Discovered My Girlfriend Wanted an Open Relationship to Cover Up Her Existing Affair.

discovered my girlfriend wanted an open relationship to cover up her existing Affair hello everyone I'm Rick 29 male my ex-girlfriend Taylor 27 female and I were in a relationship for 3 years and at the end we were planning on getting married I made a shocking Discovery I first met my girlfriend at an organization I went to for a job interview she was one of the applicants while waiting for the interview we broke into a conversation and exchanged our contacts while leaving after the interview ideally I thought I would get the job because I was very

qualified unfortunately I didn't clear it but she did we soon started chatting and she helped with any interview leads and shared the tips that helped her crack the last one luckily I got one a couple of months later and we became friends aside from being in the same career field one of the things that attracted me to my girlfriend was her witty conversations sense of humor and the energy she gave off when I met Taylor I had no intention of falling in love with her it just happened I only asked for her number because she

looked like the kind of witty friend I'd love to have in my circle of friends to be more specific we exchanged numbers to keep each other posted about the job we were interviewing for eventually as we got closer we fell in love and started dating we dated for almost 3 years before I learned something that destroyed our relationship during the years we dated Taylor and I lived together for a year but after one year she said that she wanted to shift back with her best friend her reason was that we would anyways be living together

after the wedding hence she wanted to spend her bachelorhood with her best friend I didn't see that as a problem and gladly gave her the space she needed she visited me on weekends and stayed over some days so basically she was living both with me and her best friend she kept Shuffling from my house to hers we were a beautiful power couple and even without telling people we were dating they could quickly tell from how we acted whenever we were out together in the past I had been in a committed relationship once after the relationship

ended badly I decided to take a break but everything changed when I met Taylor throughout our relationship I supported Taylor in everything she did I encouraged her to take courses work harder and invested my all in her from the second year of our relationship I knew she was the woman I would marry because she ticked all the boxes she knew how to care for me and love me and she also handled other areas of our relationship well the first year we lived together we split bills and took care of everything together but after she started

shuffling between my house and her best friend's house the split of bills stopped on her anniversaries and birthdays I gifted her the things I knew she loved just to make her happy to be honest she was my priority all the time I sacrificed a lot for her and tried everything I could to keep our relationship happy I didn't do all this because I was desperate to be with her I did it because I valued our relationship and wanted it to be all around peace and happiness for us I remember this vividly shortly before Taylor started

shuffling between my house and her best friend's house one night as we were watching a movie she asked a weird question out of the blue she asked for my opinion on open relationships I instantly remarked that people who had open relationships were not in love with each other and laughed she took offense and tried to counter my statement she went on and on to tell me that she knew many couples in open relationships and they loved each other so much she told me that I sounded archaic I didn't take it seriously and change the topic

another day we were having dinner together and suddenly she asked what do you think about us having an open relationship initially I thought she was pulling my leg but after I saw her facial expression I knew she was serious there and then I kicked against the idea of having an open relationship and told her I'd prefer to be single than to have an open relationship after that day she never brought it up again and I didn't think about it too even before our relationship started I told Taylor that the thing I hated most in a

relationship was a cheating and lying spouse I would not forgive her if she ever cheated on me I repeatedly said this because of the wounds I got from my previous relation Rel ship I did not want a situation where I would give my heart to her and she would shatter it by cheating on me this was the main reason I also ensured that our relationship would not be ruined from my end soon after Taylor moved out I noticed some changes in her attitude it began with her standing me up on our dates we had the

rule of going out every Friday evening whether going for a walk in the park eating at a food truck or going to a fancy restaurant we always went out every Friday because she wasn't living with me anymore the deal was for her to come to my apartment and we'd go out together together when it all started she would keep me waiting for hours and if I kept calling her she would either not take my calls or ask us to reschedule the meeting because something urgent came up other times she would cancel on me a couple

of minutes before our meeting time and claimed she thought she had sent me a text about the cancellation when that happened I should have been smart enough to know something was wrong instead I bought all her excuses and encouraged her to work less since most of her excuses had to do with her office even though it was annoying when she canceled almost all the time I didn't take it to heart because I was the understanding boyfriend fast forward a year after she moved out Taylor and I became so distant despite living in the same town

it felt like we were in a long-distance relationship she got promoted at her office which took even more of her time she started traveling a lot with her team and we barely saw each other whenever she was back in town things got so bad that we only relied on WhatsApp messages sometimes I would even send her messages and she would not read them but she'd continually make WhatsApp updates when it got to the extent that I could not take things anymore I talked to her best friend to talk to her but that didn't yield any

results eventually I confronted Taylor about our diminishing relationship and she claimed work was taking much of her time this excuse was funny because I knew her job wasn't meant to take up her time like that even Freelancers working with different clients simultaneously had more time than Taylor did after the confrontation Taylor promised to improve and for 2 months she did she called more often responded to my message messages on time and even updated me on her daily activities she even started spending the weekend with me after a long time of not visiting my house her

