hey5 guys is this our new intro starting every video with anyways today we're going to be talking about psychological ways to make yourself seem more charming and seductive we've done ones on you know attractiveness but this one is about seduction as a Psychology major of course we're taking it from research but I love Robert Green read all of his books while also going to be taking some pointers from his books so let's get into the video stop Paparazzi yesterday somebody asked me if I was autistic and ADHD have you ever heard of an aquarius have
you ever heard of a bad [ __ ] have you ever heard of a [ __ ] that can do it all I think not hi sisters number one you want to embrace mystery simply don't reveal all aspects of yourself true fast this is my least favorite point because I'm such a yappa and I quite literally have no filter but luckily I embrace all of the other 24 points oh [ __ ] what is that got it mystery keeps people wanting more if you're revealing everything about yourself too fast there is nothing to uncover by
the way don't let someone manipulate you into revealing a lot by the way a trick I notice guys always do to make you feel insecure they'll be like you're really guarded you should like let your walls down and it's like hello I don't even know you and then you just start to reveal yourself subconsciously cuz you're trying to prove yourself it might not be at a conscious level don't allow that to happen you control the narrative not just in dating but in any element of your life you don't need to just create mystery on in
real life but on your social media profiles you know if you don't post too much it creates a sense of mystery you can really curate how people perceive you next point which is one of my personal favorites I have so many confidence videos guys confidence is magnetic you know why it's also because so many people are not conf confidence so they want to be around people who they want to be like because it actually rubs off on you people who project self-belief and Assurance they actually can put other people at ease and they will naturally
attract others so if you're like oh I'm not confident blah blah blah how can I be more confident baby watch my other videos additionally fake till you make it that's it if someone comes and they're like you're you're ugly [ __ ] wear this [ __ ] called me ugly I said [ __ ] wear she said under all that makeup I said [ __ ] swear so I have confidence in that area right but if someone comes up to me and they're like at the gym they're like you're squatting wrong I'm not going to
be like you're wrong I'm squatting correctly I'm going to be like a guess I'm not coming back to the gym I'm kidding but I don't have as much experience in that area so yes I'm going to be unconfident in that what I'm saying is you can develop confidence simply by becoming more skilled at something and through being more skilled you're going to have more self assurance like imagine if I was a bodybuilder someone came up to me at the gym you're squatting wrong I'd be like who are you to tell me that like no I'm
not next Point mastering your body language I literally made a video on this a couple of weeks ago guys but body language is everything it is how we subtly communicate especially to the subconscious minds of others so if you're doing very fastpaced movements it's not sexy and it actually shows you can be quite anxious slow your movements down and when you become a master at all these techniques I teach you in all of my videos is you can really easily fake it like sometimes if I'm on a date and I don't like the guy and
he's making me actually pretty anxious I will purposely slow down my body movements slow down my speech and maybe I will even talk in a different tone but on the inside I'm Dy but you can fake it and this is very handy when you're in a job interview as well or any uncomfortable situation there have been situations where you can tell someone is trying to assert dominance over you I will purposely not break eye contact in those moments that's why it's so important to know psychology because if someone is staring down at you you're going
to feel uncomfortable like look into my eyes you're going to feel uncomfortable and you might you might look away but if you know these principles you're not going to look away even if it's so uncomfortable to you because you're not going to let them win be detached do not let your emotions control you especially in dating guys there use so many little tricks on you to try to get you to reveal your cards especially if they're not honest and genuine shh you can't do that you must be detached or at the very least if you
can't be detached master your emotions until someone proves they are worthy of you being emotional towards them and that they've created a safe space where you can both reciprocate vulnerability have you ever heard a guy go oh my God this girl's crazy whenever a man says that to me I just think you're causing the crazy and I hate to say it cuz I'm always on the girl side but genuinely there are some crazy girls you know what it always boils down to they don't have control of their emotions the guy does something wrong she shows
up to his house she like smashes all his things and breaks in and goes through his phone and like is very chaotic you need to be in control of that how can you be in control of your emotions I have so many videos on this but what I do is I Journal I journal or I distract myself and I go to the gym and I put on I put on ego music I have a toxic playlist someone's bothering me I put it on it's called toxic driving playlist it's just full of future and like city
girls that like helps me get it out of my system sometimes you want to be crazy on someone but you need to detach it's not a good look and also because sometimes people would try to purposely get under your skin you can't allow that be in control be detached and guys if you have some issues and you feel like oh that's impossible for me to be in control maybe you should try therap Y and therapy will also help you understand yourself more so you can apply every psychological trick I tell you without even thinking about
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are so readily available and you are everywhere all the time people can't miss you they don't value your presence your presence is cheap why do you think an MS burken is so valuable because not everyone can get one if you're showing up to every event you're taking every invite there's no value there okay cultivate Charisma and I would like to say be warm if you're not a charismatic individual at the very least be warm because being warm and friendly and inviting will magnetize people to you be unapologetically yourself even if you think that is strange
