I predict that if you were to stop trying you would find that you actually allow in the very thing you intend for if you were to even stop looking stop seeking stop trying to find whatever it is you would find that that thing can naturally come in as a reflection even think about the quote from Yoda Yoda said do or do not there is no try when we Infuse and say I am trying to do something we Infuse in energetic resistance and when you hear people say try what is the energy underneath that now it's
an energy of resistance it's an energy of attachment to outcome it's an energy of one foot in one foot out it's split energy and a lot of times it comes from doubt inside of the head now when you are looking at and hearing many different uh athletes for example talk about being in a flow State when they are in a flow State when they are in the energy of being there's very little thinking going on and I see this recently I've been watching I I don't play golf but I've been watching golf recently I know
it sounds boring but there's this show on Netflix called full swing and I was just watching these story it's like the stories behind kind of like the UFC embedded of golf and I'm seeing these people and you can see it's 90% mental when they get into a flow State and they're in it it's like the ball goes in the hole so often but when they're not in it it's like no matter what they do no matter how hard they try they can't get it to actually go in now let think about this too think about
the things you most often hear when it comes to attracting love this is a this is a big realization for a lot of people when they say I'm they're looking for love they're looking for it they're looking for it where is it where might love be it's like there's this huge incredible pressure on outcome there's this pressure on someone else to meet the needs of someone so it's like they're looking for love they're looking for love they're looking for love and where is the other half to my soul where is the soulmate where are you
I'm looking for you you're outside of me are you over here are you where are you searching searching searching looking looking looking and guess what happens that's not when it happens that will literally BL it's like blinders when you're looking for it especially when you're looking at it from an energy of attachment to outcome or desperation when you're looking for it to complete you that's when you can't see it it is literally invisible to you but interestingly enough how often do you hear from people that say they are in you know if there's someone that's
in a relationship they've been in a relationship a long time very often I hear the same thing over and over again and you probably have too they're like well I wasn't I wasn't looking it just kind of happened I was I was so often people like I'm going to commit to being single and to just focusing on my purpose focusing on this area of my life and then the person comes you synchronistically are at the right place at the right time and you meet the person very rarely I'm not saying it can't happen I'm sure
there's stories and I I I share this on um YouTube and very often people are on you on Instagram and very often people are like yeah you're right but then sometimes people are like I met somebody when I was looking so I'm not saying it can't happen but very often the thing that you here's the thing too when it comes to being curious you can be Cur I'm curious if this person if this thing is out there this reflection for me but not like I desperately need to find someone so looking and trying are kind
of similar energies I'm going to try to do something even when I looked up the definition right before doing this video the definition of try when I looked it up on Google said if you describe something or someone as trying you mean that they are difficult to deal with with and you make and make you feel impatient or annoyed I mean the energy of trying is literally an energy of resistance and it even the definition of it's like an attempt to do something but think about it it's like an attempt to do something but you
have an attempt to do something but if it doesn't work out you're going to give up it's like your energy is one foot in one foot out and think of the difference between someone that's going to figure out to someone that's going to be it it's a very different energy so in a way what trying means is I'll try I'm not sure it's going to happen I'm only going to try until I if I get a specific result and if I don't get that result then I'm going to stop trying that is an that's an
energy of doing something that is a means to an end look at this do means to an end you're doing something to get a specific result versus being it because it's who you are and very often when I'm watching these shows or you're you're look you're talking about thinking in high vibration when you are thinking in high vibration it's not that you are thinking thoughts of of love joy peace and Enlightenment very often it's that you are more present so really what trying is is a lack of presence and it's a it's a belief and
doubt and when you are more present to the moment you are 100% there and when you are 100% there you're not trying you're being and when you the see these athletes that are making the game-winning shot they're not like okay I'm going to grab the basketball I'm going to bounce it over here I'm going to now make the game-winning shot they're not thinking that they're just they're in the moment the the moment calls upon them a certain level of presence and the people that are able to compete at that very high level have an incredible
ability to get present to the moment despite the pressure so they are 100% there now the more present you become and the more you are you are giving something your all the more there will be a different energy off of you now sometimes I think too when we think of trying or looking we've been we have to question what and why do I believe that I can't accomplish this what are the beliefs about this like if I'm looking if someone is looking for the other half to their soul basically what's happened is there's an imbalance
in forces they've made something else very important that's outside of them and they're looking for it because they believe it they believe someone outside of them is going to complete them so very often what we're doing then is we're trying to manipulate reality a lot of times manifest Manny manipulate manate Pate similar root words I think Manny means hands hands a lot of times what people are doing is they're trying to manipulate the universe to give them what they want give me give me the other half to my soul give me exactly what I want
