hey hey hey time FR of the out of this world story from ourspace some cheaters are sneaky some are bold today on our space who's your daddy wife cheated and refused to run the paternity test I divorced her she's begging and using a fair partner for money okay this goes back to 3 years ago when I 41 male discovered that my then wife June 36 female was cheating on me our marriage wasn't perfect but who are we were married for 5 years and it was just a year since June had given birth to Jaden I
don't know what went wrong between us when she decided to let St strangers into her skirts I thought our marriage was fulfilling even if it was not I expected her to confront me instead of fooling around I trusted her and didn't expect her to be cheating on me since she was a new mother but small nagging doubts started creeping in way before I caught her her frequent unexplained late nights secret phone calls and her emotional distance triggered me to find out the truth whenever I would confront her about it she would brush it off as
overthinking she assured me I had nothing to worry about and should focus on raising the baby once I went for a 3-day work trip but intentionally came early on the second day as I entered the house I noticed the living room lights were dimmed and Jaden was playing by himself inside his crib he was barely 14 months back then I sneaked inside to hear the faint sound of laughter coming from our bedroom it was jun's Giggles in between a hushed male voice on seeing me Jaden started calling for me in his baby voice I think
this alerted her and before I could storm inside she immediately bolted the bedroom door but within that fraction of a second I saw her naked holding the bed sheet to cover herself and a man scrambling for his clothes I violently knocked on the door yelling at her to open it then I heard a loud thump in the backyard as if someone jumped out of the bedroom window I immediately rushed outside and found a bareb man in his boxers running to his car which was parked two houses away before I could chase him he drove off
when I came back Jun was already dressed up and was holding Jaden in her arms I was enraged and demanded an explanation she pretended as if nothing had happened I asked who the guy was and she said which guy I lost it she shushed me as my loud voice was scaring off the baby I went inside the bedroom and pointed to the bed The Scrambled cheats and asked her who the man was and you know what she responded are you crazy there is no man in here you're imagining things you should get checked I felt
a cold pit in my stomach the Betrayal wasn't bad enough that she tried to prove me as a maniac I asked her about the untidy bed and what was she doing naked inside the locked bedroom she reasoned she was missing me and was trying to pleasure herself that's why she locked it to prevent Jaden from getting in she swore there was no man and that I was hallucinating I searched the bedroom to find a clue but that son of a witch left no breadcrumbs that was cheating on me and when caught instead of accepting it
she turned it around on me lashed out and accused me that I came home early to spy on her called me all sorts of names insecure crazy paranoid and everything under the sun the fight went on for a few days and got really nasty with time she brought out the worst in me and during one of those ugly comments I asked her whose son was Jaden she froze for a second and then Shrugged her shoulder and exclaimed keep guessing I was like you know what you can deny everything but I'm not going to make a
fool of myself and stay with you I filed for the divorce and she didn't even contest it perhaps because she had other Nets in place she said she didn't want to be married to someone who spied on her and falsely accused her of adultery the funny part was she moved in with a guy next town within weeks of filing she claimed him to be her friend but I knew better I didn't care what she said the fact that she was cooperating with the separation was just enough for me she took full custody of the child
and didn't even claim the child's abort it made me suspicious and I asked her about Jaden's truth pleading her to be honest she laughed at me and said do you think you have the balls to Bear a child and smirked it was clear I wasn't the father I was glad she didn't burden me with a child which was not mine the rest of the process was Swift and I cut her out of my life completely it wasn't easy as I'm saying my world shattered to say the least I was very attached to Jaden he was
the world I mean I saw him and held him before June did I was an involved father it was so hurtful to think he wasn't mine it took me a year in countless therapy and breakdown sessions to finally make peace with the Betrayal it's been over three years since then and I'm in a much better state with a good bod and decent income then out of nowhere she reappeared she showed up at my workplace causing a scene in front of my colleagues she was Furious claiming that I had abandoned Jaden her voice was shrill as
she accused me of being a heartless father she screamed you just walked away how could you leave your son like that people around us started whispering throwing judgmental glances my way I was caught off guard didn't expect she would ever come back and in this way accusing that I abandoned my son I felt she was troubled and needed Medical help I calmed down took her outside and asked what's the matter she lashed out at me that I was a jerk who ruined her reputation and framed her for something she hadn't done I was like didn't
you say Jaden wasn't my son and if he was why didn't you claim the child's abort she replied did I really say he wasn't your son and why do I have to fight for his right as a man it's your responsibility to step up for your kid I waited for you to realize this and come back for him but you didn't hence I have to ask for it it blew my mind what kind of Twisted logic it was I took a deep breath and replied okay you want me to step up sure I will but
not before the paternity test she glared at me and twisted her face in Anger saying I don't need a test to tell you he's yours she went on and on talking about the same stuff how I was a deadbeat father and a terrible person I finally snapped at her and firmly said if he's my son take the paternity test and I'll bear his full responsibility not only half she clenched her fist and threatened to ruin me if I didn't take Jaden's responsibility I stood on my grounds and demanded the test she laughed after me and
