to obtain what you want instead of getting mad at him do this hello my beautiful Darlings welcome back to my channel I hope you're having an amazing day today today we're going to talk about feminine communication again how to communicate with a man when it comes to conflict you need to be strategic about your communication when it comes to conflict most women don't know how to deal with conflicts with men as you know masculine men want to be respected and during conflict this is the time where women are the most disrespectful most of the time
you have to be very strategic and know how to handle conflict like a true Queen like an unbothered Queen how to Tru be able to deal with that conflict in a feminine way with your feminine energy you don't need to scream you don't need to argue you don't need to get angry you're going to obtain whatever you want and he is also going to be extremely happy about it it's a win-win situation for the both of you if you are in your feminine energy using what God gave you which is being a woman we have
to utilize that instead of just being in conflict in a masculine way it's never going to work you're never going to win against him he's definitely more masculine than you there is no way you're going to resolve the conflict going in front in a masculine way arguing with him and being in sort of a competition you know in sort of a war against him why they'll laugh at you she's not at all like you've characterized her look I made this whole show up out a thin air it's all a fairy tale and TP sicker is
any cockey thing I say she is I'd be careful Mr Daniel Miller she might hear you say that and she might not like it it is never going to work instead use your feminine energy you're an artist you could be if you reached out I don't mind telling you I've been kind of bullheaded and stubborn myself oh but you have a right to be after all what do I know about the theater I don't know you you've had a couple of pretty good ideas now you're just being nice to me you know I've been giving
a lot of thought to what you've been saying all along with a masculine man how you handle conflict will tell him everything but first just wanted to let you know that if you want to see more of my content I talk about fashion femininity old Hollywood glamour Seduction dating and anything to make you become a highly feminine lady to upgrade your confidence upgrade your life and make you feel amazing feel free to join the channel the link is down down below and also follow me on my Instagram and on Tik Tok also ladies if you
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your interaction with others you can join my body language Master Class the link is down below as well so how to deal with conflict and stay feminine and unbothered my advice number one would be stay calm and collected as I always say a high value woman a fan F her biggest asset is to stay calm and collected is her elegance and her Grace no matter the situation you stay calm and collected even in front of an argument in front of your partner in front of your husband or your boyfriend you need to Center yourself before
responding to the conflict it is essential ladies it allows you to approach a situation with a clear mind instead of being in your emotions you are going to say things that you're going to probably regret you're going to say things that maybe you don't think and maybe you're going to be hurtful towards him maybe it's going to make the situation even worse so first of all I want you to stay calm and I want you to take a step back from the situation before discussing about the issue you need to practice deep breath no matter
what any time you have a conflict with someone you take a deep breath you visualize yourself calming yourself down being in a soft delicious place and when you're calm this is when people pay attention to what you have to say this this is why I always say slow down your tone slow down your voice you sound way more purposeful more confident more self assured about what you're saying and a woman that is able to do that a woman that is able to stay calm and collected that is able to handle her emotions and handle a
conflict in a feminine way is the most attractive thing for a masculine man a masculine man would really really love that because this is extremely rare now day everyone is all over the place and very dramatic if you are this lady that is elegant able to be composed able to handle the situation with grace and elegance then you are a unicorn you are rare and you're going to stand out and once you ready to have a conversation with him I want you to think about the time when is the best time to approach him and
discuss about the issue is he traveling is he meeting a client does he have a lot of work to do you cannot do that when he is traveling meeting a client very busy with work and stressed with work um it is not going to be the best time to approach him about the issue because you're going to add more stress to him you never going to have the respon that you want you never want to address an issue in front of other people or in public absolutely never ladies really never never criticize a man or
talk about an issue that you have with him anything like that in front of friends in front of family in front of other people or in public always wait to be in a private space with him alone and when he is feeling good when he's calm he's not stressed about something I was sort of sugar coating it when I said his restaurant was very successful the truth is he mismanaged that pizza joint right into the ground wait for the right moment so that he can actually listen to you and listen to your concerns I wanted
to also think about how do you want this situation to end right what do you want at the end of this conflict at the end of do you want to resolve the conflict how do you want to resolve it so I don't want you to just have a conflict just to have a conflict and talk for hours so I'm telling you masculine men they don't like to talk for hours they don't like to talk about an issue again and again and again and again like they want to resolve it they are Problem Solver so if
