my ex-wife abandoned me but he freaked out when he saw me happy with another my ex-wife found that the grass was greener on the other side but when he realized he had lost it was already too late I lost everything when my ex-wife left me or at least that's what she thought but when he saw me with someone else her reaction was so unexpected that even I was shocked last year my ex-wife had an affair and decided to leave me intensively feel relief when this happened from the outside our wedding could look good but inside
it was completely empty years ago I felt blue due to mental and financial pressure that she put in me she had a habit of pulling out large amounts of money from my account leaving me struggling to pay our bills whenever I confronted her she blamed me for not making enough money no matter what I did it was never enough for her everything I did seemed to piss her off or piss her off I tried to plan family meetings OR activities in the hope of spending good times together but she was never interested she complained got
mad and preferred to stay in bed and sleep eventually I stopped trying to include it in anything what is clear generated more complaints from her she accused me of keeping her children away from her although she never has Showed interest in actively participating in their lives after a while she started spending nights away from home at the beginning she said she was staying at a friend's house someone i barely knew when i asked questions she got angry and said it wasn't my business where she was when my ex-wife decided she wanted to divorce I saw
myself with a mixture of emotions on the one hand was worried about what my life would be like after the divorce on the other I couldn't help but feel relief at the see an end to our marriage it turns out that her lawyer wasn't very careful and made a lot of mistakes in the documentation what delayed our divorce hearing for several months every time I found a mistake I returned the documents without signing them and the lawyer's office had to correct forward them and forward them but often made new mistakes or repeated the previous ones
large errors in the documentation included write my name incorrectly her name the birth dates of our children and even included children who weren't ours there were also wrong information about our marriage and our address included properties that did not contain pets that did not exist companies that did not belong to us suggesting an agreement involving half a million dollars by companies that we don't hurt one of the drafts still had the lawyer's name spelled incorrectly what I found so fascinating that while in the bathroom took a while about seven drafts before they can fix most
of these mistakes but even final draft sent to court still contained important errors this whole process was frustrating but also 1 little fun because of the number of errors and with basics they were it made a difficult situation that is a little more bearable knowing that at least these mistakes were slowing things down and giving me time to prepare for what was to come during the process my ex-wife's lawyer tried to argue before the judge that I should cover all fees legal and judicial however I managed to present a strong argument against this observing that
many of delays in the process were due to errors on their part not mine there were so many errors in the documentation that they sent me that took longer to sort it all out because of this the judge didn't make me pay those fees after we get divorced my ex-wife went to live with 1 man by whom she left me however he turned out to be 1 abusive person when I changed all my bank passwords she lost access to my money and quickly realized how much depended of my income to maintain your lifestyle that was
a shock to her to make matters worse she was taking care of payments from the house we lived in that actually belonged to her uncle as she wasn't making the payments the house was almost being learned by the bank her uncle came to me desperate for help he said if I wanted to stick with the home would have to cover late payments that she didn't which cost about five thousand dollars for six months of repression don't pay I told him didn't have that amount of money but I suggested buying at home to my surprise he
accepted and now I own the house that belonged to my ex-wife it has been a year since the divorce was finalized I got a promotion at work which came with a good wage increase I still live in the same house making improvements when i can pay I didn't find a new girlfriend but through dating site I have met new people and I'm enjoying my life from single looking back is almost useless as my ex woman left 1 stable situation to be with someone which turned out to be very different from what she expected and his
actions almost caused his uncle to lose your property in a way her decision to divorce me turned out to be a big favor although it didn't look like that at the time a update it's been a year since the conclusion of my divorce this past year I took significant steps to improve myself Things to consult a therapist that encouraged me to focus on personal growth and that's exactly what I've been doing changed my diet and exercise routine which led me to lose more than twenty kilos football has always been a passion for me then I
played regularly again and even started training the youth football team my children and me we alsoed my love of reading setting the goal of reading a new book every week these efforts have also borne fruit at work I received a big raise and a promotion which made it a lot easier to take care of myself and my children despite all these positive changes my ex-wife suddenly wants to be part of our lives again your last relationship with the man that she thought it would save her from our marriage continues became violent he was abusive and
a recent episode was so serious who took her to the hospital our son was with her at that time and had to call an ambulance despite the evidence my ex woman refuses to provide complaint or admit what happened although the bruises clearly contain the story last night I attended 1 family party I always got along with this part of the family and they invited me to go I was polite to my ex-wife but I kept my distance choosing not to start a conversation with her however your family seems to be convinced that we are still
