Nothing and Nobody Will Ever Hurt You Again – Carl Jung

have you ever wished to be someone who is unshakable someone who doesn't care about criticism rejection loss or betrayal have you ever dreamed of the day when you will finally stop feeling that silent pain that anguish that eats you up inside even when you pretend to be fine on the outside maybe you're tired of trying to please everyone of maintaining an image that requires strength all the time when in reality all you wanted was to rest just for a moment from the pressure of being Untouchable but let me tell you something that perhaps no one

has had the courage to say as long as you try to avoid pain it will continue to control you as long as you try to numb yourself to protect yourself to hide you will remain a hostage to everything that happens around around you to the words that hurt you to the actions that disappoint you to the silences that kill you inside and this is not weakness this is the reality for most people the difference is that some pretend better than others Carl Yung one of the greatest names in depth psychology said that we are not

what happens to us but what we choose to become and that's where the key lies it's not about shielding yourself from the world it's not about becoming cold indifferent or Untouchable it's about integrating it's about bringing to light everything that currently affects you in the dark because true strength is not the absence of pain but the full awareness of who you are even when you are bleeding if you've made it this far it's not by chance this video is for you who are tired of hurting yourself with everything and everyone it's for you who feel

that you are always at an emotional disadvantage as if other people have a power over you that you don't understand I want to show you that it doesn't have to be this way but for that you will have to face some truths that may hurt and perhaps for the first time this p pain will set you free let's get started you believe that what hurts you is out there in the actions of others in poorly chosen words in the abandonments you have suffered in the betrayals you did not expect but the truth is brutal none

of this really has the power to hurt you unless there is already an open wound inside you what hurts you is not what others do to you it is what these experiences activate within you it is the story you tell yourself about it it is the old trauma that has never been addressed it is the emptiness you disguise with strength with pride with that desperate need to seem well adjusted Yung shows us that the pain we feel in the face of the external world is merely a reflection of what has not yet been integrated into

our internal world that is why some people can go through devastating situations and still maintain Clarity While others crumble in the face of a simple comment it is not about what happens it is about where it hits you and here comes an uncomfortable truth you still suffer so much because on some level you believe you can control how the world should treat you you are still trying to be good enough smart enough strong enough understanding enough as if that guarantees that no one will hurt you but control is an illusion and as long as you

cling to it you live in constant tension trying to predict the unpredictable trying to avoid the inevitable do you want to stop suffering then stop protecting yourself from suffering what you need is not more control but more awareness as long as you believe that people need to change for you to stop feeling pain you will remain enslaved by the actions of others your freedom Begins the moment you understand that everything that comes from outside only has power if it finds an echo within you and this is exactly where the true Battlefield lies the unconscious what

you do not see do not understand and do not master Masters you and this is what we will explore in the next part get ready to dive one level deeper because that is where true transformation begins if this content is making sense to you click the Subscribe button and subscribe to the channel thank you for your support the biggest lie you've been told is that you are in control of your life when wake up because you're not at least not as long as you continue living on autopilot reacting without knowing why feeling without understanding where

it comes from making decisions that you later sabotage Carl Yung made this clear when he said until you make the unconscious conscious it will direct your life and you will call it fate and that is exactly what is happening to you right now the pain you feel the anger that explodes out of nowhere the sadness that invades you without explanation none of this is random they are messages coming from parts of you that have been forgotten ignored repressed Yung referred to this dark territory as the unconscious and it is not just a cloud of vague

thoughts it is an active Force an entire system of memories trauma desires and fears that you do not want to face but that continue to decide what you feel and how you act you wonder why certain words destroy you while other people don't care because those words touch sensitive points within you that are still alive and if they are alive it is because you have never confronted them you have only pushed them under the psychological rug and now you keep tripping over them Jung said we cannot change anything until we accept it condemnation does not

