hey how's it going how old are you man I'm 22 okay how can I help you all right so um I'm just looking for like basically relationship advice um after like something happened to me um essentially I was with um the same girl all throughout College like since freshman year and um just I guess like this is more this is not really relevant but she never like or we never like did anything we were just like like close in general like relationship wise but what does that hold hold up we never did anything what does
that mean like like I yeah I guess we never like had sex is that is that on purpose um well I I brought it up like once or twice and she would um she was just not really like for the idea so I never wanted to like bug her with it so okay hold up Cody before we even get into the story how long were you with this girl for um since freshh so a little more than we're we approaching four years but we're we're currently taking a break from the relationship four years since you
were 18 22 and she ain't gave you no [ __ ] yet in four years no no bro come on bro okay I know I I but I just I didn't want to bring it up you didn't want to bring what up the hell you mean you didn't want to bring it up did you want to have well I mean I it's crossed my mind I just didn't want to like Cody Cody Cody yeah Cody Cody if you have a girlfriend that and you want some intimacy this is not your PIN pal this is not
your buddy buddy what the hell you mean you brought it up how the hell did you get in a relationship with that from with a girl who's not giving you no booty I mean that's like what I thought I mean I thought that I would never really need I just thought it would come with time I mean like four year it's been it's been it's been almost half a decade bro it's been almost half a decade go ahead go go ahead bro go all right so but right now we're we're taking a break because she
doesn't think that I can provide financially like moving forward out of college uh hold up hold up oh hell no oh hell no the girl who ain't G you no ass wants to take a break because you haven't provided but she hasn't provided no booty yeah but I didn't I never looked at it that way what the hell what the [ __ ] Cody are you listening to yourself bro I know it sounds bad when I say it but it it seemed like a normal relationship to me a normal relationship where you're not having sex
with your girlfriend that's not a normal relationship bro I mean we would like like kiss and stuff but I guess we just never like Cody Cody is she a virgin um I I've asked but anytime I talk about it it's like a touchy subject for her so I don't know oh my god oh hell she is I think she is oh hell no oh hell no so she ain't even a virgin is she making you wait four years well I I'm I'm assuming she's a virgin I don't know what she did in high school Cody
Cody Cody come on bro what you been living under a rock you got a go Cody yeah I need you guys to pull y'all head out your own ass man my goodness you were with a girl for this long she she's not a virgin and she's making you wait for four years and now she's telling you that she don't think you can provide yeah which I mean I think like now I can provide a little bit more for [ __ ] I'm not providing for a goddamn thing you should not you provide for what a
girl who haven't G you no ass in four years I know but I I really like I love her you know you don't no you don't you don't love a goddamn thing she's the only girl who gave you attention you don't love [ __ ] you love my ass who the hell did you love she she she gave you attention Cody now you love her well I I just I never really thought about like sex too much it wasn't like a priority to me that's because you never got it but you assumed that eventually you
would get it with a girl that you had in your relationship ship with you have sat up here and let this girl Gaslight you into not even G you no booty then she left your ass and told you you couldn't provide uh I guess this is highway this is highway robbery boy what in the world this this is grade a finessing right here she need to come on a stream he she need to come teach us how the [ __ ] did she finesse your ass for four years to not give you no booty right
now we're just we're kind of talking casually I you know I I kind of let somebody else hit Cody somebody else is in them guts somebody else is mashing just like somebody else sure but yeah we don't just like we don't know that if she was smashing somebody else before you yeah yeah la la land you living in a Disney movie you're living in a fairy tale bro she played you she played you you got played okay so then what you know what should my main focus now be would it be to try to get
her back or go for no why would you want to get a girl back who didn't let you smash for four years she thought she was the one how how what exactly made her different from other girls well well I've never been with another girl exactly ex my exact point she is no different from any other girl she was only she was just the only girl who gave you attention you guys pedestalize women out of scarcity most of men's problems is because we don't have another option A lot of the bull [ __ ] y'all
deal with when it comes to women is because you don't have another option if you had two or three girls who you find attractive you wouldn't be dealing with your girlfriend right now guarantee you all you guys who have a girlfriend right now that's treating you like [ __ ] that's not getting you no ass that's disrespecting you if you had two or three other girls you wouldn't be dealing with her so you're dealing in this you're in a relationship where you're unhappy all because you don't have Choice well I I was pretty happy in
the relation I just she just kind of brought it up out of nowhere that she just thought we should part ways because she was ready to go get some D she she she tired of she was tired of not she was tired of not being stimulated so she wanted to go get stimulated else I don't understand that like I have a like I have a d she wasn't interested in getting it from you I mean I I thought so I don't know I don't know if that was the reason she broke up with me she
told me it was more money yeah okay that's what it is a college student she expecting you to provide how you fall for this [ __ ] does she have a job she doesn't have a I've just been working oh my God y' are y'all hearing this is everybody hearing this she doesn't have a job she didn't let him hit for four years and she told him the reason why she's leaving is because he can't provide when she doesn't have a job provide for what just like like date nights and stuff I would always she
don't have a job what the hell she talking about she don't got no money yeah that's true so so you let a girl we need a moment of silence for you Cody bro I just I don't know what to do now you know we need this is unbelievable Cody this is unbelievable I think this is probably one of the craziest stories I ever heard you let a girl basically finesse you for four years you got nothing out of it and then she left you for some [ __ ] that she doesn't even have yes but
