my wife brought the lover closer to our children and together they were planning to use my money I caught her in the act and took everything from her imagine the feeling of knowing that something is not right but not being able to find evidence I searched for any clue any sign until you I ended up finding that I never thought it was possible I am 35 years old and my wife Sara is 33 at my age I think I did very well I own 1 agricultural business and recently got 1 investment to bring my company new heights I don't want to look convinced but I believe I am successful I've been told this several times and I can see it myself so it's so frustrating to be here counting as my marriage isling before my eyes I think my wife is cheating on me and say this seems surreal I feel like I've done everything 1 good husband and father should do met my wife at university it was 1 casual encounter but looking back it looked like it was fate she was visiting brother who happened to be my roommate what caught my attention the most was her boldness she approached me and not the other way around with Sara I didn't have to go through the complicated process to run after a woman get carried away by conversation or games from the moment we met it was clear that she saw something in me something she wanted in her life and that was certainly flattering our dating days were fantastic at some point she practically became our 3rd 4th classmate coming in and out of our little apartment as if it belonged to the place nothing stopped me from taking days off just to be with me she was in love and so was I I felt that nothing could separate us looking back that's why what I think is happening hurts even more we got married eight years after we graduated and marriage was everything we dreamed of our life together started on a high don't forget much a small house an early job as a landscape designer for me and she working part time while studying for my master's degree but we asked each other and that was enough returning to the present this whole context is relevant as I mentioned recently I got financing for the business I founded with two other partners we were fighting for 3 years and this was our big moment not last year I traveled all over the country meeting investors networking driving our Startup initially we raise money from personal savings and interested friends and family but this round of investments it was time to really make an impact despite being such a happy moment because when finally I came home to start my four weeks off Sarah was so far away the plan at work was simple each of us would take four weeks off to reconnect with the family clear your mind and think of new ideas to expand the business my partners would take care of the operations of the day by day while I was away leaving me with nothing to do but relax after so many trips this was clearly very necessary I have two beautiful daughters and with nothing related to the work in mind I spent most of the time with them last week I came back early from the golf club because I was with a terrible headache by passing the 4th of the girls I heard my wife inside laughing very curious and wanting to participate in the joke I looked into her face when she saw me it was disturbing she looked very surprised to see me and why did you turn the call off so suddenly I kept thinking about it but I didn't say anything at the time later during dinner I casually mentioned who were you talking to earlier ah with a geis we were talking about her wedding and I promised I wouldn't tell anyone until it was replaced she replied carelessly this story it didn't match the laughter I had heard but I didn't say anything at that moment I insisted a little more and asked because she was so shocked to see me enter the room it was like she didn't want me to hear what was being said she hesitated then said I just didn't expect you to come back anytime soon just that something felt wrong that night and I couldn't sleep my mind was full of questions my instinct told me something was wrong we hadn't been intimate since I got back which didn't help at all she kept saying that I was very tired of taking care of the children and that the migraine she faced made it impossible to have life in the bed we used to have more reactions I don't know if I believed that this was the same woman who used to be insatiable the next morning I suggested she take a trip to Hawaii as a way to relieve stress she was begging to go again it's been a long time since he loved our 1st time there she was shocked since this gift came from nowhere she looked genuinely excited and I hadn't been so happy for some time I told her I was serious but she I had no idea what mine were real intentions I wanted to throw the one at home to be able to investigate without your interference she did not suspect anything and agreed to the trip she left on Thursday and is scheduled to return on Monday that night after she left Discover my research who better to start with than her daughters who spend most of the day with their mother they are 05:07 years old so they are small but already you're old enough to see if something is wrong OR at least I expected I gathered the girls in the living room starting with a common conversation and then trying to direct her to your mom and any potential friends that they could know hey girls you know mommy's friend the one she always talks the phone with I asked casually uncle I said the youngest very lively I froze to hear this and asked her to clarify who was this guy he's mommy's friend sometimes he comes here with ice cream added my eldest daughter I tried to keep calm and asked what he was like. she said he was tall black and white my heart sank when I heard this because here is the question we are white with no black heritage for all I know then because my daughters that are very white are so close to a man they call uncle j a man who entered my house without the my knowledge my wife is bringing strange men closer of my daughters and that's very disturbing to me he clearly can't be a real uncle and if my suspicions were already high now they sure are I'm being paranoid maybe the j be just a friend that she was