narcissistic abuse is a leading cause of illness and disease and I'm not just talking about the burning of STDs most illness and disease caused by narcissistic abuse is chronic degenerative and aging no amount of antibiotics or z-packs can cure it which means that going no contact from narcissistically abusive people is one of the most important decisions that you can make not so that you can go skipping into 2023 saying ooh they're going to miss me I'm living my best life no no no going no contact is first and foremost about saving your own life breaking
the trauma bonds reversing the illness and the disease caused by the toxic relationship and then you'll be living your best life if you are currently experiencing things like depression anxiety headaches heart issues digestive issues inflammation throughout your body autoimmune disorders this message is for you I want to share the link between narcissistic abuse and illness and disease that you might be experiencing I also want to share with you my own personal experience of illness and disease caused by toxic relationships and finally I want to give you hope because there is hope you can break free
you can go no contact you can break the trauma bonds and you can actually reverse the illness and the diseases caused by narcissistic abuse on your own let's talk about it my name is Kevin and this is the Royal Wii now before I continue with this very important message I want to let you know that I'm here to support you down in the description box you'll find access for one-on-one appointments with me I do take telephone calls as well as video calls through Zoom WhatsApp or FaceTime also I have a coaching program where I coach
every day live and in person Monday through Friday with the coaching Community we are working hard as a community we are dedicated to going no contact breaking the trauma bonds keeping each other accountable so if you're looking for accountability in a program so that you can break the trauma bonds head on down there and get registered now before I get too far into this I need to let you know I'm not I'm not a medical expert so if you have very specific questions regarding your specific medical issues please see a health care professional all you
need to do is go online and look up stress related illness and disease you're going to be shown a list through medpub or wherever and it looks like this anxiety depression digestive issues heart headaches muscle tension and pain heart diseases heart attacks high blood pressure Strokes sleep problems weight gained on and on and on and on what most websites won't come out and say just yet anyways is that it's related to an abusive relationship what they will say is that these things are related to stress an inability to have a good work life balance or
the stresses of society and I disagree with that I think we're built to go out and deal with the stresses of society no problem but what we're not built to do is to not only deal with the stresses of of surviving in a society but then to come home and deal with trying to survive an abusive narcissistic raging husband were not designed to stress ourselves and fight to survive in a world to come home to a neglectful abuse of narcissistic wife we're not designed to fight and stress in the world to then fight and stress
with demeaning devaluing narcissistic dysfunctional family members because in these situations there's no rest there's no peace in your life you're constantly stressed and this is where we're going to get into understanding why you're experiencing illnesses and diseases as a result of the toxic relationship science does help us to understand this a little bit here we go when you are in a seriously stressful situation this is according to an article online your heart rate speeds up you breathe faster your muscles tense your hands get sweaty sounds like a panic attack right this is your body's natural
response to stress by the way it's called Fight or Flight we're all aware of what fight or flight is it's caused by the release of hormones which includes cortisol and adrenaline two of the hormones released it's important to understand these hormones they play a key factor in your illness okay or diseases that are caused by narcissistic abuse because these hormones your body becomes irregular in order to manage the situation temporarily so when these hormones are going through your body fight or flight isn't a regular state for your body it's irregular which means it's meant to
be temporary it's okay in temporary amounts the irregularity is okay temporary temporarily in order to manage a situation but then it's supposed to go back to its Baseline homeostasis status for daily function so how this looks in practicality is imagine you're on a trail and you come across a grizzly bear off in the distance all of a sudden you're going to fight or flight heart rate increases sweaty Palms you're breathing heavy and hopefully you get out of there as quickly as possible you get to safety and your body's able to go back to its Baseline
status you know homeostasis great right that's how it should be that's how we're designed but let's say you go out on a trail and you see a big grizzly bear off in the distance and you start running away and it starts to chase you but you never get away it's chasing you day after day week after week month after month year after year you're constantly running you don't get away sounds impossible right well guess what that's what life is like in a toxic relationship that's what your body's going through when you're dealing with narcissistic abuse
whether it's from your parents a spouse your own children your brothers your sisters it doesn't matter you're constantly running from a situation that you're not able to get away from because you haven't gotten away from it perhaps you haven't quite accepted that you need to look at the abusive people in your life as a grizzly bear not because they're that tough in life but because we're in the age of division and you're not meant to be in that toxic relationship anymore and your body is trying to let you know let's talk now about what happens
as a result based on some online articles here hormonal changes the hormonal changes the irregularity that we talked about include the release of a corticotropin I hope I said that right releasing Factor CRF this leads to changes in gut bacteria so number one we're talking about gut bacteria changes in your gut and your digestive area right and the immune system both of which contribute to IBS not only IBS as an issue but anytime you mess with the gut bacteria your digestive issues well now all of a sudden you're not processing nutrients the right way and
it starts to develop a whole host of issues skin disorders inflammation the inability to absorb nutrients all of this all because of your constant fight or flight because you're in a toxic relationship that's number one here's another one emotional stressors can lead to ventricular ectopic beats and ventricular tachycardia this is heart related through disturbances of cardiac Rhythm due to emotional stress emotional stress is caused by narcissistic abuse this suggests that pots patients may have elevated anxiety compared to healthy controls I never heard of tachycardia until I started coaching people with the Royal way about five
