how can I know if my no contact was not too long what can I do right now to basically communicate again with my ex how can you use the new contact in the future okay guys so I have seen a lot of questions because we all know that the no contact is one of the most powerful technique first of all because you will surprise your ex your ex that thing that you will always be needy you will harass them you will just chase them and blah blah blah no now you're distant you're doing the no
contact you're focusing on yourself I have also think that the problem is that I've seen during my last webinar people telling me Alex I've been doing no contact for nine months and when I saw that I was like whoa that is a lot there is a moment after six weeks usually we want to try on actions we're not here just to do the no contact and wait and pray for your ex to come back I'm sorry this is not my philosophy I don't want to hurt your feelings I know that you have tried everything that
was good in your mind and you have tried everything that people told you to do but if you watch this video it's because the team at with my ex again love advice TV and myself listen to that every single day we are here on the phone with you we follow you with emails we are here as your best friend so if you tell me Alex my own contact was too long there is no problem but we need to act right now there is two ways to act after a no contact number one we will just
try to get some news we can send a simple very text message hey long time no talk I want to know how you feel or is it life for you and we want to ask a very specific question so it will be hey long time no talk I want to know how you are doing with this important meeting project that you had hey I have to tell you myself I just started to play piano it was it's just a great experience hope to see you soon take care this is just a simple message to reconnect
with your ex now there is the option number two which is what I called the letter the letter is not the accountability letter where you just confuse yourself and maybe talk about your feelings and talk about the past no after a long no contact it is the elect for shock letter it is a letter where you can just share how much change you have experienced how different your life is what did you do as new activities it is for me a breakup between the past you and the new you so when you have done a
longer no contact maybe you needed time maybe you wanted to change before to talk again to your ex and sometimes you're scared now what can I do what can I say I don't want to make any mistakes I don't want to be blocked I don't want my ex to think that I'm harassing him harassing her no thinking like this will only make you feel weak and lacking some self-confidence okay so you have done a no contact that was a great actions you have two options either the text message to get some news the electroshock letter
the new version of you letter once we will be able to communicate with your ex it is for sure that you will have different opportunities it is for sure that your ex will see you differently even if he or she doesn't respond the message has been delivered and sometimes not receiving any response doesn't mean that they don't know that you have changed but they want you to show more do more because of the content that was too long let me explain to you that I was coaching an amazing man like an amazing man he knows
he has done mistake he knows that he should have daughter on himself his name is Jeff he was from New York City he was in a relationship for 10 years and he didn't want to marry her because he was scared of his past marriage but there is a moment where she told him okay you know what you know what you want goodbye and this guy did a no contact but I don't know why he did not contact for too long three months and I told him you know what now that we're on the phone we
need to do a chance we will not quite to get some news she will be hurt we need to talk about the new you and to tell her that you took this three months because you wanted to prove her that you were able to change before to talk to her so we were needing an explanation a reason of why we took so long and why are we reconnecting with her right now and you know what he told me but Alex I'm scared if I do something and she blocked me my response to him was look
Jeff you're scared but it's been three months without any contact there is nothing worse than that and if you don't try you will live with regrets so I decided to help him find some words after this no contact and you know what happened his ex was angry his ex was mad at him and he was scared Alex look I told you I should have not not write anything and I told him no Jeff and listen to that please after a longer no contact your ex will be angry but it's a sign of love it's a
sign that your ex is angry because she or he wants to see you change this is the crazy part with the no contact and so when I explained to him look she's angry because she cares about you when you don't care about someone oh thank you for your message I wish you all the best this is not what happened so Jeff came back to me and he said okay what's the next step if you have done a long no contact your ex would not be happy to receive your message your ex will not jump and
come on you and hug you and kiss you and tell you oh my God I was counting the days I love you so much that will happen one time out of 100 times okay so I told you if you know what you need to tell her if I would have come back before you would have not listened to me and you will have been White but I have changed so you cannot tell me that you cannot make me feel guilty for taking the time to change and become the best version of myself before to come
to you and show you that it is possible what do you think that his ex did she shut up and the reason why she shut up it's because he was clear in his intentions when you do a no contact if you are counting the days you are not doing a no contact you're doing I'm sorry for my French but this is very important you need to understand that you need to know that the moment you believe in yourself you do no contact to change and you have done three four five six months or weeks whatever
the moment you talk to your ex it's because you know that you have changed and we cannot take you guilty for the past and we were fortunate because it worked for Jeff it worked he was able to get her back and now he said it was able to reattract her and open a new page so it's not because you have done no contact for a couple of months even years sometimes that that they don't have any shot but we need to have clear explanation for the brain for your ex mind because if we come back
like this with hey how are you doing it's been two years your ex will be like this is in the meantime if we are sending a letter that is too long that doesn't make sense we should find the perfect actions that's why we do private coaching if you come on our website with mexican.com coaching you will find coach Adrian coach Dani coach ABI kuch Priyanka myself we are here and we want to dedicate our time to you but if you just focus on the negativity oh my God it's over oh my eggs didn't come to
me yes it's normal it's time for us to go get your ex show to your eggs that you have changed show to your ex that you're different and I want to see your motivation so I want you to smash the like button subscribe to love advice TV so you can receive all of our videos directly in your inbox and I want you to tell me in the comments section just right below I am ready I am ready to communicate again with my ex that's why I will follow you that's why I will be with you
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actions right now if you are serious about getting back with your ex we will be able to assist you we will be able to help you to tell you what to do but please don't think that there is Magic actions it's not because you do the no contact your ex would come back I know people are telling you this online these are people that don't know anything about getting back with someone you love and I want you to know that if you think that you're blocked we have Solutions sometimes it's not easy yes sometimes it's
not what you want to do of course but we can change that okay I will see you soon for a new video take care guys
