Women aren't HAPPY unless they're CHASING these 3 things from a man WHEN DATING (relationships)

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unless they're chasing these three things from a man so what would these three things be okay I'm going to show you number one okay the first thing we have to really understand at a deep level is they want to be chasing you let's say that one more time they want to be chasing you okay now this means a lot of different things so I'm going to show you why the first thing that a man has to understand when you start dating more the first thing you really have to see or that you have to start

to come to terms with is that women will plot and plan and set up situations so they indirectly can leave clues that she likes you think about that for a second plot plan and set up situations so they indirectly can leave clues that she likes you well what does that mean that means she wants to get you to pursue her okay she does not want to overtly say that she likes you but the way that she starts to chase you is by setting up situations that are indirect it's like leaving Clues okay so this is

how she wants it or hypergamy will never be satisfied okay so this is why you have to understand this okay I drew out this diagram so this is why pursuing a woman typically doesn't work like I'll show you why down here when I say there's zero point really in suing a woman for a date or for a relationship but you'll see what I mean this is the typical situation here's you okay and here's the woman that you want to date with so this is you trying to get to her or talk to her or see

her or go out on a date with her and see you're looking at her you're going in this direction to try to get closer to her to see what she's doing meanwhile she has eyes for this man over here and this is the guy who she's actually into so while you're pursuing her she's actually pursuing this guy okay and this is how it works and this is how it operates so typically like even if this guy can like get a date with her or let's say he is able to get a few dates or things

are going good she still is going to want who she wants so she still is going to have eyes for this guy over here and he might not even know about her or he might not even really see her clues that she's dropping yet but this is the the guy that she actually wants okay so this right here this is the sweet spot where hypergamy is satisfied your job is to set yourself up as this type of guy right here that she actively has eyes for okay I'm glad we discussed this so if you can

understand this diagram now you're going to see that there is zero point in pursuing a woman that you have interest in because the fact that you're the one doing the pursuing in the first place puts you in the lower status position okay so even if this guy is let's say physically more attractive than this guy the fact that he wants her and the fact that this guy doesn't even know that she exists or the fact that this guy doesn't even know that she has interest in him that puts him at a higher status position so

she wants the guy that she wants this is what you have to come to terms with she is going to want the guy that she wants no matter what there's nothing you can do to change that there's no amount of dates you can take her on to change that like she is going to just naturally have desire for the guy that she wants you are either in this category right here or you're not okay so she wants the guy that she wants or she wants the guy who isn't even thinking about her so keep this

in mind what I want you to do is spend majority of all of your time okay spend your time making yourself worthy of being pursued make sure that you're this dude over here okay so this is why they want to be chasing you it satisfies hypergamy it puts you at the better position and it makes her value the time and the attention that she gets from you in the first place now that we got that out of the way let's look at the second thing that they want to be chasing the second thing that they

want to be chasing is your approval so in order to know how this works what we have to first do is we have to actually look at what approval means okay so how does a woman gain your approval in the first place there's a variety of ways but it typically will fall into these three categories okay so the first way is with your time okay so the time that you give her during that relationship or during that interaction here's what you have to understand any time that you give anyone not just in your dating life

but friends family members anybody any time that you give anyone is attention that they now have from you that you can never get back you will never get those minutes seconds or hours back ever so make sure that you spend them very wisely okay the more time you give her the more approval you're actually signaling that you're giving to her as well so keep this in mind number two the second way that women will gain your approval or try to gain your approval you have to understand the difference between real life time and attention that

you're giving versus mental bandwidth okay so here's what I mean real life equals spending time together but mental bandwidth okay this is how she can work into your subconscious to get you to think about her this is much more powerful because now this is you actually growing feelings so real life equals spending time together but you see mental bandwidth equals all of the little things it's your text messages okay it's your calls on your phone it's going to be you planning dates or thinking of different things that you two can do together okay how much

she worked into your subconscious is going to determine how much feelings you have for her so to bring my second point to the conclusion what I want you to understand is this women want to work their way into your subconscious the more she can gain leverage over your mind and your subconscious the more feelings you grow for her now she can slowly make you weaker and weaker and fall in love by the day keep this in mind now number three Okay the third way that women want to chase your approval is you validating her oh

