in today's video you'll learn six habits that instantly make you more attractive we'll do this by breaking down some clips of Jack harlo because he has an easy authentic style of flirting that many women find extremely attractive you made me nervous you've been making me nervous this whole interview oh oh Jack don't tip me I'm a married woman but I'll leave him don't I'm going to leave right now let's start at the beginning with how to start a conversation a big part of Attraction is confidence and you can show that confidence in the first 10
seconds of an interaction if you approach without hesitation so wey how it feel doing numers hey hey what's up hi sweetie hi Jack I know good to see you most guys know they should approach without hesitating but they get too nervous or their mind goes blank and they can't think of anything to say so you end up circling the venue a few times without talking to anyone or glancing over a bunch of times before you approach which sabotages your first impression one thing that helps here is if you have an opening sentence you know you
like this isn't a constraint against being spontaneous it's a backup plan in case your mind goes blank here are Jack's two favorite opening lines what's your best chat upline oh hi is that it undefeated hi you know what else is undefeated hi I'm Jack of course Jack has some big advantages over most people he's a rich famous celebrity SOI even says she already knows who he is but there is a riff on this line that anyone can use to start a conversation especially at an event where it's possible you know a lot of people like
a house party or local bar it's hey I don't think I've met you yet I'm Jack except say your name adding the phrase I don't think I've met you yet helps your approach feel more natural it explains why you're you're introducing yourself so it feels less randomly creepy and it implies that you're social and you know a lot of people at the venue at least enough that they stand out to you as someone you haven't met yet this is a super easy way to get into conversation but it won't magically make someone fall in love
with you in fact even STI doesn't initially show much interest instead playfully making fun of Jack watch how he handles it why you shaking Emma yeah nobody shaking nobody shaking sh Jack step into the shade room so that brings us to have it number two if someone teases you assume they're being playful and take it positively some people will hear this advice and think it will make them look weak but it's actually having a defensive response that makes you look reactive and less attractive what's something that you really hate about a guy when I'm trying
to go to the bathroom on 63 and they're like hey can I ask you a question you we got same thing we got to go well he would have looked more confident if he had been able to laugh along with her joke now if they said something truly offensive to you then obviously you don't have to stay playful but at that point don't worry about being attractive to someone who's genuinely rude to you better to find someone else to talk to okay so let's get a bit more specific what does taking a tease positively actually
look like here's an easy framework you can steal from Jack step one fake defensiveness you say something defensive but with a big smile this shows that you're actually unfaced for example watch how Jack reacts when someone says something that could have been offensive to a lot of rappers at his level here we are you're nominated tonight but what I realized is and I thought I thought I thought you had I thought you had already won a Grammy before you haven't so what would it mean for you what would it mean for you though to win
a Grammy tonight cuz tonight could be a huge night for you I mean it's an honor to be nominated yeah it mean a lot you know maybe when I do this interview next year you won't be able to say that so I'll feel good step two you can playfully tease them back I like drama yeah okay okay you like drama yeah I'm messy I think it's I I'm messy too no I'm not messy but thank you for admitting you are I okay we don't we're about to be done cuz you don't call me out twice
on this you call first thing happen when I walked over you said you know you don't have any Gramm how it feel I H it in a positive way this dies right into habit number three Push Pull use a mix of teases and compliments Push Pull makes conversation with you more fun because you're not predictable your teasing helps people get laughing and builds attraction and your compliments make people feel good around you and show that your teasing doesn't mean you dislike them for example watch how Jack breaks the tension in that last conversation you've been
nominated three times but you haven't won it could be a huge night for you six times three times tonight come on three times tonight you're good you're great um thank you one thing some men struggle with is complimenting a woman in a way that's not creepy it's much easier to give a compliment and not come off creepy if you give a compliment that you would give regardless of if you're attracted to the person or not Hello Jack har how you doing y'all know how to make a man smile that's for sure wow you just brought
a smile to my face brother you just warn my soul up if you give someone a compliment especially a physical compliment you want to say it like you aren't trying to get anything back for it the vibe Jack gives off is that he's simply saying what he thinks is true without expecting anything in return for the compliment you're know is someone here though that you got your eye on let me see I'm right here Jack just get don't get me wrong you're beautiful I just you know I uh I thought you meant somebody on this
sheet y'all got right here again this is helped by his experience saying compliments about people he doesn't have sexual interest in can't even name who was on Dante Murray was on oh my God yeah he's a good player take that back oh nice love me some deante M he's smooth as hell he's like a Jaguar love his body love how he moves man this the second time you've said that you love somebody's body what you saying I'm showing too much love to keep in your own life if you want to practice the skill make it
easy for yourself and start with non-physical compliments and don't force yourself to give compliments you don't mean just to practice the practice is when you do think of something positive about someone share it with them that ties closely to another thing that makes Jack attractive honesty in situations where a lot of guys would lie so what's your type my type mhm dark hair you might think he's purposefully saying her opposite but he said this in multiple interviews it's just his truth also did you notice that when he says it he smiles there's a playful self-
Amusement in saying something he knows isn't the answer most guys would give that self Amusement is also attractive here's one more example what like is the most romantic thing you've done for someone bought them a plane ticket was it private Jack no oh economy 58c beautiful women are used to guys who will say anything to try to get a date so ironically you stand out when you don't seem like you're trying hard to impress them in general Jack gives off a Cool com Vibe because he isn't desperate for a romantic connection you saw that in
that earlier clip where the woman says I'm right here Jack and it's consistent in his interviews okay uh well I hear that you got a song called do a leaper on on the album yeah it's true do you want to go on a date with her I'd be open-minded you know I just uh you know what I really like to do it TOA yeah was that you shooting your shot at swee that was me saying hello but you can't say hello these days I guess you could say hello but you know it was a nice
hello like a real smooth hello I'm a nice person okay would you ever shoot your shot at sweetie no that's a that's a friend that's a friend Vibe notice he doesn't say they aren't beautiful he's not putting them down he's just not instantly Allin if you show interest in dating someone just because they're attractive it makes you less attractive to be attractive have standards Beyond Beauty you'll be more interesting and you'll avoid relationships with people who aren't right for you one thing that can help you have better dating standards is having other things in your
life that you care about in Jack's case he's open to dating but his top priority is music it's his career and his passion and he cares more about it than meeting women or partying even when first class goals number one how do you celebrate everybody was like come on like let's at least do champagne and we went we went to the studio everyone in there took um took some champagne I didn't drink but I felt good I'm just head down right now this isn't to say that in order to be attractive you you have to
only care about work that's not a recipe for happiness you want a balanced life with friends or family you care about and a career or Hobbies you're passionate about a life you're happy with even if you aren't dating when you have other things you care about in your life you won't be desperate to date just anyone which ironically will make more people want to date you the second thing that helps you create standards Beyond Beauty is having options when you feel like someone is the only person that could possibly make you happy or Worse perhaps
the only person that could possibly like you it's almost impossible for you to be attractive if you feel you need them you can't help but act needy there are a lot of ways to build a life with more dating options you can work on your appearance talents Social Circles social status or career just to name a few but the fastest way I know of to build a life with options is to develop your charisma becoming worldclass in most things takes years sometimes decades but with Charisma you can massively improve in just a month or two
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