THE UNCONTROLLABLE GESTURES OF DESIRE Today I am going to help you recognize some of the bodily signs of attraction. And if you pay close attention to body language, you won't miss a clue from today. What's more, do you know what is the most interesting part of what you are going to learn today?
That these are unconscious and, in some cases, uncontrollable signals. This means that, whether he wants you to find out or not, you are going to find out if he likes you. Shall we start?
We are going to see several unconscious gestures that reflect attraction. Some of them are almost exclusive to women, others are universal. Universals have a biological basis, they are almost always triggered by hormones.
And those that occur mainly in women have, for the most part, a social, cultural foundation. Oh! And at some point in this video I'm going to tell you a powerful little trick to increase the chances of being attractive to a woman.
Let's go with the first sign of attraction. Sign 1: He blushes When we are attracted to another person, the blood flows to our face. And what it causes is that the cheeks blush.
Is this something that only happens to women? No, it happens to both of us, but . .
. women usually have less thick skin than men. So if blood flows to our cheeks, we are more likely to be noticed than a man.
But why does the blood flow to the cheeks? Well, it is an involuntary and uncontrollable behavior with an evolutionary basis whose objective is to preserve the species. When a person feels physically attracted, the brain sends a signal to try to take advantage of that procreation opportunity.
Then he causes that blush to emulate the heat of a sexual act. It is his way of stimulating the subconscious of the person in front of him. This blush is also usually noticeable on the lips, which are slightly flushed.
If the woman in question wears painted lips, you will not be able to know what happens under the lipstick, but if she is not made up you will have the possibility of collecting an additional indication of attraction. Let's go with the second attraction signal. My students of the Expert Course in Influence and Persuasion know how to interpret this signal in relation to the impact it is having on others.
You have the complete training available on the Personal Power Campus at 30kcoaching. com/personalpower Signal 2: The wallet does not enter the scene There is a whole repertoire of behaviors around a woman's purse or purse. The same could happen with men, but it is less common for them to carry a purse.
These are behaviors that take place unconsciously and these same behaviors can occur in relation to other objects. But the purse or purse is usually a present and easily accessible item. So it is usually his turn to play this role of receptor of emotions.
But what exactly happens to the bag? Well, it tends to be used as a symbolic shield in front of the trunk when the person feels uncomfortable or feels rejection towards whoever is in front of them. So if you see this happening, it is an indicator that she is probably not attracted to you.
In this case, what would be a positive indicator is that nothing obstructs the space between your trunk and his (no bags, folders, or crossed arms). Because that physical openness usually occurs accompanied by an emotional disposition to get closer. Sign 3: Your breathing speeds up Do you know the expression “makes my heart race”?
Well, it is not just an expression. According to the Science of People research group, when we are in the presence of someone who is attractive to us , our heart rate accelerates. But what do we do with this data?
Are you going to take that woman's pulse before and after she sees you to see if it varies? It would be a little weird if you did, right? There is a much more observable clue that is directly related to heart rate : the rate of respiration.
And this is something you can appreciate. But do you want me to tell you a most interesting and useful curiosity in this sense? I already anticipated that I was going to tell you a powerful little trick and there it goes.
This same research group published that an inverse link had also been found between attraction and heart rate. In an experiment where the participants' heart rate was artificially accelerated , it was found that this was related to a greater likelihood that the person in front of them would be attractive to them. Your emotions affect your body… but your body also affects your emotions.
And this makes it more likely that someone will find you attractive during a bachata class than during a coffee in the afternoon. What do you think of this powerful little detail? Before continuing, head over to the comments section and tell me how you can think of you can take advantage of this secret.
How are you going to accelerate his heart? I love reading your ideas. Sign 4: Their feet point towards you Your feet are a most reliable social compass.
They reflect very well the direction in which a person's intentions and desires point . The key is that you notice in which direction the feet of the woman you are interested in point when she is with you. If the feet are pointing directly at you, this is a sign of attraction, or at least sincere interest in you.
On the other hand, if when you look at their feet, you see that they point towards the door or in any direction away from you, the indicator is not so positive. Their feet reflect where their interest is… and it's not you. This is something that you can appreciate very well in yourself, if you are attentive.
When you find yourself in a conversation with someone you no longer want to be talking to, the moment you are aware that you are in that situation, take a look at your feet. And you will see how revealing this sign is. The feet are the first to prepare for your body to move in the direction where your desires are deposited.
And they don't ask your permission to get ready to leave. Signal 5: Use the intimate gaze I have already told you about this in another video not long ago. The intimate gaze is the one that follows the triangular path from one eye, to the other eye, and to the chest.
This is a type of look that we only use with people to whom we feel very, very close. And it is something that happens unconsciously. If you are talking to a woman and you perceive the ocular journey of her intimate gaze, everything indicates that she is attracted to you.
Sign 6: Smile frequently The smile escapes uncontrollably when the person to whom we are attracted speaks . If that woman smiles at you, don't assume she is attracted to you just because of that. But if your smile accompanies any of the other signs of attraction, be suspicious.
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