Harsh Life Lessons on Loyalty: Andrew Tate

what are some of the things you've learned around people in your life when it comes to this time that you've experienced I mean you must have cut some people out of your life and seen some things in life that showed you the other side of people that you didn't like it it confirms things you already know about people uh is that people are majority the majority of people in your life are self-interested which is fine that's not a bad thing by the way it's a life is is that is that inherently all people well life

is a value exchange this idea that you should love people uncondition Ally or care about people unconditionally is a fallacy you'll see people talk about this all the time I'd love you if you were broke no you wouldn't your woman will say to you I'd love you if you were broke it's comfortable to believe she would if you became broke and it was no fault of your own and you were trying to get rich again then of course she'd stay by you but if you lost all your money and refused to work and you gambled

it all away and became a drug addict and sat on the couch and got fat she'd leave you because her love for you is conditional and it's based on the fact that you can provide and protect her everything in life is conditional when you go to jail or go through a bad circumstance perhaps you can't give people what you were previously giving and everything is a value exchange so what you really learn about people is who you have tolerance and leeway with who will remember the value you previously gave them long enough for you to

then restore the value you're giving again it's like a power outage before the power comes back on some people have shorter fuses than others some girls will stop talking to you after a week of jail some Will Wait 5 years but eventually it's the same everything in life is a value exchange so you have to understand that especially as a man because if you're a big man in people's lives you're giving more than receiving you give things important big men give things to all the people around them much more than they receed from anybody so

I think that's what you learned but I already knew all of this um there's a lot of people who believe that love and friendship and all these things are unconditional but that's and it's always been uh life is conditional breathing is conditional like everything is conditional like living is conditional your heartbeating is conditional if you don't eat food your heart stops beating there's conditions to everything women will say would you love me no matter what and the answer to that is no if you stabbed my dog and set my mom on fire and then tried

to kill me in the middle of the night I wouldn't love you no like you mean to tell me that someone could stop G out there n he's built different he's buil different yeah but it's it's an example so this all this unconditional mindset isn't real everything in life is conditional when you go to jail the conditions change and you have to see who's going to stick around for the conditions or who believe the conditions will go back maybe some girls don't believe you'll ever get out it's it's all conditional that's how life works I

wasn't personally offended by anyone I lost I may have been surprised by a few but I'm not offended by these things I understand how the world functions