okay so the other day I got a question on Snapchat and someone asked me like hey Liz how did I make this guy obsessed with me and then I was like you know what I'm going to make a YouTube video about this because the goal shouldn't be that this guy is obsessed with you the goal should be that you are obsessed with yourself when you are obsessed with yourself other people naturally become obsessed with you it is how it is the thing here is you can't make people obsessed with you the only way people become
obsessed with you is because they see that you are investing time in yourself they see that you're investing money in yourself they see that you are loving yourself and because people lack that people lack self-love people lack that confidence in themselves so when they look at you they want to be around you they want to be with you or be you because you are what they don't have if you really want to know how to make people obsessed with you it's all about you it's about you honey about no one else like the minute people
see that you are going after your passions that you are taking care of yourself that you are literally leveling up in every area of your life that's the minute that people will gravitate towards you that's the minute that people on a higher vibration will also gravitate towards you you cannot attract High vibrating people when you're vibrating low it's not even about your circumstances you you know maybe you are at a lower position than that person but your vibration is high you're positive you you're visualizing things for yourself then you're also vibing high and then you
can attract those High vibrational people but if you're negative if you're in a poor state of mind and you think oh nothing is working out for me I can't have that that's for lucky people that's for people that can have it blah blah blah you will also not attract that so first of all you need to get that mindset right you want to you want to be someone that people are obsessed why would they be obsessed with you if you're constantly sitting in your bedroom being sad all day listening to sad music watching sad shows
then you're like oh people should be obsessed obsessed with what with what honey what is there to be obsessed about see once you get that Clear Vision of yourself right that vision of what you feel like you know what if I was this kind of person of myself I would be so obsessed with myself if you get that Clear Vision like what does she do how does she act where does she go does she go to the gym or does she not go to the gym what does she eat how is her hairstyle uh what
clothes does she wear how does she act who does she hang around with once you get that Clear Vision in your head and you start behaving like this person even though you're not there yet that's when you will attract the people that will help you get to that level and the people that will be quote unquote obsessed with you the thing is once you are so invested vested in yourself and once you are so focused on your passions your goals and yourself and you're doing the things that you love so much I promise you you
you don't even want people to be obsessed with you you don't need that you literally start to become like I really love life and I love myself you see this when like uh women or men they go through a breakup and they start like changing their lifestyle they start going to the gym they start looking better they start feeling better they make new friends then you see all of the sudden these people they don't care about their ex anymore and they're like you know what I don't even want the them anymore because the person that
we actually want is ourselves it's all about energy right like for example a girl that walks into a room and is not caring about who she's going to impressed but she just cares about oh I'm going to have a lovely time with my friends those are the most attractive people they are vibrating on a confident level their energy is confident they're just there to be happy have a great time and and you will see that most people will go to her instead of other people that are desperate and looking around like oh my God I
hope someone likes me no the key to all your dreams the key to everything you want is you and once you start realizing this the faster you realizes the faster your life will start to fall into place I don't go into places thinking oh my God I hope they will like me whatever I don't care I don't care I like myself everywhere I walk into I like myself you have to be happy to get up in the morning like you have to find something that fulfills you like whether it's a passion whatever for me it's
obviously like content it's like making YouTube videos these type of stuff that fulfills me that makes me happy or waking up in the morning going to the gym making sure I look good like anything that makes me look good makes me happier makes me money that makes me happy that gives me passion for life so you have to find that as well because when you have no passions when you have nothing to lit L get up for in the morning obviously you will not be attracted to attractive to other people if you want other people
to be obsessed with you then they should think oh my God like I want to be a part of her life her life seems so much fun she seems so happy I want to be happy too like I want to get close to her so I can experience whatever she's experiencing but my love I promise you you being sad all day you not doing anything will not make anyone want to be a part of your life or want to with you attracted to you obsessed with you it will not happen so honey what you should
do now okay what we're going to do you're going to focus on becoming physically more attractive like whatever that is for you like literally think about okay what would the best version of me look like like think about that what is her best like hair color what is like how does her face look like what is it you know how does her body look look at the things that you can change second we need to get that mind right so we need to get some therapy we need to start journaling whatever you need to do
to get that mind D and to get that confidence up because that's Al all a mental thing being hot is a mentality third we start looking for an activity that makes us want to get up in the morning you know like okay for example you go to work you hate your job whatever you can't fix it blah blah after your job what do you do what do you do for fun huh what do you do something like what is fun for you maybe you join a sport and you like that Sport and then also that
sport will help you to get your dream body so like oh my God that is two uh stones or something in one I don't know what that means then my baby girl we also start listening to affirmations that every day say oh my God you're beautiful you're attractive everyone wants you blah blah blah you start listening to these things we start rewiring our mind and you also make sure you have a community you have friends that uplift you that make you feel better about yourself you go out with them and then you go out to
actually have fun go out to have have fun don't go out to impress people don't go out to find someone go out to have fun and then you will see everyone will radiate towards you cuz your energy is different if you guys start to understand that everything in life is about energy I'm telling you your life will completely change and then my love at the end the guy will be sending me a message asking me hi Liz how do I make this girl obsessed with me is he can see oh my God this girl is
literally so confident she's looking so amazing she literally is living the best life ever I want to be a part of that I want I want her I want her and I will do everything I can to get her so yeah my love this is my answer to your question I hope you liked it and I love you guys I love you guys so much and yeah I see you in the next video love you bye-bye
