you know that feeling when you walk into a room and someone just draws you in like you can't help but want to talk to them well what if I told you that you could be that person yes you heard me right these habits aren't just for the Chosen Few they're for everyone and trust me once you start using them you'll wonder how you ever lived without them but here's the thing if you don't learn these habits you might be missing out on some amazing connections think about all those times you wished you could just walk
up to someone and start a conversation or when you wanted to make a great first impression but didn't know how well those days are about to be history so are you ready to become a people magnet let's Jump Right In ladies it's time to embody your inner royalty the queen bee posture is about commanding your space and showing confidence you know how bees follow their Queen well that's going to be you here's how Stand Tall shoulders back chin up imagine a string pulling you up from the top of your head feel that stretch that's the
posture of a queen when you walk move with purpose move those arms gently take confident steps but listen I understand sometimes we all feel a bit slouchy correct on those days try this small trick before you enter a room take a deep breath expand your chest just a little and think of a time when you felt completely powerful keep keep that feeling with you as you walk remember confidence is like a magnet when you display that queen bee posture people will naturally be attracted to your energy so stand up straight your majesty your kingdom Waits
now let's move on to our next habit ever wonder why the Mona Lisa is so captivating it's all in that mysterious slightly playful smile and guess what you can rock it too the Mona Lisa smile is your secret weapon for instant raction it's not a full-on grin and it's definitely not a frown it's that subtle warm smile that says I've got a fun secret and maybe I'll share it with you here's how to nail it relax your face then gently lift the corners of your mouth think of something that makes you feel warm and fuzzy
inside maybe it's your favorite dessert or a cute puppy video let that feeling show in your eyes now now you've got the Mona Lisa Smile down pat practice this in the mirror ladies it might feel a bit weird at first but trust me it's a game Cher when you're out and about try flashing this smile at someone watch how they respond I bet they'll smile right back all right now that we've got your posture and smile on point let's move on to something even more mesmerizing ladies get ready to dance with your eyes the eye
contact Tango is all about making a connection that goes beyond words it's like having a secret conversation without saying a thing here's how it works when you're talking to someone make eye contact for about 3 to 5 seconds then Look Away briefly before making eye contact again it's like a little dance hence the Tango but wait there's a trick to it don't just stare blankly really look at the person notice the color of their eyes the emotion behind them show genuine interest it's not about being creepy or intense it's about being present and engaged I
know I know for some of us eye contact can feel awkward if that's you try this start by looking at the spot between their eyebrows it'll feel less intense for you but they'll still feel that connection and here's a fun fact studies show that making eye contact releases oxytocin the same hormone that helps moms bond with their babies how cool is that you're literally creating a chemical connection so next time you're chatting with someone give the eye contact Tango a whirl you might just dance your way into their heart speaking of connections our next habit
is all about making people feel special all right ladies Pop Quiz what's the sweetest sound to anyone's ears yep you guessed it their own name the name game is all about using this little nugget of wisdom to your advantage here's the deal when you meet someone new repeat their name back to them nice to meet you Colin then try to use their name naturally in conversation so Colin what do you think about but don't stop there the real magic happens when you remember their name the next time you see them trust me they'll be impressed
it's like saying hey you matter to me I remembered you now I know what you're thinking but I'm terrible with names don't worry I've got you covered try this trick when you hear their name think of someone famous with the same name meeting a Jessica picture Jessica Alba it'll help that name stick in your mind and here's a little secret if you forget someone's name Don't Panic just be honest and say something like I'm so sorry my brain is being silly today could you remind me of your name people appreciate honesty and they'll usually be
FL that you cared enough to ask remember using someone's name is like giving them a verbal hug so play The Name Game and Watch how quickly you become Unforgettable now that we've got names down let's talk about how to really make people feel heard ladies it's time to turn up the volume on your listening skills the active listening lean is all about showing someone that you're 100% tuned in to what they're saying here's how it works when someone's talking to you lean in slightly tilt your head a bit like you're trying to catch every word
nod occasionally and throw in some mhms or oh really to show you're following along but here's the kicker actually listen don't just pretend really try to understand what they're saying and when they're done respond with something that shows you were paying attention maybe ask a follow-up question or share a related thought I know sometimes our minds wander we start thinking about what we're having for dinner or that embarrassing thing we said 3 years ago when that happens try this focus on one specific thing about the person speaking maybe it's the way their eyes light up
when they talk about their passion or the unique way they gesture with their hands and here's a little bonus tip put away your phone nothing says I'm not not really listening like scrolling through Instagram while someone's talking to you remember being a good listener is like having a superpower people will be drawn to you because they feel valued and understood so lean in ladies and let's make some magic happen now speaking of making people feel good get ready to spread some Joy ladies the genuine compliment sprinkle is all about brightening someone's day with a heartfelt
compliment it's like fairy dust a little goes a long way here's the secret sauce be specific and sincere don't just say nice outfit Instead try something like that color really brings out your eyes or I love how you've paired those shoes with that dress you've got great style but remember it's not just about appearance compliment people on their actions their ideas their character I really admire how you handled that situation or your creativity is so inspiring now I know what some of you might be thinking won't I come across as fake here's the thing as
long as you mean it it's not fake the key is to be genuine only give compliments you truly believe in and here's a fun challenge try to give at least one genuine compliment every day it could be to a friend a cooworker or even a stranger watch how it lights up their face and how it makes you feel too remember when you make others feel good they associate those good feelings with you it's like magic so sprinkle those compliments around all right now that we've got you spreading Joy let's talk about how to keep the
