You Need to Be a "Bad" Man to Sleep with the Hottest Girls

so look there are three types of men in this world the first one is the nice guy and regrettably this is who I was for most of my teens and 20s I was friendly I was respectful to other people and I thought that made me a good person but the reality is that I was afraid I was afraid of conflict I was afraid of doing anything that might make someone else not like me and of course that was devastating for my dating life because I couldn't take risks with girls so if this is where you

are you need to move forward as fast as possible so you stop missing out on opportunities or getting friend zoned the second man is the fake Alpha and it's frustrating because a lot of times this is the guy who steals your girl and you're like man why would she choose him he's such an [ __ ] I'd be so much better for her but you also don't want to be this guy cuz really it's just someone who struggles to control their emotions they get frustrated and they lash out at other people it's the same guy

who's driving his car he gets Road Rag and he's yelling at other people or he gets drunk and he gets aggressive yes it can work with women some women at least because it kind of like fake signals that he has confidence and that he can be a protector and a provider but it's really only going to work with women who are very young and naive or women who have low self-esteem and are used to being treated like [ __ ] not not the top quality girls that you actually want to build a relationship with now

the third type of man is the one who is capable of violence and what makes him different is that he can face conflict in a calm calculated way and this allows him to get the hottest girls because he can can go after what he wants he can create that sexual spark but he can also set boundaries and lead the relationship forward in a way that allows it to grow and stay stable and these type of guys also tend to be the most financially successful because they're able to take those calculated risks and not let their

emotions take control of them ever and that is why in this video we're going to take a look at the five things I had to do to kill my inner night guy and become this type of man now to be this type of man you first have to look like a man which means no more boyish outfits to give off these young innocent Vibes and luckily for you today is the perfect timing to level up your outfits because the edge Black Friday sale just went live this means that everything on the website including the brand

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myself I'm going to ask her out like it's not even a question I'm going to ask her out bro I just got to wait till the next opportunity I have so you know after work I'd stroll through the store but she'd be talking to a customer so I'd dip out or she'd be in the gym working out but there'd be like you know a few too many people close to her that that might overhear the conversation so I'd wait for the next next time and it's this super weak [ __ ] that I used to

do I would always leave this gray area this wiggle room for myself rather than saying I'm going to ask out next time I see her I would say I'm going to ask her out the next time that I have an opportunity and the funny thing is by the time I worked up the courage to ask her out she had a boyfriend and I missed my chance what I've changed since then is that now I seek out these gray areas in my life and when I find them I destroy them next time I see her I'm

going to ask her out even if I have to wait for her to finish dealing with a customer or if I have to do it with some other people in the gym nearby and a lot of times this has to do with saying no to people for example when I go out if my friends are drinking I'll have one or two drinks but it doesn't matter what they say after that no I'm not drinking more I'm going to feel like [ __ ] tomorrow or I'd be texting a girl trying to set up the first

date and she'd ask hey is it cool if my friend comes along she's in town no I don't want your friend to come out on the date no I don't want to keep texting you if we're not going to meet up in person no it's not cool if my girlfriend is going on a girls trip to Miami or Dubai no I'm not okay staying in a relationship where there's no sex or spark anymore no I'm not okay with it if a girl I'm dating starts to prioritize her friends and her career above our relationship you

cannot leave any gray room with these decisions or you're going to rationalize the weaker decision every time as you experience new things in life you have to decide and understand what is a no and what's a yes and you cannot compromise on those things otherwise you will always stay the nice guy and other people they're not going to respect you because they'll know they can just bully you into staying in whatever situation they want to keep you in number two you got to be able to break past being friendly from time to time now there's

a massive difference between deciding to say no to someone versus actually following through and telling them no you might be watching this video right now hyped up like [ __ ] yeah David I would never tolerate that [ __ ] from a girl but then the situation happens and it's going to test your resolve you're texting a girl you ask her if she wants to hang out she says say you know no I'm busy this week so you try again next week you say hey do you want to hang out then she doesn't respond for

a day then she responds the day later and says haha how's your week going she doesn't even answer the question about wanting to hang out what do you do you know it should be an automatic no if you ask a girl to hang out twice and she flakes or ignores the question but she texted you back and she's hot so maybe maybe this time I don't say no maybe I give her one more shot for this girl ready here are three ways that I practice conflict in my everyday life so when these situations come up

I can approach them with confidence and I can tell people no number one do not explain decisions so maybe a buddy of mine texts me and says hey bro tomorrow can you help me move this furniture and maybe tomorrow I'm really busy but I feel bad saying no and I want to be like well my girl's not feeling well so I can't make it there're no do not explain instead I practice by just saying no tomorrow I cannot do that unfortunately or maybe I got to date scheduled and the girl hits me up the day

before and says hey can we actually meet closer to my place I'm going to say no let's stick with the plan no explanation not only is this good practice but also with girls in the early stages man if you give them an inch they'll take a mile she's going to continue to walk all over your ass after that number two challenge people this is one of my favorite things to do socially because no one ever does it and it's actually fun but when someone says something you don't agree with so for example a lot of

