not caring is very powerful I noticed that when I did not care about something when I absolutely didn't care what was to follow I noticed that I became very very powerful and I noticed in many people usually the people that care the most end up losing now we got to keep this in context when you put excessive energy into a thing you are essentially giving off a desperation Vibe a desperation frequency but when you absolutely do not care you become more powerful why is it that you be become more powerful for one reason it's because
you have detached yourself from the outcome of the situation so you're not tied to a result for you it doesn't matter what happens and people are always baffled when they see this out of people usually you when you stop caring it's like they care more but when you care too much they stop caring so it's an interesting thing but what you're showing when you don't care is no matter the outcome you're going to be okay and guess what the truth is is that you are going to be okay no matter the outcome so I'm not
rep uh I'm not promoting irresponsibility I don't want to be misunderstood with this I'm not promoting irresponsibility I'm promoting putting your best foot forward and letting the outcome be what it is that's what I'm promoting so you're being detached from the outcome I wanted that job bad but I didn't get it and that's okay I wanted to win the game but I didn't win and that's okay I wanted to be in that relationship I thought that that relationship would last until eternity right but it didn't happen that's okay they wanted out and that's okay things
didn't work out that's okay now the caveat to this is to turbocharge this whole I don't care type of thing thing I don't like to use I don't care but for the sake of the conversation I need to use that so that you can kind of get it the way that you turbocharge this is by putting in work and giving your best effort see that is the part that most people they would never mention when you're talking about I don't care because I don't care sounds irresponsible that I'll just do what I want I'll be
wherever I want I'll it doesn't matter I'm not promoting irresponsibility I need to say that again I'm promoting essentially the laws of the universe which is one of the laws which is the Law of Detachment so I remember one time uh in my past a past relationship you know I had a a woman and and she would always get upset about whatever and you know I would this be like okay and so she be like oh get out you don't care about nothing this is what she would you don't care about nothing get out I
would politely pack my stuff and I would pick up and I would just walk out I wouldn't try to fight anything she would next thing you know she would come to the door and try to stop me and all that closing the door no jumping jumping on me hugging and kissing and all that and the reason why I did that was not because technically I don't care if was because I know that I didn't do anything wrong and I was in alignment with truth and so when you align with truth you can afford to not
care there is no debating there is no arguing with truth there is no trying to sway anything there's no argument so in that moment I I really didn't care because I was all out of things to do because I didn't do anything so the next best thing for me to do was to oblige her and she wanted me to leave I'm going to leave because I haven't done nothing in the first place for you to ask me to leave but I'm going to leave because whatever the outcome in is it doesn't matter because I gave
my best effort so that is the other piece to not caring you have to give your best effort maybe you may desire something you don't think that Yahweh Buddha Allah Jehovah you don't think that God the universe you don't think that they know you the desires of your heart you don't believe that the creator of this universe knows the desires of your heart knows what you want of course but you have to be you have to become okay with knowing that whatever happen happens whatever outcomes happen they happen to make you better they don't happen
to make you worse and so in this order if you put your best foot forward and somebody gives you something that you may not like and they want to terminate something or you may not get this job or you may not have won the game or you may not have been able to been with be with this person you have to know that somewhere in there is there's some teaching going on and so it really doesn't matter if you put your best foot forward because the goal is always to magnetize and not to chase we
are magnets so the goal is to magnetize what you want to you not to chase that which you want and you magnetized through thoughts through words through behavior and when you have these three components you cannot care responsibly not care because you've done your part that's the that's the entire concept that I want you to understand when you don't care when it's like okay whatever happens you can do that when you put everything you got into a situation you can live with yourself as I always say the best pillow at night is a clear conscience
you sleep like a baby when your conscience is clear you sleep like a baby your and your conscience is clear when you've done everything that you can so it's like if a person does not want to be with you do you think that it's beneficial for you to drag them or chase that relationship even though they said look I don't want to be with you no more do you think it's beneficial for you to drag them and chase them to be with them and beg them to be with them so you win them back right
you win them back because but you had to convince them against their will and a a man or a woman against their will convinced against their will is of the same opinion still so they may not in that moment you know they'll receive you back and they'll go with the flow but they still are unsure about you they don't want to be with you it would have been better had you giving your best effort and if they don't want to be with you you let them go I'm not into bondage I'm not into captivity if
I put my best foot forward and you want to leave you can go instead you go you fight for something that probably should end because these people wanted it to in now if you relax let's say you relax and they have some time to think and you didn't beg or anything and they come back maybe that's a little bit different right that's a different story they had time to think clearly because sometime people make rash decisions and they don't really understand what they're doing but if you try to hustle in and begging and and now
they come back then you end up getting cheated on well you should have just let it go why would you want somebody that don't want to be with you why would you want that that doesn't make sense when people want to go you let them go so your safety net in not caring is that you've got to do your part you've got to put your best effort and then you leave it there like hey I didn't do nothing wrong when you're align with the truth you're always protected you're always going to be protected and so
you can walk away be ready to and be willing to walk away when you see something that's foul that's not in alignment with what you know to be true or righteousness if you will that's the whole thing but you got to you got to not care there's a lot of power in not caring when I didn't care I got the best results when I started caring people thought oh this uh he's he's too nice or whatever because you you you love people you want to help people and this ain't a talking about relationships we talking
about in everyday things okay they need a couple dollars next thing you know they back for a couple more dollars you like damn I thought I just gave you some money did I not just give you $100 now you back asking for more now I have to not care I ain't got it I can't help I'm in alignment with TR but you on the other hand because you tried to use my kindness for weakness now you have to see just how much I don't care I tried being good but sometimes good is not good enough
so it's not that you don't care in the negative sense is that you're okay with the outcome because you've given your best effort you should try it sometime you'll see telling you not caring you wanted to get with that person you tried Let It Go they know you want to be with them well they know you tried to talk to them that job application they know that you tried they know that you they know who you are everybody knows everything once you make it known they know everything but you have to have the confidence to
say I know that I can get another or I know that whatever is supposed to happen will happen that something's working out for the better for me if this doesn't happen that is what gives you the confidence to not care now some people just don't care irresponsibly and their lives are ruined because they don't care they're irresponsible about it and you can look at their life and you can see it but then there's others where it's like hey man I ain't about to beg you I'm not going to beg you for this or for that
because I know who I am I know what I put into myself and it's not that you have to go go around announcing this but it's like hey this is my intent I let it be known let the chips fall where they may