liberate it oppresses and what have you been doing judging yourself repressing yourself silencing yourself as if that would solve anything the truth is that the unconscious does not disappear just because you ignore it it only finds more dangerous ways to manifest in toxic relationships that you repeat in patterns of self-sabotage that you cannot break in anxieties and fears that arise when everything seems to be going well this is not bad luck it is your unconscious trying to wake you up but you insist on sleeping do you want to be someone who is no longer hurt

then stop running away from what is inside you because as long as you do not know you're unconscious you will be a puppet of your emo and the more you try to protect yourself from external pain the more vulnerable you become to internal pain but there is a way out and it is not in defending yourself it is in integrating yourself because becoming Untouchable is not an act of resistance it is an act of deep knowledge this is what we will see next what does it truly mean to be someone who is unshaken and why

does this strength not come from armor but from acceptance let's continue most people believe that the only way to avoid getting hurt is by closing themselves off they build walls create masks develop emotional armor and pretend that nothing affects them they say I don't care anymore I couldn't care less nothing gets to me but inside they continue to bleed they keep corroding because the problem was never about feeling the problem is not knowing what you are feeling and why and this only happens to those who do not yet know themselves Yung was precise when he

stated know all the theories master all the techniques but when touching a human soul be just another human soul and that human soul you insist on hiding behind a a strong invulnerable controlled character it is screaming to be seen becoming emotionally strong has nothing to do with being cold it has nothing to do with ignoring pain avoiding conflict or pretending not to care it has to do with integrating with accepting with bringing to light everything you have buried in the dark you do not become Untouchable by creating a barrier between yourself and the world you

become untouchable when you realize that no one can touch what has already been embraced within you when you integrate your shadows your fears your flaws your insecurities you stop reacting to everything you observe you choose you are no longer an emotional puppet and that is true Freedom Yung called this individuation the process of becoming who you really are not what others expect of you not what you thought you should be to be accepted but what emerges from within from the meeting of light and Shadow between ego and unconscious individuation is not a process of perfection

Jung said but of integration you do not need to become a better person you just need to become whole and here is the secret that no one told you the more you run from Pain the more it chases you the more you try not to be affected the more fragile you become but when you face your own wounds when you accept who you are with all that is beautiful and ugly Noble and shameful nothing outside has the power to dismantle you however this path requires courage courage to look within courage to abandon the masks courage

to feel because it is precisely in pain that the key to transformation is hidden and that is what we will discover in the next part how suffering far from being an enemy can become the gateway to your true strength let's dive deeper and this time without fear you learned to hate pain since you were little you were taught that suffering is a sign of weakness that crying is a waste of time that feeling too much makes you vulnerable and and so you began to run to avoid to deny but the more you flee from suffering

the more it chases you and the worst part it changes form it disguises itself as anxiety anger aathy boredom self-destructive impulses that you don't even understand where they come from ignored pain does not disappear it just digs tunnels inside you until one day without warning everything collapses Yung saw suffering in a completely different way he believed that pain was the messenger of the soul the alarm of the unconscious the language that the self what you are in your entirety uses to get your attention he said depression is like a lady in Black if she appears

don't push her away invite her to sit down offer her a coffee and listen to what she has to say but you don't listen you Silence Yourself distract yourself keep yourself busy numb yourself you do everything to avoid looking at what really matters what is this pain trying to show you the truth is that suffering only hurts so much because you are still at war with yourself there is still a part of you wanting to grow and another part wanting to keep everything as it is there is something inside you that cries out for transformation

but your ego accustomed to control tries to suffocate that call and it is in this friction that pain is born because change hurts growth hurts letting go of old beliefs cutting toxic ties allowing what no longer serves you to die all of this is a Mourning an internal process of death and rebirth but it is precisely in this space of ruin that something new can be born because when everything in you is deconstructed when certainties crumble when pain lays bare your vulnerability you can finally see who you really are without the layers of protection without