guys Beast Nation recently have been telling me when they're showing up to dates or messaging with girls a lot of girls right now are like I can't believe Trump won man like the United States is going to be is going to be held for the next four years the democracy is gone well you know I think that's a ridiculous claim so I would say really why why do you think that what makes you believe that then I would just sit back and observe people are not used to being challenged because you usually you'll just like

let it go and not address it or you might get a bit emotional and be like [ __ ] that [ __ ] why would you say that and I don't just do this with politics maybe someone's talking about how Kanye West is crazy and I think Kanye West I know Kanye West is the goat the greatest musician of all time I would ask him really you don't like Kanye why not the key is to do it in a very neutral just curious tone but this is the best practice for conflict really and the point's

not even to prove them wrong or to get into disagreement it's just to practice the conflict and after they respond I might just say oh you know I I disagree but that's an interesting perspective and number three this is the most difficult one confront disrespect immediately if someone blatantly disrespects you even though you don't to cause a scene or you don't want things to escalate as a man you must confront that disrespect so for example earlier this year I was on a flight with Julia from Germany back to Spain this is when we were living

in Marb and I had paid for us to sit in the front row it wasn't business class the flight didn't have business but there was more leg room so I was Sat by the window Julia in the middle and then the aisle seat was open so a guy gets on with his daughter and this is his seat next to us and he looks at us and he says Hey can my daughter take your seats because she gets nervous when she flies and I was like this guy just like assumed and said it in the most

presumptive way that we would just give up our seats that he knows very well cuz he paid for that seat too and on top of that if you really want your daughter to sit in the front can't you switch seats with her so I took it as disrespect I looked up at him and I said no we chose these seats and I looked back forward and I said it in a bit of aggressive tone because afterwards Julia was like oh man you didn't have to like escalate things but the interesting thing is it did not

escalate because when you confront the disrespect immediately before it goes on it tends to squash things right there I promise bro if you look for opportunities to practice these three things in your daily life approaching conflict and setting boundaries is going to feel so much easier number three identify your fist of control so question for you right now what do you have going on in your life that requires absolutely no help or approval or assistance from anybody else so for me even if all my friends abandoned me and Julia left my ass I would still

have the gym to go and work on my body and experience growth there I would still have this YouTube channel to to to grind out videos create new content and and try to experience growth there but for you what do you have going on that you can work on and grow regardless of anyone else drop a comment below right now because this is your fist of control and this should give you peace of mind that even if everyone abandons you and no girl ever shows you any attention you still have a life you still have

have something to focus on you still have something to dedicate yourself to and that gives me intense peace of mind because I don't have to rely on anyone else I don't have to rely on women giving me approval yes it would be devastating if my wife left me that would suck but it wouldn't be the end of the world I got plenty other [ __ ] that I can keep my head down on but if you're still in the nice Scot phase likely what you'll find is that you don't have anything going on in your

life and because of that you're latching to every opportunity you get with girls and you're hoping that that's where you're going to get your happiness and your contentment from or maybe you do have things going on in your life but you haven't been aware of the Fist of control and now bring all of your attention to those things those are things you can depend on but without that you'll continue to obsess over girls be afraid of rejection whenever they give you any attention you'll chase them and text them until you've SED them away without the

fist of control you'll always feel and act in a hopeless manner number number four learn to fight so let's be very logical here you can never be a man who is capable of violence without having some experience of violence it's impossible you can't just hype yourself up into having this type of calm certainty that comes with knowing that hey if I walked out the door right now and someone tried to physically attack me at the very least like I've trained mu Thai on and off for 5 years I I haven't in the last year I

haven't been active but at the very least I've faced those situations before in fights and sparring and I would have some idea of of how I would defend myself and attack back with my fists with my knees with my legs if you have zero fighting experience you'll always have a bit of this fearful look in your eyes that men and women will recognize this is not a guy who's confident this is not a guy who could protect me if the [ __ ] hit the fan and there's no other substitute other than getting some actual

fighting experience so if that's you right now I would just open up your phone and search for Brazilian jiu-jitsu or mu Tai or MMA gyms in your area and just go in usually they'll give you a free class to make sure you you like the vibe and sign up for weekly classes and ideally sign up at a location that actually allows for sparring so you're not just sitting there practicing technique in some cardio boxing class you can actually experience getting punched in the face it's not a good experience but I'm glad I've experienced it many

times number five realize that this is masculinity literally bro this is something you're either going to figure out and you're going to adapt and you're going to become comfortable with conflict or you're not and you're going to continue to miss out on women and opportunities to men who are comfortable with conflict and again we're not talking about being an [ __ ] and searching for conflict but rather being able to put yourself in uncomfortable situations when it calls for being able to approach a girl when it calls for being able to set a boundary with

the girl when it calls for being able to stand up for yourself when another man disrespects you these things don't happen you know 15 20 times a day but they are happening a few times a week and if you're slipping up and hiding from all of those opportunities well that's going to compound week after week after month after year and you'll always feel like a feminine boy this is the difference between the masculine and The Feminine the masculine must be prepared to rise to the challenge and face the conflict when the opportunity comes and speak

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