yeah some people are going to find you strange but guess what other people will be completely magnetized to you and find you absolutely mesmerizing because there is only one you if you're a copy paste of every other person on planet Earth you're boring hello MPC goodbye NPC be a good listener I can't emphasize how important this is do you think it's sexy to continuously interrupt people possible a people rise up because sometimes we just got to get a word in but yeah it's not sexy being silent and listening and making someone feel saying however is
because if you're really listening and you're being present and you're taking in what someone is saying they're going to feel more safe with you simply because you are making them feel understood I have this friend and he is so patient and so present and when you were telling him something he's so deeply invested into everything and let me tell you everyone loves him everyone is so magnetized towards him all the time he has so many friends and it's because of this project power make it seem like you are in control of your life and someone
else cannot control you people will always test your boundaries in little ways and this is where boundaries come in people will test your boundaries especially men in dating and that's why you assert that you have power over yourself and you're not going to let them in once you say something if you back down on it and you allow them to you know weave in there it's gone your power's gone it's already diminished you can't get it back then you need to stand on business people are naturally attracted to those who radiate competence and strength it
can all be an act it can all be fake you might not be like this behind doors but hey if you know this trick you can project it when needed be unpredictable in a lot of our manipulation and Obsession videos we talk about being unpredictable because if you're putting someone on a intermittent reinforcement schedule where they don't know what they going to get from you they're going to be addicted to you they don't know what's going to happen this is not always positive and if you know these tricks you can walk away because it can
be in a manipulation TR tactic there was a guy I literally did not care about him guys until he did something completely completely unpredictable to me suddenly I he was on my mind a lot I didn't like him though but he was on my mind and I never spoke to him again even though he was on my mind for someone who doesn't know what I know they're just going to think oh I suddenly like him I'm obsessed with him suddenly I must really really like him you don't you're just on an intermittent reinforcement schedule without
even knowing it don't let that happen Okay highlight your strengths the law of self-preservation I think this is such a this is a natural one try not to show your weakness but another rule show weakness and vulnerability when necessary and when the timing is right timing is everything when you can show that You're vulnerable it makes people connect to you more as well and it shows that you're human if you are too high up here unreachable Untouchable it's actually not as seductive as you think portraying yourself to be a little bit more human is very
attractive framing your interactions correctly so if you're in a conversation that might actually highlight your weaknesses you need to work to steer around that and not to give a lot away everything is about how you can control the conversation and control others don't let them control you create tension and anticipation again this kind of goes back to unpredictability but if you're always pushing and pulling you're giving a lot you're giving a little Boop it is adoptive I personally don't like doing this if you're an avoidant personality you actually naturally do this though it's not entirely
positive but it creates a lot of tension because one minute you're close the next minute you're distant what are we going to get next remember a lot of these some of these tactics are actually quite toxic and someone who's healthy is not going to like these tactics maintain a signature style or scent it can be anything something that makes you memorable guys I've worn this necklace since I was 8 years old in all of my YouTube videos people always say to me they they might not even see my face they see this oh it's someone
I have a a perfume that I've been wearing for years too people are like yep I associate that with you and if you're wearing the perfume and you here's a little trick too if you're having a fight with someone and you're wearing that perfume it now has a bad Association don't wear that perfume with them again but if you want to put them in a bad mood you can wear it having a genuine smile psychology always always always talks about this the human eye can actually tell when someone is not being genuine with their smile
when you smile naturally you're going to wrinkle here and if you're doing a fake smile it's not the same we can tell there are so many subtle nuances in our Behavior which can reveal to the subconscious whether someone is being genuine or not being genuine is always attractive having sustained eye contact we talked about this a little bit earlier but sustaining eye contact it shows that you're not weak people who cannot maintain eye contact nor do they have a strong handshake a handshake reveals so much about you weak unattractive loser well-dressed individuals are actually perceived
as being competent and confident which obviously affects your attractiveness and I have so many videos on this having good posture duh I talk about it all the time if you're walking around like this it doesn't matter what clothes you have on you can have the most beautiful dress like me on do I look confident do I look confident do I look confident do I look confident now walking around hello what's the difference pull your shoulders back power of touch this is a very careful one but touching someone very lightly it can be playful as well
as creating a closer Bond I only do it if you're sure that person likes you once I was on a date and the guy touched my arm and my immediate reaction I went don't touch me I actually feel so bad for him that I did that but I said to him I'm like that's my boundary I was like don't touch [Music] me it just caught me off guard I just don't like a man touching me don't touch me I stood on business being positive everyone wants to be around a positive person we don't like negative
NES and lastly and just love your life even if you hate your life love your life when I was depressed this year do you think I was magnetizing people towards me I mean a little bit because I could fake it positive psychology shows people who are more in love with their life and they have passions it makes them more vibrant and more interesting do with that information what you will guys the Mind formula is going to be back we're having a little bit of a Rebrand after my domains got stolen yeah rip the domain new
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