there is no greater sin than just being plain boring and predictable when trying to attract beautiful women women want to be excited and interested they love Adventure intrigue mystery and the unexpected if you make a girl feel bored with you that's the fastest route to failure in your dating life the good news is that I have a simple solution to this problem and all you need to do is take the mystery pill the word mystery is one of the most repeated words I've ever heard and I'm sure you've heard it a lot too but the
problem is that everyone tells you to be mist mysterious but no one explains how to actually be mysterious or what kind of mystery appeals to women and makes them think about you morning and night my dear brother today I'm going to explain to you how to be mysterious in an attractive way and how to eliminate something called boredom women hate boredom they don't want to feel bored if you're labeled as boring it's nearly impossible to recover from it and this is how many guys end up in the friend zone if you come across as uninteresting
predictable and boring a woman will see you as just another nice guy and will place you in the dreaded let's just be friends category almost everyone prefers excitement over mere pleasantness the interesting over the boring the unexpected over the predictable not only does this add some excitement and make you a much cooler and more exciting guy to be around but unpredictability affects hormones and the brain's reward circuits literally making women addicted to you women don't necessarily hate nice guys but they lack the spark nice guys are far too predictable and lack any sense of spontaneity
making them neither excited exting nor fun to be around for women women simply don't feel thrilled or excited by nice guys deep down what really excites and attracts a woman is action adventure and excitement this is what all women are truly looking for unpredictability is another reason why women often end up with bad boys and so-called jerks in addition to Bad Boys embodying nearly all the traits we've discussed so far they are also notoriously unpredictable because of this they provide an abundance of excitement fun and even danger women love the fact that they never know
what's going to happen next it's as if they're always on an adventure be like most guys boring predictable Bland insecure and overly eager to please and you'll find women bored of you within minutes or even seconds you can't afford to be Bland and inoffensive every other guy she met today could be described with those two words if you go down that road you'll be so predictable that women will know what you're going to say and do 5 minutes before you even do it the problem with most guys is that they're too busy trying to impress
women often in an attempt to compensate for their perceived inadequacy this behavior only serves to turn women off instead of trying to attract women by showing off what you think is attractive such as your job salary car lifestyle Etc Focus instead on being exciting fun and interesting and as I always say in my series on how to attract women by trying to impress them you end up doing the opposite there's a saying I love to be interesting be interested in other words people find you more interesting if you're interested in them so ask her about
herself and genuinely get to know her instead of bragging about your amazing job or car it has been proven time and again that people love talking about themselves and prefer those who ask questions about them another way to think about this concept with women is to be the buyer rather than the seller you're looking for women you like not trying to make women like you you want to see if women are compatible with you not trying to impress them or convince them that you're good enough for them adopting this mindset makes women think wow this
guy must be really impressive if he doesn't even feel the need or can't be bothered to try to show off and impress me like all those other guys overall don't go out of your way to impress women you're so awesome that you don't even need to try instead just focus on being interesting and the best way to be interesting is to talk about a woman's favorite topic herself ask her about herself and see if she's the type of woman you want in your life doing this will get you much further than being a needy insecure
nice guy who feels the need to spend the entire interaction trying to impress her that being said don't let the conversation turn into a job interview it's a conversation after all you can add your own little anecdotes share your thoughts and Views and so on for a healthy conversation you both need to contribute find the balance don't seek to impress but at the same time avoid letting the conversation slip into job interview mode one of the key differences between masculinity and femininity is thought process men tend to think logically and communicate directly this is why
when men talk they exchange information and that's as complicated as it gets women however tend to think emotionally women feel things more than they think about them this is why it's common for women to say one thing while meaning something entirely different what women say is often just a reflection of how they feel if you're fun and exciting women will feel all the positive emotions essential to success with them and the best way to be fun and exciting is to Simply Be unpredictable so far I've explained the basics and the concept of mystery let me
delve deeper and take you to the advanced level one way to be unpredictable is to say what you truly think don't be afraid of not always being agreeable and overly polite have the confidence to express your genuine thoughts and make honest observations you don't have to be harsh or hurtful just be authentic about who you are and what you believe don't pretend to be someone else in the hopes that it will make women like you more not only can people especially women sense when you're being fake but they will quickly lose interest in a man
who lacks the courage to say what he wants and pretends to agree with everything nice guys are often terrified that what they say or do might upset women first this shows that they lack options and don't have choices when it comes to women second this fear makes them hold back their words and actions leading them to become incredibly boring and predictable women seek excitement and adventure and love the feeling of being thrilled they can easily tell when a man won't be fun as a result even if the man says all the right things does nothing