to meet my needs and of course when anytime there's trying there's there's a form of manipulation there's a form of resistance that's obviously put into the into the equation but also it's almost like the universe can't give you that because it's it's manipulative energy it's it'll give you other manipulative people I think a lot of s when people attract Tre when people try to manipulate someone else even subconsciously into being in their life they'll end up there's there's some form of other manipulation there or it's just a it's just a resistant energy to begin with
so something very important to become aware of in this whole entire process of attracting what you want is understanding alignment it's understanding that you want it to be natural for your current identity and when you focus on being it because it's who you choose to be and you focus on also enjoying the present moment you'll find that more comes to you as a result and often I tell people that that that come on coaching programs or you know at Live Events if they stop trying and stop looking you would start being and as you start
being you get a different reflection in your life that reflects back that being the times my YouTube channel has done best were the times I was trying the least I even recognized this on Instagram recently I've certain in I've been posting daily on Instagram for probably about a month and a half now and my Instagram has grown quite a bit since I went daily I went from like I was super critical of some of the content I'd put out on Instagram I'd like judge like this isn't good enough to go on Instagram and eventually what
I did is I said you know what as I remember like a year ago I went daily for like two or three weeks and everything went crazy like a lot of growth a lot of people were coming into like you know the concepts I was sharing that was really cool and then I stopped because I started judging my content but then what I did is I said you know what I'm going to go back to daily Instagram reels which are just clips from YouTube videos clips from other lives that I do on Instagram and after
you know it's it's funny it's always my life if I even look at on YouTube when I went daily on YouTube it's like I'm making so much content I don't have time to judge it necessarily because there has to be another video that goes out tomorrow and then that's always when things have done well for me is when I'm consistent and there's even someone in in a FTP coaching this program that I have that came on and her she now has uh what does she have she has 900 followers in the last month and I
said what did you do to do that she goes I just went daily I like see everyone see just go daily you start putting and she was getting better and better with every video that she made but the reason I'm sharing this is I had two videos in the last week that have gone one got 500,000 views on Instagram another got 400,000 views they did they did well the the outcome was very good and I've been more detached from the outcome than ever but I look at those videos and I'm like why did those videos
do so well well when I made those videos I was in a certain State I was in a certain energy and it was like I was I also recognized that like there's times when I make the very beginning of the most important thing on Instagram for the videos I make is like the very first two or three seconds what is the energy like if the energy is resistant and trying it's not going to do well if the energy is I'm in a flow State it's a magnetic energy much more likely to do well both those
videos those a couple days ago that went viral both I was in a very high energy State and I was very much being myself I was like showing that was kind of inspired part of this video in one of the videos I talk about how you know when you're looking for the other half to your soulmate it's like this Dr Seuss book it's called are you my mother are you my mother it's like you're walking around are you my soulmate are you my soulmate are you my soulmate are you my soulmate I'm looking looking looking
looking are you the other half to my soul are you outside of myself are you outside of myself and it was making a point that that's what a lot of people do when they're looking for love are you outside of me are you outside of me and when you stop putting that energy of looking you realize you can start to be and you can start to focus on other aspects of your life where you are naturally more magnetic now interestingly enough when I make those videos I'm in that energy state it does better because I'm
not trying I'm just being myself and it's funny the more I have allowed myself to be myself and the more my personality shows through the more magnetic the energy is or the more people watch the videos there's this other guy in YouTube I used to watch he is a it's a he's got a quirky personality it's called Renaissance periodization it's like this fitness channel most of you won't maybe not resonate with it but it's it's like kind of Hardcore Fitness advice from this dude that talks about the science of like um of like bodybuilding and
stuff but back in the day I've been watching his videos for a few years every now and then and back in the day he had like a couple hundred thousand subs and recently his Channel's blown up to multiple million subscribers but you want to know I can see a a definite correlation of the degree to which he showed his quirky sarcastic dry sense of humor and he's owned it is the degree to which he's grown like there's a there's a correlation between how like because it's what makes him different is his his personality his sense
of humor and in a similar way what I'm realizing about myself in my own videos is when I'm in a certain energy those videos do very well like there's there's one video that I did when I was in LA this live event that I did in La where I did this um bit this like 30 minute segment on narcissists and empaths and I was in a certain energy State and literally four or five minute clips from that video that are different clips but from that same 10 15 minute segment one got four and a half
million views on YouTube One got two and a half million views one got a million views like it they all came from that a specific spefic energy state that I was in because I was being myself I was expressing things in a certain way I was in a flow State I wasn't even thinking very much it was just in alignment but the reason I share this is because I was being I wasn't trying to get views I wasn't I was in a state where the energy of the crowd and me it was like I was
just being and even making this video right now I can tell that in the beginning of this video ironically enough this video about trying and and looking there was a little bit more trying energy in the beginning of this video but now you can probably feel it you're probably kind of settled in with what I'm talking about because I'm not trying I'm in an energy of being and when I look to these videos even on on YouTube the videos where I'm most passionate and the most expressive there are times when I'm making these videos where