the performance without the mask and at that exact point suffering becomes sacred because it brings you to your knees before the only thing that can set you Free Yourself Yung knew this he understood that suffering is not a failure of the system it is part of the process pain is not the end of the road it is the beginning of the journey towards individuation the problem is that most people give up before Crossing that dark Valley they flee they distract themselves they return to the surface but not you if you have made it this far

it is because you are ready to cross and in the next part we will understand how this Crossing process happens how the path of individuation no matter how lonely and brutal it may seem is what finally sets you free let's continue it's getting deeper now few people have the courage to begin the Journey of individuation and even fewer have the courage to complete it because this path does not promise Comfort does not offer guarantees does not protect your ego it destroys it Yong referred to individuation as a process of becoming who you are but this

means above all unlearning what you think you are and that hurts more than any external rejection because you start to realize that much of what defined you until now was an illusion you are not your achievements you are not your traumas you are not the image you constructed to be loved respected or admired all of this was what you created to survive but surviving is not living and individuation is life's call Beyond Survival it is when the unconscious begins to push everything that has been repressed hidden and distorted to the surface individuation requires the dissolution

of the Persona Jung wrote for it is merely a mask of collective convenience in other words you will need to tear off your own skin to discover What Lies Beneath it is in this process that you begin to become Untouchable not because nothing affects you anymore but because you have already gone through the fire you you have faced your monsters you have looked into the eyes of your shame your neediness your anger and said I see you and you no longer control me it is this internal Clarity this Lucidity in the face of your own

darkness that gives you a strength that does not depend on approval recognition or control you no longer need to be loved by everyone you no longer need to win every argument you no longer need to appear strong because you know who you are and no one can take that away from you true emotional armor is not a shell it is a core it is the integration of all your parts into a center of Consciousness that remains unshaken in the face of storms you may feel pain but it does not break you you may be hurt

but you do not lose yourself because you have stopped being reactive and have become whole you have stopped living on the surface and have begun to inhabit The Depths however this depth comes at a price loneliness not because you will be alone but because few people can accompany you on this journey most are still trapped on the surface in masks in the fear of feeling and when you begin to Free Yourself you inevitably distance yourself but this distancing is not Rejection it is maturation you do not distance yourself out of Pride you distance yourself because

you no longer fit where you once hid and this brings us to the final point of this journey Consciousness as a shield because it is not strength that protects you it is Clarity this is what we will discuss in the last part Consciousness as the only state in which nothing absolutely nothing has more power over you let's finish this Crossing together we are almost [Music] there now that you've made it this far there is something that needs to be said very clearly nothing absolutely nothing will shield you from external suffering if you remain unconscious of

what happens within you the words will continue to hurt the rejections will continue to Sting the losses will keep bringing you down until you awaken and Awakening is not a magical event it is a daily Choice it is looking within even when it hurts it is taking responsibility for everything you feel without blaming others the past or fate anymore Carl Jung said what you resist persists what you accept transforms you have spent your whole life resisting the fear of not being enough The Emptiness of rejection the pain of loneliness the anguish of not feeling seen

but what did you do with that you hid you silenced yourself you tried to control everything you tried to be perfect you tried to be strong and all of this has brought you here exhausted tired of fighting against the world and against yourself but now you know true emotional immunity is not hardness it is Clarity it is not about creating armor it is about expanding your awareness because when you understand your triggers your patterns your wounds the actions of others lose the power to destroy you you still feel but you don't drown you still suffer

but you don't lose yourself and that changes everything what Shields you is not protecting yourself from life it it is diving into it deeply those who live on the surface get hurt by any wave those who dive know that there is silence stability and power down below and that is where you're headed and when you start to live from that place of integration presence acceptance the world may try to knock you down but it no longer finds where to hit you if this video touched you in some way if something within you has awakened WR

here in the comments I choose awareness let's start a movement of people who no longer want to survive by pretending to be strong but to live with truth and don't forget the next video is also part of this journey it's important you need to keep going real transformation only begins when you don't stop at the first step see you there