all right these are some things to never say to a woman over text message or in person really you never want to say this the more I make these videos it's pretty clear to me that a lot of guys have no clue when it comes to just overall masculine and feminine Dynamics and how to carry things so I'm going to help you with all this okay I'm going to help you cover all this and this is going to be super simple just stick with me so first off okay these things only makes sense once you
learn understand and master the language of women I know that you guys hear me say that so often but you have to actually understand why not only is this my process but there's a reason for this the reason is because the main idea when it comes to understanding the language of women is getting her to pursue you instead of you pursuing her so I'm going to show you in just a little bit why you saying all of these things makes her not want to pursue you okay so getting her to pursue you instead of you
pursuing her is the base idea of understanding the language of women well you might be wondering why Okay the reason is because at all times we are trying to satisfy hypergamy so let me give you an example This truly is a process that any guy can use one of the guys in our community we actually just crossed over 1300 members he goes number one program at times I have checked out other influencers just to see what they have to say at some point they all show a sign of try hard energy or their actions validate
the woman so I default back to language of women that means something this is what the guy said okay so this is why I'm telling you this is a process that any guy can use you have to learn understand and master the language of women because what we're doing is we're getting her to pursue you which satisfies hypergamy well why would that be because women want pre-selected men this is why I keep telling you you have to join us inside of this it's some of the best material that I've ever created okay when you understand
these nuances you'll see how all these things over here that guys say to women lowers her desire it lowers her interest level and it makes hypergamy not satisfied so now that we understand this now that we understand why this is so important and why words matter and why words determine how she views you notice this is why I call it the language of women words is what's going to create different levels of perceived status that she has in her eyes for you now we can actually address the things that men say that you can never
say when it comes to messaging a woman or text messaging her or any of this stuff never say these things I'm going to show you why so number one the first thing to never say or never ask a woman is what are you doing today never text message this never ask this in person first and foremost you have to understand this the player doesn't care and it's not even like he doesn't care about her it's like he actually doesn't care to open up his phone and even type it in the first place like overall you
got to understand this the player is lazy so lazy even if she's beautiful she's gorgeous there's a very high chance if she calls and he's not doing anything he's going to just ignore the call simply because he doesn't feel like talking see this is what you have to understand the player is lazy at the core level the player doesn't care okay so when you ask what are you doing today you're now focused on her by even asking it you're focused on her and it means you actually want to know so now you are in her
frame or you're operating in her world because she gets to tell you and I'm here to tell you that it doesn't really matter what she thinks she's doing today because if her feelings change she's doing something different at any time she's going to choose what she wants to do in that exact moment so now you're focused on her world and not yours this is very bad so I'm here to tell you this in general just stop texting women in general if there's no need to for most of you guys you got to understand majority of
the text messages or the things that you're saying there's probably no need to say any of it just stop texting completely just quit just quit all of the texting okay majority of men that I see ruin perfect dates and perfect potential relationships that they could have with women simply by texting well the reason being is because he refuses to create space the guy refuses to create space he refuses to allow space mystery and not needing con communication with her he refuses to do those things because of that he ruins what would have been a perfect
relationship because he doesn't let these three things work in his favor right that time apart that space that mystery all of that has to work in your favor so this is the biggest problem right now that I'm constantly seeing when it comes to guys who are text messaging women is you don't understand this most guys simply don't understand this one thing okay you cannot have a relationship through a phone okay and she's not going to forget about you even if multiple days go by right she's not going to forget about you just because you didn't
message her but see this is the problem is guys are seeking emotional reassurance through a cell phone just stop texting all together just quit all these things you're saying all these things you're doing these exclamation marks these Emojis all this just stop all of it just quit pointless think how many days or not even days probably but just think how many many like hours in general you've spent staring at your phone right with text messages that go nowhere so just quit okay she wants a man whose life is more interesting than hers you have to
understand this so when you say what are you doing today this implies interest this is why I'm telling you the player doesn't care when you say what are you doing today the player doesn't care so if you even ask it implies some sort of care she wants a man whose life is more interesting than hers by you asking she will naturally start to assume that it's not she will naturally start to assume that it's not more interesting than hers so this is the first thing just quit asking what are you doing today okay the second
thing to never text a woman or to never say to a woman never ask this question how's your day never say how's your day going okay once again we have to address this the player doesn't care it doesn't matter it doesn't matter if she's having a good day or a bad day why do you care why aren't you doing what you want to do okay the player doesn't care and the reason why this one is even worse than saying what are you doing today because when you say what are you doing today there is a
