How To Love YOURSELF So Much That The “Universe” Loves You

The spiritual science of self-love. You see, when you truly understand what self- loveve is from a point of metaphysics, you come to the recognition that self- loveve is nothing more than a desire for fulfillment. And the mistake that we often make when it comes to our desire to materialize our desired reality is seeking that degree of fulfillment in relationships, career, and money without also realizing that The very act of you seeking it in those things is the indication that you're lacking it. And unfortunately, when it comes to manifestation, you can only have what you already

have. And until you have self-love in completion across all the components that make up self- loveve, which I'll go through in this video, you won't possess the ability to have things be magnetized to you. I see a lot of people that desire anything from relationships, anything from more Money, anything from career or what we conceptualize as opportunities. But like I said, if you're lacking self- loveve, then unfortunately, you won't be vibrationally resonant with those things. You need to occupy the state of consciousness or whatever it is that you want. But until you can come to

a degree of fulfillment, you will be separated from the infinite intelligence which is the closest thing that you need to get to when it comes to materializing your Desired reality. So let's get into it. As you can see, career, money, luck, he's hugging himself, love. >> That's Triple H. >> You know what I'm saying? Now it looks like, you know, in WWE where like Jeff Hardy and them, >> Shawn Michael, Jeff Hardy, all them, man. >> You know, finding out wrestling was fake was where my trust issues began. >> Nah, real. I remember when it

was a Conspiracy. I was like, nah, >> that was a conspiracy though. >> I was like, can't be my >> That was a bigger conspiracy than the Illuminati. N >> you couldn't go online and not hear about it. I don't know what it is about supporting villains, >> but like I feel like everyone supported Randy Autonom. >> Yeah. You know what I'm trying to say? >> I hear voices in my head >> and the Undertaker. >> Yeah. >> You know, I was when I was young, I was afraid of the boogeyman more than the devil.

>> Bro, the boogie. >> Yo, my cousin, shout out shout out Bradley. He used to cry when he saw the boogie. We used to tell We used to tell that [ __ ] "Yo, yo, if you don't if you don't p up, we're gonna call him to come Get you." >> Yo, there's nothing like rage baiting your little cousins, man. I'm telling you. >> Rage baiting kids will never not be funny. Bro, you used to scream. >> As if I had a boogie. As if I had a boogie, man, on the phone that I didn't

have. >> I had to let that guy on TV. >> I will never understand. eating worms that I use on side ass. Okay. >> After seeing the amount of baddies that be under your comments, likes, and followers. >> Wait, is this you or is this a comment? >> This is a comment. Come on, bro. >> I'm just double checking before we get started. >> After seeing all the baddies that be under your comments, likes, and followers, bro, I know what my purpose is in life now. I didn't know these h Brains for real. >> So

use what? What? >> He said he didn't know these girls had brains for real. >> After seeing baddies in my comments, likes and follows. >> Yeah, bro. Checking every angle. >> You know what I'm saying? Covering all bases. Oh, all right. Cool. So, as I said, self love is made up of a multitude of components which I'll go through. Relax, Relax. You're going to get some. And this arguably might be one of the most important videos that I've ever made for the mere fact that if you really think about it in the way that I

define self- loveve from a point of metaphysics, self- loveve is nothing more than the desire for fulfillment [Music] and wholeness. That is all self- loveve is. But the mistake that we often make as human Beings is externalizing that degree of fulfillment and wholeness into our desires. which ironically is an indication that we're lacking in them. Because go back to what I said, the annoying law of the universe. You can only have what you already have. You can only have what you already have. But when I say have, you're thinking from the physical plane ideology of

possessing it physically. When I'm Talking have, I'm talking about beyond the illusion, transcending the illusions of the thirddimensional realm, which goes onto the only thing that is truly real in this universe, which is energy. And all energy at a base form is a vibration. So, when we're talking about having from a point of the universe, it's possessing not physically, but vibrationally, the equivalent mentally and emotionally of whatever it is that you desire. You see when we're talking About self- loveve we seek self- loveve as I said in our desires which can be anything from money

it can be anything from our careers we have this inherent idea or even other people we have this inherent idea that if we attain these things then we will reach that degree of fulfillment and wholeness without coming to the recognition that your desire in seeking fulfillment is the indication that you're lacking fulfillment. So the base the base point that you have to Begin with is come to the understanding that self- loveve isn't in the attainment of anything external. Self- loveve is an identity that you must enter now and that's what bar that down. You see

often times for most people we rank our degree of self-love by our ability to attain certain things. We rank our self-love on our ability to get the career. We rank it on the ability to get that person to have a certain amount of money without coming to the Recognition that when you tie anything to the external, you ultimately tie yourself up to an illusion. And if you tie yourself up to an illusion, an illusion is forever changing, which means that your degree of self- loveve will be forever changing, which means you will never actually reach

any particular degree of fulfillment and wholeness, which means that you will always be lacking. And if you're always lacking within, then guess what's going To happen without AJ? Exactly. You're going to be lacking because before anything can exist physically, first must exist vibrationally. And if vibrationally from a state of consciousness, your frequency, self-concept, which are all interchangeable terms for the exact same thing, they're all interchangeable terms for the exact same thing. If you're lacking internally, the money, the career, the relationship, your self- Loveve isn't going to be where it needs to be. In order for

you to attain something, you must come to the recognition on the most important relationship in this universe. Let me show you. Sometimes life comes around and then knocks you down. Just get back up and it knocks you down. >> And it knocks you down. >> I've realized the goat is is not Drake. >> Okay. >> It's not Kendrick. It's that man Kanye West. I was the class clown that always kept you laughing. We were never meant to be. Baby, we just happened. So please don't mess up the trick. Hey young world, I'm the new slick

Rick. They say I move too quick, but we can let this moment pass us. So as I said, there's one most important relationship in this universe, and that Is the relationship that you have with yourself. The relationship that you have with yourself will be the foundation of all relationships that you have with anybody in this universe. And that's what I write that down. I repeat, the relationship that you have with yourself will be the foundation of every single relationship that you have with everything in this universe. Now, bear in mind, this is the closest thing

you SP [ __ ] are ever going to get to Making to me making a video. And this ain't even about just in a romantic sense. As I said, self love from the point of metaphysics isn't anything that the world wants you to believe. it is like you know taking yourself out for dinner and um you know taking care of it's not it's not even anything to do with that because if we're going to look at it from a point of metaphysics it's nothing more than the desire to seek fulfillment and wholeness. But if you

