hitting the girl with a negative Spike builds your value up think about it like this you're in a friend group you start doing well your status starts going up you got promotion you're doing really good in life confidence your looks going up everything's going up and you have these toxic ass friends and they don't like the fact that your status is going up so instead of building their status up they'll talk [ __ ] on you to try to lower your status to try to make it back to being equal status now I'm not approving
of that I think that's stupid if you do have toxic friends in your life you should remove them and cut them out but something to understand that when you're in an interaction with a girl if you can dis-tease neg push the girl away it doesn't actually bring her status down it just puts you up it puts your status up just think about the toxic friends talking [ __ ] to bring your status down it's almost like that and I'm not telling you to be toxic or like actually talk [ __ ] I'm just saying negative
emotional spikes actually boosts your value it's the equivalent of talking shadows I'm gonna bring them down except this form I approve of so instead like if you're talking to the girl and she guesses something right instead of just congratulating her oh my God that was so good why you're so good at this how did you learn this or wow I'm so impressed play around with it before she gets it instead of just congratulating her be like how did okay that's like weird even if it's impressive it's like okay wait that's [ __ ] I'm weirded
out or if she gets to the answer right it's like wow that was [ __ ] racist you played the serious note as if like you're offended even though like later on you're like no honestly like you got it right though I don't know why I was giving you [ __ ] but no you actually got it right yeah so believe it or not my family was actually from there dudes are just positive emotional Spike positive emotional Spike positive emotional Spike it's boring and predictable and most importantly it's it's not high value or high status
doing these things triggers High status triggers attraction you got to get to a point where you do too much negative Spike and the girls gonna say something like why are you even talking to me then do you even like me why are you still talking to me but here's the thing even if you get to that point you didn't lose the girl it just means now you got to inject a little bit more positive you don't want to always get to that point I'm not trying to get to the point where the girl's like asking
me those things that's just an indication that you went too far but until you hear that you haven't gone far enough and then eventually you'll start to figure out where the sweet spot is you guys need to pay attention to the vibe and the delivery that I'm giving you right now and you need to practice this yourself you need to be able to replicate that Vibe and that delivery I mean if you want to write down the words word for word that's good too these are good sound bites you could use so the girl says
oh you thought I was Middle Eastern do you think I'm ugly most dudes are gonna be like no I think you're gorgeous or no I think you're cute it's like don't jump right into that and play around with the [ __ ] answer wait do you think Middle Easterns are ugly wait do you think I think you're ugly do you and then I'll like exaggeratedly look her up and down nice and slow really interesting no honestly typically I'm usually only into blank kind of girls you know it's actually you know that what I like about
you that I noticed I have fun talking like you're bubbly and like genuine I like that I'm not pedestalizing I'm not like you're gorgeous I said a little bit about personality I just kind of like threw it and she's like tiny and cute and anytime I give a comma afterwards I could say I like that and listen to the way I said it too it's like genuine but it's like it's coming from a high Value Place you could say that after anything you got a really cute smile by the way I like that I like
that throw that in after you you display your intent no you ever make a really genuine Vibe I like that you have a really cute smile by the way I like that you have really nice eyes I just noticed your eyes by the way they're really adorable I like that the last time I dragged it out a little bit to exaggerated to you guys but it makes it sound like it's coming from more of a high Value Place when you add that sound bite right afterwards I like that it implies that it met your standard
and you're almost like impressed or like surprised because it doesn't typically meet your standard I actually notice it knows much you have like blah blah blah I like that it's like okay like who the [ __ ] is this guy but it's like you're coming from a position of high back and when every single thing you do in the set conveys that high value guess what the girl's gonna [ __ ] categorize you as like a high value dude I hope you guys enjoyed this video if you're interested in implementing any of the concepts taught
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