man focusing on you and your personality not the woman so listen carefully the first thing I want to start with is the mindset you need to have as it is the foundation for everything I will tell you later in this video you as a man must believe that anything that exists you deserve it and don't be afraid even though this might sound theoretical I
will explain everything to you in detail and even though today's video focuses on the basics I promise you that by the end of it you will have a clear understanding of the type of man who makes a woman deeply attached to him so how should you believe that anything that exists you deserve it imagine you want to work at a big company don't tell yourself no I don't deserve that job or that girl is too beautiful She's Out of My League this is one of the biggest signs of strength that makes a girl attached to
you and allows you as a man to live a happy life the second aspect of mindset is value the belief that you have intrinsic value how does that work as a man you must not allow your value to be diminished or dragged to the ground this was a problem I struggled with in the past where anyone could disrespect me or belittle me without me caring and they could try to undermine my worth without me feeling any change this was because I was born and raised in a poor environment so insults and disrespect felt normal to
me As I Grew Older and began interacting with with women even though my circumstances had changed that mindset didn't change within me I had no problem with someone coming along and lowering my value as a result this caused me significant struggles with women so please don't be like me if someone disrespects you or insults you you must stop them if a girl sees you standing up for yourself her attraction to you will increase significantly this principle also applies to women regardless of how she looks or appears if she disrespects you you must set boundaries with
her the third aspect of mindset is that whenever you make a decision you must assume it is the correct decision this mindset makes a girl highly attracted to you because you exude confidence in your decisions whatever decision you make you do not hesitate if you're walking together and decide to take a certain path you confidently tell her it's the right one without any doubt if you sit in a restaurant and order food you do so with confidence if you enter a store to buy clothes you choose and buy the outfit with certainty without asking her
opinion or seeking approval when you make a decision you don't ask the girl with you for her input no when you make a choice or desire something you're 100% sure about it the fourth and final aspect of mindset is the belief that any girl you are attracted to is also attracted to you this is one of the first principles I explained to you in the how to attract women series it is among the most important principles to have when you enter the dating World always assume that the girl you are talking to is attracted to
you and communicate that feeling to her I've already explained this concept in detail in this series so I won't expand on it further here now that we finished discussing mindset let's move on to what really matters and talk about behaviors and how you should act point one a trait that is often mentioned and must be part of you is having a plan and a goal in life how so you've probably heard this said many times and I've also seen many people talk about this trait however I've rarely seen anyone explain it correctly or clarify its
connection to women's attraction and how it can make a woman drawn to you because of it listen carefully first we need to understand the mistake most men make they believe that having a good job a job they like or money is the ultimate goal and that women will be impressed by this yes having money might help you find a woman who loves you for your wealth and you'll find plenty of gold diggers around you however if you want a woman to love you as a person and feel attracted to you you must have a goal
being a man who is ambitious and working toward a goal is far better than being someone who has already achieved that goal pay attention to this now if we take two men one who is a doctor and already practicing and another who is still studying in medical school and working hard to achieve his dream and we introduced them to a woman she will be more attracted to the man still studying and striving than to the doctor who has already achieved his dream in other words even if you are a stable working person you must have
a goal and be actively working on it whether you're training to achieve a perfect physique or working on a side hustle you need to have something to focus on a woman needs to feel when she enters your life that you're heading somewhere and that she's coming along with you trust me my brother if you don't have a goal or something to focus on the moment a woman enters your life she will become the center of your world and you will start following her this is the biggest mistake you can make with any woman now let
me explain how to show her this yes you might have a goal and a plan in life but that doesn't necessarily mean she will feel it the way to show her this is by making your goal more important than her for example if she says let me up you reply no I need to work today or if you meet up after an hour or an hour and a half you tell her all right I need to go now because I have to work out at the gym at 7:00 or if you have a YouTube channel
and she says let me up you tell her no I'm working on a video right now I'll finish it first and then we'll meet in any case what I want you to do is always stay busy with something please owning a house a car and having a job is not enough to live a fulfilling life if you're stable and married please set a goal and work toward it this way you maintain your wife's attraction to you this is one of the biggest reasons women ask for divorce or cheat on their husbands most men once they