you bring up the issue what do you want right you have to think about what you want out of this what do you want what do you want it's not that simple what do you want do you want him to apologize do you want him to change his behavior do you want him to Simply understand your point of view sometimes we as women we just want to be understood people that are high value people that are elevated people that are smart and that have things to do in their life even us as high value women
woman we don't have time for drama for the sake of drama so we want to resolve the conflict so think about what you want him to do then I want you to include a little bit of humor into it I know we are in a state of just being angry and feeling that our feelings have been hurt but I want you to diffuse the tension a little bit and include a little bit of humor when you're talking you want to add warmth this is the feminine energy when you add warmth you add your childlike spirit
your cutesy um cute little bubble you know how you express it this is going to be very important what you say your tone of voice so your tone of voice is going to be one of the most important thing about your communication having a calm tone of voice as a feminine woman is going to give more weight to what you have to say he's going to listen to you more rather than if you are like I don't like when you do this like like an aggressive tone instead use words like I feel I feel hurt
I don't feel understood or or I didn't really like when you said that it really hurt my feelings anything that has to do with your feelings because you are in your feminine energy you can still Express a boundary and you can still be a little bit assertive but still in a calm way it doesn't need to be screaming it doesn't need to be like about screaming cursing really um being kind of threatening into each other like you're in a war or you know like pointing your finger or being very aggressive in your body language and
in your tone of voice even for you it's not good for you it's not good for your health to get that angry so men have a big ego ladies so sometimes the best way to address a criticism or something that you dislike about your partner is to address it as a little sandwich and that goes for men too I think um that goes for everyone this is a good advice for everyone you start with something positive with a compliment about him like I really enjoy I really love the fact that you take care of me
and you provide then you bring the issue and then you end it with another positive aspect or another compliment for example I love the fact that you take care of me and you're always there for me and I would really love if you can take care of the trash situation because I think you handle it way better than me I would really need your help on this you see a compliment an issue that needs to be fixed it's not an attack here it's just an issue that needs to be fixed it's not about him it's
not you never take out the trash I'm so tired I always have to do it why don't you ever take out the trash do you see the difference here I present him the issue you present him the problem and you let him fix it you never say you have to do this you have to do this like you're never controlling okay you're never saying do this do that like like a mother no you present him the issue I need help the damel in distress I need help with this you let him prove to you that
he is this masculine man that is strong you let him be the hero in your eyes he's going to feel so much better by this instead of just nagging and controlling him don't say I will do it because you never do it like let him be your hero let him be this masculine man that is going to handle the issue um a lot lot of the time women complain about men not helping them but they don't let them do it also I would say avoid saying always or never you always do this you never do
this you never do that you always do this it does not help it really does not help most of the time it is not true and it does not help in an argument it really those absolute word never helps I want you to actively listen also when you are in a discussion I would say more discussion than argument I prefer to discuss issues rather than argue about issues um I want you to be an active listener I want you to genuinely listen instead of always thinking about what you're going to say next instead of having
you know listen to his point of view okay calm down for a minute and listen to truly what he has to say and how he feels have a little bit of empathy for his point of view of course if he did something really bad it's okay to be mad when did an issue that you can resolve by communicating this is always good to listen to his point of view maintain an open body language that you're open to receive what he has to say you avoid interrupting okay I know it's very hard when you are in
this triggered mode but that's why I want you to calm down first before talking to him you are in that case coming from a place of neutrality you're not coming from a place of I am right I am right or I am completely wrong you're coming from place of neutrality of of expressing what you have to say but also listening to what he has to say please ladies pay attention to your body language don't cross your arms don't ey roll like that this is going to be seen as disrespectful and the man in front of
you is going to not want to express himself and express what he feels right and masculine men you know they're not really about their feelings mostly they are very action oriented they're very focused they don't really talk about their feelings that much but they will talk about it and they will be a bit more vulnerable with the woman that they love so if they are actually making the effort to be vulnerable with you and expressing what is their concern the least you can do is listen to him and not being so aggressive about it and
being like H H like dismissive also I would say physical touch is so amazing to resolve any conflict especially as a feminine lady our femininity is is a big Power you have no idea it can resolve a conflict just being feminine just changing your tone of voice just being soft suddenly that oh actually she's not a threat in front of me she's not this masculine dominant lady that want to control me that no she's this little angel this little flower that I need to protect and I love her that's how he needs to feel about
