just the staff okay how are you imagining be very well i am also very well if you are also all of us are fine we are here once again on this channel if you know that we are together we talk we talk about several things about behaviors about the world of the universe about what we want to talk about and this freedom and synergy is what unites us today I'm going to give you four tips in my opinion for you to overcome a relationship you're in a bad way I ended it but I don't know
if that's what i wanted to do but i'm sad but i'm fine but i'm happy but i don't know what i want but i'm really bad calm down we'll be able to solve this together in today's video i'm going to give some hints to those who really want to get recover the relationship you know what is most interesting about this subject that some people think fred I can't recover a relationship sometimes you don't want to recover there is a phrase that is very symbolic and represents a lot what I want to say at this moment
now you already said several times you forgot but you never stop remembering that you already forgot so in fact you didn't forget and those who forget really forget don't stay there for an hour longer forgot I don't forget either too if you are like this you still have a big hurt inside you be a resentment for being sad I have a resentment for thinking that the person is whatever the resentment is if you still live with them inside you and we need to let things go things pass the way is free for a new experience
for a new opportunity so let's go four advice for overcoming the end of a relationship and there's number one understand the pain talk to the pain you need it yes auntie she people want to run away without predator who skip this stage you know i want the good part now i don't want to suffer but there's no way to escape either you assume you're suffering or you're going to pretend like you're doing now that you 're not suffering but in fact you are and it's okay you're suffering is part of it would be very strange
if you break up with someone you like or the person breaks up with you and you I wasn't suffering, suffering is part of people who feel that they love that they live this is the game, we need to accept our feelings for us, there's no way we can start any change, no change in life. this bad you have to assume your truth to yourself you have to look in the mirror and think I'm sad I'm bad I'm going to get out of this without having to admit to yourself that you need to recover you need
to let the pain flow us You need to have this empathy with yourself I don't believe there is such a solution if a person has a strategy and I'm going to leave I'm going to enjoy it to forget the person and I won't even suffer because in fact people want to go out so they don't suffer then I don't want to suffer so I'm going to go out I'm going to talk to other people the baby I'm going to enjoy it I'm going to travel I'm going to pretend that I'm going to forget you either
you want it or the person never liked it or they don't like it anymore at the end and they managed to disassociate themselves very easily or they start boycotting and if deceiving that he is not suffering but deep down he is there is no escape for us to recover from something we need to face this pain for everything in life it is a rule of life you lose a loved one you have to feel this pain for you who lost job you have to feel this pain you have to feel what is happening for you
to accept that and for a new stage there is no way to put it under the rug and we will see I think it will pass I will leave this trauma line one day it will come back one day it will come back so you have to decide to kill this animal and it was like this and I solved this cucumber let's go next this thing of you going out let's go to the party I'll pretend that nothing happened this doesn't exist one of two or the person never liked it the person is lying to
her herself and deep down she is suffering but she doesn't think so and I think she is managing to overcome something that can only be overcome by facing the pain head on talking to her feeling assuming the feelings and thus recovering I know that at this moment you must be thinking is that then people never liked me life things are like that sometimes it hurts it hurts to see and there's number 2 time to recalculate the route this increase you're going to have to take that sadness take that slight anger the anger towards the person
because it's not nice to feel angry person but I say this this desire this anguish and transform it into fulfilling emotions it's time for change it's time to take this one and if this sadness is this disgust and transform it into excitement in the dream and new emotions summarizing it very straight it's you to take the feeling all the [ __ ] But now you've also sung at the goal I'm going to turn the game around, you know when you had that job that you earned well for years working at home a good job giving
you money but you always had that dream of having your own food exchange tapas so it's more or so you were fired from that job that was good, it took money, it was solid but now the time has come for you to fulfill the dream of the tapas exchange fund because this is the moment now, yes, all the [ __ ], now I'm going to do what I want too I'm going to enjoy it and this is the big turning point the treaty imposes it's time to make dreams come true that maybe you couldn't come
true or maybe you didn't come true with the person it's time for me to travel or do something different I'll feel the pain first and then realize emotions that were kept inside your of my of our heart of something that I will not tell myself and kept it in the bottom of my heart something very simple but that I have a lot of appreciation for this way of thinking I go was a traveler was traveler all his life so he traveled a lot of distances to sell things products and so on he always said fred
is the best thing in life dreaming i keep traveling 568 10 hours driving i'm dreaming thinking if i won the mega sena was the that we thought we could from home thinking about things dreaming what makes me horny to see what gives me courage so this is a very cool moment for you to dream, dream and realize time to do a little madness a healthy madness to take my trip I'm going to do this opening a business I think this is a great point that we have to transform this certain sadness and 7 displeasure into