marry and settle down fall into the same daily routine without any goals you are a man and you must always be striving for something you are a hunter by the way sometimes a woman may try to mock your goal challenge it or disc enage you if she does this I want you to understand that it's simply a test she's doing to gauge your strength you must not let her do that but at the same time don't get angry this is a natural thing most women do by the way my online course will close for registration
at the end of 2024 and I just want to let you know that if you're planning to join us now is the right time point two the ability to ask for what you want this is one of the most attractive traits to women for example if you're sitting in a restaurant with a girl or a friend and the waiter comes there's a common mistake I often notice among among young men they ask the people there with what they think they should order and base their choice on that no when the waiter arrives you order what
you want this is a habit you must always stick to if you're in a taxi and you feel hot ask the driver to open the window don't underestimate these small actions because they play a significant role in attracting a girl even if your request is denied it's not a problem let me explain this point to you imagine you're with a girl in a taxi and you feel hot so you ask the driver to open the window but he tells you he can't because he's sick and the cold air might harm him in this case the
driver refused your request but that's not a bad thing this is the problem that causes many people to fear asking for what they want you might think to yourself what if I ask and the driver says no I'll feel embarrassed in front of the girl this is faulty thinking even if he says no it's not an issue the important thing is that you asked for what you wanted and you should not feel embarrassed if you're working in a company and feel that you're doing a lot of work but not getting paid enough you should go
to your manager and ask for a raise that's why starting today wherever you are and no matter what you want whether you're in a specific specific place or something crosses your mind and you desire it you should ask for it without hesitation or overthinking if you want something ask for it point three you must have the ability to handle failure this trait is ingrained in our genes as humans dating back to the days of the caveman failure is a natural part of our lives and when a woman looks for a man to be with one
of the most important things she seeks is a man who can overcome failure a man who can fall and then Rise Again dis ability has a magical effect on women making them feel an intense almost unnatural attraction to you let me explain how to demonstrate this ability to her imagine you applied for a job at a company went for an interview and failed you should tell her about it you need to learn how to express your failure at the same time when you aren't accepted don't show her that you're discouraged or have lost hope no
if you aren't accepted on that very same day apply to other companies and keep searching or for instance if you made a mistake with her whether it's the girl you're talking to or someone you were in a relationship with and it was your fault don't back down at the first sign of trouble instead face it talk to her and work on resolving the issue if you were the one at fault why do you think makeup sex exists why is it that after you make a mistake with a woman and then make amends there's often a
strong physical attraction between you because women are naturally wired to feel attracted to a man who faces challenges and solves problems the man or woman loves the most is the one who fails and then succeeds not the successful man this is because women are drawn to power and power is failing and then succeeding what you must never do is remain stuck when you fail for example if you're working out and get injured and then stop working out and never return that means you've given up at the first sign of failure or if you take an
exam fail feel discouraged and stop trying all together that's unacceptable don't let discouragement take over and don't start complaining or crying when you fail pick yourself up and rise again don't be ashamed of showing your failure because failure isn't a flaw failure is a part of life as humans don't be embarrassed by it when you show a woman that you can handle failure in her subconscious she thinks if I'm in a relationship with this man and something goes wrong he'll be able to overcome it she'll love love you and stay attached to you because she
feels safe with you the final point you must not be in a rush in your relationship with a woman you should never appear hurried or overly eager don't show that you're trying to sleep with her quickly or rush into a relationship you need to remain calm and take your time women are attracted to men who seem composed deliberate and patient in their approach don't take her phone number today and immediately ask to meet her tomorrow or if you meet her today don't ask to meet her again the very next day you need to take your
time and avoid coming across as overly and here I want to address a question I often see repeated in comments how long should I talk to a woman to make her attracted to me well you can spend five completely boring hours or five extremely interesting minutes around her it's up to you to decide what do you think is better five hours of boring drawn out conversation or 5 minutes of high energy exciting interaction in this case 5 minutes of excitement are far better than 5 hours of monotony if you find yourself struggling in this area
the problem isn't the amount of time you're spending talking to her it's how you're talking to her you must always aim to trigger her emotions as long as your conversation moves along emotional lines she will remain interested the key is to make the conversation emotional and engaging not just ordinary talk lacking energy or enthusiasm and this was the dark needle and I'll see you in the next video
