hey hey hey time for another out of this world story from ourspace turns out being a gold digger isn't as fun when you're the one getting dug out of the equation today in our space a sugar daddy cuts off the supply she cheated with a rich guy and left me now he's gone and she's Crawling Back To Me Broke honestly I'm not even sure how to start this I feel like my life fell apart out of nowhere sure there were signs but I was always hopeful that we'd be able to work through any problems we
had unfortunately it turned out the problem was with her the whole time so there was no hope you can't fix a gold digger I 28 male and my wife Angie 27 female have been married for just 3 years we weren't rich but we were comfortable honestly that's probably me being modest I have a great job and don't really need to worry about money most of the time I'm not caviar on a jet rich but I don't need to worry about rent every month either both Angie and I came from Modest backgrounds so when I started
making good money I never expected that either of us would develop a lavish lifestyle I mean I always knew Angie liked nice things but I'd never have said she had expensive taste she was never that luxury car designer brand type but she wouldn't go for cheap products or knockoffs either I didn't mind I had the money to keep her happy or so I thought so we didn't spend extravagantly that doesn't mean I was a miser or something I actually spent quite a bit of money on her I bought her a nice car we live in
a really nice place and we go on nice vacations at least once a year year but things started changing over the past year small changes at first so small that I didn't notice them right away or I just overlooked them suddenly she was picky about what she wore it didn't matter if it looked nice it had to be from some overpriced brand I thought it was a phase at first I wanted it to be a phase I thought she was getting caught up with those asinine lifestyle influencers online and I figured she would grow out
of it but it only got worse she picked up the infuriating habit of comparing her Rel ship to her friend's relationships she'd tell me about her friend whose boyfriend just surprised her with some Italian shoes or a designer bag then she'd sigh and give me a pointed look I'd put aside my annoyance the Sigh always drove me crazy and explained that I felt it didn't make sense to spend thousands of dollars on a bag when her birthday came around I got her one of those expensive bags just to make her happy she loved it and
took it out wherever she had the chance and suddenly she stopped using it and started dropping her hints again I asked her why she'd stopped using the bag and she told me it was out of fashion the bag was worth a few thousand and she stopped using it after 6 months because it was out of fashion I still can't wrap my head around that things got worse when she stopped comparing our relationship to her friends and started comparing it to influencers she'd talk about some influencer whose husband just bought her a Lamborghini or something ridiculous
on the surface it looked like typical celebrity warship crap but I knew it was deeper than that I knew she was just starting to reveal how materialistic she was and that she envied their lives maybe I could have spent more money trying to make her happy bought her more of those expensive bags she liked took her to overpriced restaurants or multiple vacations a year but she can't outspend someone's materialism sooner or later she'd start asking for something I couldn't afford I bought her an expensive bag and now she was talking about a Lamborghini so I
put my foot down to let her know what I would and wouldn't be able to buy for her I explained to her that while she might be what some people call Rich we still couldn't afford to be careless with our money she was unhappy but she hit it pretty well I figured she would get over it eventually I never expected her to cheat on me because of that looking back I should have seen it coming but I honestly believe that she respected me more than she loved money the idea of her being unfaithful never crossed
my mind but I was wrong she started dressing up more wearing clothes that were flashier than she used to at first I thought she was saving to buy herself more expensive things but my suspicions were triggered when I noticed a new bag she had it was n unusual she'd bought herself nice bags before but this was different I probably wouldn't have noticed it if I hadn't bought her that bag for her birthday but I could tell this was expensive I kind of developed an eye for picking out designer bags they were either ridiculously gdy or
ridiculously simple she started wearing bags that fit both descriptions when she was out one evening I went into the closet to check out her bags apart from the one I bought for her she had three in there that I suspected of being expensive identifying them was simple enough I pointed my phone at them and used Google Lens to do the rest I was right the bags were expensive worth almost $10,000 altogether if they were genuine there's no way she could have afforded that I had to sit down and think for a while my mind raced
through possibilities and I landed on two either she was using one of my cards or she was having an affair I decided I would check my card statement but a new suspicion had come to mind I checked out all her clothes and jewelry Google Lens couldn't identify everything especially the dresses but it picked out enough she had expensive shoes bracelets and earrings too there was no way this would have gone unnoticed on my card she was cheating on me to enable this lifestyle unless she was Moonlighting as a bank robber I was waiting for her