changes made me happy and I was beginning to feel like we were back on track I didn't want to sound like an enemy of progress so I didn't ask her to find another job instead we agreed on how to cope with her busy schedule when this happened I felt it was time to finally settle down Taylor had never mentioned anything about getting married and I believe she wanted me to bring up the topic on my own as the man so I got an expensive engagement ring and planned to propose to her the next time she

came over for the weekend that weekend when she came on Friday as she usually did we went to a fancy restaurant to eat and I took the ring with me but something within me didn't allow me to do it I could not proposed to her there as I intended later that night when we returned home she fell asleep in the middle of our Friday movie night I knew she was tired because she had been complaining of tiredness since she came over to my place out of love I took her to the bedom room and tucked

her in bed when I returned to watch the movie we were watching I noticed her phone was stuck in the old couch seat and I pulled it out for her while I was watching the movie I thought about going through her phone but I resisted it during the early stage of our relationship we used to have access to each other's phones because we had nothing to hide so after contemplating for a while I grabbed her phone but it required fingerprint access sincerely I was too lazy to return to the room to get her fingerprint and

I was trying as hard as possible to not be a nosy partner but my curiosity got the best of me and when I finally had access to her phone through her fingerprints I was shocked at what I saw the very first place I went through was her call log apart from me and her best friend I wanted to see if she was talking to someone else regularly I didn't even go down her call log when I saw a contact saved as Daddy it was really confusing because her dad was late and she wasn't close to

any of her older family members except her mom I know it wasn't my number either because my contact was saved with my name just above it she had spoken to Daddy Thrice during the day and a few minutes before arriving at my apartment that evening out of curiosity I went through her WhatsApp to find the contact and it was right there at the top of her messages there were messages from daddy she had not read yet because she had slept off when I opened the message I realized they had been communicating the whole evening even

while we were at the restaurant at first glance I could tell that everything was wrong with their chat because of the Emojis they used so I decided to start from the beginning of their conversation I was shocked to find out that Taylor and her boss were in a relationship she was in another relationship while we were still together and according to what I read she told her boss she was in an open relationship with me until marriage their conversation dated way back and I had goosebumps when I found out their relationship started around the same

time she started asking questions about open relationships not just that Taylor had an abortion for him once and she was greatly compensated with money and part of her compensation was the promotion she got I was heartbroken and wished I could unread everything I saw another heart- wracking part was that they mentioned me in some of their conversations and said all kinds of things about me as I continued to read I found out that it was her daddy's idea for her to start spending the weekend with me she didn't even want to he asked her to

do it so I wouldn't get jealous that someone else was taking more of her time after a lot of persuasion from him she agreed he also explained that he wanted her to get busy with me so he could also have time for his own family he said his family was already complaining about him and his wife was beginning to suspect that he was cheating on her and he didn't want that that was the most ridiculous thing I had read and it hurt to find out that the calls messages and updates did not come genuinely from

Taylor that night I sat on the couch unsure what to do I thought of various ways of confronting and exposing her at one moment I thought of waking her with a bucket of cold water and yelling at her to explain everything but I had anger issues and I knew that idea would take me to jail for physical assault so I went for a walk to clear my head and think properly before leaving the house I exported the entire chat and sent it to myself then marked the last messages unread after hours of walking with no

destination I came up with an idea similar to the one I had on Reddit it was very difficult to pull this through but I did it the whole weekend I kept my cool like nothing had happened and before she left on Sunday evening the following week I went to her office on a Tuesday since it was a corporate organization I was asked to wait for her while I waited I handed out printed copies of the chat between Taylor and her boss to everyone I bumped into including the receptionist by the time Taylor came to see

me many people were holding the copies and they were in shock one of the men in her office immediately shouted I knew it or I knew it I told you something was going on but you all said I talked too much Taylor was confused and when she asked what was going on I handed her a copy as soon as she glanced through it she flung The Copy and tried to hold me with what I had done I knew the news would spread to HR meaning she would no longer have a job I love how everyone

looked at her as I walked out of the room and as she ran after me just as I was about to enter my car and drive off she ran held my arm and said she could explain shortly after I arrived home she dashed out of a taxi without shoes and came to beg me she kept banging on my house door and because of this the neighbors came out it was so annoying but I used the opportunity to throw out the few things she left at my place through the window and I told her to go

and be with her daddy she still refused to leave and her best friend arrived after an hour her best friend tried to speak to me from outside but when I didn't respond she packed all the stuff I threw and dragged Taylor inside her car since then Taylor has been blowing up my phone and she has literally called all my friends to help her beg me to take her back it's so brave of her to think we could ever be together after everything she's done now the deal is despite everything she has done I still love

