What's up guys coach Kyle here welcome back to the channel man in today's episode. I'm gonna be going over a text breakdown Showing you guys everything from the initial Meetup leading up all the way until the next date and then even past all of that so just to give you guys a little bit of context I met this girl while I was out with two friends of mine and her and her friend were actually leaving the venue as Me and my buddies were going into the venue, so I didn't have too much time to talk to her She's 29 beautiful Colombian girl and I'm gonna show you everything that happened from the moment I got her phone number up until right now and by the way guys if you like this video I have several other text breakdowns as well as des game night game pulls Everything you guys want to see is on my patreon now including videos that have never been uploaded to YouTube I'm gonna put a link in the description You can get access to over 20 videos texting phone calls all of that for literally $1 So if you want to see more content you guys like the channel Click that it the links in the description and I'll see you guys over on patreon So the way that texting starts off is just me saying hey It's Kyle and then I sent her my address of where the after-party was gonna be at the end of the night I think I called her maybe 10 minutes after this talk to her for maybe one minute and then Got her and her friend to agree to come so you can see right after that. She messages me and says hey I'm here So they ended up coming through they hung out with me and a bunch of my friends maybe for like an hour hour and a half at the end of the Night, and that was the end of it.
So now I did not reach out to this girl for five days I texted her Thursday evening and I sent her a video of me cooking because one thing that we really Connected with during the initial conversation was that I really liked to cook She likes to cook we had this kind of teasing joking about who's a better cook So I opened up the conversation just by providing a little bit of value and showing her something interesting about my life So you can see I sent a video of me cooking and I just say Chef Kyle with a little emoji on it and I just leave it at that So she comes back an hour later and says, where did you steal that video from lol? And then she says what are you making? So she took an hour.
I actually was busy time Ithaca her back two hours later and said Chicken tacos extra veggies and don't hate cuz I'm a better cook than you So still just keeping that teasing kind of vibe going She comes back and says it sounds good. I don't know about that I will have to taste it which is already showing a little bit of interest and you know, definitely positive signals so far However, at this point it's already 9 p. m.
So I just come back and I say you're about four hours too late It's all gone, lol Maybe sometime in the future if you're lucky enough kinda just throwing out the idea of possibly meeting up with her But again, it's just not pushy It's kind of like maybe if you're lucky enough, you could try it one day she comes back and just says lucky enough Crying face and now she's starting to respond a little bit quicker. So my responses are a little bit quicker as well I'm not texting her back instantly, but I'm still kind of pinging off of what she's sending So then I come back and say lol chef. Kyle is an earned privilege.
What will you be contributing to the meal miss? So it's not try hard. I'm not pushy.
I'm not begging her to come hang out You see how it's like I'm throwing out the idea of the meetup at at the same time I'm not making it so easy on her. It's still a little bit of tease challenging, right? so then she comes back and says I Already earned that privilege Saturday night.
I won't contribute anything until I taste it now this isn't really a test but she's kind of like a frame battle because she's like, I'm not contributing anything you're cooking for me and I don't really give in to that frame. I kind of just in a teasing playful way. I just say jeez I was thinking a bottle of wine and help with the dishes at least rude Right.
So again, it's just like I'm still we're still moving towards the meetup, but it's all playful It's all joking, and it's not super easy. It's a little bit of a challenge on her So she comes back and says lol. Ok.
I will contribute with a very nice bottle of wine dessert and coffee Is that enough with a winky face and I like this because now she's starting be building up I'm trying to build up her investment at the same time, you know, not only is she gonna come to me But she's gonna be contributing to the meal too So all very positive so far and again look, I still am not that easygoing It's just a little playful challenge. I said sounds lovely However, I'm expecting authentic Columbian coffee though, so don't disappoint lol, I Like that message a lot and then so and then she comes back and says lol I won't with a coffee symbol so after she Says that I just leave them. I just left the message open like that.
I didn't respond. She didn't really ask me a question So I didn't feel like I needed to respond and it was going good so far So I just left that at that and I think I was out Friday Saturday. So Sunday evening I hit her up, and I said hola colombia Nita she come which just means like little Spanish girl She comes back and says hello Kyle.