with all her stuff on the table when she got home she walked in completely oblivious to the argument that was brewing she froze mid-step when she saw what was laid out in front of me her designer bags expensive shoes and jewelry were all in front of me her face went pale and she was quiet for a few seconds I didn't give her a chance to find her words and come up with an excuse where'd you get all this stuff she tried to play it cool but she was obviously nervous she started while she said that
she bought some of them herself and the others were gifts I asked who was buying her gifts wereth thousands of dollars she started some lame story about how she won at at a raffle at work and I got tired of listening to her insult my intelligence I cut her off and told her that I knew she was cheating on me she denied it at first she was so insistent that she'd won most of this stuff that I almost started to believe her as stupid as that story was I asked her about the ones she said
she'd bought I checked the credit card transactions and none of those purchases showed up what was her explanation for that she realized she was caught out and that's when everything changed her face fell then she sighed and crossed her arms she asked if it even mattered who bought them for her she admitted that she hadn't bought anything herself there was no raffle she sat down and told me that she'd been given everything by a guy named Ethan the words practically knocked the wind out of me I can't explain how much it hurt for her to
confirm my suspicions in such a dispassionate matter of fact way all I could manag to do was ask her why she sighed again like this was boring her like it was a tedious conversation that didn't bother her too much here I felt like my heart was breaking and she sounded like she couldn't care less she leaned back in her chair and said that she loved me but I was too practical for her and that sometimes she wanted more too practical was that supposed to be a bad thing I was responsible I took care of her
I gave her a very good life but that wasn't good enough for her if she wasn't living large she kept repeating that she loves me but I told her to cut the crap I asked her who Ethan was and she just Shrugged she said he was a guy she'd met a few months before he was married but he cared for her most importantly the guy was rich like really rich the hits just kept coming I asked if she was really cheating on me with a married man just because he had money she said it wasn't
that simple I sarcastically invited her EXP explain it to me she told me that the two of them knew they were both married but had feelings for each other according to her she understood Ethan in a way his wife didn't and Ethan took care of her the way she deserved they were both waiting for the right time to leave their Partners so they could be together I sat there in silence for a while from the moment I was certain that she was cheating I knew there wasn't a chance for us but it hurt to hear
that she'd already been planning to leave me she watched me in silence for a while then offered a week I'm sorry I didn't reply I didn't know what to say hey eventually I stood up and went to our bedroom I started packing her stuff I was done I didn't want her in my house and a minute longer after a few minutes she followed behind me and asked what I was doing I told her I was kicking her out and she had the nerve to look surprised like she hadn't just told me she was planning a
new life with another man she could go live with him for all I cared she started shouting at me challenging me for not fighting for her I laughed bitterly at that why would I fight for another man's mistress she made her decision and now she was going to live with it she kept trying to argue with me but I ignored her once I had her Essentials packed I shoved the suitcase into her hands and walked her to the door I told her she could get the rest of her stuff later but she wouldn't be staying
here another night she gave up on trying to convince me and just stormed out the door that's about it and I still can't believe how quick everything went to crap oof the fact that she straight up admitted she was with you for Financial Security is brutal at least you're free to find someone who actually likes you and not just your ability to cover the bills let her walk you're not the one stuck with her now let the new guy enjoy the thrilling experience what a giant Money Pit update a lot has happened since my first
post Angie meant what she said and didn't waste any time serving me with divorce papers she told me that she and Ethan wanted the process to be over quickly so they could start their life together as soon as possible she claimed he would start his own divorce as soon as ours was finalized so she made me an offer if I didn't drag things out she would make it easy for me too she wouldn't ask for alimony and she wouldn't make any demands after all she was going to be rolling in cash soon I was conflicted
on one hand I really did want to make things tough for her I wanted to get back at her she destroyed my mental health I found it hard to trust anyone after what she'd done to me but I also just wanted to get things over with I just wanted her out of my life so I could pick up the pieces and move on I accepted her offer and we had a simple divorce Andie wasted no time in flaunting her new life I tried to keep her out of my mind but there were some bad nights
when I would find myself looking around up and seeing how she was doing by all appearances she was living her best life posting pictures of expensive accessories and gifts and videos of her at highend restaurants it felt like she was trying to rub it in my face like she wanted me to see what I was missing and maybe she was or maybe I was just projecting because I hadn't gotten over it yet I won't lie it stung not because I wanted her back but because it was just proof that I'd meant nothing to her all