in love what couldn't be further from the truth my ex-wife might have been fine with the way things were at our wedding but i certainly wasn't I was so withdrawn and almost indifferent as if I were there just as another source of money for her in the last 2 years we were together she took advantage emotionally and financially from me during our last year as a couple she cheated on me with another man every time I tried to talk to her about her cheating she denied everything and went to his house when I finally caught
her red-handed he blamed me saying it was because I didn't support her enough but the truth is that i I was donating all my income to pay our bills I hadn't even bought new clothes or shoes in years because of how tight the money was then out of nowhere she appeared at one of the football games after the game she asked me if i was ready to live with her again I was totally bewildered and asked because she would do something like that she invented a story about how we're still in love we have a
child together and how best would it be for him if we grew up together I had to tell her directly that no I have no love or trust for her in any way I even reminded her that she still owed me over five hundred dollars for fixing her car her answer was that she would pay me if we moved back in together at this time I couldn't hold back and laugh so much that I doubled in laughter when she saw me laughing started to cry what you made me laugh even more maybe it wasn't the
best reaction but after all what I went through of all the effort I put into improving the idea of going back to the person who caused me so much pain seemed the worst possible decision my son still has a lot of love for his mother and i would never do anything that would harm their relationship I think there is a distance she needs to travel and he will manage it with his own actions I was surprised that she suggested we move back in together and even more surprised that she has not offered an or Shown
any sign of regret for your past actions instead she just walked bravely that we should start living together again acting like i brought something valuable to the table that kind of thinking on her part it's quite weird and then our son who had to go through the harrowing experience of seeing your mother in a situation harmful I deeply believe that it is important to try to get the full guard to protect you from being in an environment so harmful again 2nd update going to my latest news I recently met someone I especially understand that healing
all these events will take time for everyone involved but I'm hopeful that everyone we can find our own versions of happiness regardless of the decisions we make in our relationships this last year has been a rollercoaster for me I celebrated the first anniversary of my divorce in november since then I have focused on personal improvement through therapy and even dating some people I met some fantastic women and I admit that some were not 1 great combination for me last Monday my ex-wife saw 1 Facebook post from my current girlfriend Cher Dear shared some photos from
1 wonderful trip we did together over the weekend we enjoy delicious food drinks in general we had incredible moments capturing many magical moments in photos I didn't normally document my relationships with photos but I really like her so when she asked if he could publish our photos of the trip and mark me I was happy to accept was sure that sharing these photos would cause some drama but the reaction I got my ex-wife and her family it was incredibly intense let me give you a little more context to Share the full picture my ex-wife was
unfaithful for over a year before we officially end our marriage she was until dating another Person before we get divorced we are now divorced for 1 year during our wedding my ex-wife was emotionally and financially manipulative and harmful with me unfortunately she remains abusive but after I posted these photos she reached 1 New level of hostility and lack of respect on monday she distorted history to look like that I had been unfaithful complained about how embarrassing it was to she be humiliated to see pictures of me on social networks with another woman she accused me
of being selfish insensitive for not considering her feelings and labeled me a coward for hiding that was dating another Person she even stated that with my actions destroy any hope of that we would be together again saying any love she still had by me had been murdered then she took my unfaithful ways for all time that was making these accusations she was on the phone screaming at me and rebuking me enquanto isso I couldn't help but find the irony in his statements and simply that while she spent a good thirty minutes complaining about how supposedly
ruined our relationship and attracted same as she betrayed me and was abusive throughout our relationship when my ex-wife asked about my curiosity during our wedding I made it clear to her that I was completely faithful and loyal until our relationship officially ended she didn't stop there and kept questioning me had indicated that just as I don't get involved in her business she has no right to intrude on mine though i try to set this limit was bombed a series of really funny text messages and offensives attacking me and my current girlfriend she until threatened to
send direct messages to my girlfriend to tell all kinds of negative things about being married to me I told her I could try if you thought it would make any difference then my ex-wife mentioned what she wanted meet Cher in person to see what kind of woman she was suggesting that she must be a horrible person for supposedly ending a happy marriage That's when I really started to question her understanding of reality I reminded her frankly that our marriage had ended over a year ago and that she was the one who had an affair left
