when someone senses that their games and manipulation won't work on you you instantly have power over them the moment you start talking to a girl she will naturally try to manipulate you this is completely normal it's in her nature she'll try to play you and get what she wants from you this isn't because women are evil it's just part of who they are however the moment you turn the tables on her and show her that she can't manipulate you she'll be yours the way to achieve this is by having more power than her to make
this concept easier to understand let's call this power status but don't worry status doesn't mean you have to be rich or tall what I mean by status is psychological strength if you've been following this series how to attract women you already know that women are drawn to status and power so first we need to understand why as a man you lose your power around women and let them manipulate you this happens because you trade your status just to be liked now listen to me carefully so why do most men lack status why don't most men
have power in their relationships with the women they truly desire the answer lies in the major mistakes that men consistently make and I'm sure you've been guilty of at least some of them but there's one mistake that stands above all the others giving up your status to be liked this happens when you offer a woman higher Social Status or more power at the expense of your own just to win her approval men give up their status to be liked they do this with women they want to build relationships with and also with the men and
women in their Social Circles whom they want to befriend here's a simple example and it happened to me a few months ago I was out with some friends and there there was a girl with us when we got into one of my friends car one of the guys called shotgun the girl then said oh can I have that seat please the guy made a small joke but in the end he gave up the front seat and sat in the back to let her sit in the front why did he do that because he wanted her
to like him of course he didn't lose all the status in that moment but his thought process was clear if I say no she won't like me when you're afraid to say no because you fear being disliked you're giving up your status often it's more subtle than this it happens when you change or hide your opinion about something just to be liked or when you prioritize someone else's Comfort over your own I know this might sound counterintuitive or even wrong but that's because of the society we live in from a young age you've seen men
in movies making sacrifices for the girl they love but in real life that doesn't work why do you think girls are attracted to so-called Bad Boys it's because these men value themselves more than the girl they refuse to give up their status to be liked and women love them for that now that you understand why you lose power around a girl and give her the chance to play you how can you turn the tables in your favor let me explain by answering a frequently Asked question in the comments what should I do when a girl
asks me are you going to buy me a drink most men handle this situation in one of two ways and both are wrong the first group immediately buys the drink because they want her to like them this means they're giving up their status to gain approval the second group tries to show their value by saying I don't buy drinks for girls but this is also a mistake it shows you're trying too hard which lowers your value as well so how should you handle this situation what's the right right way to respond if a girl at
a bar asks me are you going to buy me a drink here's all you need to say I'll do that if we sit together find a comfortable spot where we can sit and chat and I'll go grab the drinks what you're doing here is asking for equal or greater value in return for what you're offering you didn't say no way you buy me a drink a high status man wouldn't say something like that a high status man assumes the girl is interested in him she's already interested in you so why wouldn't you want to buy
her a drink but you'll ask her to put in a bit of effort as well if she's willing to do that then you're willing to and you'll buy her the drink a low status man on the other hand doesn't care if the girl puts in any effort before buying the drink that's the difference when you're just getting to know a girl she's piecing these things together quickly she's paying attention to how others react to you how you react to others and most importantly how you react to her the first step is this never let a
girl command you look be 100% certain that any girl you talk to will try to give you orders she'll try to control you tell you to do something suggest taking a certain route ask you to pay for something or buy her something this is completely normal it's something all girls enjoy they love giving orders but if you say yes and agree without realizing it you'll soon find yourself under her control doing everything she asks that's why you should never say yes to any request from a girl without consideration if you find yourself in a situation
where you have to agree to her request like buying her a drink or taking a different route because it's genuinely better you should always ask her to do something first before you agree for example buy me a drink I will if we say sit together let's take this route instead it's better sure but first imitate a cat's meow and I'll walk with you that way this way even if you go along with what she wants you remain in control of the situation but don't misunderstand me this doesn't mean you should always demand something in return
