I don't know if you've ever noticed this but it seems like the more things that you have to do the harder it is to do pretty much anything like you have this long list of tasks and responsibilities that seems to be growing longer and longer and longer and as it grows in size you also kind of get paralyzed and intimidated by it even just thinking about the list gives you a mini panic attack and as you mentally go through this list you think to yourself man I don't really need to do any of these things
like right now right I can probably get away with playing a little bit of video games a little bit of Apex because nothing's do right this second and the thing is you're probably right most things on that list you don't need to do right this second but the problem is the longer this list gets the more it subconsciously affects your well-being and pretty much every aspect of your life you're not able to fall asleep as fast as you once did maybe it's graduated into full-blown insomnia maybe you're plagued with anxious thoughts like how the hell
am I going to get all this stuff done what if I don't get any of it done will I be living on the streets maybe your entire life has been plagued by the fact that you can never seem to just sit down and do work ever you always have a large backlog of things that you need to do and you are always Treading Water maybe you've looked around at your friends and co-workers and wondered how come other people seem to be actually able to do stuff is there something wrong with me so I'm making this
video because those sorts of feelings are what has punctuated my life since birth I know what it's like to always have something do or overdo constantly and it's one of the worst feelings in the world when you're stressed about this Monumental to-do list that you have it's even difficult to enjoy social outings because subconsciously you know that you really shouldn't be there you should be tackling this list of responsibilities it's like a knife in your back that's slowly being Twisted as you fake laugh at the jokes that people make around you it's not fun luckily
though I've managed to turn my myself into a relatively productive human being who can actually tackle the mountain of stuff without feeling completely overwhelmed so in this video I want to share with you guys my main strategy for tackling that mountain of stuff that we have to do and actually gain some Traction in our lives okay so what's going on here how do we end up in this situation so usually the reason why we end up with a mountain of things that we need to do that we feel overwhelmed by is because naturally life presents
itself with tasks and responsibilities that we have to to do there's no getting around that and these tasks need to either be done immediately or sometime in the not too distant future if the task isn't utterly urgent what we tend to do is put it on our backlog of things it's this list that I'm talking about we say oh we don't have to deal with it right now let's just put it on our to-do list and we will tackle it sometime in the future but this in itself is super problematic because almost everything in life
doesn't need to be tackled right this second very few things are immediately urgent and require our absolute attention right this second which means that 99% of every task that we get we put on our backlog and since life just naturally dishes out these responsibilities we can almost form a graph that shows that as time passes along more and more tasks and responsibilities start to acrew there's also another graph that's happening simultaneously that says the more and more tasks that we have to do the more stress we feel and there's another graph that goes the more
stressed out we are about our current situation the more unpleasant the thought of dealing with that situation becomes we have two more left the more unpleasant the thought of doing anything about our situation becomes the more likely we are to escape from doing anything about it and finally the more likely we are to escape from doing anything about it the less likely we are to actually do anything about it basically the more time goes on without dealing with our situation the less likely we are to deal with it anyways and it just becomes this horrible
feedback loop so right about now you're thinking oh his solution is probably to just do the things before they acrew do tasks right away as soon as you get them and that's actually a great idea but that's that's not what this video is about you know that's what my mom would always tell me and she's actually right you should just do tasks pretty much immediately after getting them don't let [ __ ] build up basically but that doesn't really help us if we're already in hot water if we're already absolutely drowning in things that we
have to do in life and we need to get out of it and that's where I propose my Golden Rule rule do less not more and you might be thinking to yourself right now wow that's a cute quote Joey you should put that on a poster unfortunately that doesn't make any sense well here's the thing it doesn't really make much sense but neither do we as humans we didn't get into this situation if we made sense if we followed perfect logic if we followed perfect logic we would just do things as they came to us
we would finish off whatever task came up onto our desk onto our lap like Santa Claus we got to this situation because we're highly emotional and impulsive when we're in emotional distress we don't respond well to logical arguments we respond well to momentum and feelings of perceived progress so what we should do is take advantage of this fact and leverage our main weakness and turn it into a strength every single day we have at least one task that we know we need to do and if we were to do that thing all other tasks would
be made easier or unnecessary we need to find out what this task is in our lives and we need to focus our entire being on completing this one thing and we need to pretend that nothing else exists and with this extra Focus this unified Focus we will be able to complete this thing in record time once this one thing is completed then we will feel motivated and energized to tackle more things in our lives we will actually feel excited to keep that momentum going but it's impossible to gain that momentum if we don't tackle that
one thing and finish it every single day and I'm pretty sure all of us can relate to this exact same situation I'm pretty sure we've all engaged in escapism avoiding that one thing that we have to do and we escape and escape and Escape until the pressure builds and builds and builds maybe a deadline is approaching and then we just snap out of it we kind of go into survival mode and we just tackle that thing from start to finish and we're done and we are so incredibly relieved and inspired by the fact that we
did that thing that we think to ourselves holy smokes why don't I just go do more things in my life that felt amazing and that's the exact emotion that we're trying to tap into it's that feeling of having completed a very important thing and then leveraging that momentum to tackle more things and I think we can only get to that point if we kind of put the blinders on and forget about literally everything else on our list we use our emotional Compass to figure out which thing has the most emotional resistance what thing are we
avoiding the most that is likely to be not guaranteed to be the most important thing that you have to do in any given day for me as I've talked about in other videos that thing is writing writing by far has the most emotional resistance for me I don't really like doing it but once I have done it then I have content to work with I have something to film I have something to edit and I have something to upload you know writing is kind of the backbone of my entire YouTube career it's the most important
thing that I can do in any given day okay as long as I continue writing I can continue youtubing maybe your life is really consistent like mine or maybe it's super turbulent and that one thing will change on a daily or weekly basis you know take what I'm saying and apply it directly to your life and your needs right now you probably have something that you know you need to do and you're really resisting doing it maybe you've been resisting it for a long time that's your one thing do not worry about anything else complete
that thing and once you complete that the answer and the motivation and energy you need to complete everything else will be provided for you in droves putting the blinders on and forgetting every other task except the one thing also adds Clarity to the overwhelm it brings order to the chaos our brain can stop bird shotting everywhere and thinking about a million things at once and getting super worried just calm your brain down focus on completing the one thing take everything that you need to do and write it down write down every task that you can
think of onto a piece of paper and try to identify the most important thing that you need to do and then what I want you to do is circle that one thing and scribble out everything else don't worry about anything else give yourself a mental vacation from everything else do that one thing it's the only thing that exists and whether you are excited to do it or not it doesn't matter submit to it submit to just doing it starting it completing it not a big deal do it cuz if you you have to do it
anyways there's no point in getting all emotionally worked up about it you just have mental Clarity you submit to the fact that you have to do it you do it without resistance you don't you do it without hyping yourself up and once you complete it you will feel calmly empowered to restore more order into your life this video was inspired by the one thing by Gary Keller so if what I said really resonated with you and you want to take it a step further and dive a little deeper into this concept then I I highly
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