I just like I'm still like attached to her like I guess you're not attached to her no you're not [ __ ] she's the only girl who gave you attention Cody have you ever kissed another girl uh no right so Cody what are we comparing her to nothing there's nobody else to compare her to she's the only one I just I don't know how I would go about approaching new woman here we go this is what I'm here for you start the try you first need to be aware that you got finessed and that you
that should never happen again guys this is man man you [ __ ] are lucky I'm on this side good it can't be this easy you mean to tell me I can have a dude in my life for four years not give him no booty and then leave him and and say he can't provide when I don't even have a job what the world is going on listen you can't let this happen to you again you do not be with a woman who is not romantically interested in you if that's what you want sex is
important to me guys I'm not sugarcoating a goddamn thing if we ain't [ __ ] we ain't talking because that's important to me sexual chemistry is important to me if you don't like sex maybe because you haven't had it that's a different thing but you you sound like you wanted to at least experience it and she didn't even let you experience it but wasted four years of your damn life and then left you for some [ __ ] she gave you a [ __ ] reason why she left you so I need you to wake
up snap out of it wake up back into reality this is not the kind of girl we need to get in a relationship with because I just wasted four years of my life kissing kissing blue balls that's all you got for four years blue balls you got nothing out of this so if I'm going to talk to girls moving forward they need to bring something in my life and yeah I'm G provide hold up Cody if I'm gonna provide I'm gonna provide for a girl who is adding to my life not a girl who is
finessing me okay I I just like I've never I've never really had to think about um anybody new and I I just I feel like I would need some sort of connection with someone before um we like ever got to like sex or anything like that you had a connection with a girl for four years who didn't let you [ __ ] so what you talking about which connection connection what well like I I just thought our connection would grow but I guess I was like wrong bro there no world bro how many of you
guys can connect without getting some ass raise raise your hand if you connect everybody who watching right now can you connect with a girl if she ain't [ __ ] you because I can't I don't know how you I don't know which connecting we gonna do connect no no no no no no no no no I'm I'm good we ain't connecting on a goddamn thing yeah I mean I I might see myself there one day I just now especially after what happened I just I don't see myself like doing something like that like going to
a party and like I'm not I'm not asking you to I'm not I'm not telling you hold on one second Alexa turn on desk light okay Cody I'm not asking you to go sleep around I'm asking you to not waste another four years of your life which is what you did you spent four years with this girl who didn't even let you smash and she left you for some [ __ ] you got nothing out of this you didn't even improve your sex game you can't man if I'm gonna be with a girl for four
years at least my dick game wonna be on point I didn't you got nothing you didn't even get no experience you got blue balls and kisses so I just what am I looking for in a girl to like know that I guess she's providing for me like you said she has to be adding more to your life than you are adding to hers she can't be telling you no [ __ ] like oh you don't have a job uh you need to provide for me when you don't got a damn job okay and and listen
for most men maybe not you yet but sex is important to us because we share our emotional connection through sex that's how we relate to a woman I don't I don't really connect if we ain't [ __ ] I don't even know if I like you for you that might take some time but you don't want to be in a position where you're with a girl and like she just using you for some free she somebody [ __ ] in the she just want you booty understand why she would do that because wh Cody you're
a guy with no clue about women you're easy target this is what I keep telling y'all about not understanding women and why it's it's a it's a one-way Street to to to to lose a doom if I if you get if I'm a girl who maybe who got who's of Chad and Tyrone uh breaking my heart good old Cody that doesn't need some that hasn't even been with a girl he's gonna validate my feelings and I don't even have to [ __ ] him sign me up where's the where's the pen and paper sign me
up didn't she waste like four years of her life too like no women love attention you gave her free attention and validation that's like us getting free sex for four years with with no commitment that's literally what it is imagine if a girl all you guys who are watching imagine a girl just came over and gave you some ass and left for four years what sign me up sign me up where's the pen and paper what any girl to take that that's an easy deal free attention inv validation then I could leave his ass whenever
I want and then blame it make it make it let it let the reason be some [ __ ] sign me up so should I start looking for like girls and talk to multiple at like once or should I look for one girl that I no looking for one girl is not always goingon to help you right now I want you to find listen create a document a document about what exactly you want from a woman let sex be included in that because that's important to you let's stop dwindling let's stop minimizing that like it's
not important to you you eventually want to have a partner that you sleep with yes or no yes yes okay so that's something it doesn't have to be the first day but you eventually want a part that you can sleep with so when you're dating women several women you got to be looking out for bad signals looking out to see if she trying to use you for attention you got a whole lot of vetting that you need to be doing bro okay all right speaking of vetting listen this is for you specifically I don't want
you to date any other girl in your life Cody until you do this one second this is for you Cody it's called My boundary blueprint this is the the boundaries you're going to have in your relationship moving forward I want you to create a list create a list for those all right I got another one for you I got I got another one for you called Street smarts so all you guys this is to know if she's for the streets so can't finesse you moving forward every Cody you the street smarts one and the boundary
blueprint one including everybody else in here download it it's free okay thank you have a going one guys what we are not gonna do this is this is coming from the bottom of my heart guys do not let people try to create standards for you don't let Society try to tell you what you should and shouldn't want from a woman no thank you if what I believe as a man is what I'm going to get from my woman it's no way you going to [ __ ] finess my ass for four years not give me
no sex and and then I'm just supposed to be okay with that