every time a girl makes a request you only use this approach when you must agree to her request the fundamental rule is to refuse her requests unless it aligns with what you genuinely want to do for example if she hands you a book and says read this and you're not into reading you should simply say no no that was the first technique now let's move on to the second technique and I need you to pay close attention because this is one of the most common strategies girls use to manipulate and almost all girls do it
this technique happens when you're talking to a girl and everything is going well you feel happy and in sync she's messaging you back quickly the conversation flows smoothly and then suddenly she stops responding she doesn't talk to you the way she did before this happens a lot and it causes many men to lose their composure here's the key if you start talking to a girl and everything seems to be going well be prepared for the moment when she stops replying it's bound to happen why because she's testing you she's playing with your emotions to make
you chase her sending her more messages trying harder to get her attention she wants to destabilize you what you need to do in that moment is resist the internal urge to chase her stop don't send her another message don't call her and don't try to get her attention take a step back and let her come back to you on her own never listen to the voice of fear and here's a golden rule you should remember for life don't listen to the voice of fear always listen to the voice of confidence how do you do that
if a girl suddenly stops talking to you without any clear reason and you try to chase her that means you've listened to the voice of fear you're afraid of losing her afraid you made a mistake and by doing that you lose her because you're operating from fear but if you listen to the voice of confidence you'll tell yourself she was into me and she'll definitely come back and message me again finally understand the hidden messages listen carefully because I'm going to tell you a secret most men don't know about women when you're talking to a
girl you need to realize that you're dealing with an emotional being not a logical one women don't always know what they want or what they should do you're not talking to her rational mind and what she says to you doesn't hold absolute value if you take her words at face value you'll fall victim to manipulation so how do you deal with this how do you interpret her hidden messages what she says versus what she means listen closely there's a fundamental truth about women that most men fail to understand women don't always mean what they say
and they don't always say what they mean in other words words if she says she doesn't like you that doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't like you there's often a hidden message behind her words and I'll explain exactly how to decode those hidden messages the concept here is very simple but most men over complicate things and try to understand women as if it's rocket science actions speak louder than words if you really want to understand a woman all you need to do is pay attention to what she does not what she says her actions will always
reveal her true needs so always focus on her actions not her words if a girl says she prefers taller guys but always dates shorter ones it means she doesn't mind dating shorter guys or if she says she doesn't do one night stands but frequently ends up doing them it means she's okay with it or even prefers it if she says she doesn't like you but still talks to you it means she does like you but doesn't want you to know if she didn't like you why would she talk to you in the first place as
you can see it's very simple whenever you notice a disconnect between what a girl says and what she does always focus on her actions getting caught up in her words will leave you confused every time so pay attention to her actions not her words now I'll take this opportunity to address something I often see in the comments some girls claim that what I'm saying isn't true and now it's time to respond to that it's time to address this if you check my channel and read the comments you'll see that the majority of women say that
what I'm saying isn't true but at the same time most men comment that they've applied my advice and thanks to it now have girlfriends this contradiction is very common in the world of relationships you'll often hear women saying they don't like bad boys or players yet those same bad boys and players are the ones who are most successful with women why this contradiction because women don't truly know what they want women don't know what they want in a man and I mean that very seriously look at any girl and you'll find that most of them
have been socially conditioned to believe that prince charming will ride in on his White Horse to sweep them off their feet when you ask them about the qualities of their ideal man they'll say things like he should be nice have a sense of humor act like a gentleman Etc but that's not what they truly want in a man all these ideas have been planted in their minds by Society this is why so many women end up with men they once said they would never date in reality a woman doesn't know what she truly wants until
she meets a man who flips her world upside down in most cases she'll completely change her habits with this new man and start doing things she's never done before this is why never take advice from a woman about what women want that's a recipe for failure so to summarize always pay attention to her actions not her words it's crucial to focus on a girl does rather than what she says some men get stuck on her words and end up confused because her words will never fully align with her actions a common example of this is
a woman who goes out and sleeps with other men but comes home and tells her husband she loves him deeply so don't be fooled by her words study her actions and you'll understand what's really going on in her mind
