just so you can see the power of silence in a person's life, I'm going to tell you a story that happened to me, okay, no one is talking, it didn't really happen to me, I was in an environment, I 'm not going to mention names or places because there are many people who follow me here and we don't need that, you know, God is always in front of us, protecting us, empowering us, giving us discernment, so I won't mention names, I don't work with names in this video, but I was in an environment in a place that is a service provider and I was talking with the people who were there, right? chat, chat, then someone arrived like this and started talking about why this month my card came and my God, I didn't even spend it on anything and then the conversation turned to people around that, right? things were expensive and I was there in that environment, being part of it all at that time, just so you understand, I had just left city hall, right, something that caught a lot of attention because when I left city hall, people, I commented with some people who commented with others and Anyway, then I ended up sharing on social media and everything else because at the time I was vlogging.
So people assumed that Bruna was, like, abandoning a public position is because she must be earning a lot and that whole thing, right, it was precisely at that time, and so, people, I never shared my life to show myself to no one, even because for the love of God, right, we don't need that and I shared it, because I did it, it's my job, I shared vlogs, and for those who are coming to this channel, now I was an active baker, right? being confectioner but today she is no longer active there on the Front Line doing production accepting orders but at that time I had a delivery, right and wow I left city hall And that caught a lot of people's attention and you know that in your social cycle there are people who love you very well and there are people who are not so good and there are people who don't want to see you doing well to the point of being better than them, right ? At the time I worked with credit cards too and I ended up commenting too because the environment was conducive, we were talking about it and I ended up commenting on how much my invoice had arrived, I said wow, but that's the way it was, so did my invoice.
This month came and it was crazy because at the time all the my accounts were on credit cards, you know , so much so that later I even have a testimony to tell you about it, guys, and so it wasn't even an absurd amount And then at the time, this specific person, the others who were there, weren't even there, but this one specific person opened his eyes like that and said what do you mean, wow, you're paying for all this with your credit card, you're earning very well, right ? another person and then this person came to me and said, Bruna, I'm just going to give you a touch, be careful what you say, then I said, why was I, I was so like that, people, I didn't even touch her, why did this happen? that so and so showed up here at my house and came to say that you said such a thing and after you left the environment you were in, it was the comment of the afternoon and everyone was commenting and talking about people, I was so shocked, so shocked that I said this my So, strangely, a few months passed and everything and my life at this financial time started to get very troubled, very troubled indeed, for those who believe it or not, I started to get involved with my credit card, mainly because later I will tell you what my credit card testimony you won't believe it and what I did to keep my financial life on the card went down the drain, okay, I got caught up in the card, I ended up losing that card, eh Anyway, my name got negative, that whole thing turned into a terrible snowball.
and all of this because I left a gap, I believe in that and for those who don't believe that, that's okay Ok, but silence is powerful in our lives and you must learn to grow in silence go through the difficulties in silence and even the victories in silence too then you will talk to me like that but Bruna so I can't say anything do anything I won't live you must yes you must speak yes but at the right time I had a certain habit of speaking things when I was in the middle of the process people, when you are in the middle of the process the only thing you can and should share is with God and no one else is with God and no one else is not with a relative, a neighbor or with whoever it is no matter how much you trust the person, we have to know how to filter and I 'm going to tell you something that will make perfect sense, but you know that people who have a crooked eye on you and I'm not even talking about envy of the evil eye or anything like that, people, I'm talking about people who don't it doesn't make any difference in your life, it's just there for decoration or sometimes you want to keep that person close to you for some emotional, affective reason, well, there's something missing there that's causing you, eh, they're always close people, it's the same, I share mine, you know, with you and Who is my follower, my follower who likes me and I don't have the slightest problem, you know, it's quite the opposite, the exchange I have with you is a very pleasant exchange, I learn a lot from you, I'm really enjoying seeing that you're also enjoying it. of the videos share here on the channel so Eh, whoever doesn't love you is always the person who is close to you, it's always one time I heard a friend of mine also said well, so no one is jealous of Beyonce, it's always so -and-so, cyclano beltrano yes because they are people who are close by and these people don't want to see you as better than them and in the end we understand is it coincidence or not what ended up happening and I put everything to waste because of my mouth okay so be careful grow up in silence I will Now to give you some tips, these are things I learned in life with God directing me and showing me the path I should follow after everything that happened . a lot of these moments, don't we all, everything that happens in our life we are responsible, right?
But some things made it easier for this to happen, I'm sharing my financial life with people who won't help me, they won't help me, you know, I wouldn't add anything, you should share your financial life with your your bank manager is with people who will facilitate you, help you in this recovery process, not with a person who is at the same level or even lower than you understand because this will only pull you further down, it is a magnet, an example if you We're in pain, I'm in pain in mine back, okay, I'll give you an example, who do you think will help you, a doctor, right? You'll go to the doctor and say, Doctor, I'm feeling a lot of pain in my lower back, this and that is happening, or someone who's a hypochondriac will come to you like this. in her and she will say well, wow, I have back pain, this person will kill you, she will say, oh my God, be careful because it could be the bone and then you have to do a, I don't know, a CT scan to check what's going on, aren't we?