afraid to tell me knowing that i could react exactly like i'm reacting now I know this is just 1 way for me to try to calm down why not it makes sense for her to bring another man into our house and he be 1 absolute secret to me how stupid she could be especially if you were sleeping with him or maybe she kept it a secret because I was gone for about a year behind financing for the business and rarely stayed home for more than a week how I almost wasn't around she could have felt a lot more comfortable with a case partner and maybe she was so comfortable who thought that I couldn't leave the kids home alone so the man would need to come to her I have this feeling in my deep stomach that something is very very wrong on the sixth morning after dropping the girls off at school decided to do 1 investigation around the house I needed answers anything that gives me 1 little peace of mind but the more I sought more frustrated I got I found absolutely nothing no single clue at the end of the day I almost felt relieved maybe i was just being paranoid at the same time knew not finding anything was not 1 confirmation that nothing was happening however I end up putting my concern aside at that moment when she came home I would have a chance to investigate further after lunch the girls and i play hide and seek these girls can find the craziest hiding places and beyond the concern that a day they hid in a dangerous place like the fridge or a in the attic it was still fun to play with them to ensure safety limit o I only play in my room to their mother's office their room and the living room I found one of my daughters easily but the first one was always more difficult while looking for her in the room I knocked over a tall, handmade basket where we kept old books it was more decorative to make us look more intellectual than we really were aesthetics and all I had searched this basket before looking for evidence of what another man could have done in the house but it seems to be the first time I let out 1 small piece of paper folded like origami hidden in the corner you clearly now if I hadn't dropped the basket maybe I never noticed even if I had seen probably would have ignored as if it were a girls' joke but this time something stopped me from taking it and examining it. later as soon as we're done recording I went to my room and unfolded the paper emotions hit me like a freight train there was shock perplexity anger and finally a deep depression it was like those hand toys that children do at school but this one was far from innocent each fold revealed 1 different position some family members others so extreme that I had to Google them then initial ways a j at the top and an s at the bottom alternating from side to side since i found this I'm not the same anymore because it confirms that something is happening something much more than I would like to know but I need to know I'm counting the hours until my wife gets back preparing for 1 big confrontation I need to talk to someone and that's why I'm out here venting I will read all your comments but it may be that I don't have a chance to respond anyway I'll keep you posted when something new happens update if you remember I'm the guy who came to tell the story about my wife Sara that I was getting a man that my children called uncle j at home a lot happened I ended up forgetting to give an update since I was dealing with worse things but i'm here with what should be final update since things have come to a reasonable conclusion but still a conclusion Sara came back from the trip and I didn't say anything immediately I put it with the and heard their meaningless stories about how the trip went all the time I kept my face neutral waving at the right times and offering fake smiles inside I was boiling eu wanted to punch the but I never put my hand on her and I never would but I wanted solid proof something undeniable this way if i decided to lose my mind over her would be fully justified if it were true I would surprise her with a divorce that would make men all over the world proud of me i wanted her to suspect that i knew something and made her suffer so I stayed quiet playing my role this whole situation hurts a lot because I paid for this woman's master's degree I helped get the job she has now and I never cared how much she earned because I took care of all the accounts it was only one year a single year where I've been more involved than usual trying to improve our lives to give her the life of dreams that we always talk about and she never complained once if she had complained I would have worked to get home more often but I thought she understood that the situation was dire on monday was already participating in virtual meetings again on tuesday I returned to the office we rented as soon as I saw Isaac one of my partners and a great friend I pulled the sideways told him I needed to talk about something personal and he looked at me asking what was but I let it slip I think Sara is cheating on me actually i'm pretty sure I just don't have anything concrete your eyes widened and he asked if I was sure he looked as skeptical as the US had initially been when you think about it after all he knew Sara well so it seemed out of character to her explained o that he had found and how he needed evidence irrefutable to confront the making sure she couldn't deny it so that I could avoid the need to bring divorce to court my goal was to ensure that she got nothing when I walked in with the divorce petition my wife was relatively respected in the community and I knew she wanted to keep everything a secret if i had undeniable proof Zac asked what the plan was so I explained my strategy and as he intended to catch it on the flag how Isaac is more skilled in technology than I am asked for your help to get cameras who captured both video and audio he agreed to help me with this but wanted to know if I would really be willing to see what they could capture I said yes since I had no other choice the following week I set the trap one morning I mentioned Sara who would be out of town for three days for a big meeting in another state I also told her that my mother would take care of the children.