slight chance if she has interest in you it might lead to plans and she knows that but when you say how's your day this is very bad and here's why what this is doing okay this is you trying to check in with her just to see if she still likes you to see if you get a text message back okay what you're doing here is you're actually subconsciously looking for reassurance or you're like fishing for some kind of emotional reassurance that she still likes you you're looking for reassurance that she's still right there and will
still communicate with you this makes you look scared okay this is very bad this signals that you need to keep a relationship alive and active simply by checking in this is not good this is not how you keep a constant relationship going by checking in okay most guys think that more communication is going to lead to higher desire this is not true okay signaling that you need to keep the relationship alive simply by checking in is bad when you check in she sees that you're still right there and you're still thinking about her through the
day for no reason when you should be focused on your own day this is very bad it shows you're scared it shows that you're scared she'll forget about you so the signals you need to keep the relationship alive simply by checking in as if she'll forget about you that is what you're probably thinking now here's what you have to know if you are truly her number one choice if you are truly her number one choice that she has for an option she'll never forget about you you the secret here is becoming her number one choice
this is why I keep telling you how do you do that you have to learn understand and master the language of women very important if you have not yet joined us I don't know why I'm watching this constantly help guys in their dating life number three the third thing to never ask never ask what are your plans this weekend okay back to my original statement once again the player doesn't care like if you really want to know why you should never say these things you should really never say these things just because the player doesn't
care he don't care what you're doing today he don't care how's your day and he don't care what your plans are this weekend there is sometimes I will get a text message from a woman and I won't open it sometimes for 3 four 5 days in a row simply because I'm too tired and I don't feel like it this is how it goes now when you say what are your plans this weekend here's the secret the player knows that she will exit her plans even if she has them already in order to be with him
if she wants to doesn't matter what she has going on birthday party friends getting together whatever if she wants to see you bad enough she will just skip all of it and she'll just go see you because her desire level is there so here's what you have to know as well planning anything is anti- seductive I have had to learn this as well over the years because I would be busy with work okay so if it's a Tuesday and I try to set plans for Friday right I would do this because of my schedule so
I'd be like okay I need to kind of plan things out because I'm busy so here's what you have to remember if you are planning something and let's say it's Tuesday and you try to set plans for Friday okay even if you are a man that she views as attractive the problem is you are now planning something with her and this is validation what this also signals is Hey look it's Tuesday and look he's thinking about me already on a Tuesday for 3 days later so even if she had high initial interest this might actually
lower her interest because he tried to plan the true player only plans his day around him he's only going to plan his whole day around what he wants to do right there in that moment so why is this why is planning anything not seductive well it's because women operate off of feelings so this is what I mean the perfect date idea in One Moment In Time Becomes Her flaking the next time or the next day when the plans were supposed to happen simply because she doesn't feel like it so you could have the perfect date
and she might even agree to it and then she wakes up that morning of the date and she just doesn't feel like doing it maybe she's too tired maybe she wants to do this instead maybe you you lowered your value simply by planning in the first place stop planning anything we have so many men pursuing dates and pursuing women in general when this is very bad hypergamy is satisfied when she's doing the pursuing and she's winning you over you can't win this you have to totally think of it from a different perspective okay now to
conclude all of this they will only tend to answer these questions like these question question you're text messaging a woman hey what are you doing today hey how's your day going hey what are your plans this weekend they will only tend to answer these questions when they are past the age of 30 okay because they become more overt in their communication they're now more direct with their communication as she ages you will typically see her be more direct in her communication and now she's going to answer these things logically now the reason why is because
she wants to waste no time she's looking to waste no time she wants to move this relationship at the proper pace for her and make sure that a relationship unfolds typically at a pace where it seems probably faster than you are used to okay or maybe even faster than she would have moved things a few years ago okay so keep that in mind now to conclude this okay always do these things number one never text to make plans in the future never do that if you happen to be doing something that day you can see
if she's free and it can be as simple as hey come with me let's go do this okay number two everything is in the moment and needs to be in the moment that right there is how you create Vibe and chemistry it's in the moment planning something ruins the moment last but not least the player she wants she will see no matter what he doesn't need the proper text messages or any of that he's definitely not going to send paragraphs if your text messages or your communication is more than one or two lines maximum okay
not good over investment so once again to tie this all together I know that this is so hard to understand logically because you're like this just doesn't make sense I should be able to ask these things and the communication should be good but you have to understand this okay the whole premise of every single text message every phone call every time you guys see each other every date you go on it is to do one thing it is to satisfy hypergamy and that is why we must learn understand and master the language of women that
right there is why we must do these things if you like this video hit the like button comment and subscribe be sure to join us inside of that and we will see you in the next one for