you even in a conflict right so if you are more calm you're using physical touch it's going to connect you too again and I want you of course to be clear on what you want to be clear on your boundaries like the thing that really men don't understand sometimes is when we don't talk and we don't say anything and we want him to figure out why we are mad we are just giving the silent treatment we're just mad but we don't say why we're mad and they're like are you okay and we're like I'm fine
right we all know what that means but they're not reading our minds ladies like they don't have superpowers they cannot know why sometimes telling him why you're mad and what is the issue and telling him about your boundaries clearly it's okay to be clear about your boundaries I don't tolerate that I don't want that out of a man it is not attractive to me when a man does that don't feel guilty for prioritizing your needs and expressing your boundaries and expressing what's your concern but the next thing I would like to say is also choose
your battles wisely because it is okay to express what's your concern but not all conflict are worth engaging in okay I see a lot of women and they engage in Conflict constantly just for the purpose of conflict like for nothing and it's important to know when to speak up when it's actually really important to speak up and when it's just something small and it's okay to let it go is this worth really making a big deal out of this and really making the relationship less enjoyable and having an argument and maybe damaging your relationship over
this as wom we really emotional sometimes we get triggered and this is the thing like this is about getting triggered by certain things be careful about your triggers we're all getting triggered by different things personally I'm not really getting triggered by a lot of things I'm very calm and collected I don't but I wanted to consider the potential outcome talking about it having an argument with him or just ignoring it if you ignore it what is going to happen right is it going to be worth really having a fight over this because he did not
put his shoes in the right place you know some men also they don't understand why sometimes we create an argument for small little things and then afterwards it's argument after argument after argument and they are tired of it and we are tired of it and of course it is this applies to masculine men masculine men when you say a concern they will want to help they will want to do something about it if you have a man that is in his feminine energy and I encourage you to see my video about feminine men I will
link it below if you express concern even in a feminine way if you have a man child that never helps you maybe that's him in that case that never want to make you happy never listen to your issues never listen to your concern but in general I still want to emphasize about choosing your battles this is essential ladies we cannot just argue and nag about every single little thing nagging is not sexy okay this is not even how you obtain things nagging is mothering and I encourage you to see my videos also about how to
stop mothering your man this is very important because mothering a man doesn't want a mother a man doesn't want to romance his mother okay if you are acting like his mother always nagging complaining about something something like do this do that being controlling he is not going to like it he's not going to do it you're not going to obtain whatever you want I want to say during an argument I want you to focus on the things you agree on instead of the things you disagree on everybody wants to be understood everybody wants to be
valued and seen and if you really really disagree with everything a man says this is not helping so instead of being against each other like an like a war like an Army against another Army you want to be next to each other you want to be as partners you want to resolve the situation together as a team they are on your side now okay they're not a threat against you finding Mutual solution I want you to activate his masculine energy in that case you know finding a solution together I told you masculine men are solution
oriented and you can say to him I want to fix this what should we do you activate his masculine energy of just being like I want to fix the issue I wanted to also be aware of your own personal triggers ladies so for example if he says well you did not really listen to me here and you have a triggered about it because you had an argument in the past about that particular thing of you not listening to him then you're going to have a trigger and an intense reaction about it right so be aware
of your own triggers you can feel like you have to be self-aware and you can feel when you feel overly angry suddenly so my last advice would be I want you to practice self-care ladies because I always say that in all of my videos but it is very good to be able to handle conflict in a feminine way because it recenter everything to yourself and to your calm demeanor and your feminine energy inside your body I want you to be this unbothered queen that does not care about what people think that is not getting triggered
by everything a man does or everything a man says and getting angry is bad bad for your health it's bad for your body it makes you have stress inside of you it can cause disease self-care is essential for your emotional well-being and for being emotionally intelligent for having this calm demeanor if you are in a conflict with a man and you want to calm down it's essential to engage in nourishing your body nourish your body exercising deep breath as I said sometimes it can really calm you down to just go for run outside it can
really oh my God it really calms me down like do some Pilates do some dance release the tension out of your body do a hobby do something you really enjoy to release the tension inside of you thank you so much for watching my beautiful Darlings I hope you liked it and I hope it was really helpful for you if you want more videos like this about feminine communication let me know what other subject you want to see don't forget to subscribe and like the video and also follow me on my Instagram follow me also on
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