How are you? And look. She's starting to respond quicker.
I said Just getting back from a long weekend in Philly a lot of fun, but also very exhausting. Did you do anything fun? So again, I'm just kind of conveying a cool lifestyle not being so easy not being so concerned what she's doing But the way I'm presenting my messages are coming off high value She comes back and says not really I went to a parade today a lot of Italians there a lot of good food So what I want to do right now is just vibe with her keep it playful and start moving the interaction towards the date still So I come back and send more Italians.
Jeez Sounds like you might have an obsession talking about ghazan. I'm Italian too. So then she says Lol, maybe I do have an obsession and I said well I might be able to help you with that When do you free this week?
By the way? She comes back and says Lol, how are you going to help me with that obsession. I'm free on Thursday or Wednesday night So again, she's giving me options.
This was all very positive so far so I just said I meant like contribute towards increasing your obsession and Okay, I should be free one of those days. I'll let you know. I'll let you know more about my schedule by tomorrow And now it's already kind of late in the in the night So she he texted me the following morning and says it sounds good.
Let me know event so this is still Monday I didn't respond to when she said sounds good, but that night at around 8:30 p. m I facetimed her and since we haven't seen each other since that first night out I want to be able to talk to her get her on the phone Get this kind of funny flirty vibe going just to make her more comfortable about when she actually does come up to see me So I've noticed if you're actually gonna get the girl on a date It's very good to get her on the phone before you guys meet up It's gonna help reduce flaking and it's gonna make her feel more comfortable. So she so I faced I know she didn't pick up an hour later She texts me back and says did you FaceTime me or I made a mistake or you made a mistake, lol So I come back and said I did was just trying to make your day a little bit better than usual with a smiley face It's already late.
She doesn't text me back the next day. She texts me at 11 a. m And says consider my day made which is very positive.
So I text her back an hour later I said mission accomplished next time don't be so shy if I call have a lovely day miss Because that was already Tuesday and she said the only two days that she was free is like Wednesday and Thursday So so she and then she texts me back and says lol have a lovely day mister. So that was Tuesday I waited I didn't text her the rest of Tuesday. I just kind of kept it brief Waited and then Wednesday night I FaceTime her again two days after the initial one Called FaceTime her on Wednesday at like 8:00 8:30 p.
m. She picked up vibed with her for a little bit you know, I'm just teasing having fun with her for maybe three or four minutes and just Went to the callback to the initial conversation about how we could cook and she's gonna bring the wine So the FaceTime went well, we discussed meeting up Thursday. We set a time approximately I figured out her schedule We said like 7:00 7:30 would be good and that I would hit her up in the afternoon to confirm and the reason I do that is it gives me It gives me an excuse to kind of reach out to her in the afternoon the day of the date You know I left it off that like we were gonna meet up but I also said I'll hit you up like when I'm out of work Just to confirm So now I reach out to her on Thursday.
I say hey, I'm good for 7:30. Bring the wine So she says lol. Okay.
See you around 7:15. Send me the address again. I send the address again.
Sounds good See you then. So I asked her I actually asked her if she had any avocado by chance because I had already got home and I was about to start cooking She said no, but I can get it. I said it's okay We don't really need it because I didn't want her to show up even later You know, I wanted more time to hang out with her.
So I said it's okay. We don't need it I'm home and ready. She says, okay.
I'll be there by 7:45. I'm a little late. I figured she was gonna be late Anyway, I just send this sleeping emoji kind of as a joke.
And then she says hey I am here I think so then she came over She actually brought a bottle of wine two avocados and like a fruit platter for my family as well So obviously all very good signs. She came in I was already kind of finishing up the meal just took the food and cracked open the bottle of wine teasing flirting joking Eating getting to know each other and then I and then all while escalating and increasing the vibe Right, so we hung out for about three or four hours good things happened She then left at about 11:00 cuz we both had to work early the next morning. So she said hey, I just got home Thanks for dinner.