This person will end up killing you, right in words because they won't helping you won't help you or else they'll recite thousands and thousands of medicines and they'll even say the worst, you know, there are people who say that you have a pain in your nail and the person says oh but I've had pain in my nail that grew For my hand that went down to my arm, I had my arm in a cast for three months, you know, those negative people won't help you, so look for people, the right people, okay, I know there are people who don't have the knowledge of I'm going to talk to who knows, so yeah At least look for content that will help you, read a book, read a good video here on YouTube, there are a lot of very good investment channels and how to get out of debt and how to pay off debts, how to pay off debts, anyway, you know, there's a book. Bruna, I don't have money to buy a book, download the free PDF, you know, something I did that helped me, but I confess to you that I didn't complete it at Bradesco, there are free financial education courses, yes, and you can do it You can register for free on your home cell phone or on your computer and you can do it. There are many free courses, institutions that are official and real.
It's not that thing where you 're going to click on a suspicious link and fall for a scam. Sebrai, I'm talking about Brade, I 'm talking about courses like this that are from safe sources, you know, because even with that you need to be very careful, okay And, Zip Zip, my mouth is going to close like Paulinho says, don't talk to anyone there, but this one month me I'm very tight, I'm very hard Ask for help Of course, no one is here telling you to stay there agonizing No, but you know how to filter the people with whom you share your emotional life, family financial, yes, no one needs to know what's actually happening inside your house and I often ended up commenting on my marriage, on my routine, even so, on raising my children, on my financial life, and I talked a lot, you know, so don't make these things legal, you know, and another thing if you're going through a situation complicated delicate that you don't see a solution there you are totally lost and blind first of all ask God for discernment so that God can open your eyes your vision your field of vision that sometimes we are so stunned that we can't get one step ahead of us, okay I It's just me, what happened to me I just needed to stop I just needed to stop for God to go there and change a key So ask for discernment guidance wisdom so you know how to deal with that situation regardless of what area you're going through, okay And be a filter, okay be become a filter and know how to direct how to handle that situation for people or for opportunities, right, because even in this matter of opportunities in life, employment, I don't know, some invitation that someone gave you, even in this you have to know how to balance things to see what will be beneficial for your life and what will be there a a magnet that will pull you down also an Anchor okay I also went through a very delicate situation for a long time so I didn't know the right moment to say no for certain situations So people called me for things So absurd and I accepted it, okay? oh Bruna, there will be such and such a thing in such and such a place, let's go and I couldn't even be there first, I didn't have the physical financial conditions, mental, ok, I also didn't have anyone to leave my children with and And then I ended up leaving my son at my mother-in-law's house to go in a place that wouldn't add absolutely anything to my life, you know, so even with that, opportunities that you think will be things that will actually make your life easier will actually delay you and won't take you anywhere and you'll be worse off than you were When you got into this trap, you need to take Be careful , okay.
It's for these and other reasons that God often says no to us, he says no, you won't pass. we still get angry oh how crazy we still get like why sir right questioning justifying people everything give grace everything give glory sometimes this moment when you are going through financial suffocation and you don't have any life plan You can't imagine yourself from here 2 years, eh, learn from this situation, you know, it's a school, our life is a school and God puts in it subjects so that we can actually learn to deal with them, you know, and so, be careful with this issue, especially speaking, grow up in silence, it will make a college will do a free Bradesco course on your cell phone, silence, no one needs to know, it's about 15 minutes before you go to sleep, eh, or when you wake up, no husband, no son, no one else doesn't say, ok, but it's free, it's great after you do it right that you understand later then you comment if a situation arises for you from a person, right, unlike that person who is a stumbling block who is an anchor, you will be a blessing then you say Look, I know what you are If you pass, don't give details but I know what you're going through How about taking a financial education course? In fact, I already took one, it's free, it's on the website, so you indicate it and it ended later with the situation already resolved and stabilized in the process in the desert, it is silence without murmuring without comments without eh and for you, you ask, you know, God is our father, he doesn't, he doesn't owe us satisfaction, doesn't he?
When we say no to a child, the child speaks for that we go there and we only answer for no or no so just learn, you know, and close your mouth about everything, okay , there, just to conclude, I said Then she, this person came to me, said, be careful because it was, he was, a person who came here to my house and told me Guys, I was stupid, I said guys, this person has nothing to do, conclusion, I never went to that environment again, where I was, this person was one of those people that God removed from my life and nowadays I just say good morning, good afternoon, good night, I don't comment. I say, I don't give any gaps, I don't follow them on Instagram, I don't follow them on Facebook, I don't want to know about this person, understand? And God is so perfect in everything he does that when he removes people from our lives, people don't actually see us, we kind of become invisible to these people because this person he never touched my name again, never again, but it was painful, I was very upset, and I still remember to this day the feeling that I had a bad feeling, you know, I said my prayer, I gave it to God and left it with him, it just took a while because we need to learn and we don't learn overnight, well then there were other situations before this and also afterwards that every time I said something I remembered it um wait from now on I won't talk anymore let me keep to myself and I have this I think you have a tendency to talk a lot They've stopped each video here for half an hour so I like to talk so Sometimes the conversation is flowing and sometimes we end up missing something and then I, um, hold on, Bruna, you know, and sometimes there's too much stuff like that, it's silly things, but that's not it.