Can't seek desire fulfillment and wholeness within yourself if that's something that you don't already possess then you won't be able to materialize or manifest whatever it is that you want. Because remember my definition of manifestation. Manifestation is internally shifting to a degree to which you're no longer emotionally dependent upon seeing reality change. I repeat, manifestation is internally shifting to a degree to which you're no Longer emotionally dependent. And the only way that you cannot be emotionally dependent upon reality is if you already possess what you think reality can offer you. Because here's the thing, you

think that somebody can give you more love than you can give yourself. You think that desire, you think that career, you think that amount of money can give you more fulfillment than you give yourself. And that is where you're lacking. Because all of those things are nothing More than you externalize. As I said, the foundational relationship that you have in life before before with your partner, before with your parents, before with your siblings, before your friends, and I don't mean this from a point of being selfish. I mean this from a point of coming to

the recognition that you quite literally live in a universe. the individuals that you come across. You know, my dad often says, my dad said something to me when I was Younger and I never forgot it for some reason. And he said, "Life is about people." And quite simplistically, when you think about it, whether it's your ability to get more money from business, sales, or clients, that's dependent upon people. Whether it's your romantic relationships, that's dependent upon people. Whether that's your career, that's also dependent upon people. Everything in reality is dependent upon people. So if everything's

dependent Upon people, what are those people dependent upon? And that is the relationship that you have with yourself. And that's a bar. Write that down. So we're going to be going into that because really and truly it is the most important relationship you have with everybody. For the mere fact that also from a point of metaphysics, every single person is nothing more than you expressed differently. Same consciousness, the only difference Is the physical expression. same consciousness only thing different is the physical expression and this can be extrapolated to the realm of quantum mechanics when we're

looking at the idea for example quantum entanglement which is when two particles are connected no matter how far separated they become across the universe what you do to one is is instantly done to another because of course they're void of the third dimensional realm constraints such as Time and space and this is the scientific way of just simply saying non-duality it's the scientific it's the well scientific way of just saying oneness So once you come to the recognition that every relationship that you have is always going to be a reflection of a relationship that you

have with yourself, then this is the relationship that must be prioritized. Who would have thought that a prioritization of your Relationship with yourself would lead to the easier materialization of relationship with other people? Who would have thought that the m that the prioritization of the relationship with yourself would lead to more opportunities, would lead to more advances in your career, would lead to you being employed? It all begins with yourself. All of it. And to go back to something that I said, remember anytime that you're focusing on the external, You're not taking into consideration the

most important thing when it comes to reality. There's something that I call the desire of your desires. The desire of your desires is the key to unlocking the materialization and the manifestation of whatever it is that you want. Whether it's that specific person, whether it's that specific amount of money, whether it's that specific career, whether it's that specific career promotion, and the desire of your Desires is coming to the understanding of the fact that all your desired reality wants is this one thing. And if you just remember this one thing and if you can keep

this one thing at the top of your mind, you will never be playing the game of manifestation backwards like everybody else that you see struggling. And that is coming to the recognition that your desire wants one thing. Your desire wants nothing more than the equivalent frequency state of Consciousness that matches it. That is all it wants. And if you can make your desire desire you, that's when everything flips. But the issue is you still think I want that person. You think I want that amount of money. You think I want that career. I want that

promotion. But have you ever asked yourself what do they want? What does that person want? What does that amount of money want? If you simplify and break it down, these Desired realities are nothing more than the materialization of your consciousness. is the materialization of your frequency, which means that they have an energetic equivalent. And if you can attain that energetic equivalent, then you will come to the true recognition that you can make those things want you. And the easiest way to decide what it is is nothing more than the combination of a mental and an

emotional state. That is All your frequency and consciousness is. Now, of course, there's other things such as your beliefs, your perceptions, your emotionally charged thoughts, the degree of conviction that you have within yourself, your expectation. But if we're just to simplify for the purpose of this video, if you want to go deeper into that, then go grab outsmarting reality, Amazon bestselling all three categories in less than 24 hours. Now, all jokes aside, emotionally And mental state, if we break down to a simple formula, that's all it is. If you can attain the equivalent of the

mental and emotional state of whatever it is that you desire already possessing it, then you will make that thing want to you. And this all goes back to my definition of manifestation. And bear in mind, we haven't even gone into the characteristic or the components, sorry, of self-love. And when you go through those comp when we go through those Components, you're going to see where you've been [ __ ] your [ __ ] up. And I truly mean that. And if you're [ __ ] yourself up internally, then unfortunately, you set yourself in motion for

the universe to do the exact same thing to you. So it's important that also make sure you take notes and leave them in the comments. But like I said, the desire of your desires when you can come to the understanding that your desire wants nothing more than its Frequency energetic or state of consciousness equivalent which is nothing more than a mental and emotional state. And if you enter that mental and emotional state in the reality now already coming to the conclusion that you already possess that amount of money, you already possess that career, you already

possess that person. And you can do that to such a degree that you're not dependent upon seeing your reality change because you have created an Emotional intense energetic charge through controlled imagination to stimulate the subconscious mind convincing it that what it sees is nothing more than what you already possess. Then that is when things will change. But there's nothing more important than this. If there's one thing you take away from this video, let it be that the most rel the most important relationship that you have with anybody is the one with Yourself. And this goes

back to a whole bunch of things that I've previously said in videos. I always say your frequency speaks before you've even spoken. Your frequency speaks before you've even spoken. So before you want that person, you've already spoke to them from a point of frequency. Before you apply for that job, you've already spoke to that job from a point of frequency. Before you apply for that promotion, you've already spoke to it From a point of frequency. Before you get on that sales call, you've already spoke to that person from a point of frequency. Before you go

and sell your product, you've already spoken to that customer from a point of frequency. And Neville Goddard also said people echo what we whisper to them in consciousness. So it's the same thing just said different ways. You need to come to the understanding that it all begins with you. And the more that you Can understand you and the more you can strive for that degree of fulfillment by coming to the understanding of the components that is when things will change. So let's get into the components. You're spitting still. Thank you very much. Thank you very

very much. It's important. Like it's really important. And I think for me it's been easy because you know on my mom's side I'm my only child. So I had nothing to do but be alone. You know what I'm saying? He was a loner. Yeah. For the most part. Bro, I think this guy this guy commented something and I think he's I think he's on to something. I watch AJ's channel, too. >> Okay. >> He applies information he got from you in a great way. >> He does. He does. >> Thank you. >> Everything is fine

now. >> Congratulations on 10K. >> Thank you. I'm on 11. >> Oh, you're on 11, >> I think. >> Sorry, bro. Sorry, bro. >> He goes, everything is fine now. >> Oh, >> okay. What does that mean? >> I feel like I need to listen to this. But Nero, be careful, >> okay? >> Your light is different and brighter. >> It may stir up envy. People who envy you befriend you. Brackets Robert Green. Laws of human nature. Close brackets. >> I have got a bad experience with this. And it is always those silent, non-threatening types

that are very envious within. >> Okay. >> It is predictable. AJ will sell you out one day and you will be the next Diddy Case. How did we get there? >> People will twist your jokes and AJ will play the victim. >> AJ going to be on that documentary like, "Yeah, I just, you know, I thought I knew him, you know, but there was something something sinister about him." >> Or >> or >> you're going to kill AJ. >> Me >> like m sacrifice proof. >> Oh, you just joking. >> Oh, you said just joking.