those years together the life we built it was meaningless to her because some guy with more money came along she had destroyed what we built and still won in the end it hurt I tried to focus on rebuilding my life I threw myself into my work and picked up old hobbies to keep my mind busy I didn't start dating again I didn't feel like I was ready to go through all of that again anytime soon it took a couple of months but I got to a state where I was doing better for myself I completely
stopped looking in on her social media and the bad nights were fewer and farther between the Betrayal wasn't something I could just shake off all at once but I was making good progress then when I started to feel like myself again Angie came crawling back to try to ruin it all it started with a simple text from her hey I was so surprised that I stared at my phone for a full minute before I locked it and tossed it aside I wasn't going to play whatever sick game she wanted to start I left my phone
at home and went for a walk to clear my head when I got back I completely ignored her message and went about my day the next day she texted me again this time it was can we talk no we couldn't there was nothing for to talk about she walked out on me for Ethan's money and now she wanted to talk for what a chat did she want to be friends not happening a few hours later another message came in I really need to talk to you please that got my attention and you wasn't the begging
type if she was reaching out like this then something had have probably gone wrong I debated whether or not to respond in the end I decided it wouldn't do much harm to just hear her out I texted her back and asked what she wanted she replied almost immediately and asked if we could meet in person I wasn't going to make it easy for her I said I was busy and told her to just come out with whatever she needed to say her next response took a little while but it surprised me she said she'd messed
up and begged me for a chance to talk my better judgment told me not to talk to her I didn't want to give her a chance to undo the months of work I'd done to move past her betrayal but I was also curious and I was worried that she could be in real trouble of some sort so I gave in we met at a local coffee shop there was no way I was letting her into my home when she came in I was surprised she didn't look good especially for a woman who was supposed to
be rich by now she wasn't wearing any of the expensive things I expected from her and she looked miserable I didn't leave any room for small talk as soon as I saw her I asked what is it she was on the edge of Tears when she told me what had happened with Ethan his wife had found out about him and Angie and she'd given him an ultimatum her or Angie big surprise Ethan had stuck with his wife I wasn't surprised in the least but Angie had been blindsided she' really believed that Ethan would leave his
wife for her instead he cut her off completely and now she was broken alone I also couldn't find it in myself to feel bad for Angie she'd broken my life into pieces chasing her selfish desires and she would do it all over again if I wasn't careful I asked her why she thought I cared I reached across the table and took my hands then begged me to take her back she swore that she'd learned her lesson the hard way she truly loved me and she'd just been blinded by greed she missed what we had together
and she wanted to come home I just stared at her the woman had betrayed me destroyed my ability to trust and thrown away our marriage for a man who'd used her for fun and now she expected me to feel sorry for her and take her back like nothing had happened just because her plan had blown up in her face suddenly she looked so pathetic to me that I genuinely wondered how I had ever been in love with her I felt a wave of revols so strong that I snatched my hands away from her I told
her that there was no chance of the two of us getting back together she'd made her choice and she'd chosen wrong she had to live with it like I did the tears finally spilled from her eyes but I felt nothing I didn't have any love in my heart for her anymore I told her to sell the expensive stuff Ethan had gotten for her and get a job she started begging again but I got up and left without another word she was so pathetic that I couldn't stand to be around her any longer I tried to
put the incident out of my mind when I got home but Angie had other plans she started sending texts and calling me Non-Stop I had to block her number to get some peace that worked for one night the next day she came over after work she knocked and tried to get my attention for nearly an hour before she left she did the same thing the day after the next day she ambushed me on my way inside after work she'd started begging me for another chance again but I cut her off I knew I had to
put a stop to it I told her that I was talking to my lawyer about her harassment and that I was working on getting a restraining order if she kept showing up at my home I would get the police involved she looked so surprised that I would even say that but she she left wordlessly I haven't seen or heard from her again since then and I don't miss her a bit it hasn't been easy I won't lie I still have the bad nights where I feel the pain of the Betrayal all over again but they
are fewer and farther between but no matter how bad it gets I've never missed her enough to consider letting her back in my life she made her choice and I'm glad she's suffering the consequences good riddens she nuked your marriage from money got played and somehow thought you'd be waiting with open arms ha no thanks she's completely removed from reality she can enjoy the consequences of her choices maybe Pawn those gifts for rent money hope all those gifts keep her company at night that girl's got some learning to do but do they ever learn thank
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