years ago through various phone calls with people I started hearing stories people being diagnosed with things like POT Syndrome tachycardia having heart issues what's the common denominator with all these people I've dealt with they're all in abusive relationships with narcissistically abusive people they're in toxic dysfunctional relationships with their own family members that's the common denominator here that's the heart so so far we've talked about digestive issues caused by narcissistic abuse heart issues caused by narcissistic abuse watch this psychological stress is reported to be a risk factor for autoimmune diseases first of all what's psychological stress
going out and working with your hands doing your day job that's not psychological stress Society isn't psychological stress like well nowadays it can be psychological stress is through manipulation gaslighting betrayal through the people who say they love you cognitive dissonance from those closest to you this is psychological stress watch this psychological stress is reported to be a risk factor for autoimmune diseases including Graves disease and rheumatoid arthritis rheumatoid arthritis different inflammations are linked to autoimmune disorders which are linked to psychological stress different types of stress and the length of time that stress is present might
also affect the presentation of inflammatory autoimmune disease there is no known cause known one cause for autoimmunity physical and psychological stress has been implicated in the development of autoimmune disease since numerous animal and human studies demonstrate the effect of sundry stressors on immune function also it's important to understand that according to Med Pub the onset of at least 50 percent of autoimmune disorders has been attributed to unknown trigger factors anytime you see unknown trigger factors it's a good indication that what they're trying to say is we don't know but chances are it's Environmental meaning a
toxic relationship narcissistic abuse but websites doctors aren't going to Define that for you you have to Define that I'm going to share with you my own personal experience when I was 21 after I had gotten out of the dysfunctional toxic household that I was brought up in in my early 20s I developed panic attacks they were sudden I had no idea where they came from nor did the doctors that I saw I remember my first panic attack I was in a movie theater on a date and join the company of a amazing young lady at
that time in the movie theater hands started getting sweaty all of a sudden heat waves going up and down my arms my throat closed up I felt like I was going to suffocate I couldn't swallow tunnel vision the theater started getting darker and darker I bolted went to the popcorn stand and said call 9-1-1 I'm dying they called 9-1-1 ambulance showed up threw me in the back of the ambulance pricked my finger with all sorts of stuff everything there they're like okay everything seems normal you're all right got me to the ER started poking holes
in me IVs this and that and all the tests came back negative the ER doctor and then I followed up with my other doctor they tried their best to explain to me panic attacks and anxiety without being able to tell me the cause that's not the doctor's responsibility because they don't know all the doctor was there to do was to tell me what anxiety and panic attacks are but he's not gonna he's not a counselor he's not a therapist he's not gonna start getting into well Kevin tell me about your stepfather and your mother and
and is your father in your life are you being emotionally mentally abused manipulated gas lit and betrayed no they're not going to do that this is what I'm here to tell you but he did explain to me panic attacks and how it affects the body the good news is is I was able to allow myself through dietary changes lifestyle changes and also a great distance between me and the household that I lived in and by the way back then there wasn't social media there wasn't telephone cell phones and stuff like that so it wasn't as
hard to disconnect as it is today today you have a more difficult time disconnecting from toxic relationships because you're on leashes with your social media your telephones email they're like all electronic leashes these are the first things that need to go when you go no contact by the way you have to cut all those chains I digress the next issue medical issue that I I dealt with was after I left the dysfunctional toxic situation in California and came to the Midwest this was about five years ago I was starting the Royal we after I got
away came to the Midwest I started to develop inflammation an indication of the arthritis the possibility of an onset of autoimmune it didn't get that far fortunately but inflammation was something I was dealing with and I didn't know why and I went and we saw by the doctors and they couldn't give me an answer as to why also they wanted me to see rheumatologists and this and that and I started to but then they wanted to introduce medications and I'm like nah nah nah I'll just I'll follow the list of dietary changes good news for
me is I was able to again manage these things through dietary change but the most important thing I did was to detach from the toxic environment so what do my illnesses and diseases that I've experienced have in common they were after immediately after I got out of a toxic environment it teaches me that it was environmental the narcissistic abuse manifested in illness and disease as part of my healing Journey the good news is is that these things and this is where I want to give you hope it's possible to reverse these illnesses and diseases you
don't have to rely on medication alone now I'm not telling you to stop medication if you're on it but oftentimes medication whether it's prescribed or self-medication which include things like alcohol smoking drugs sex rock and roll whatever you're using to possibly self-medicate while staying in an abusive toxic environment is not going to help you ever you can be on all kinds of medication but if you're still in a dysfunctional toxic relationship not only is your body going to continue to become inflamed as a stand as a as a result of standing in toxicity but the
medication is going to have even worse effects on you because you're not getting out so the good news is is that you can leave and I'm here to help you do that go no contact break the trauma bonds through dietary change through exercise through refocusing your life it's possible to not only break the trauma bonds but also to reverse the illness and diseases caused by narcissistic abuse I did it so I know there's hope and I want to help you to do the same thing as I said before I'm here to support you down in
the description box you'll find access for one-on-one appointments telephone calls are available video calls are available through Zoom WhatsApp FaceTime the coaching program is 100 percent geared towards helping you go no contact keeping you accountable breaking the trauma bonds so get down there get registered and I'll be back with more videos for you right here on the Royal we