enthusiasm and emotion into revolution profound more sincere and there is number 3 don't get hung up on soulmates actually it's true that's exactly what I said it doesn't mean that they can't exist but it means that it's not worth spending energy looking for them they happen we always put a lot of expectations on relationships right there it has to be eternal we have to have a house let's get married we have the soul The twin love of my life comes back with a lot of little things to build a perfect life and we design the
life we want to live but there are also things that happen we can't predict if we always go back to the expectation of I'm going to work 40 years in this place I'm going to get married and be eternal there's a lot of expectation failures happen and many times they are necessary for something even better failures are often times when we have to prepare new things to happen in other things in boxing all that weight of it has to work out it has to be eternal it's a twin i'll never like someone the same as
the person you'll like someone as much or more you won't even compare your feelings you'll like it in a new way don't always put that thing and comparison comparisons are always bad to believe that you have to have this eternity to believe that it has to be forever dear chance of you getting frustrated very big and you live a moment that you are living enjoy then I dated mariana four years mariana it was great I loved it it was beautiful it was true that we saw we learned together we saw it but it happened one
to the next don't put expectation put the expectation is that it has to be true while it's happening that's the expectation if you always put the expectation of eternity don't you think it's a lot of weight for a life it's a lot expectation for it to happen and if it doesn't happen you'll be frustrated that you'll blame who love is to blame it's not feelings the fault how people deal with feelings is like a metaphor for the internet the problem isn't social networks social networks are neutral they are beautiful it's nice to be able to
talk to people from all over the world it's nice to be able to exchange messages with someone what makes the social network bad is not it itself because it is neutral but what we do with it it's the same thing the feelings are neutral love longing the desire to be together and the eln are there what we do with them is what changes is seagri the difference if we live more in the present not put so much expectation things become more understandable and understanding the pain, the feeling, the loss, the failure, joy, we understand that
life is a bit like that, you don't have to blame me so much, my god is the love of my life, I'm not going to love anyone like that, calm down, things happen, let it happen. if you recover without putting all your expectations into a single pot item number 4 allow yourself to be you at the moment you want to be it's okay if you want to go out to the party it's okay if you want to go out with the friends you want to be the problem no it's the party the problem is not
being against people the problem is you think this is a solution you think this is enough to recover you need the moment of the year you need the moment of understanding you need the internal moment alone would be too much easy very spoiled we solve the problems I fought I'm going out to drink and my father passed away I'm going to take a girl in an immature way you take life you have to understand my father passed away I'm sad because this happened I'm in pain of sadness you have to understand and do what legal
grounds we saw well but I'm dying of longing but I know that things happen or will I last a long time I don't know I'm going to write a little about it and feeling the pain let it go the pores you have to want the pain to go away you have to want it to go away many people don't want it they want to be the bandit's girlfriend they want the feeling to come back they like to feel the suffering no matter how much they don't admit the bottom they like whoever passes it passes but
I want it to pass it hasn't passed three years ago fed no you don't want it passed you like feelings you nurture and mentally you nurture looking at people's social networks you are feeding the situation so if you really want to forget you you want it and you can but you have to really want it and not pretend to yourself that you want it but rather allow yourself to live let go give yourself up don't judge yourself people who judge too much am I doing it right should I not have had more sex I shouldn't
have been happier is it that the other person has stopped demanding is going to live what you are in order to see who they are what you 're wanting and live without demanding if you let it if you go faster it's ok if the other it's always been the fastest don't you think you like it less or more no matter how much you like it less or more don't keep questioning yourself too much it's just going to torment you let it go and let it go it's gone there's something that people do a lot man
that's very funny that people people try to compare whether the person likes it - maybe not as much as I liked the menu and you have this understanding, you don't need to hammer on a daily basis, charging yourself, martyring yourself, it's okay that you won't be able to feel when the person likes it or not, but you can get a sense of the meaning of a person who will never achieve this reduction and it will help with what people are asking themselves to think is it that I liked it more than I like it -
is it that the total where you let it go will relax forget it was let's go to the next one think of peace think of peace it's not gool na paz I want to have peace I don't want to tag who liked it best who it is or who finished who didn't finish but I need time and energy to recover I felt the pain to look for my pass them the things I want to do this is the point people really want it but was it me was it the other one who likes it more
blind this is a small thing and that alone will torment you it won't solve anything let go know the time for things of the heart to take the path of the river and leaving back to the sea is a very important moment very special leave and so special smart if fun and of course has a given smile 2 that the most important thing in this video and all the videos on the channel and if you like this type of content don't forget to keep the books they're all in the description ok you can meet everyone
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