if you are single and are looking to be in a relationship it's quite likely that you have a belief that it's really hard to find the right person and on a planet with over 8 billion people there's just a lot of people out there and it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy and let's see if we can't do some tapping to uh clear some of these reasons why you couldn't or shouldn't find someone so taking full responsibility for your own well-being even though it's so hard to find someone choose to love and accept myself even though
it's so hard to find someone I choose to love and accept myself even though it is so hard to find someone for all kinds of different reasons and part of me is losing hope even though it's so hard to find someone and she used to deeply and completely love honor and accept myself and maybe anyone else who might be involved it's so hard to find someone it's so hard to meet people or at least the right people I find people who are unavailable people who don't seem interested in me I just can't find people I
want it's just so far it's just so hard to find people and as I allow myself to believe that they can become a self-fulfilling prophecy because being a human being I'd love to be right so if I manifest not meeting people I get to be right I'm tired of settling for that letting go of this need to be right about it being hard to meet people I choose to allow myself to know there's over 8 billion people on the planet at least a few of them might be right for me I'm open to the possibility
I might be resisting that person not because I'm bad or stupid but because I'm trying to protect myself maybe I've been hurt in the past so if it's really hard to meet people if it's impossible to find that person I get to stay safely single well part of me might say I want to be in a relationship part of me may be avoiding one and I love and appreciate those parts of me that are just trying to keep me safe then I might have all kinds of other reasons about why it's hard to find someone
especially as I get older everybody will tell me the odds get Slimmer and slimmer because all the good ones are taken I choose to clear that idea if they were right for me they wouldn't be taken anyone who is happily engaged in another relationship was not meant for me I could even allow myself to see but as I get older it's just weeded out the people who weren't right for me it's like when we go shopping for something and there's way too many choices sometimes having fewer choices is better so I don't waste so much
time I choose to be open to the possibility [Music] that it becomes easier to find someone the more willing I feel the more ready I feel clear in whatever has stopped me from feeling ready clearing whatever stopped me from being willing I can handle meeting someone and if they're not the right person that's okay it's okay if I have to kiss a few frogs but there are plenty of them out there I can find great people and even if they're not right for me romantically meeting them can be of great value to me I'm allowing
myself to feel that it's safe to meet people there are plenty of people out there it's easy to find people it's easier when I feel ready clearing my fears of meeting someone clearing those fears at a cellular level and clear them all the way back through my past so I really set myself free to be open to meeting someone I'm also clearing any sense of desperation clearing this belief that I need someone such that I'm stuck between this rock and a hard place I need someone but I can't find someone and so I have to
feel bad even if I'm single the universe is still giving me oxygen every time I breathe so I'm clearing any false sense of need and then I'm free to just want what I want and allow myself to still be in a good place which is a much more attractive quality choose to be the sort of person that attracts the person I want allowing myself to clear what doesn't feel like peace allowing myself to clear what doesn't feel like love and then not only can I easily find people I find people that are much more peaceful
and loving and I'm allowing that allow myself to feel much better allowing myself to let my light shine and then people find me and I'm allowing myself to see them allowing it to be easy for me to meet people allowing it to be easy for me to find the right person allowing myself to feel good in the meantime in Body Mind and Spirit take a deep breath Let It Go latherance repeat as necessary you know it's an abundant Universe you can go out into some beautiful place and you could look out at the ocean or
the stars or whatever and see as many stars and as much ocean as anybody else it doesn't matter how old you are you still get to see as many stars as much ocean there's lots of people there are lots of people in your ideal age range lots of people that are right for you and uh allowing yourself to let go of those reasons why you couldn't or shouldn't find someone and allow yourself to be much more open and when there's other stuff that gets in the way I'm here for you thanks
