[Music] [Music] greetings fam this is ROM Will's about that business then an entrepreneur and dating yeah um sent us and such because like I said when I first introduced to Chen I wasn't going to get too much into relationships except as they related to being in business and I was thinking about this now to be clear the same this is something that hits both genders because you you do have a lot of women out there who are in business and they come across this issue I'm about to discuss in fact it was inspired by a
lady friend of mine now this friend lady friend of mine she's all about that hustle now she don't have a formal business but she has a talent to create a business right very very talented could probably she but she will probably she's that type person but she needs to be with that type of person who can do that but see to her dismay the guys that she usually attracts aren't hustlers or entrepreneurial at all they nine to five guys which isn't a bad thing but if you a man or woman and you look that 9
to 5 person in most cases it's hard for them really understand entrepreneurial mindset I mean they might admire it you know they're you know what to do once the one makes it a man a woman that makes it they down force and you know in some cases they might support it but they never truly understand it cuz I seen that was like I said I've seen this with a couple of women tonight David voicing their men or you know they met in a steady relationship because they hustling all the time now this woman she just
had to call love her engagement because the guy you know you can handle how she handled business because part of her business and part of way she does business is she do a lot of flirt but it works for see that's the thing she had the type of things she into trying to get into requires that she be friendly that she'd be good garius but you know but she's also very physically attractive so you know there was a get would to be trying to lock her down and see that's a problem like yeah maybe if
using some type of other thing but this you know the things she do well requires that she be who she is but a lot of guys can't handle that it is a definitely same with women like if you will man right if you'll man you're trying to make it in business and stuff many women out here though they might admire you once you make it these women out here they won't stop do they want that steadiness they want excitement but they want steadiness you know they want you to be able to take a mile party
make them laugh and everything but they want that steady paycheck from you too let's say from you but they want to know you can take care of bills and everything if you in an entrepreneur is no such thing is a steady paycheck in fact depending on what you do who you get paid from you might only get paid like once a month you don't get that every two weeks thing or every week thing is it could be with some corporate businesses so it's like if you're trying to be in a relationship you know that person
that's a realize hey you know what they might not have the money all the time you know when they get the money they might have to spend it on bills or put it back in the business or something you know and see that's another part of it too it's hard to have a steady dating life it really is because there depending on what you're doing you might you might have to work like I don't know read my 16 hours a day you might just be working and sleeping to get it going it's a very real
thing you know I mean you know you might not what you're doing you might not you you might not be able to do that whole well I'm gonna just be working 9 to 5 you might be working throughout the day like what I do you know I'm putting up videos working on articles doing coaching you know my day could start at like 3:30 and end at 10:30 at night that's a normal day for me you know what I'm doing different things throughout the day and at the same time I do get some free moments and
notes on the days I'm not working on my day job right which I'm about to roll out of soon anyway so you know I'm really doing that grind but you know you don't I mean you don't have this you might not have that time conducive to spending quality time with a mate now they give you in a situation where you're already in a relationship you know only time you might be able just hang out with a midnight until you really get things going you know because and this again this is just in cases where you
know you're you you on the hustle and they got the steady thing like I said it's a many women have trouble with they don't women a little bit easier sometimes guys making enough money like yet go ahead baby get that business going or whatever men can handle a little bit better many women though that's what a got many male entrepreneurs out there and they can attest to this maybe women don't want to be patient while you building it up you know or you know because all you have many women you know they'll tell your business
to somebody who don't know anything about business and yeh like girl I wouldn't let him do that and would he know and all that stuff don't know nothing about the business and the woman listen to that and there's like boom don't want you to do it so he doesn't want things that's one thing you got to be careful about amazing too and dating you got make sure that person even if you just dating them casually they believe in you or believe in you enough not to interfere with actually that might be the best thing I
actually hope for like they don't interfere with me because uh Langone get too personal into my stuff but trust me I'll just say it like that sometimes if there's like a different income or something all of a sudden you'll make my panic you know and be like well why don't you just get a regular job see you know it's funny right people admire entrepreneurs when they make it they admire you know when they up there everything flowing right you know they're like oh you're doing such a great job but many people neither men or women
won't be with that person why are they doing and yeah I say it meant all women like I say a lot of women lot of women entrepreneurs they could probably listen and they probably heard the same thing they like [ __ ] I can't can't deal with this I'm trying to get this going and this dude over here you know messing with a bunch of people I've heard a lot of women say that they had some dude and he want to be cheating and [ __ ] instead of support you know because haughty grindy you
know she can't suck his dick on a record yeah I said it yeah and definitely wasn't then you know he's women out here yeah if you cute enough you find enough the end it might hang out a little bit but after a while when he talked about where it is going or they like well how come you can't take me here or here or here it's like boom let me tell you true sometimes for entrepreneur the best mate is another one because at least they understand you know at least a other said either either another
entrepreneur or somebody who wants to play a secondary role in your [ __ ] who's willing to play that secondary role like it's easier for a man to find that type of woman it's easier for man I really feel bad for the women sometime because it's by nature a man might not wanna play a secondary role they don't want to be that step into your Oprah it is what it is I don't know what to say that's one thing my heart goes out to like a lot of women in it because they can be real
tough on it just is I can't see anything I can't see things wrong for men because like I said uh you know and I've said this a lot of the channel you know man's nature is to protect and provide so if you to type he can't protect and provide that's gonna kill some things no isn't that saying it's impossible but it's awfully hard it is awfully hard for the woman and for the guys is a bit easier but then other things you know other things get in the way and if she doesn't have the vision
you know she's constantly trying to sabotage your [ __ ] you know saying why don't you just get a regular job like many entrepreneurial minutes said that you know the man doing his thing she he was doing this thing when they met but as soon as things get tough she's like well you can just get a regular job and see one you know I'm gonna do a separate video and then like why don't you just get a job I'm gonna do a separate video on that one in fact that'll be the next video why don't
you just get a job cuz uh yeah that might be my first friend for this tape for this channel alright but anyway until then though just um it's tough it just is tough that's one of those things if I can figure out something or you know might address something but it can take a lot you know if you're going for your dream and that person doesn't know how to dream with you it's a lot of problems so anyway I'll talk to y'all later peace [Music]
