how to make a man think of you all the time wouldn't it be wonderful if you can make him think about you all the time most women secretly fantasize about it the concept of our man is so obsessed with us that he can't go more than a few minutes without thinking about us it's a little unrealistic but it's surely romantic everyone has responsibilities in life and cannot spend their entire day fantasizing about the person they love you do however want to remain a constant in his thoughts and emotions and there are methods to make that happen you can make him adore you to the point that he can't bear the thought of not being your man he will be unable to focus on anything else but you if you follow the seven steps in this video in the given order and also you can stop wondering whether he is thinking about you because you know better than anybody that he most likely is before I go into how to make him miss you let's take a look at the psychology of why we miss somebody as we are all aware it is human nature to seek Community humans are social beings that rely on one another but more precisely we require intimate connections we have a close bond with our family and our friends not just physically but also psychologically thus it's reasonable to assume that the majority of individuals desire a level of closeness friendship and long-term connection with others and when that closeness is not given we feel lonely that's when we realize we're missing someone this is because when you no longer have the opportunity to contact and be with the person you like their absence becomes painful it might even seem like physical pain at times stomach heart you know what I mean of course our purpose is not to cause bodily pain to the man we love so you must persuade him that not being with you is far more painful than being single we want him to want to be in a committed relationship with you when does a man begin to miss you according to most experts it takes roughly eight weeks for a guy to miss you this isn't surprising given that most men have a great time just after a breakup the good news is that this feeling does not stay long when a man feels as though you're slipping through his fingers he starts missing you because attraction is the foundation of male psychology and attraction fuels scarcity that is a man's attractiveness and desire for you fluctuate according to how much access he feels he has to you if he believes there is a hurdle he must pass before receiving your complete affection and attention he will be motivated to go that extra mile yet if he believes that you are always accessible to him regardless of how much work he puts in he will lose interest since there is no challenge a man enjoys chasing a woman and no matter how controversial it may be it is true in the end if you're the sort of woman who demands effort and investment from him his need to show himself will be strong so powerful that he gets preoccupied with how to win you over so when does a man start to miss you when all he can think about is you and how to become your number one man so the question remains how can you make him miss you that much these are my seven tried and true strategies for making him miss you and here's the deal you don't just want a man to miss you do you you truly want him to step up his game and chase you like you're the last woman on the planet I realize this is a little dramatic but hard times call for drastic measures as a result these techniques will not only make him miss you but will also make him want to seal the deal and commit to you especially if you want your ex back 1. stop initiating contact number one is perhaps the most important step in making a man miss you we prefer to be in control of situations as women as a result when a man gets distant and neglects to check in on us as frequently as we would want the first thought that comes to mind is to contact him so we create a legitimate motive for contacting him like asking for help to do your MBA assignment or a great new Instagram meme that reminds you of him nice try girl but it would be best if you cut it allowing him to miss you is a great technique to make him crave you and it will only happen if he hasn't heard from you in a long time thus if you continuously check in with him you never give him the opportunity to do so in the first place also he is now used to your contacting him every few days why should he to keep yourself preoccupied you should quit finding reasons to contact or text him and instead spend more time with your friends go shopping sign up for a dance class or plan a weekend trip home he will eventually sense that something has changed begin to miss your interactions and return to properly pursuing you 2. make yourself your best friend women here's the deal about attraction we are drawn to those who we believe are living a wonderful life because we want to be a part of it nobody is interested in a man who spends his days in his basement playing video games similarly no man is attracted to or misses a woman who spends all day on her bed waiting for his text messages hence if you want to swiftly make a man miss you you must first become your own best friend and then proceed to have fun go do new activities that the two of you talked about doing without him you want him to think dang she did not even ask me if I was interested in taking part stop waiting for him to show up phone your number and start living your biggest life the easiest way to make your ex-boyfriend or other man miss you is to show him that your life does not revolve around him and that if he wants to be a part of it he must keep up with it 3.
make your life mysterious now it's time to become serious or at least mysterious if there is one thing we can learn from men it is that they are really skilled at just telling you what they want you to know well not so much and to be honest that is a very useful life hack even in a loving relationship as a result the next step to making him miss you is to disappear from his radar entirely you want him to be curious about what you're up to and frustrated that he has no idea without contacting you therefore if you're someone who frequently updates her Instagram stories take a break or block him hide your stuff from him let him imagine you having fun without him or even worse with someone else you don't want him to know everything you did just by following your social media if you haven't talked to him in a week remember that if guys already know everything there is to know about you they will lose interest that gives them the impression that they have already comp review which lessens their enthusiasm for you so believe me when I say that a little mystery goes a long way retain his attention by being a woman full of surprises passions and a lot of fun it will not only make him miss you but will also make him want to see you again 4. while you're with him leave a lasting impression men remember two categories of women the woman who broke his heart and made his life so much fun you should preferably be the latter to make a man miss you you must make an effect on him while you are with him you want him to smirk whenever he remembers you and the greatest way to accomplish this is to be a wonderful person to be around you should be in a good mood and engaged the next time the two of you meet or talk make it a point to nurture happiness on your own so that you have much to offer while you're together nobody wants to hang around with a Negative Nancy after all we only miss good things and people thus by becoming his own happiness pill and hulking him you ensure that he misses you while the two of you are apart 5. Let Him Live his life this may appear counter-intuitive at first you obviously want him to miss you rather than live his best life without you how dare he but bear with me the psychology of making a guy miss you is a little strange but in order to make him want to spend more time with you he must first begin to hate the time he spends apart from you strangely giving a man room to fall in love makes him more inclined to do so instead of clinging to him like a parasite encourage him to enjoy his life and avoid checking in while he is preoccupied with something else the more freedom he has while dating you the more he will miss your soul trust and spontaneity when he is not with you the idea is to offer him enough alone time that he will want to spend the rest of his spare time with you remember that the ultimate aim is to convince him to commit therefore you must demonstrate to him that being with you will not seem like imprisonment but rather an improvement over single life 6.
stop giving a damn the key to making a man miss you and commit is to avoid chasing him it's the subtle art of not caring that gets you his attention and effort instead of obsessing about why how and when he will text or phone me back make it a point to relax not check and not stress keep yourself occupied with personal tasks or jobs to distract yourself from him as much as possible try to integrate mindfulness practices whenever you think about him meditating coloring and journaling are some of my favorite mindfulness techniques that way you won't be tempted to call him in a time of weakness these exercises will assist you in confronting and releasing your emotions rather than suppressing or obsessing over them in this manner you avoid being driven by your anxiety and allow for healthy actions but telling him you miss him or are worried he is losing interest will simply put more pressure on him and cause him to withdraw even more 7.