wrong and agrees with her on everything she'll have no interest in him he'll either be rejected or placed in the friend zone no matter how beautiful women are almost all of them lead dull uninspiring and uneventful lives their daily existence isn't any more exciting than that of the average man most people including beautiful women live their lives on autopilot women love unpredictability because it snaps them out of this autopilot mode and forces them to pay attention and truly live it brings them back to the real world allowing them to experience life more fully they think
feel and perceive becoming aware of the world as if for the first time familiarity quickly becomes boring in most of our lives we rarely think about what we're doing so when someone breaks the monotony of boring predictable daily life we are forced to think and feel it's refreshing unexpected and enjoyable it's fun breaking away from boredom and predictability is especially effective with women because it compels them to feel which is what women are all about by adding excitement to a woman's life and spicing up her typically dull and predictable existence you're almost always doing her
a big favor bad boys and jerks don't care what anyone thinks of them they know that if one woman doesn't like them it doesn't matter there are plenty of other women eager to experience the excitement danger and Intrigue they bring they say whatever they want the irony is that this makes them even more attractive it makes them more exciting and unpredictable women fall for bad boys and jerks because it's frilling it's an adventure they never know what's going to happen next you too can use this to your advantage be bold and say what you think
another way to be unpredictable and excite women is to be playful relax playfulness means acting in a fun and playful manner being completely at ease with everything and adopting a calm relaxed mindset playfully teasing women is highly effective because it indirectly shows them that you possess many attractive traits it shows that you won't put them on a pedestal and worship them it shows that you're not afraid of them and that you have the confidence to say what most men don't have the courage to express it shows that you're bold but also fun and don't take
things too seriously by being playful in an enjoyable way you set yourself apart from the majority of men you become predictable but in a fun way you say unexpected things which is one of the cornerstones of humor if you make women laugh it's likely because they didn't expect what you just said or did in doing so you hit two birds with one stone you're unpredictable and you create happy fun feelings however don't turn yourself into a clown women might find men who make them laugh all the time entertaining but they're unlikely to feel attracted to
them you need to combine humor with sexual tension you need to show women that you have the confidence to treat them as attractive desirable women rather than hiding your intentions like a coward while also being in control of yourself by doing this you display highly attractive and Powerful Behavior flirting and playfulness is a topic I've already discussed in this series and I'll dive deeper into it in upcoming videos delaying earlier we mentioned that unpredictability is one of the reasons Bad Boys attract many women here we'll explore how to harness the Allure that bad boys provide
without actually being a bad boy yourself women often test your character to ensure that you are a confident strong and and dominant man they can rely on and feel safe with these tests often come in the form of direct or indirect requests and demands this is not a problem for bad boys because they don't care about what a woman wants they simply do what pleases them however not everyone wants to be a bad boy at the same time you don't want to lose your masculinity as I've explained throughout this series women desire dominant men who
take charge and Lead highly masculine men are extremely attractive to feminine women women don't want men they can push around to ensure they have a strong stable masculine man who can guarantee their safety and protection they will test him by trying to influence his actions if you give up your masculinity and immediately cave to a woman's wishes and demands as most men do she will not only lose respect and attraction for you but will also find you predictable predictability is boring and that's not good so how is a man supposed to overcome this dilemma how
can you resist caving to a woman's demands while still maintaining your kindness and avoiding being a jerk the answer is delaying simply delay for example during a date a woman might mention how much he loves tacos don't respond immediately or go out to get tacos right away instead plan a taco outing a few weeks later by delaying you achieve The Best of Both Worlds you show that you care and were paying attention but at the same time you avoid coming across as a weak overly eager man Additionally you become unpredictable which is something women love
here's another example let's say she talks about how much she loves the beach or anything else instead of responding immediately caving to her desires and showing how desperate you are to please surpris her with the trip to the beach when she least expects it perhaps on a Friday evening after work this adds excitement and unpredictability to her life plus you'll enjoy a romantic moonlit evening by The Waves by doing something different you make life fun and add spice to her otherwise mundane routine in summary pay attention to what she likes but don't act on it
immediately instead fulfill her wishes at unexpected moments show strength and don't give in to her whining like most men who comply with every request make it clear gently but firmly that you won't tolerate whining over time she'll learn that she gets what she wants only when you decide to give it to her not when she nags or demands it and here you will have understood what it means to be mysterious and how to become mysterious and this was the dark needle and I'll see you in the next video