me for someone else and filed for divorce at this point my ex-wife started to cry amidst the tears confessed that he was hoping that somehow we forget apparently becoming I like to accept the consequences of their own actions that led to the end of our marriage my ex-wife recently confessed who is not happy in their current relationship with the boyfriend mentioning that he does not treat her well continues it didn't surprise me as I had suspected for some time however hear about her problems brings me no satisfaction I really don't have feelings for her and
I don't want to go back I'd rather not have to interact with her but if necessary I will do this in a more positive way my life is going very well at this moment I found happiness with my girlfriend Dear she brings a lot of joy to my life and I always hope to spend time with her she is the last person i talk to before bed and the first one I look for when I wake up we are even planning another trip together soon I am aware that sharing photos of our trip can trigger
1 negative reaction from my ex-wife but for me living my happy life is worth any repercussions now i'm sure that my ex-wife always tried to make me look like the villain what is a classic narcissistic behavior those who gave me advice are right I must keep our interactions strictly about our son and avoid long and meaningless conversations with her and yes i am prepared for the possibility that she tries to spread lies about me but I am focused on continuing to advance positively comment you know guys stories like this show us how important it is
for us to value ourselves and move on even after going through difficult times no matter how hard someone tried to hurt us the important thing is to find our happiness and build a better life for ourselves sometimes the best answer to those who hurt us is simply to and be happy leaving behind everything that didn't do us good and you what do you think leave your opinions in the comments second story wife cheat on husband mistreats children and lies in court enjoy not having your children anymore I have no concrete dialogues for this story because
it happened about 4 years ago and I really want to forget about it in the cast we have empty human mother s sister me and my father my mom isn't exactly the best person in the world she used to abuse me and s both physically and mentally mainly mentally avoided responsibilities at home and also decided to cheat on my father with several men about thirteen years ago and never stopped when my dad found out he just stopped sleeping in the same 4th and stopped being affectionate with her he stayed with her because of us s
I and decided to create us basically alone since my mother was always away with her lovers my mother just fell come home to eat sleep and hurt me or her and the rest of the day she denied being outside working and working overtime however all money that she gained was kept to herself and my father had who do real overtime to take care of us and he was tired of not getting any help this is where my father's revenge plan begins he was quiet for a long time managing work and parenthood very well but in
the meantime he was collecting all the evidence I could about my mother's betrayals as well as evidence of abuse against me and that he also continued to support us teaching us to stand up for and support each other helping us to understand how the behavior of our mother was bad that we didn't need to justify his bad treatment only because she was our mother he remained the best person he could for about ten years until s I would be big enough to testify in court so he immediately filed for divorce and got it very easily
since my mother kept lying about how he was abusing me and our children but of course he had proof that she was a traitor and abuser so they got divorced but the plan wasn't there because he wanted us to live with him my father left our house immediately after the divorce and two weeks later I moved in with him my sister stayed with her mother let's skip a few months until the court date to discuss custody two children about six months earlier my mother lied saying i lived with her to get that check Food Quality
but when court day came s I testified against her we explain how she was 1 bad mother etc and I said I had been living with my father for months contrary to what my mother had said of course she wanted to play the victim with lies but we refute them the judge wasn't liking that at all and told her that she needed to stop lying and was being fined for lying to a judicial authority of course she lost our custody and was obliged to return the money of the food cell for us now she lives
alone and sometimes tries to play the forgive me card I know I made a mistake with us just to ask for money right after but none of us want to see her again not exactly massive revenge sweet and evil but after I told my dad about this sub he said i should post the story hope she really use Red and check out this post here the issue of food restriction in my country when parents divorce is the other father who gives money to those who have custody of children we call this money food restriction but
in this case where both parents have only a child in your care they don't get anything from each other my mother said she had the two of us to receive money from my father but that was a lie edition this post is still small but I'm reading the comments to my dad and he loves all support he is very happy with you thank you very much for that comment what did you think of this story i am impressed with this father's strength and resilience and your children often the people who should protect and care for
us end up being the ones that hurt us the most and it's inspiring see how they managed to get over it all and move on for me this story is a clear example that sometimes the best thing to do is to get away from those who does us harm and fight for what is fair even if it takes time and you what would they do in this situation leave your opinions in the comments I love to know what you think if you liked the video leave the like and don't forget to subscribe to the channel
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