It was delicious and I texted her back saying dinner was great. I think I enjoyed dessert even more referring to other things and then I said sweet dreams love so that's exactly how I Texted from hello all the way until the date and now I'm going to show you guys a little bit of what I did after that over the last week or so, so Then I waited Friday Saturday Sunday. I reached out to her on Monday and said all that we'll need that meaning like hello, beautiful She says hola BAE BAE.
How are you? And Then I come back and said lovely at the gym. Unlike somebody I know it's kind of a joke as while We were in person.
She we were talking about the gym and how she wants to go more, but she hasn't been going So again every time I reach out, it's either some cool video some kind of callback joke Something that's gonna get her emotions going. It's never you it's usually not just hey, how are you? You know, I very rarely will do that I'm gonna I'm gonna reach out showing something interesting or something funny So she comes back and says I actually went to the gym this morning.
Lol. I said, oh, okay My hope you had a great weekend. When are you free this week so not too much texting really just hello with a callback or some kind of interesting video and then Quick little vibe and then move schedule the next Meetup.
The texting should not be that much It's really just to set up the next date find out availability and then light-hearted playful humor. That's it Okay, don't overcomplicate the texting She comes back and says I Did thanks. How was your weekend?
I don't know. Maybe maybe Wednesday night. I Said I actually just laid low this week.
I Actually just laid low this weekend cuz I'll be in Charlotte Friday to Sunday coming up Wednesday could work for me too When will you know she says well we can change it for when you come back since it's that time of the month, lol So I just said that my ass off we'll talk tomorrow when I know my schedule. Good night miss and I say that because I Don't want to make it sound like I just want to fuck this girl Even though she says the message like maybe we shouldn't hang out because I'm on my period I'm not like yeah, that's a good point Why don't you hit me up when your periods over that way when you we do hang out we can fuck I don't want to say that So I just say we'll talk tomorrow when I know my schedule Good night, miss and then once I have her on the phone I can joke more and make it sound like it's not just about sex She says okay goodnight. I actually don't call her the next day I was I don't know what I was doing But I was busy but I didn't reach out to her the next day and then Wednesday she reaches out to me So she sends this and it's and right below as she writes.
I feel like doing this to you Which is all very positive obviously, right? So I come back and I say That pic just put so many thoughts in my head. Don't tempt me lol and I like this message because I Don't want to make it sound like it's so much about sex if you keep doing yes, it seems good in the moment but if you just keep texting the girl about sex and about sex over the over time as her emotions start growing she's gonna be like He just likes me because we fucked and every time I'm going to his house and we're just having sex, right?
I don't want to make her feel like that's what it is So instead I actually say that put that pic put so many thoughts in my head Don't tend me on my shit like although I'm saying don't tell me it's kind of keeping it going But it's also making it sound like I don't really want that want the sex that much, right? So it's a good message whenever a girl sends something sexy I kind of like I push it away almost a visit almost as if it's like a taboo thing, but by ironically by doing that I don't come off thirsty for sex and It kind of makes it taboo, which makes the girl want to do it even more So it's all very good. She comes back and says Smiley smiley face three times.
I just send three hearts and we leave it off at that now it's the weekend and I just wanted to send her something cool So I sent her this video of me driving through Charlotte and like showing her the city line and all of that Again, just a cool way of showing I'm doing high-value stuff and I found good lighting So I make myself look good and I'm showing that I'm doing high-value activities when I reach out to her She comes back and says very nice Looking sexy meanwhile she's stuck in traffic and Honestly, that's where we left off because that was just two days ago I actually didn't even respond to that because I was out in Charlotte with a big group, but that's okay I'm gonna reach out to her in the next day or two because she's been wondering what I'm doing. She's watching me on Instagram She's attracted to me enough. I don't need to be texting her all around the clock every day So now when I do reach out, I'm gonna just call her tonight or tomorrow keep the vibe up and and just say hey What's up, like I want to see you.
Are you free this week or when are you free? I'm gonna set up the next day and I'm gonna repeat the process and as her interest level and attraction keeps growing towards me I can slowly start increasing mine as well. I don't want to go Higher than where she's at or even like a Cleveland I'm probably just as her attractions going up and up and interest.
I was going up.