conversation flowing the Curiosity spark is all about asking interesting questions that get people talking it's like light in a fire under a conversation here's how it works instead of asking boring questions like what do you do try something more intriguing for example what's the most exciting part of your job or if you could switch careers tomorrow what would you choose the key is to ask open-ended questions that can't be answered with a simple yes or no you want to give people a chance to share their stories their passions their dreams but here's the important part
be genuinely interested in their answers follow up with more questions show that you're really engaged in what they're saying I know sometimes it can feel hard to come up with good questions on the spot so here's a little trick before you go to a social event think of three interesting questions you could ask it's like having conversation starters in your back pocket and remember curiosity is isn't just about asking questions it's about being open to learning new things so when someone shares something you don't know about don't be afraid to say that's fascinating I'd love
to learn more about that people love talking about themselves and their interests when you show genuine curiosity you're giving them a gift and trust me they'll remember you for it now let's take that Curiosity and pair it with something even more powerful all right ladies it's time to flex those emotional muscles the empathy Echo is all about really connecting with how someone else is feeling it's like being an emotional mirror reflecting back their feelings in a way that makes them feel truly understood here's how it works when someone shares something with you try to put
yourself in their shoes how would you feel in that situation then reflect that back to them for example if a friend is talking about a tough day at work you might say that sounds really frustrating I can imagine how stressed you must have felt but here's the key it's not just about the words it's about your tone of voice your facial expressions your body language let them see that you're really feeling it with them now I know what some of you might be thinking what if I can't relate to what they're going through that's okay
you don't have to have experienced the exact same thing to show empathy just try to imagine how it might feel and here's a little secret sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all just being there listening and showing that you care can mean the world to someone remember empathy is like a super power when you can make someone feel truly understood you create a connection that's hard to break now let's talk about how to keep things Sunny even when life throws some clouds your way get ready to be a of sunshine
ladies the positive spin is all about finding the silver lining in any situation it's like being a human mood lifter here's the deal when faced with a challenge or a negative situation try to find something positive about it for example if you're stuck in traffic instead of getting frustrated think great now I have time to listen to that podcast I've been meaning to catch up on but remember it's not about ignoring problems or pretending everything is perfect it's about choosing to focus on the good stuff even when things are tough now I know what you're
thinking but what if there really isn't anything good about the situation that's where the real magic happens challenge yourself to find even the tiniest positive aspect maybe you learned something or maybe the experience will make for a funny story later here's a fun exercise at the end of each day try to think of three good things that happened no matter how small it could be as simple as the Sun was shining or I had a really good cup of coffee this helps train your brain to look for the positive and here's the best part positivity
is contagious when you maintain a positive attitude you lift up everyone around you people will be drawn to your energy like moths to a flame remember life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass it's about learning to dance in the rain so put on your dancing shoes and give everything that positive spin all right ladies we've covered a lot of ground but there's one more habit that'll leave everyone wanting more all right ladies we've made it to our final magnetic habit and it's a doozy the graceful exit is all about leaving people wanting more
it's like being the Cinderella of every party mysterious memorable and always leaving at just the right moment here's how it works when you're at a social event or an A conversation pay attention to the energy is it starting to dip are people checking their watches that's your cue to make your exit but here's the key don't just disappear make your goodbye count thank the host or the person you've been chatting with mention something specific from your conversation that you enjoyed for example I had such a great time talking about your travel Adventures you've inspired me
to plan my next trip now I know what some of you might be thinking but what if I'm having a great time and don't want to leave that's okay the point isn't to cut your fun short it's about recognizing when it's time to go and doing it with style and here's a little trick if you're not sure when to leave set a time limit for yourself before you arrive when that time comes start your exit process this way you're not constantly checking the time or worrying about overstaying your welcome remember the goal is to leave
people thinking wow she was amazing I wish we could have talked more it's like the old Showbiz saying goes always leave them wanting more so there you have it gorgeous the 10 habits of truly magnetic women let's do a quick recap the queen bee posture stand tall and own your space the Mona Lisa Smile rock that subtle intriguing smile the eye contact Tango make meaningful eye contact the name game remember and use people's names the active listening lean show you're really tuned in the genuine compliment sprinkle brighten someone's day with sincere compliments the Curiosity spark
ask interesting questions and show genuine interest the empathy Echo connect with others emotions the positive spin find the silver lining in any situation the graceful exit leave people wanting more remember becoming magnetic isn't about changing who you are it's about enhancing your best qualities and letting your true self shine these habits are tools to help you connect with others and radiate confidence so which habit are you most excited to try drop a comment below and let me know and if you found this video helpful don't forget to like And subscribe for more tips on becoming
your most magnetic self before we wrap up I want to remind you of something important you are already amazing just as you are these habits are just the cherry on top of your fabulous Sunday so go out there be yourself and watch as the world can't help but be drawn to your magnetic charm don't forget to like this video if you found it helpful and hit that subscribe button for more tips on becoming your most fabulous self and hey if you want to dive deeper into any of these habits let me know I might just
make a whole video about it until next time keep shining bright you magnetic goddess bye for now a