said you know you'll be smashed if I go to court here we don't need a DNA test to claim child support So step up if you don't want to get into a legal mess her eyes were cold as ice when she said this I won't lie she was terrifying but somehow I mustered the courage and said I was ready to go the legal route but not give in her demands she stormed out of the cafe but the next day I had my mom at my door she usually doesn't show up without notice so I suspiciously
asked her what it's about initially she tried to cover it that it was a casual visit eventually she spilled the beans that June visited her and sobbed about her money problems she wasn't able to make 's meat and in fact on the verge of being thrown out of the apartment as she had defaulted on her rent for 3 to 4 months I asked Mom what do you want me to do she asserted roll your sleeves and step up your game I freaked out I mean why the hell would I she pleaded for the sake of
the little boy I was like you know that child is not mine right she exclaimed but he looks just like you the same blue eyes and brown hair I sna that June also has blue eyes and brown hair when she had no points left she said don't you have any love for that child you saw him coming out into this world and now you're abandoning him the truth is I do miss Jaden sometimes and maybe deep down I still care for him but I wasn't about to let emotional manipulation dictate my actions I stuck at
my guns and made it straight no paternity test no child support period She left disappointed but within days I got to know June was rallying behind my back telling everyone my friends extended family and relatives that I was a reckless father who abandoned his child I took these to be a passing storm hoping it to settle in a while nope looks like I have to do something June has been pestering me over calls and texts for the money she even threatened to show up at my workplace again she seemed pretty confident about getting the child
support without the test I've taken a lawyer's appointment but that's in 6 days and I'm getting anxious with her threats I tried to look it up didn't get any straight answers so putting this here hoping someone would have insights about this and help me with some details edit please don't ask for any more potential details on comments I'm ready to share them on DM if anyone volunteers to help well you're handling this the right way by insisting on a paternity test before committing to anything op given jun's history of dishonesty manipulation you have every right
to be skeptical if she was so sure Jaden was yours she wouldn't be fighting the test this hard update one I met a lawyer and the situation is grim he can confirmed my worst fears since Jaden was born during our marriage the law presumed I was the father I cannot force her for a paternity test until the court orders which would only happen if there's solid evidence of her cheating during the time Jaden was conceived it blew my mind and I asked do you mean I have to provide child support even though I know he's
not my child just because we were married back then he nodded sadly yes else get the evidence of her cheating now how do I go back in time and fetch one I came back disappointed and found mom waiting for me on the front porch she asked me the reason why I was sulking I told her what the lawyer said and she informed me something which gave me hope she said June wasn't Keen about seeking legal support as she cannot afford to hire one and also she doesn't want to throw a legal hassle amidst her job
search and raising Jaden I breathed a sigh of relief but the next moment mom pleaded Jaden needs you he's your son you can't just ignore him like this I didn't raise you to be an irresponsible man I was like wait a minute how do you know those details that June wouldn't seek legal aid then she confessed about meeting June often because she missed Jaden she's desperate for a grandkid as all of her friends have them she feels left out when everyone shares cute stories about their grandchildren she was siding with June saying a woman won't
ever lie about her child's truth especially in such a miserable situation what BS she went on and on about being a good human being and being a man but it didn't budge yesterday June showed up again this time she looked more exhausted and destitute her eyes were red and puffy from crying she whispered I really need help I can't do this alone our child is suffering please understand this I remained unmoved take the paternity test and we'll talk she pleaded asking me to help for the sake of the innocent child I asked why didn't she
think about the kid while cheating on me and when she signed the divorce paper with a head held high that I don't need your effing child support she sobbed I was confident about raising him by myself but I got laid off and I'm not getting a good job I'm working low paid jobs for survival but it's not enough I patiently listened to her and asked would you still say that you were alone that evening and that there was no man with you in our bedroom she broke down and confessed Mark was my colleague and used
to hit on me after maternity when I went back to work he helped me get to the speed and we kind of hit it off my home runs messed up during postpartum and I ended up making mistakes I regret I swear it was just physical and just a few times after our divorce I moved in with him as he promised to take care of me and the baby he said he loved me but with time he lost interest in me and started cheating when I confronted him he kicked me out of the house and now
I have nowhere to go I chuckled that Karma indeed came looking for you with her full conviction she said but Jaden is your son he's truly yours please don't let your son suffer because of my mistakes I started seeing him after Jaden was born the argument went on for hours until she agreed to do the test but she wanted $10,000 immediately for rent and food I said I won't spare a penny without the test her face instantly got red with anger and she stormed out of my place screaming and cursing sometimes I seriously feel she
needs medical help I learned from my mistakes and this time I recorded the full conversation I had with her now I have the evidence of her cheating but I think it's futile because she didn't confess that the kid wasn't mine I went to Mom's and shared it with her she didn't look surprised and said I'm not saying you lied about the cheating she might have done that but my heart says she's not lying lying about Jaden he's truly your son I feel that connection with him I got pissed off at her stupid Instinct if he