for a few days something she was eager to do I had already arranged everything with my mother promising to explain later I told Sara all this while pretending to be distracted packing my briefcase out of the corner of my eye I almost felt I saw a slight smile did you know that she already I was planning what I would do with my absence and that of children the night before I installed the cameras that Isaac had provided me with making sure they were hidden but with a clear view of the main areas that she could attend I just hoped she didn't notice them after breakfast goodbyes I left home but instead of leaving town I stayed at a nearby hotel and worked from there over the weekend on Sunday I came home I took the cameras and took them to Zack who pulled the images from the memory card my worst fears have been confirmed around fourteen o'clock that day Sara walked around in the living room with phone in hand I watched as she digs up a number j she said he's gone will be out for two whole days please comes as soon as possible i miss you I stood there watching the laptop screen with a growing fury while there was a smile at the sweet that he said the phone i wanted to break the laptop go to my house and throw it outside call her all kinds of things princess but I forced myself to stay calm i needed to see more that night a man which obviously must have been the one I arrived he was tall dark and muscular and once you got into my house Sara practically threw herself into his arms and kissed him I missed you so much she said he even replied and talked about how they would soon be together living the life they wanted she added let's spend his money together and the two laughed hearing those words twisted something inside me my heart shot in the chest I can swear I've never been so angry in my life and I hated every 2nd one of how it made me feel. I couldn't believe what was happening my wife was planning a future with this man a stranger in my own house and she still had brought him close to my daughters the footage showed them going to her office I felt ashamed of having to do the Zac watch this but i needed to know everything they started to undress exchanging touches and intimate words that made my skin goose I was feeling humiliated and angry at this point I asked the zaque to go away because things were going too far and he left immediately but I kept watching so they went to the girls room I almost screamed alone in that room my daughters room should be the limit at least that but it looked like at least that was my conclusion that she was intoxicated by the excitement of what she was doing and seemed to like how it was all wrong they were careless and made a mess of everything I watched everything boiling with rage but I forced myself to absorb every detail that was all the proof i needed and wanted to see only once and never again somehow managed to do this more if you never had to watch your wife cheat on you you don't know how funny that is that night I couldn't sleep my mind was a thousand wondering what to do to follow I considered filing for divorce immediately and throw it on the street but I knew that he was acting hastily could lose the advantage I also knew I needed to think about my daughters in all this their mother couldn't just disappear I needed to be methodical destroy her in a way she didn't see coming when I came back I immediately told her we needed to talk her face changed and she asked what it was about I walked into the room before turning to her about what's going on while i'm away she replied I don't know what you're talking about i couldn't believe how convincingly she lied Made sense because from the U. S.
never having suspected nothing this whole time I took my laptop I put at the Center Table i think you know I said she hesitated then sat in front of me opened the video file and the screen lit up with the images of her and j together her face turned white as she watched herself on the screen the betrayal she tried so hard to hide now it was revealing before your eyes I was just looking at her face the whole time didn't want to and didn't need to look at the video again it was then that she began to humiliate herself please please don't do this she begged with tears in the eyes I told her to shut up I was shocked at how venenoso my tone went out I didn't have the patience for that she collapsed sobbing in your hands apologizing and saying it was a mistake I exploded it wasn't a mistake mistakes happen 1 time maybe 2 but not when you plan 1 whole case and plot to spend my money she started begging saying I would do anything swearing for your parents' lives I think I started laughing maybe it was a bitter laugh or a relief one I don't know but in a way it did me good I got up looking at her from above it's already too late for that ended Sara I want divorce she got even paler with fearful eyes she tried to hold my legs but I drifted away told her to get a lawyer and that if she fought me I would guarantee that she would not receive anything and ruin your immaculate reputation that she put so much effort into building at that moment she must have realized that the great advance that my company would have was completely out of your league because she screwed up at the last moment her cry increased and she begged me not to take the children I told her I would take them and that if she fought in court I would expose time she almost drowned our second daughter due to postpartum depression ands that she had abused not one but twice I know how difficult postpartum depression can be.
