all right what is going on you beautiful people and today we're going to be talking about if you are craving love this video is for you and I really want to break down the chapter I'm in First Corinthians and there's this quote that basically stood out to me that's so beautiful because it says we are in 1 Corinthians chapter 13 it says love is patient love is kind love does not envy is not boastful it's not arrogant it's not rude it's not self-seeking and it's not irritable and it does not keep a record of wrongs
Love Finds no joy in unrighteousness but rejoices in the truth and love is such a beautiful thing and as humans We crave love we want love and there's nothing wrong with wanting love but the thing is whenever we are basically putting people on pedestals we're trying to search for that love feeling and we're not searching for in Christ and we're not searching for in oursel we're going to start to feel very very confused and we're not going to be satisfied because the more that we look for love in others the more we're going to be
unsatisfied we don't need to look for love in others and with the person it won't be confusing it won't feel blurry it won't feel on edge it will be it will bring a peace it will bring a peace of mind because you know with with with genuine real love as Jesus shows us it comes with peace it comes with a peace of mind that's such a beautiful thing but when we're out here searching and searching and searching and searching and we're trying to basically seek this validation we start to get really discouraged we start to
get discouraged because that love feeling actually just comes within Christ and it comes within yourself and that's why being single is so beautiful there's a beauty in the isolation there's a beauty in the singleness because then you can understand yourself you can get closer to God and you can understand that you know what you start to understand your flaws the things that make you happy because sometimes when we get into relationships we put all of our energy into that one person and we really neglect ourselves we neglect ourselves and that's really not fair to us
and we want love and when you are in love it's such a beautiful euphoric feeling because you know your whole world your whole World Turns Upside Down you know you start thinking about that person all the time you start basically you know thinking about your future together and all these things love is such a a compassionate such a beautiful thing and you're not wrong for wanting love and the thing is sometimes we have to be in isolation we have to know ourselves because sometimes like I said we neglect ourselves for other people and sometimes we
tell these other people of stuff that we like and we actually don't like because we want to make them happy and want them to make us like us that's something that I used to do and that's the thing sometimes you just have to show True genuine self tell the person what you don't like tell the person what you do like because we all have our flaws we all like our own things and that's the beauty within it because everybody's different everybody's different so you will find love eventually and if if you're in your 20s right
now I feel like most of all my viewers are 20s and 30s if you're in your 20s right now use this time use this time use this time to seek Christ's love and understand how his love is and when you have that relationship with him you'll be able to basically understand the value of love love is gentle love is kind and there's also a thing out there you know I love this so much Jesus says men love your spouses as Jesus loves the church be gentle with your spouses sometimes we objectify people men and women
we we both do it you know we're we're thinking about oh well I have you know I have such a high body count you know I'm sleeping with all this women that's not cool there's nothing cool about that there's nothing cool about that what is cool is finding somebody that you can share genuine compassion love with and basically grow together and build a firm foundation with you and with them in Christ you know having God at the center of the relationship is so important because whenever you try to control things you know together you guys
you understand that it it won't really work out because bringing bringing Christ into a relationship is so beautiful you know praying together you know going to church together reading the Bible together and understanding you know Christ is love and that's something so beautiful so going back on the subject use this season to get right with yourself know yourself understand your flaws understand your in insecurities everybody has insecurities but you know what with the right person they'll accept you for your insecurities they'll love you for you and that's such a beautiful thing so with the right
person love is kind love is compassionate cuz some people think that you know we want to build a guy or we want to build a girl and we want to basically you know build them in the image of our head no we have to accept them as they are this isn't bu this isn't build a guy or build a girl you know accept the person love the person work with the person and love them unconditionally because love is a commitment you're not going to have good days you're not going to have all sunshine and rainbows
you know once that moon phase and you're really going to truly get to understand that person so love isn't confusing and if it feels confusing then it was never really love cuz when I used to rush relationships I understood that it wasn't genuine love because I was rushing it on my time I wasn't letting God just fall put it into place so work with that person build with that person first build a friendship build a friendship first and then if you guys are truly connected if you guys truly have this spark God will put it
into place you just have to put in his hands so love is kind and love is such a beautiful thing and you know use this time for singleness to to get right with yourself understand yourself and U I'll see you guys in the next one I love you