>> Just joking. >> I ain't going to lie, bro. I already I've already put in the I already signed the papers, bro. You're about to You know what I'm saying? You got you got like a couple of days, bro. You know what I'm saying? But I'm doing this for us. Like, I'll take care of your family and that. You know what I'm saying? Like, >> don't worry. >> Listen, I'm doing this for us. >> Don't worry, man. You're the sacrifice. >> You know what's crazy? If anything was to actually happen, that would be the first

conspiracy [ __ ] You know, that would be the first one. >> And you see this comment right here? They'll be like, >> they'll be playing it on the >> Yep. Yep. This will be in the documentary live. Oh, >> they'll be like, "AJ literally just read out his future and he didn't even know. He didn't even know. Okay, we'll go green and blue. Cool. Now, like I said, there's a multitude of components that make up your self-love. Self- loveve is made up of a bunch of components. If you think about it, it's like um

a pyramid. No illumin allegations, but these things stack on top of each other and equate to self- Loveve. Now the first thing that equates to self love the first component is self forgiveness. Now as I said there's a bunch of self self. They all equate to self- loveve. The first one is self forgiveness. Your self-love is directly reflecting of your degree of self forgiveness. Now, here's the thing that unfortunately a mistake that we often make as human beings. Understand this. The base Premise of whether you want to materialize a partner, a career, a certain amount

of money, you need to have that type of relationship that you desire to have with another, with yourself. So, if you desire to have a healthy relationship with money, you need to have a healthy relationship with money first within. If you desire to have a healthy relationship with somebody else, you need to have a healthy relationship with yourself Within first. If you desire to have a healthy relationship with that career or that career promotion, you need to have a healthy relationship with yourself first. You are the most important relationship. Now, self forgiveness is one of

those things. Now, what do I mean by this? You see, more often than not, by the way, every one of these self components that equate to self- loveve come with the energetic polarity. Of course, we exist within this third Dimensional realm. And one of the hermetic laws of this third dimensional realm is the law of polarity which is nothing more than a fang way of saying energetic separation. Everything comes with the energetic complimentary pair. For example, hot, cold, light, dark, masculine, feminine. In this instance, self-punishment and self forgiveness. And the energetic polarity of self forgiveness

is self- punishment. What do I mean by this? How often do you punish Yourself within? That's actually probably something you should write down because the more you can become aware of which one of these components that you're align aligning to, the more you're actually going to be in a position to alter your degree of self- loveve. If you can alter the relationship with you have with yourself, then you alter the relationship that you have with the universe. And that's a bar. Write that Down. And it all begins with coming to the recognition of when you

punish yourself for your mistakes, your failures, and your shortcomings. And this is really deep. And I think about something myself that I punished myself for for years. When I really think and when I came to this conclusion, it kind of gave me goosebumps. And one thing that I realized is that growing up, of course, Seeing my mom struggle to provide, you know, working tirelessly to provide and seeing her, you know, sometimes break down because of our situation financially, I realized something. I didn't forgive myself. And you're probably thinking like, what didn't you forgive yourself for?

I didn't forgive myself for not being able to help when I was a kid, which sounds [ __ ] stupid. It doesn't make any sense. But the subconscious Mind is far from rational. It's completely irrational. And it's nothing short of emotional. And I didn't forgive myself for not being in a position earlier in life. I was like [ __ ] 10. It It doesn't even make sense. I didn't forgive myself for not being in a position to actually help. And that's something that I carried on with me for years. And the whole time the internal

conversations that I having, which bear in mind, the Internal conversations that you have within will always be reflected without elements of it, traces of it, because your frequency speaks before you've even spoken. The internal conversations that you want to move towards or shift towards is away from self-punishment. Because when things don't go right, what do you say to yourself? You say, "Fucking stupid. Why couldn't you Why couldn't you do better?" What were you thinking? You should have done this. You Should have done this. You should have done this much earlier. What were you thinking? Why

are you always so stupid? Why don't you just ever get it? Why does it never work for you? Bear in mind, the internal will always reflect the external. On earth as it is in heaven. Earth. Heaven on earth as it is in heaven. As within, as without. It's the same thing said across multiple different traditions. is coming to the conclusion That the internal conversations that you have with yourself emit a frequency a frequency to those around you through a degree of thought transference which then enters their consciousness and molds how they perceive you. For example,

if you're beating yourself up in your head for being unemployed for a long period of time, then when you go for that application for that job, that frequency has already spoke before you. If you beat yourself up in your head for Not looking a certain way or not being a certain way, when you do go approach that person, you do try and move to that person, it doesn't bang because you've already spoke to them from a point of consciousness. When you do attempt to close that client, you're thinking about all the instances and the times

that you failed to close clients and you're punishing yourself for your mistakes, your failures, and your shortcomings. How do you respond to yourself when you Move from a point of failure, mistakes, and shortcomings? What's the internal dialogue that you have with yourself? Because elements of that things that are resonant to that from a point of consciousness or frequency of vibration will always be reflected in the external to people. Why did I date that person? What was I thinking? Why did I let that person treat me like that for so long? Without coming to the recognition

of something That the Buddha once said. The Buddha once said, "Holding on to resentment, it was holding on to resentment is like holding on to hot coal that you never throw." Self-explanatory. The only person that begins to suffer is you. And when you think about how you treat yourself, the things that you say to yourself when you make mistakes, when you make failures, when you say something stupid, when you do something stupid, when you make a Mistake, when you have a shortcoming, when you have a failure, the things that you say to yourself will always

be reflected in the universe around you. Because the inner conversation that you have with yourself is not you realizing that the universe is going to turn those same conversations and materializing them into conditions, circumstances, and people that reflect elements of that particular conversation. And this is the irony of it all. The Irony of it all is that you're seeking self-love before the world has proved it to you. That doesn't make any [ __ ] sense. You need to already be in a state of wholeness and self- loveve before the world proves it to you. But

you're seeking for the world to prove it to you by getting that person, which doesn't even make sense because if you think about it, right? Typically, whenever I see people talk about wanting to manifest other people, Their desire is always for them to have somebody that's obsessed with them. Without understanding base [ __ ] metaphysics, obsession is repulsion. Even when you get that person obsessed with you, now they're going to be obsessed with you. You're going to be repelled by them. you're going to be repulsed by them energetically because obsession is repulsion. It doesn't even

make any sense. And the desire to have somebody obsessed with You is actually an indication that you're lacking a degree of self-obsession and self- love and self-complet self-completion and self wholeness. Or else you wouldn't desire to have somebody obsessed with you. And it's the same it's the same addiction extrapolated across multitude of different fields. To have so much money, to desire so much money is nothing more than lacking a degree of internal of so much self-security. Self-comfort, it's the same thing across every single plane of existence. Every time that we truly desire something with such