I just don't want the video to end because I feel so expressive with what I sharing and in a similar way I believe that the goal then is not that I make videos that get a specific result that get millions of views the goal is I want to make content where I'm in a high vibrational state that I love talking about these things and I'm showing my personality because I'm being myself so when I look to these couple Instagram videos that I've done very well recently and I'm oh yeah I'm showing more of my personality
kind of got like a quirky Flow State personality thing going on now I wasn't trying I was just being but what if I got more in that state more often so instead of asking how do I get the result how do I try and look for the result how do I get into that state how do I get into a flow State how do I observe my thoughts more and you want to talk about thinking less thoughts to feel higher vibration observe the survival mode CU a lot of times when you're trying we're trying to
get out of survival we're we're trying to get somewhere else that we believe is going to be better than where we are right now instead of observing the thoughts that neutralizes negative emotion and then being it making a choice to be present to the moment of of you're doing it and being it because it's who you choose to be so somebody that's creating art because they're an artist and they love creating art is a different energy than creating art to own the art gallery studio and you see this all the time by the way I
know I was talking about golf earlier you want to know what happens in golf it's a similar thing that happens in YouTube what happens is when you first get on YouTube you're just excited to freaking be here I want to share all these ideas with the world I want to help people by sharing these ideas that have helped me and I'm just in a flow State making these videos quit my 95 job I've got all this time now and all this freedom and I'm just in this passionate state but then growth starts to happen views
start to come in WoW outcome focused I got to keep the moment momentum going how do I keep the momentum going every video's got to be a banger pressure so that videos become better and better and then this thing that was just a flow State thing that was just this pure intention to add value becomes this thing like I need it to manipulate I need to manipulate my YouTube channel to give me what I want so that I can feel good enough so I could feel like I haven't fallen off you see the difference in
energy there engulf it happens because what happens is these people love playing golf they start they love playing golf they start winning but then what happens is they get these huge sponsorships I mean they may get like 10 20 30 $50 million from a company to sponsor something now they have pressure you need to play good because you're being sponsored now they have all instead of and then and then they have all these media things where they have to do all this Media stuff and they have to present these different brands and and now they're
not just playing golf they're literally like walking Billboards they're they're doing modeling a lot of these guys aren't natural like they're not they didn't grow up as models they grew up playing golf so their energy gets dispersed distracted from being they're not it's it's harder for them to be some of the greats they can beat they can do it all because they can turn on the switch to being but do you see how that creates pressure so one of the one of the things I'll say too I thought was interesting when it comes to importance
I'm not a big golf guy honestly but I'm using this as an analogy there was this thing that happened in golf where there was the PGA Tours and there was this thing called live golf live golf and it's still still around it's this other company that wanted to bring all these really top players from PGA over to live and they offered them buttloads of money 50 million hundred million and what happens is there was this energy of people living leaving PGA to go to live it's like if they left PGA they'd feel like they're doing
something wrong they'd be shamed by other people of PGA because it wasn't pure to go over to live but when they went over to live they got literally so much money that a lot of them were happy because many generations of their kids were going to be taken care of like kids kids kids and everyone else that stayed with PGA was mad because they sold out and went for the money well guess what happened when they went over to live they start they made so much money had so much abundance that the importance was taken
out of the pressure because I don't think it was contingent like you have to play extremely well to continue you know maybe to continue to get more money but in general it was like a lot of pressure was taking off of them and then what happened is many of them still played amazing and then certain people were angry and Je kind of jealous that they did that because they sold out for the money but what actually happened recently from what I understand is PGA and live actually teamed up so now all the PGA people are
even more mad because not only do these people leave and get all this money but they're actually able to come back and play in the PGA again and compete and the PGA people that didn't like like do that are you know kind of like uh you know they're kind of angry about the whole situation but one of the energy things I think that really helped for the players is I mean when you talk about golf I mean that's like an you talk about balanced forces that is an energy of Inc an incred incredible amount of
pressure and if you can decrease importance and just play to play you'll notice that you get a different result so anyways it's enough of the golf talk for today I'm not even a golfer I golfed one time when I went to Lake to W with friends like 10 years ago maybe I'll play again just for I'll try it again sometime just for fun recently I've been enjoying surfing surfing is also balanced forces it's it's also about like being in balance and enjoying the process and being present to the moment not trying to manipulate the waves
to give you what you want won't work out real well I do have a course by the way a th course for free called high 101 I added a frame technique section in there recently it's a $1,000 course for free in my high VI tribe if you want to check it out I'll go ahead and Link it below um there's also breath work in there a whole breath work ceremony that you can go through that'll help you to release the energy that's stored in the body to elevate your vibration so that you can get clear
and finally start to be and if you've never heard of what is called the backwards law it's one of the most powerful Concepts I've ever learned about has to do with thinking in reverse and how the less you try the more you are I have a video that came out recently on this that show you step by step exactly what to do it's one of my most popular and powerful new videos you can check it out right here have you ever noticed that the more you chase anything the more you affir