I really like you oh I want to see you oh I love how you make me feel any form of compliments okay you validating her or admitting feelings here's what you're going to notice this is the worst of all three of these this is the worst one of all because she'll pull away and what you're really going to find is women actually don't want you to love them the second that you're fully in love with her is the second that she no longer respects you and she really doesn't respect the time that she had with

you so keep this in mind okay now the third thing that women want to Chase from a man this is very important as well is his investment level you see if you're spending time with a woman just to hang out or just to go on some dates and let's say you guys like each other you get along but you're not invested she can feel that okay women want to feel your investment level but the thing is is when they feel it they start to doubt your value so keep this in mind the third thing that

they want to Chase from a man is his investment level and keep this in mind when I talk about investment level I'm mainly talking about his emotional investment level for her okay so here's how I kind of describe this most men self-sacrifice their time to make her existence better day to day if a man enters into a relationship maybe he'll start working harder he'll start planning for their future all of these things men will self-sacrifice their time and their energy to create a better existence and a lot of times it's for her women a lot

of times operate opposite what you're going to see as hypergamy is more so focused on her benefit of her survival so what that means is most women are about self-preserving their energy and their time towards you so it can better serve them let's say this one more time self-preserving their energy and their time towards you meaning not giving it to you so it can better serve them okay so your investment emotionally financially time energy money anything equals one thing keep this in mind if you're investing into a woman your investment emotionally financially any time that

you give her any amount of energy that you give her any money that you're investing into the relationship really just equals this one thing it equals hey I really care about you that's what you are signaling subconsciously you are subconsciously signaling hey I really care about you now what you're going to notice is the more you care about a woman the more she doubts your value and the more she just doesn't like you okay so I think a lot of men really come to this conclusion as they start to see their relationships fail the reason

why their relationships fail is because logically it makes sense okay logically it makes sense hey the more I invest into someone or something typically I get a return from that and the relationship grows stronger this could not be further from the truth since relationships are based on emotion and women want to feel a wide array of emotions a lot of times when she's constantly watching you only provide a positive emotion this is a turnoff and this is what you're going to find true in your own relationships most likely so keep this in mind okay when

I talk about they want to chase your investment level it's a feeling she wants to feel like you're invested into her like you really like her you really care about her notice this word I'm using most men self-sacrifice their time she wants to say hey look at all this time and energy this guy's sacrificing for our relationship this is what she wants to Chase or what she wants to pursue or what she wants to work for keep this in mind so she wants to see just how far you'll go for her or for the relationship

okay now women are not happy unless they're chasing these things keep this in mind she wants to be chasing you and your time and your approval and your investment level that's how this all ties together so what's the secret to this what's the secret to overcoming this what's the secret to making your relationship life better and what's the secret to actually dating the secret is this the secret is the second that a woman feels like she fully has you and the second she feels like she fully has your care and your love and your full

investment level it's over let me explain pre-selected men who have options are hard to get they are hard to obtain they're especially hard to obtain any emotional validation from okay these men are hard to get to invest into the relationship and these are hard to get to even care these men are hard to even care like they don't care very easily is what I'm trying to say this guy doesn't care if he sees her again or not so here's what you have to understand understand I want you to become this guy over here the guy

that she's actually thinking about not just the guy who's doing the pursuing so when I talk about this the conclusion I want you to see is that women either like you or she doesn't like you're either this guy or you're not I don't care how much you know lines you try to use of like oh just say this one thing or just do that one thing and now you're this guy it doesn't work like that you are either this guy in her mind or you're not okay everything else when you start giving more investment you

start giving more approval you start giving away your feelings and your intentions regarding a relationship that you're really wanting one and all of these things right here's what you have to understand all of that ruins the mystery and the Mystery is what a woman wants to feel is slowly figuring you out Page by page so keep this in mind try to never overcommunication and never really appear as if you need conversation in fear of losing her so this last one is very important too never feel or appear as if you need conversation in fear of

losing her so a lot of guys what they do if they have fear of losing her what they want is communication reassurance you want to send that extra text message when you didn't need to you send eight words on the text message when five would have done the job you give extra emojis when in actuality you didn't need any you do all these things to overcommunication women are looking at how you act and how you act is going to dictate the amount of investment she wants to start to give you so keep this in mind

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