an intensity, it's always a reflection that we're lacking it within. We're lacking the internal equivalent of what we desire. And because we're lacking the internal equivalent, because you want that thing, that job, that amount of money to be obsessed with you, you don't even come to the [ __ ] conclusion that You're lacking what it takes to even materialize in the first place cuz you can only have what you already have. If you're already not in that state of consciousness, you can't have that desire. So, it doesn't even make sense. You need to start punishing

yourself. I remember growing up when I would be in church, I would see the sweetest the sweetest of people, you know, continue to struggle after praying. And for a while in my mind I began to be like, yo, Like what the like is God punishing us? And that's a and that's a very intense thought to have at a young age. Are we being punished by God? Like what is this? Without coming to the recognition that the truth of the matter is we're punishing ourselves. We're punishing ourselves for the things we don't have. We're punishing we're

punishing ourselves for the mistakes that we make. We're punishing ourselves for the mistakes and the shortcomings that we Have. So what else could the universe do to us? What else could it do to us? And you have to come to the understanding that self punishment and self forgiveness are the exact same energy. As I said, they're energetic polarities. The only difference is their rate of vibration. And your rate of vibration is always determined by your concentration. And whether you realize this or not, when Things don't go your way or when things don't go the way

that you believe they should, you begin to descend into punishing yourself for mistakes, for your failures and your shortcomings. And that concentration is a centralization of energy that sets into motion vibration. And vibration sets into motion frequency or consciousness, which then equates to reality. Have you how often do you forgive yourself? How often do you actually tell yourself that it's okay? Which is ironic because I need you to understand something and please remember this. The way that you'd want somebody to treat you when you've made a mistake is the way that you need to treat

yourself when you make a mistake. You actually need to be the parent that you wish you had. That's very [ __ ] deep. And this isn't to take anything away from any of our parents, but this is Coming to the conclusion that there was aspects of our lives that when we made mistakes, and this is so funny, and I think about this like um I remember there was this baby um on TikTok and she was with her mom and she was like pouring milk and the baby spilled milk all over the counter and people in

the comments, black people were like, "Yo, I thought she was going to get beat." And we've all had those experience. When you really think about it, it's really [ __ ] up. >> That's messed up. In instances that we made mistakes, bear in mind the subconscious mind is programmed by emotional charge. As I, as I always say, people say it's repetition. No, repetition is a very [ __ ] long-winded way of doing something. You can repeat something for years and it not change. You only need to go through a traumatic events once in your life

for your entire subconscious Mind, your perception for you to look at the world differently and to begin to react to things differently. Now, that's in the degree of negativity. The energetic complimentary pair of positivity exists. So if you can generate an intense degree of emotion and I don't mean euphoria in a sense where you're like you're on you know the craziest of drugs you can be intensely relaxed. It depends what type of person you are. You need to know yourself Because the more you know yourself the more you begin to understand your universe because as

it says know thyself and thou shalt know all. So however you would respond to being your desired reality is how you need to feel from a degree of emotional intensity. And once you come to the understanding that in those instances to which you made a mistake and your parents reacted in a certain way or your teachers reacted in a certain way or your friends reacted in A certain way, you've now on a subconscious level began to do the own punishing for yourself internally without realizing that the universe does nothing more than magnify and maintain our

frequency, our state of consciousness. So now every time that you make a mistake, you punish yourself for it. you talk badly to yourself about it without also realizing that that is what people are going to pick up energetically from you. There's some People you can come around them and you just be like, uh, something's off about that person. Something's off about that. They haven't even said a word. They could be dressed nice. They could be look they could look real they could be real cool, but something's off about that person. It's just intuitive. Your frequency

speaks before you've even spoken. You need to shift to forgiving yourself internally. Telling yourself that it's actually okay For the mistakes that you've made, the failures that you've had, the shortcomings that you've had. This isn't this ain't about anybody else. This is about you. Because the relationship that you have with yourself will be the foundation of every single relationship that you have with everybody else. You need to forgive yourself for not looking a certain way. You need to forgive yourself for not making the amount of money that you need to be making. You Need to

forgive yourself for not being in the position that you thought you'd be in at this time in your life because you don't realizing you're holding on to hot coal without coming to the recognition that you're burning nobody but yourself. Tell yourself that it's okay. Tell yourself that you forgive yourself. Make peace with the understanding that it's not about what happened necessarily in the past, but it's about what you're able to do with Your particular present. Because a distorted past will lead to a distorted present. And that's a bar that down for the mistakes and the

failures and the shortcomings that you've made. You have a distorted perception towards them. Not only is it distorted, it's in combination with a bunch of emotional charge which then can only set into motion a distorted present. Self forgiveness is crucial. And here's the thing, a lot of people think that Feeling guilty is their way of, you know, make this is what they deserve, right? And it's [ __ ] up. This is honestly what we think as human beings without coming to the recognition of what I just said. The universe needs to do nothing more than

maintain and magnify whatever base emotional state that it is you're holding. So in instances where you do make mistakes or shortcomings or failures, be cool to yourself. Tell yourself it's Okay. Tell yourself you'll do better instead of punishing yourself because self punishment will only lead to you feeling like the universe. Have you ever felt like the world's against you? Yes, it's because whether you realize this or not, there's an aspect of yourself within that is against yourself. The external conflict is nothing more than the internal conflict materialized. And more often than not, the self punishment

And people punish themselves for how they people always say to me, "Oh, Nero, can I manifest changes to my looks?" Once again, that's a common thing, isn't it? >> Without understanding once again, really think about this from a point of consciousness. your desire. People honestly believe that they need to change the way that they look so they can manifest people. This is ridiculous. And the reason why I say it's ridiculous Is that your external desire to alter yourself is nothing more than an indication that you're lacking how you'd feel upon changing yourself externally. If changing

your if changing your nose or growing taller or this or that or whatever it is or getting skinnier or getting thick, whatever it is, if doing that would make you feel a certain way, then your very desire is an indication that you're lacking how you'd feel upon being in that reality without come to The recognition that you don't have to change yourself externally to alter yourself internally. Because the truth of the pro, the truth of the matter is like Chris said in the Sopranos, you can't solve a spiritual problem with a chemical solution or a

physical problem. It's the same thing. you're seeking to alter yourself externally, you're going to feel the same way. How do I know? There's a great book called Psychocybernetics Where there was a plastic surgeon. People used to come to him in the in the in the '9s. People used to come, oh, was it in the ' 70s, one of them? People used to come to him and say, "Hey, you know, I want to change my nose because I think it's affecting my ability to get my job." He'd give them a nose job and they'd have the

