how to make and choose you over the other woman there is always a lot of competition for guys especially handsome ones when it comes to who to choose he may like one over the other but he may find it difficult to choose because others may have things that he also finds appealing when a guy you like has so many women competing for his attention as a woman you must learn how to make him select you above the other women you can take him away from her no matter how dedicated he appears to be right now
with a few basic psychological tricks we'll teach you exactly how to make him choose you over other women after watching this video you will understand how to make him desire your attention and beg you for a chance at a relationship all while thinking it was his idea to pursue you three golden rules for competing a man with another woman before we get into the details of stealing a guy's heart here are the three golden rules for fighting for a man with another woman these recommendations will help him recognize you as a special woman distinguishing you
from all the other girls in his life and attracting his attention follow these three principles and you'll be the center of his Universe in no time rule one stay positive you're undoubtedly feeling a flood of emotions right now knowing that his heart belongs to another woman this is perfectly normal and we completely understand however it is critical that you remain positive whenever you are with him and never allow any negative emotions to take over remember when you were a little girl and fantasized about marrying happily ever after in a fairy tale relationship with an amazing
Prince here's a little secret that men will never tell you they too have a fantasy every man's heart longs to be in a beautiful relationship filled with love and affection but what actually happens most relationships deteriorate and die couples become bored and tired of each other when they do the same things over and over when a man notices that you are a constant source of positive energy he will become addicted to you and somewhere in the back of his mind he'll begin to see the prospect of a genuine meaningful connection with you keep a positive
attitude when you're with him positive feminine energy is contagious and it won't be long before he develops feelings for you rule 2 never show jealousy it's perfectly normal for you to be envious of the other girl at this point especially if it appears that he prefers her to you your mind may be racing with thoughts such as how to make him desire you more than his girlfriend or how to play games to make him jealous and want you more stop right now if this is you overthinking and allowing jealousy to take over is the worst
thing you can do for your situation this makes you appear needy and unattractive and it will quickly turn him off and kill any attraction he had for you on the other hand if you're relaxed and Casual about the whole thing he'll feel compelled to approach you in fact it will make the other woman appear needy and annoying when she notices his heart slowly drifting to you she will try to lock him down and play games to keep him with her however as previously stated this is a huge turn off for men his attention will be
drawn to you by the contrast between her needy behavior and your casual and positive energy this is one of the most effective techniques to entice them away from her and into your arms rule 3 establish boundaries your goal is to be the most important woman in his life someone he looks up to on a daily basis rather than just a side dish girlfriend that is why it is critical for you to set boundaries setting clear boundaries will send him the message that he must work for your time and attention this is especially true if he
selected someone over you but still wishes to remain friends with you as a result he will be unable to use you as an easy fling or a source of validation and attention in other words he can only have you if he gives his entire heart to you it is critical that you establish this rule from the start this will make it easier for you to win him over later on and will strengthen his love and commitment to you even if he chose her over you and now wants you back you must make it clear to
him that you will not lie down and be easy and that he must work hard to take back your heart how to persuade a man to pick you over another woman in five easy steps as you may have guessed winning a man over another woman is a simple process the two basic things are presenting yourself as a pleasant chill and optimistic POS ability for him and driving him away from The Other Woman this is a long procedure but we've broken it down into five simple phases follow the techniques below and you'll be able to steal
any man's heart from another woman in no time step one be friendly with him you can't directly entice a man who is attracted to another woman you must instead fly under the radar openly fighting The Other Woman for his love will lead to a lot of friction and unpleasant tension the man will become disinterested in you as a result of being placed in a very awkward situation by you you can approach him without directly challenging the other woman if you are just friends with him he will eventually be able to trust you and open up
to you therefore this is a crucial step despite the fact that you might not yet be in a romantic relationship you will also grow in importance in his life Step 2 make him talk about the other woman you have eventually want to get him to talk about the other female and his relationship with her many women make the mistake of avoiding any discussion about the other girl however this is a vital component of developing a trustworthy and personal relationship with the guy the simplest approach to accomplish this is to just put him on the spot
and ask him whether they are dating consider yourself in his shoes for a moment it is always uncomfortable for a man to disclose his connection with another girl it's much more embarrassing when he's asked by a female friend here's the deal it does not matter at all if he claims they are just friends casually seeing each other or even boyfriend and girlfriend what important is that he overcomes his shyness and opens himself to you at this point he feels safe opening up to you and discussing his feelings and while you are not yet his lover
he will feel much more emotionally connected to you this emotional relationship will strengthen with time to the point where all you have to do is give him a small nudge for him to act on it more on this later step 3 be his getaway everyone is yearning for a getaway in a world filled with worry boredom and negativity as previously said men will only commit to a woman if they believe they are entering a relationship full of excitement and positive energy being his own getaway is the simplest technique to get him to prefer you over
another woman this does not imply letting him take advantage of your body or becoming his casual fling you should strive to make each encounter with him enjoyable exciting and significant so the next time you hang out with him skip the boring old coffee instead propose a wonderful trip to see the sunset or a fun afternoon of rock climbing when he learns that his interactions with you are consistently memorable and enjoyable he will begin to consider the prospect of a relationship with you here's another approach to get him to leave the other girl take notice of
everything about her that irritates or makes him sad whenever he talks about her simply by avoiding these characteristics he will begin to favor you over the other woman and gradually lose interest in her step 4 playfully flirt with him once you've built a personal connection with him you may begin incorporating romantic themes into your relationship he may not be ready for a serious relationship at this time in other circumstances he may still be involved with the other girl to get over this you could flirt with him in a light-hearted and humorous manner the idea is
to make things feel flirtatious and romantic without putting him under too much strain you may for example tease him about his new fitness routine before lavishing him with a genuine compliment it's also a good idea to playfully touch him at right time remember that attraction is an emotion to form an emotional connection with a man make it appear as though you are boyfriend and girlfriend even if it is not formal step 5 make him chase you if you executed the previous steps correctly the guy should now be emotionally connected to you the final stage is
to make things official and permanently imprison him the trick is this you must persuade him to take action in other words he must believe that it was his idea from the start so here's what you're supposed to do after a time of back and forth texting Hangouts and positive feelings suddenly cut him off from his perspective this will be extremely upsetting he is used to spending wonderful times with you and appreciating the emotional tie that he has with you at this point but if you take it away from him he'll know how important you are
in his life give him the silent treatment for the next week or two take some time to go out and have fun with your female friends and don't be afraid to talk to other men as well your crush will eventually contact you when this happens don't entirely ignore him but keep your responses shorter and quit wasting time and energy on him wait for all of his emotions to build up inside him before forcing him to make a move on you in most circumstances he will suggest meeting up again at some time for example your crush
hey it's been a long time do you want to go out to dinner tomorrow you I'd love to hang out with you but you're going to have to take me somewhere special This brilliant phrase effectively pushes him to take you out on a proper date and treat you like a VIP and because you had him wait so long he will be under a lot of pressure to treat you wonderfully on the date if you want to give him one more nudge and move things along do this wait till the date is quiet then look him
in the eyes with a grin and ask him so what made you want to take me out tonight this is the ideal opportunity for him to make a move and make things official the best part about this whole thing is that he has no idea you're attempting to win him over in fact he will believe he has been falling in love with you all along this also indicates that he will chase you and treat you like a princess throughout your relationship well that's all about it hope it helped thanks for watching