was really my son then why is June hesitating about the test she would have taken it and got it done my mom warned me to step up and take Jaden's responsibility before it was too late actually if this matter goes to court June might claim the aers of the last 3 years as well and that's not all she can claim any amount she wants and based on my income the court may even approve crazy numbers and I'll have very little room for negotiation Mom's right June can change her mind anytime and Sumi I'm terrified I
don't know what's going to happen next I wish she'd disappear again as she did the last time you need to act fast get your lawyer to push for a paternity test order with the evidence you have now the longer the drags on the worse it could get for you financially update two the situation took a weird turn and now I don't know whether I should be happy or sad about it two weeks back I got a frantic call from my mom panting the was gone I jumped in excitement it was the best news I had
been waiting for hold on it wasn't as pleasant as I had expected well mom went behind my back and helped her financially and in return she vanished over the last 3 to 4 months since she came back she had been emotionally manipulating my mother to bail her out mom helped her rent an apartment even covered her rent utilities and food bills a few days before she went missing mom had lent her $11,000 for Jaden's play school admission and supplies more than betrayed mom was worried that June was under the influence of some substance because only
a fool would run away for a few grand and not even claim her grateful child support she was more worried about Jaden's safety and wellbeing mom insisted we go to her apartment and see if we could find any clues I didn't want to go but whether I liked it or not that woman still had an edge over me and I didn't want her to come back and bite me in the future we went back and traced the apartment found nothing except a few discarded clothes Jane's broken toys leftover takeaways and containers basically nothing useful mom
was looking for evidence of drugs or any intoxicants we found nothing but we bumped into her landlord mom asked him if he had seen her or had any information he let out something interesting June didn't pay the rent except for the first month when she moved in whenever he asked she would SOB her way about being a single mother trying to make ends meet she promised to settle all dues once she got the child support from her ex-husband he also helped her get food stamps and even lent a few bucks occasionally for the sake of
the kid it was so bizar you see my mother gave her the money for nearly all her expenses yet all her bills were due I was surprised about the whole thing but not heartbroken or worried she wasn't my problem anymore but Mom was sweating over it I tried to calm her down that June was an adult and she could figure out things on her own and if not she should bear the consequences of her actions but Mom was still anxious and I thought it was because of Jaden when we came back home mom hesitantly informed
me that her credit card had been missing since June visit her last she only noticed that it was missing after all the money was gone mom had no idea how it was stolen that wasn't even worse mom noticed that ever since June started visiting her some of the expensive items from her house were missing her gold earrings which she kept in the bedside drawer her ring which she left on the kitchen counter while making a cake batter and some cash went missing from her wallet mom lives alone but she has her friends and neighbors over
a lot and she didn't notice the things were missing she thought she had kept it somewhere and forgotten until she lost the ring from the kitchen some of the items like the gold plated budo statue and electronic gadgets she didn't even notice missing until recently I freaked out at her stupidity and rushed to the station to file a police report God knows what I'm married into the next day we got a call from the cops asking us to come over that's when we discovered June had an existing theft complaint from someone named Mike I recognized
the guy it was her Fair partner out of curiosity I contacted him later that day he apologized profusely and confessed he was there with June that day in my bedroom when I walked into them then he told me everything they had been goofing around before her pregnancy and she had sworn to him that Jaden was his son and soon she would divorce me and marry him hence he was taking care of them financially she had moved in with him as soon as I filed for divorce however with time he got suspicious about the whole stuff
and ran a paternity test on Jaden without her knowledge and it came out he wasn't his either he dug deeper to find out she was cheating on him too and not with just one man but multiple unlike me he collected all the evidence of of her cheating though he didn't need it as they were not married he confronted her and kicked her out but she had the key to his apartment when he wasn't around she sneaked inside and stole his cards and some of the valuables including iPads and a professional camera he informed me that
while collecting the evidence against her cheating he contacted one of the affair Partners who also confirmed that she had stolen from him too but that guy was a married man and a foreigner hence didn't report her I learned that she had been playing this game for years using men for money lying about Jaden's father to extract money and leaving destruction in her wake I was mind effed what a conwoman I fell for when I replayed the truth to my mother she was devastated at how a timidly looking woman could pull off such an act phew
I had dodged a bullet I've collected all the evidence from Mike and also his confession that they were sleeping together when Jaden was conceived it can at least prove that she was cheating on me even though Jaden wasn't Mike's she might have slept with a third person or fourth or fifth who knows I'm prepared in case she shows up again oof it's a good thing you've gathered all that evidence at least now if she ever tries to come back and cause more chaos you're ready you really did dodge a bullet and honestly it's a miracle
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