exact same [ __ ] problem. So please you have to mature and come to the understanding from a point of metaphysics that changing Yourself externally isn't going to solve what is happening internally. The internal can only be solved by the internal. The internal can only be solved by the internal. And the confidence that you believe and the security that you believe you'd have upon changing yourself externally is actually the confidence that you need to instill into yourself now because your frequency speaks before you've even spoken. Then being short isn't a Problem. Then being on the

thicker side isn't a problem. then being on the skinny side isn't a problem. Then your nose wouldn't be a problem. Your eyes would your ears wouldn't be a problem. But yes, self punishment is definitely one that plagues most of humanity. I believe I believe most of us punish and I think it was I don't remember which stoic I don't know if it was Senica Senica or Epictitus that said we suffer more in imagination than reality and It's the truth. And because we suffer so much in imagination from a point of meta metaphysics, we suffer in

reality because of our imagination which imagination is nothing more than consciousness, self-concept, frequency, and another interchangeable term. But yes, that's one. I think we got a couple more to go. And all of these equate to self love. So make sure you get all of these components down. And once you are got them all down, rank Yourself and see where you force. Bear in mind, as you can see, I'm not telling you to do I'm not telling you to change your hair or do all of this to love yourself more cuz you do that [ __

] and you end up and I even see it like I even see it online like, you know, I see videos of, you know, people in their marriages leaving their marriages saying nothing's wrong, you know, but there's something missing. And guess what's missing? Self-love and internal Wholeness and completion. Because most people externalize self-love and love into marriage. Most people believe that when I get married, then I'm going to have that wholeness and completion without coming to the understanding that I think me personally that the best marriages can only work if two individuals are already both

in a state of completion or help each other get to completion and then come together as opposed to externalizing self- loveve Because they go into this thinking that they're going to get something out of it. such as anybody in any career, any degree of money or relationship, and then see that they didn't get it, and now they think something's wrong without realizing that they've externalized their selflove. It's called self love. Self love. Someone said, "I finally manifested a new job yesterday." >> Congratulations. Congratulations. After working for Door Dash and Uber Eats for eight months now,

damn, tough time. I was stuck in analysis paralysis and was also caught up in thinking I changed the C. I changed the cause to the effect of getting accepted for a job instead of being rejected countless times over the months. Finally figured out the key and just wanted to say thank you for your help. Time to manifest some bad. >> Okay. >> What's what what's this bad? the man them do nothing more than focus on baddies >> if they manifest one >> but you know what usually guys are like I manifested a girl and then

we're like okay what about like success career and so this you know >> no it's better than most I I guess so I guess the [ __ ] just want to manifest things for more baddies I feel like the Job he's like the job might have the Next component after self forgiveness is self praise. How often do you praise yourself? You know what's ironic? Whenever people die, that's when they seem to get extreme amount of praise. You need to begin to praise yourself as if you another person and you saw that you died. That's the

degree of self-praise that you need to have. Because here's the thing. If we go back to the foundations, you can only have What you already have. How can you desire to be praised by the world around you through the materialization of opportunities, career advances, employment, and money if you're not already praising yourself? And even the idea of praising yourself probably feels a bit uncomfortable. It feels a bit egotistical. And that should let you know how [ __ ] we are as human beings. Even the idea of self-support and self-praise is wrong because self-praise Feels egotistical,

but praise from other people feels like it's warranted, which is very [ __ ] ironic because that's having the external dictate the internal. You understand what I'm saying? And the energetic polarity for self-praise is self criticism. You're more quick to criticize yourself than you are to praise yourself. And because you're more quick to criticize yourself, you set in motion for the universe to do nothing more than bring conditions, Circumstances, events, and p Oh people, you do nothing more than set in motion for the universe to materialize nothing more than conditions, circumstances, people, and events that

do nothing more that reflect that degree of criticism within you. Are you smart enough? Are you tall enough? Are you are you are you big enough? Are you tall enough? Are you sure you have what it takes? I don't think you Have what it takes. Why would they choose you? You don't see you don't see that girl over there. Why they why they choose you don't see that [ __ ] over like why they choose you. You could have done this better. Uh that's not good enough. Every particular degree of self-criticism that we have internally

is always going to be materialized into the consciousness of other people around us whether we realize this or not. And The criticism that you give to yourself will always be the criticism that other people will give you or the criticism that other people will think about you. Not because that's what they think, but simply because people echo what we whisper to them in consciousness as Neville Goddard has said. But the thing that we lack the most is self-praise. You You done good. You done amazing. You done good. You done amazing. You really did that. Great.

Wow, you're amazing. You're great. Now you're on a different level. How often do you say these things to yourself? So, how could you ever expect the universe to reflect conditions, circumstances, and people and events that would stimulate you to even say that in the first place? If you're not telling yourself that you're great, if you're not telling yourself that you're amazing, if you're Not congratulating yourself, then how could you set yourself in motion to be congratulated by the external? Which is very [ __ ] funny because like I said, even when we think of self-praise,

it's more normal for the external to praise you. It's more society acceptable for other people to praise you than for you to praise yourself, which is very hilarious because that's the external. And if you allow the external to gas you up, then you allow the external power Over the internal. And now you've given power for that praise when people criticize you to be the very [ __ ] same thing. Believe it or not, I work with some of the biggest influencers that I couldn't even tell you guys because, you know, they asked me to keep

it private. And one thing that I talk to them about heavily is these two particular degrees of polarity, self-criticism and self-praise. Because more often than Not, like we said, it is more society acceptable for you to be told that you're good than you tell yourself that you're good. But if you don't tell yourself that you're good, how can anybody else tell you that you're good? You understand what I'm saying? And because you don't tell yourself that you're good or that you're amazing or you're doing great or you're on the path or this or this or

this or that, then indirectly you open yourself up to Experience the exact opposite. And because you don't gash yourself up to a point where nobody can phase you, you allow other people to phase you. Hence why I always say to you guys, I'm very appreciative of all the likes and the comments and this and this and that. But I I promise you one thing about me right now, [ __ ] Let me tell you one thing about me. I understand something. And that's the same rope that they use to pull you up will be the

same one they Hang you with whenever they want. So I can't let any particular degree of praise affect me. In fact, most of the time [ __ ] are telling me [ __ ] that I already know by myself. And that's not egotism. Why would that be? Why would that be egotistical? But you see the association of it. And the mind forms dangerous associations. If you view self-praise as being egotistical, then to avoid being egotistical cuz nobody wants to be an [ __ ] To avoid being egotistical, you avoid self-praise. And if you avoid praising

yourself internally, then you don't set yourself the opportunity to experience conditions, circumstances, people, and events that set praise in materializ. So when you achieve something, whether it's the minister of things, whether it's the whether it's the smallest of things, praise yourself. You did great. You did good. Good job, Buddy. >> All right. Got it. You have to praise yourself for the smallest of things up to the greatest of things. Confucious says, "Eat at your own table the way you would a king's table." And I love that. >> That's a bar, though. >> It is. It

