you have to stop caring about what people think because if you do your life will no longer be yours you wonder why you're so afraid you wonder why you're so anxious you wonder why you're so unhappy but it's because your whole life is a test you worry about saying the right things you worry about being the right person for people but why try to please people when you can please yourself you could use your energy to like yourself you can build yourself up through experiences through self love and compassion and just practicing positive thoughts positive
affirmations and just really loving yourself and knowing yourself and you can care about what you think because you have zero control over what other people think so why try to influence them if you were this great person you were very generous and you gave out all your money to people let's say you was rich and you gave out all your money to people and you lived in a shack right nobody knew this but they knew since you were so rich they thought that you were a snob and every time they see you they would curse
you they would spit you they they would spit at you and they would tell you how bad of a person you were because of how much money you had would you believe them I don't think so well the same analogy can be applied all over life when you are confident in who you are because you have took the time to love yourself and you practice being you without caring about what people think you have a solid foundation of who you are so you don't have to worry about what people think it really doesn't matter let
people talk they are going to talk anyways if you walk on water people are going to say it's because you can't swim and if you swim they're going to say you can't swim fast enough right if you swim slow it it just it doesn't matter it doesn't matter people are always going to talk and you have to realize and understand where their speech is coming from where their opinions are coming from when you judge judge somebody you are judging yourself a lot of the times we dislike people or we talk about people because they do
things that remind them of us when I see people being lazy it reminds me of be me being lazy and it makes me uncomfortable and I feel the urge to say something but then again I think well sometimes I do that right and a lot of times we fall out with people because they remind us too much of ourselves and it makes us uncomfortable so what I'm telling you is that most of the time when some well really all of the time if someone is bashing you it's literally just them looking down into their own
insecurities and trying to make you feel worse trying to pull you down especially when you on your right path and you loving yourself and you feeling good about yourself and you have accepted yourself because when people talk bad about you and they try to make you feel bad about you they're not better than you they're just better at hiding it they're more ashamed of who they are they haven't took the shadowy route to go find themselves in accept themselves they are running from themselves that's why they want to put you in this pit and you
can't fall for it because like I said in the beginning if you fall for that you are going to go down the road of living a life that's not yours and at the end of your life you're going to think what did I do for me and nothing's going to be there you bought a car because Jamal down the street liked that car and you wanted Jamal down the street to give you compliments whole time you hated the car you buy clothes and jewelry and different phones and all these things because it's socially more acceptable
whole time you not happy you have lived a life that is not yours does that sound fulfilling to you does that sound fulfilling to you your whole life is a test always anxious always nervous oh I wonder what they think about me I wonder how I look to them does it matter how do you look to you how do you feel to you you are with you when it's time for you to to perish you are the only one going in that casket your your body is the only one that's going to perish your soul
lives on forever but you have wasted a life trying to live it for other people at the cost of what being accepted it doesn't matter they going to talk anyway damn if you do damn if you don't so why try to please people when you can literally just please yourself you have to learn learn to love yourself and be confident in that have the courage to be this like you think you're going to continue on this path and become the best version of yourself and have everybody like you I have news for you in a
world full of liars in a world full of degeneracy when you choose to tell the truth when you choose to do better you're always going to seem crazy you're always going to seem stupid and snobby and this and that because everybody wants to be the same and no no one wants to see you elevate that's why they always try to pull you down every time you go to do something someone always have something negative to say that should make you want to do it more if you put on some clothes and somebody tell oh I
don't like that outfit that should make you like it even more because that shows you you have identity you have identity if the world loves you and always accepts you and you have faced no adversity you have no haters you need to find something new because hate is Twisted admiration so someone is talking about you trying to put you down bro that that that is your cue right there to thank you man I I I appreciate you but instead you getting in your own way you allowing their thoughts to creep in and now you letting
something external poison what's inside of you and that's not healthy and then we take the time to judge people also and that's another thing you have to be careful of not only do you have to stop caring about what people think but you have to stop thinking about other people stop caring about other people in the sense of what they doing and all this next time you feel like criticizing somebody just criticize yourself everything don't need to be said every thought don't have to be exercised just work on loving yourself spend your energy loving yourself
if all the times you worried about what people cared about and all the times you talk about people if you put all those times and all that energy into love yourself you would be a monster full of success full of Happiness full of life we all have insecurities we all do but you have to accept them and you have to move past them and you have to understand no one's perfect we just hear we doing we doing the best we can and you got to accept everything you got and I I know it's hard too
especially and the people that talk about you the most are your family but to give it bluntly to say it bluntly your family is just people bro the people who got you here they just people they were literally a portal for you to come here now it is you know naturally an obligation for them to love us the most we expect them to be the closest to us so it is hurtful but at the end of the day they're just people and family is the people that you choose not your relatives Rel just me y'all
share the same blood and genetic identity right that don't have to be your family and that's hard for a lot of people to accept but that's just the truth but as long as you have yourself and you know who you are and you have a solid foundation of self a solid love for self it don't matter what nobody think you still going to perceive so work on pleasing yourself work on living a life for you just start every day asking yourself what do you like what do you you know what do you want to do
for you when you go to buy clothes stop asking people what they think about them when you go to do something stop asking people for validation first if you want to do it by all means just do it live your life for you my friend and that that's that's all I can that's all I can ask you ask of you or you know share with you just live a life that's fitting for you instead of pleasing others please you I thank you for a wonderful conversation and um I love you I'll talk to you soon
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