Hey guys it's ok how do you have everything right I imagine you are very well and I'm also very well if you too we are all very well I miss you I came with this more tropical shirt today something more like that I'm on a boat sailing between the oceans like my family in greece but i'm not here i'm in the room getting hot but that's ok i thought it abused a tone kind of like the joy of happiness of big dreams but today the video is not going to be one of the happiest of
all because today I'm a little down in the dumps despite the joy showing, not always the clown's smile is what he's experiencing and today in this video I 'm going to talk about saying goodbye which for me is one of the most important things in the world is knowing how to say goodbye and sometimes we have to say goodbye even when there's still a little love left and I separated something nice different for us to ask ourselves about this moment so there are seven questions that we must ask ourselves before knowing the time to say
goodbye to question number one is still admiration still has admiration you look fanatic person I admire the person as a person not only with relationship there is admiration still you know admiration is for me a base of the relationship is a base of being together with someone is there is admiration and not necessarily alone admiration of the relationship to the background now another admiration of life you know admiration for the person the work he dedicates himself to with the world for the vision he has the admiration leaving now the fla faces I admire him I
admire her a son knows this is very important when he doesn't have it admiration is already a point it is already a very thing that the tendency is not to solidify this is very important to admire the person we are next to one of the most important points for us to have a very nice relationship and today I am half people gesturing a lot with the hand but it's part of me you know because you know me very well so ask yourself admiration or not question number 2 this person takes current esteem this is a
very important question because people have a very self-esteem vision but rather the one person treats me badly or didn't have it in my self-esteem sometimes even without wanting to sometimes even liking someone else ends up taking away self-esteem whether it's asking you a question in front of others that you get a little fixed being pretending that work is so important with like his or hers and people think that taking away self-esteem is something like that or the person curses me or talks badly about me or that but actually it's not just that sometimes the person
takes the last one even without knowing it even without a evil sometimes because of the way you started to relate to each other accepting some way the person is operating and you got it if you 're accepting it as I said I don't want to accept this anymore and I'm no longer obliged to listen to that kind of joke and sometimes the person was a joke that I was afraid of but it was also just a joke you feel bad sometimes the person thinks that her work is more important than yours so that takes away
your self-esteem the person's didn't praise so much this had self-esteem realize if that's it People don't even give me positive things, they leave my self-esteem high because sometimes people only criticize, they only complain about the couch or they don't praise people, they don't value dreams, that's a very important thing, it's like my dream is to open a candy store that the person talk like that but it doesn't work you're losing self-esteem because the person didn't think about your idea lit her dream is not that but it's your dream that empathy empathy is always important a
relationship so if you ask this person it takes away my self-esteem or not it takes my self-esteem and as I said it's not always bad sometimes it's so much time together they used to play a kind of joke or less appreciate my things and favors from others or don't ask how I'm doing just want to talk don't let the other talk and share opinions it's not good to question yourself about it to what extent your self-esteem is being valued diminished or no question number 3 how much do you depend on that person this is an
important question it 's also a little more mathematical it's not like that anymore when you depend lives in the person's house depends financially it's we just had a child it's not that it 's a hindrance it's but it's something you have to think a little more about before taking action don't question yourself how much you depend on that person it 's not impossible right I depend a lot so it 's not just for you to balance it in your head because sometimes bad independence of time in too much of the person I need my self-esteem
that's the reasoning isn't it I depend a lot now I can't leave it's like I depend a lot do you think it's not time for me to be able to supply that side a little and not depend so much on someone and maybe if god gives me that self-esteem of a black gil is it correct like that just with alcohol and taking the hook from question number 3 to go to question number 4 is it really love emotional dependence there's also a lot of this you keep thinking that I really like the person it's just
because it's comfortable because there's emotional dependence this one really likes the comfort band you really love an emotional dependence for years that's cool you feel he'll ask if he's going to ask like this fredinho now you gentlemen know well but how will I know in the end you'll feel if you're going to start thinking a little do I admire how much it's good for me so it won't start to balance you don't have to if you charge and always feel that burning flame in your heart because it's normal, you know, it goes up and down
the instabilities emotions are part of it but deep down you will feel if you really like the person if a community because the person is nice because it's comfortable I don't think so either people sometimes want to have a feverish crazy love all year round and I'm always looking for something that isn't like that either things a little calmer you have to understand this oscillation of not like that I realized that we don't have sex like we used to I will have balance and common sense read feel everything a little bit a little bit and