is. And it all begins with coming to the understanding that praise begins within. It has to begin within. It has to begin Within. How could you ever materialize that opportunity if you're not vibrationally resonant with that opportunity? Because you do nothing more than criticize yourself and lower yourself from being vibrationally resonant with that opportunity. How how could you materialize being with that person when you criticize yourself to such a degree that even getting with that person, you guys wouldn't be vibrationally resonant. So, you'd end up Separating anyways because your own insecurities would be magnified from

your own degree of self-criticism. How often do you criticize yourself? Probably every [ __ ] day. We all do. Seek to replace that degree of self-criticism with self praise. How often do you praise yourself? >> I just want to praise you. I just want to you get the point. You must begin to praise yourself with The way that you desire for the universe to praise you. And if you don't, then you can't set into motion. You can't set emotion to experience that. Self love gets tricky, man. It really gets tricky. This person must have some

real self love here. Look at this. >> We love to see it. Go on. >> Hey, Nero. >> Hey. >> Just wanted to say just wanted to start by saying thank you. >> I wanted this year to be about exploring and traveling the world and I manifested a SD. >> S what? >> S D. >> S D. D. D as in delta, not P. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Delta. You know what that means, right? She got some sugar. >> Yeah. Yeah. I think that's a sugar Daddy. Cuz I was thinking D and P on keyboards

are like far away from each other. So that's not a typo. >> Yeah. >> All right. Cool. She manifested a sugar daddy >> who flies me wherever I want to go. Took me on a cruise for a week to the Bahamas, paid for my passport, and gives me $800, >> you know, like that. >> And gives me $800 a month just because. >> Okay. I want I want to hear something else now. I also manifested a modeling contract after struggling almost seven years to get signed. You really have helped me become a brand new person

and I will never sell myself short of anything I know I deserve ever again. >> All right, >> that's fire. >> We love to hear it, man. That's beautiful modeling contract, >> you know, like that. >> I have a few models that have said the same thing. They're going crazy. >> No wonder that guy's in your followers likes. That's That's why that's why [ __ ] are in the follows, the likes, the comments. >> Yo, I've seen guys move to girls on YouTube comments saying, "Here's my Instagram DM." I've seen it live. Oh, I've been

on lives and guys will see a girl's profile picture and start chatting to her. It's It's relentless out here. >> Yeah, >> it's relentless out here. >> Mandom don't rest. >> No, they don't rest. They definitely do not rest. You like orange, don't you, lad? >> I love me a bit of orange. >> I got you. Orange is the new black. Okay, >> I got you. I'm um >> What's your name? >> The next component of self-love, self-worth. Now, luckily for you guys, I have a whole video on selfworth already, so go check that out.

But I shall go into it slightly here. You see, your self-worth is nothing more than the energetic ceiling of all that you can materialize in reality. You see, most people desire to materialize things that unfortunately they are under. So, let's say right here is your desired reality. And let's say Here is the ceiling of your selfworth. And this is you. If you make the jump to try and materialize your desired reality, unfortunately, you'll hit the ceiling every single time. you won't be able to surpass the ceiling of your selfworth because your self-worth is what you

energetic well let me say your what you emotionally believe you deserve. Now here's the thing I see a lot of [ __ ] with fake selfworth and women to be honest. A lot of people with Fake self worth because what we believe is selfworth isn't what selfworth is. Most people think their selfworth is what they believe they deserve. And this isn't what selfworth is because this this idea on selfworth is from the conscious mind. Like I said, most people believe they deserve a certain amount of money. They believe they deserve a certain type of person.

They believe they deserve a certain type of job. They believe they deserve a certain career. They believe they deserve a certain amount of sales in their business. They believe that they deserve this. They believe. But remember, belief is will never be enough to materialize anything in reality because belief still contains the potentiality for doubt. And that potentiality for doubt will often negatively alter the frequency that you're emitting for your desired reality. It will sway your consciousness Of what you believe you are and who you believe you are. Because belief isn't enough. Belief ain't enough to

do [ __ ] in this universe. What true selfworth is isn't what you believe you deserve. It's what you know you deserve. That is what true selfworth is. So what determines what you know? Is it once again anything to do with the conscious mind? No. It's not you thinking that you deserve better. When I'm talking about Knowing, knowing is also always emotional. And anytime that anything is emotional, then it's reaching the subconscious. What your subconscious knows you deserve is what your self worth will be. And what your subconscious knows you deserve is what it has

emotionally and intensely experienced. Yes experienced. Whatever you have intensely And emotionally experienced in reflection of your desired reality is what your subconscious mind has calibrated to knowing what you deserve. So if you've experienced a series of relationships with nothing but toxicity, then the emotional intensity of that toxic relationship has now been calibrated to the subconscious mind. And even if you believe you deserve better than toxicity and you know you deserve a healthy relationship, your subconscious Mind knows that you deserve toxicity because it knows depending upon what you have emotionally intensely experienced, that's what it's got

calibrated to your subconscious mind. So when a healthy relationship comes, you're just like something's off about this guy. So you see he's too nice. just no he's boring nah and this can be extrapolated beyond relationships right you can know you you can believe you deserve more money but You if you have emotionally and intensely experienced one particular financial level your subconscious mind now has that financial level calibrated to be your self worth and now that's your ceiling so anytime that you try and make more money it bounces back every time you fall back to the

same level you can never reach that ceiling in. Speaking of which, if you're an athlete, an entrepreneur, or an actor experiencing any particular degree of Ceilings, and you want to enhance your career by doubling your revenue, securing more contracts, or just being better from a point of performance, then check out the link in the description. But it all comes down to this. For example, let's say there's a career promotion, but you've been doing nothing but self-criticizing yourself and punishing yourself. Back to the other components of self- loveve. your self- loveve is Now slightly affected. So

now because your self-worth is now calibrated to being at the same position. So let's say this is P for position and this is PP haha for promotion um position. Um if you seek to materialize that particular opportunity your self worth is the ceiling. So you end up hitting off that ceiling and every time you apply you either get ignored or they get told no you got to put in more time or this or this or that. So the truth of the matter is most of us deem ourselves as worthless and we deem ourselves as worthless

by our inability to shift from the level that we have emotionally and intensely experienced. And the only way that you can increase your selfworth is by altering what you have emotionally and intensely experienced. And the only way you can do that is by utilizing your imagination by Getting into a deeply meditative state and imagining a scene where somebody is acknowledging whatever it is that you seek to desire. And they're acknowledging it and it's somebody that you love because that will set emotion, a degree of emotional intensity. And once you displace what your selfworth has calibrated

by creating either an equal or more powerful energetic charge which is just an emotional charge, emotional intensity, you can dissipate That energy and end up altering what your mind believes it is that you deserve. And then the ceiling that you've been experiencing will no longer be there. And then when you seek to attain it, you go straight to it. Worthlessness is crazy because when you think about it, a lot of our self worth as human beings is dependent upon what other people say about our worth. Isn't that [ __ ] up? You know what I'm

saying? Like, you know, I got a friend And because he believes that he's short, well, can't believe because he's short >> and he sees what people say online about short [ __ ] that nigga's self worth has just been absolutely destroyed. Well, that comes to the recognition that that is allowing the external to make you feel worthless. And if you internally feel worthless, then your frequency speaks before you've even spoken. You can only have what you already have and you'll have nothing More than conditions, circumstances, people and events that reflect nothing more than your worthlessness.