her but I do not want to be with her I've been trying to get over everything and move on but she has been begging me to see and talk I know it's stupid but I have fixed a meeting with her for next week and I'm confused about what to do to I can't get over the memories we shared in my apartment almost everything in it reminds me of her my heart wants her but being with her will be disastrous for me has anyone had a similar experience I look forward to your comments I think you

know exactly what to do she was seeing someone else behind your back and she even managed to get pregnant from this man and have an abortion not only that but you even said it yourself you'd rather be single than a man in an open relationship so what are you so confused about op why would you stay in a relationship with someone who has cheated on you update one hello everyone thank you for your comments I'm glad to know others have been in the same situation you're all right even if I agree to give Taylor another

chance she will cheat on me again women like her are never content and will always have an excuse to cheat two days ago Taylor and I met as we had scheduled and immediately she saw me she started crying and making a scene I was even embarrassed because we were at the park and I tried to pretend everything was fine after we had settled she told me she had never believed in monogamy from the onset and she thought I was the kind of man that would love an open relationship as our relationship progressed but when she

suggested that we have an open relationship and I kicked against it she was disappointed and decided to do her thing it was funny for her to think I would never find out about her relationship she even said she had no intentions of telling me and she intended to stop once I proposed to her or married her but nothing she said matched what I had read on her WhatsApp chat when I asked her about the abortion she started sobbing and apologizing she said the pregnancy was mine but she needed the promotion badly so she lied to

her boss and claimed she was pregnant for him because she knew he wouldn't let her keep it in order to terminate the pregnancy she negotiated a promotion and a huge amount of money to travel to another state for the process at this point I didn't even know if she was telling the truth and I was really pained that she intended to fool me until we married she of all people knew how I was protective of her body she knew I would never want to share her with anybody yet she cheated on me with her boss

someone here commented that I asked her what she wanted and when I did she said she wanted us to return to the way we used to be I told her that was impossible because she had ruined her only chance and no matter how much I loved her we could never return to the way we used to be hearing this she stood up immediately and made a scene she started yelling at me called me names and said she had been putting up with me for years so the least I could do was stick with her she

said she had been doing me favors and it was her turn to collect then she walked out on me by this time I didn't even know she had been fired from work and her boss had been fired along with her she desperately wanted me to take her back and that's why she tried everything possible also I recently learned that her best friend knew she was having an affair but didn't say anything they collaboratively played me for a fool and kept me in the dark just this evening she called and said she'd be coming over tomorrow

and we are not breaking up until she says so I have never seen her act this way and it's terrifying I told her not to come or I'll call the police whatever happens I'll make another update soon why would she want to stay with you if she's been putting up with you like why would she want to stick with you if she can hardly stand you and if she loves open relationship so much why would she suddenly change her mind once marrying you of course she'll still cheat on you but she wouldn't even consider it

cheating according to her it's not cheating if it's an open relationship update 2 hello everyone sorry it took so long for me to make another update something happened and I had to take care of that before making another update so Taylor came over like she had said when we talked and I officially told her it was over between us she laughed she said she had no regrets about cheating on me because she did everything for her career and she saw no harm in it this is how I knew she would keep cheating on me even

after we married I was so pissed so I grabbed her arm and tried to throw her out of my apartment but she pushed me violently when I fell and hit my arm she pulled a mega hammer out of her purse and started destroying things in the house she destroyed the TV my new laptop and several other things I called the police to report harassment and just as she was tearing up my apartment the police drove in also one of my neighbors had called the police when she heard the argument and Loud crashes in the house

even she could not believe that Taylor would act that way eventually the police came in and Taylor was arrested because I missed my step when she pushed me with Force I fell and broke my left arm after healing my arm I sued Taylor in court the first reason was for a refund of the money I spent in the the hospital and the second was for her to pay for all the damages she made in my apartment when we went to court the judge asked for pictures of the damages and my hospital bills and everything amounted

to almost $7,000 I could not even replace them because it was so expensive after the judge was done talking with me she turned to Taylor and asked her some questions overall Taylor admitted to damaging things in my house and she claimed she broke my laptop and destroyed other things as her payback for making her lose her job the judge was Furious and passed judgment against her as I make this update Taylor has been ordered to replace my laptop fix the appliances she destroyed and she has started refunding the money I spent at the hospital now

she knows we can never be a thing again and that has made her so miserable worst of all she cannot get another job in our town because she has been blacklisted I feel so fulfilled that she has to go through all of this misery and has gotten what she deserves I say thank you to everyone that commented on my main post I appreciate all of your comments wow that's some seriously unstable Behavior and why do that it only costs her in the end not only money but it cost her her job that she apparently worked

so hard for she worked hard all right worked her magic and pushed it up right onto her boss you were collateral damage Opie I'm sorry what do you make of this share your thoughts in the comments below and thank you for joining us today be sure to like And subscribe and hit that notification Bell so you don't miss out on our next video until next time