how will you know if it is love or emotional dependence unfortunately or fortunately I think that unfortunately only you will be able to know that science cannot put a very high charge being feverish as it was in the beginning, that's part of it, you know, I always say that whenever a new person appears, it's going to be much sooner than the old one. new things are part of new people like a new job things happen it's normal we have to understand these oscillations not that you have to be negligent but it's obviously not going to
have the same expense I start to be reviewed and gas and conversation is better then yeah an eternal thing is signing contracts conversations understanding talking is very important and then already amending a question 4 let's go to question 5 if you were alone or alone do you think you missed the person really her or is the need in the sense of like this to what extent let's say it ended separated the imagine alone and feeling homesick and such but it was longing for that person specifically missing having someone nice by your side to talk to
travel and do things that said another very interesting person about this feeling or not that you need to overcome also everything I say we are always very open you take and fitting realities into absolute truths without rules we are just talking about the subject where you will get points here it is interesting this here I will protect them and go brushing up with nice things and then building the your life experience methodology I love the terms that zé is one of the super super cool phrases and such that it's cool for us to calculate all
of this before having it we will never have a 100% answer people this is part of life, right people You have to choose a path without thinking about the choices on that path that we didn't choose because we 'll always think she's perfect, right? I broke up but if they were together it would be much worse you will not think that it would be better if you didn't live that path you will put all the expectations of joy that in this than what you are seeing so I live here without thinking about the choices that
you could have made and not did it because otherwise you will always get frustrated and there will always be someone my god did I choose the right thing so sometimes you have to choose to kill in the chest and the joys of what is coming up question number 6 and this encompasses well what I want to talk about With all this, the present that you say is something beautiful, something happy, something happy, something uplifting, what brings you self-esteem or a beautiful past that you had that sustains this present. friendships with you to make a personal
friend 10 years for like that it's not cool don't like the friendship I don't like to talk it wasn't cool at all we were very good friends but not anymore and because it needs to be maintained it will sustain this friendship for the rest of your life for beautiful things that you will see not if people think it ended like that the friendship ended we are no longer friends but the relationship grows a little different of course but you have to think to what extent the present is tasty it's healthy healthy I think the very
right word healthy yummy or the past was beautiful you keep trying the joy of the present like that weapons our not so good past we were so happy but people as a present has to be nice past it was already clear that there are beautiful memories but it cannot sustain the rest of life with all those that fraction of joy joy for being daily I said oscillations moments change sadness fights come and go settling down this is part of life and only you will know in your head and now the last question that question that
you already have in your backpack on the back thinking for thailand life is crazy and for egypt with these pyramids traveling meeting crazy people to break free from this world that demands so much from us and for australia japan as the real real sushi meet people that are so common like eat pray and love you look at eat pray and love and I thought my god this is the life I wish I was living but I'm not because I'm not and that's the question you want to ask why don't you leave because he's a nice
guy she's a reliable girl that's all just a nice person if it's nice basic you have to be nice I admire we get along the energy is good our daughter show we have a very nice family we have to have this joy is and if this context only because it's nice and parents like her that's very little there's a little more joy you have to have something in your heart a security that comes beyond mathematics, you understand something in the soul by doing it we 'll get better because we've always done so well says there
was security a little of the soul understand ask why you wouldn't make a list almost wouldn't go because it's because the nice person treats me well and respects me no doesn't treat me well I don't feel the same anymore and that's a good job launches and decides and no one will be able to decide for you but yourself it's not special i hope you enjoyed it having fun and of course founded region 2 that the most important thing of all is you on this list although the action is a little melancholy maybe i tried to
bring a joy i have a joy shirt an oprah thailand shirt even if you want to break up or not let's go to thailand together if you want to continue with the person and like i said guys i'll throw everything up in the air for you to seal what's cool without absolute truths but there are nice questions for you to know if it's worth it to continue a relationship or if at night it brings self-esteem because both things too but it also not continuing here if you live here or here and in a little while
it starts on sunday each quarter and when you see the that we are together the same event together is not very logical and you can discover new joys in everything eternal linda has a video that talks about eternity so not everything that is eternal is beautiful people sometimes people put expectations that if it's not earth it wasn't sincere sometimes it fulfilled its role sometimes it was beautiful the way it was and that's wonderful don't forget of course my books that are all here each one really wanted to know the books all in the central description
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