Even though none of us require fixing, none of us require any mending as if we're broken, right? We're all are materializations of God and that is our inherent degree of worth. But a lot of people, society teaches us to determine our self worth based upon what we're able to do as opposed to what we're able to be, which ironically what you be Determines what you do and that determines the result that you're able to materialize. It's completely in reverse. If you allow the external to make you feel unworthy then or worthless, that's nothing more than

a reflection that you haven't solidified a degree of internal selfworth that can't be shaken. Because selfworth that can't be shaken can't be shaken. For example, a to you could never walk up to somebody who's seven foot and say to them, "You're short as fuck." And they would be bothered by that because their internal calibration of who they are is unshakable. The same degree that there's some people you can say whatever to them and they're just not going to be shaken because they know who they are. They know who they are. They know who they are.

They know based upon the emotional intensity that they have experienced within which has led to them knowing which has now led and Here's the thing it's like if the lights on you can't tell me the lights off cuz I know the lights on. I don't believe the lights on. I know the lights on. And the only way you can get to a point of knowing is like I said by utilizing your imagination to internally create an emotionally tense experience that reflects that exact thing. Now, like I said, where do you get your worth from? That's

something for you to write down, By the way, because it's going to be different for each person. Some people get their worth from money. Some people get their worth from clothes. Some people get their worth through other people telling them that they're worthy. You need to conclude whatever it is for you. And whatever it is from you, you can't get that from the external anymore. You have to utilize your imagination to internally give that to yourself. So, as opposed to waiting for Somebody on the street to come and tell you that you look nice, use

your imagination to have people tell you that you're nice, tell yourself that you look nice internally. And if you do that enough, your selfworth will be calibrated to a level where you don't even need someone to tell you that you look nice cuz you know you look nice. The only [ __ ] that need to be told if they look nice or not are people that believe it. But if you know it, then there's nothing that can be done. and extrapolate this to career. Extrapolate this to money, employment, all of that. If the external can

alter the internal, then you will be a slave to reality. Because here's a bar that you need to write down. You can't be dependent upon the external world. You cannot be emotionally dependent on the external. You can only be emotionally dependent on the internal Because once you relinquish dependency on the external and you only react to the internal world, then you're no longer a slave caught up in this mirror house that we walk in upset our reflection. It wouldn't be a Nero video without some good old Robin. On the topic of self praise, going back

to it, I know it was like, you know, two two boards ago, but you also need to praise yourself Intellectually. Like I said, you know, there's the self-praise of, oh, you're doing great or, you know, you're doing amazing or or congratulations to yourself, but also other aspects of yourself, such as you're so smart. Because one other thing that is common when it comes to the manifestation side of things is this internal lacking of conviction in what you know that you know enough. But if you can convince yourself that you know you studied a lot Like

you know enough you're smart enough then that will have an effect on your ability to then go materialize The next component of your selfworth is your selfrespect. Do you respect yourself? H more often than not, you disrespect yourself. And the way that we often disrespect ourselves is by letting others disrespect us. You talk crazy to yourself. You talk crazy to yourself. You talk to yourself in a way that if somebody came and spoke to you like that on the street, you might have a problem with them. And that's saying something because that person that comes

on the street that says that was vibrationally resonant with you at that particular moment in time. And more often than not, we disrespect ourselves internally. And you disrespect yourselves through Jokes. You might make jokes at yourself. Self-respect is a key component of self-love. It's the way that you conduct yourself. It's the things you allow. It's the places you allow yourself to go. It's the standards you have set for yourself. That's all respect is. It's a standard. And anytime you disrespect yourself, you are disrespecting your own standards. How often do you respect your Own standards? You

know, you should be in a better career, but for whatever reason, you won't make that transition. And this is very different from you being happy in a career. If you're happy in a career, then that's amazing and that's where you should be. But if you know that there's that promotion or another career and you're longing for that and you're beginning to resent your current position, then that's you not adhering To the standard that you know you should be at, which is self-d disrespect. If you know that you're entertaining a certain caliber of person that you

shouldn't be, but guess what feels [ __ ] fun, then you know that that is something you're disrespecting yourself in regards to. Anytime that you're not striving for your optimal, I don't even want to say optimal. Anytime that you're not striving for a standard that you know You should strive for, then that's self disrespect. This is very different. Bear in mind, if you're happy where you are, that's how you should be. I'm not one of them [ __ ] that's going to come online and gaslight [ __ ] into hating their lives, which bear in

mind, only sex. No, cuz you see that [ __ ] [ __ ] will be like, "Oh, you know, this is, oh, you're working a job. That's slavery." And it's like, what the hell? Like, you know, don't let anybody gaslight you into Hating your life because the moment you do that, the more you set yourself in motion to begin punishing yourself, self-criticizing yourself, depleting your degree of selfworth, and also disrespecting yourself, which does nothing more than affect your self- loveve. And then that affects your ability to materialize condition, circumstances, and opportunity that can lead to

you being even more fulfilled, which then leads to you also not being Fulfilled, which then leads to the lacking of those things. So, don't do that. But it's the standards that you've set for yourself. Am I adhering to the standards that I've set for myself? Am I doing as much as I want to be? Not could be. Because once again, if you're happy with where you're at, then that's perfect and that's where you need to be. But are you doing as much as you want? Are you in the position you want? And it all matters.

It all matters. You need to be able to conduct yourself and the things that you allow. And this extrapolates to even how you allow people to talk to you. Because often times what often happens is this. Somebody might say something to you, right? And you may not defend yourself or you may whatever. But then when you're by yourself, you're going to be thinking all the things that you should have said without realizing That that degree of mental activity is still taking place within your consciousness which is still leading to materialization of that experience which is

eventually going to happen again. When you don't defend yourself, you feel like you've let yourself down. when you feel like you've let yourself down, you've disrespected yourself. So then you setting more motion for yourself to be disrespected. Bear in mind, like I said, if you're Happy with who you're at, then that's where you should be. But you can't be talking crazy to yourself in a way that you would allow somebody else to talk to you. And if you would allow yourself to talk to yourself like that, but not allow somebody else, you're still caught up

in the cycle because that other person is nothing more than a physical expression of you and another physical expression of you. So once again, it's just you Just talking to yourself crazy regardless. H not going to lie, as soon as I finished the book, I manifested effortless cash flow, got rid of all my bad addictions, got a home and marriage I wanted. >> Damn. Fears. >> No, you don't want to share no more details, bro. But [ __ ] >> it's quite it's quite a change, >> you know, like that. It's nice to see all

the lives that you've changed and impacted. >> All the lives we've changed. [ __ ] don't do that. >> We were supposed to shoot yesterday. I was telling one of my friends like, "Why don't you just shoot without him?" Sweet. Um, purple. And then of course uh the final component Very similar to selfrespect and self- discipline. How can you see to discipline the universe when you can't even discipline yourself? >> Discipline kinky. bit kinky. How can you master reality when you haven't even mastered yourself? And the thing about self-discipline is that your self-disipline directly has

an effect on your self-confidence. Your self-confidence Eventually leads to what I call conviction. And conviction is the basis of all manifestation. When you're in a state of conviction, you're in a state of knowing. When you're in a state of knowing, your subconscious mind has accepted. When your subconscious mind has accepted being the womb of reality, it will manifest experiences that reflect that. So your selfd disccipline actually sets into motion a chain of events that leads To manifestation. But when you're lacking self-discipline by not adhering to the standards that you've set for yourself, you begin to

disrespect yourself by stepping into your self-indulgence. Because when you set when you go into self-indulgences, when you end up doing things that you want to stop or doing things that you know isn't good for and bear in mind, bear in mind this ain't like me saying stop smoking, stop doing this, stop drinking, stop Doing, stop eating meat, cuz we do all of that. But I don't have any issues with that in my mind. So there's no conflict when I partake in that. But for other people, when they begin to partake in things that they don't

want to do, that sets into motion self-indulgence. That self-indulgence then affects their self-confidence, affects their conviction, affects their manifestation. Anytime that you indulge in things that you don't want to do or things that you Have an issue with doing, then you begin to affect your degree of self-love. Because how can then you love yourself when you know that you're destroying yourself. And I don't even mean destroying yourself. I don't even mean destroying yourself in the things you do. Destroying yourself in the things you're thinking about, the things that you do. That's what the difference is.

So, if you got no problems with drinking or Smoking or eating meat, you're cool. I don't I don't have a problem with any of those things. So, I'm chilling. But for somebody that, for example, that wants to stop smoking or wants to stop drinking or wants to stop eating meat and they pause and then they eat meat, pause or they drink or they smoke. Then they begin to beat themselves up internally. They begin to punish themselves. They begin to criticize themselves. They begin to on the basis Of their self-indulgence, they begin to do everything that

depletes their self-love. And when that self- loveve is depleted, you're so far from feeling whole that you feel like you're lacking. And when you feel like you're lacking, you're on the opposite spectrum of self- loveve because that's wholeness. That's completion which then sets into motion an inability for you to materialize things. So self-indulgence Is all on the basis of you simply adhering to what it is that you want to do. Whether it's getting round to checking your emails, applying for that job, reaching out to that person, going to the gym, going on more walks, eating

more healthy, whatever it is that it is that you seek to do, it's all dependent upon your own standards that you set for yourself. But you need to strive for those standards. It's important that you do because you every time that you do Something that you want to do, for example, the more you increase your self-confidence, the more you increase your conviction, the better is your manifestation. You know, eventually, guys, I'm going to stop doing videos eventually. And I'll do nothing more than probably live streams because I'm slowly getting to a point where people are

like, "Can you make a Video on this? I already made it." You know what I'm saying? And I'm not going to be somebody who just comes up here to say who says [ __ ] just for the sake of saying [ __ ] Like I'll probably just do more live streams, more questions. That'll probably be slightly more beneficial. And even then I'll be like, "Just go watch that video. Go watch that video. Go watch that video." Um, cool. Now, there's two points that I Want to end with here. Your solitude is a reflection of your

self-love. Most people have an incapability. Most people are incapable of being by themselves. >> It's a bit harsh, mate. Quite literally without coming to the conclusion that the inability to be by yourself, to be comfortable by yourself is the indication that having things around you whether things or people Fulfills you, completes you, which is allowing the external to fulfill the internal, which is the basis of the illusion. You need to immerse yourself into solitude. Whether that is quite literally going on a walk by yourself, no music, no nothing, no nothing, just by yourself, going out

by yourself, just being by yourself. There's some people that have to be around other people. And when you think about it, as I said earlier, your self love Is a reflection of self fulfillment, but it's also an indication of your comfortability. And if you're not comfortable with yourself, then [ __ ] you're going to be dependent upon everything outside of you, which then only sets into motion for you to be on this perpetual illusionary cycle. You have to get comfortable with being alone. Because here's the thing. When you can love being by yourself, you're No

longer dependent upon other people. And when you're no longer dependent upon other people, those people will seek to be dependent upon you. They'll seek to have you in that career position. They'll seek to have you in that relationship. They'll seek to have you as a client. They'll seek to have your business as the establishment that they go to because you're okay. You love being by yourself. And when you love being by yourself, you truly then get to Love God. Because in the instances where you're alone, the societal ego mask comes off. You no longer have

to be someone's girlfriend, someone's boyfriend, someone's father, someone's mother, someone's friend, someone's this, someone's that. You actually take off the mask and that's as close to who you are as you'll ever be. But if you don't like who you are at your core, then how could you expect the universe to love you at your core? And that's a Bar that down. Now, the last point is this. Be the love that you seek once you can begin to express love to the reality around you. And it's so funny like people will seek to be loved by

the universe but one they don't love themselves and two they don't even love the people closest to them. They can't even love them. You know what I'm saying? I'll never forget I had this one client um she wanted to get married. This was years ago. She wanted to get married. So we were helping her. Bear in mind she's actually getting married this year. You know who you are? I ran into you at the cafe a couple months back. I won't say your name. Um and she wanted love. And then I heard how she was speaking

to her little brother. Thinking what most of us have the opportunity to exercise degrees of love with those already in our lives, but then we want Love to come to us without also being the source. Because here's the thing, when you're the source of the love that you seek, you need to be the source of the love that you seek. And when you do that, quite literally, you set yourself in motion for things to come to you as opposed to you going out for things. Because when you're the source, people come to you for it.

So whether it's love, whether it's kindness, whether It's a stranger, a family member, a friend, just show love to somebody and continuously show love to somebody until you come to the recognition that through loving them, you're loving yourself. When you love yourself, the universe will then love you. When the universe then loves you, that more money will come, more people will come, and more opportunities will come. And that is the metaphysics to self. [ __ ] look at your He looks like um What's his name? Triple H. When he put his face, >> you know

what it is? Your heart doesn't look like it's full of love. >> It looks skinny. You know what I'm saying? [Music]