Tip number 16 One of the things that all of those who are married, are in a relationship, and even those who are single, want, like or struggle to have, is the attention of others. In case of those who are in a relationship is the attention of their loved ones. A husband wants his wife’s attention and a wife wants her husband’s attention.
But in the effort of looking for attention from someone or when attention lacks, a person can do wrong things and ends up getting the wrong type of attention which makes things worse. A person argues about a problem that does not exist. For example, when a husband is needy and wants attention, and sees his wife always talking to her friends on the phone, he makes this a problem.
The truth is that he is the one who is needy and wants attention. Rather than expressing how he feels, he argues with her. “I don’t like it when you call your friends,” or “you’re always on the phone with your friends.
” He tries to control her… And they end up arguing. But the problem is that he wants attention and she is not giving him attention. Sometimes, she is busy working.
I’m not saying that she should not work but sometimes there is not a balance in the relationship. Sometimes the husband, wife, or both of them give too much attention to other things instead of giving the attention they owe each other. So, the person who demands attention usually acts irrational, trying to control the other person or says things like, “Where were you?
” “I did this and you didn’t notice,” “You didn’t call me today. ” “Oh let me see if he’s going to argue with me today…let me see what he’s going to do… ” they closely watch every step the other person takes and then throws it in their face and say “you didn’t do this or that. ” And this is a symptom that the other person is not giving the necessary attention.
Today we are going to explain how a man can call his wife’s attention. Men, pay attention, a woman is going to explain. In my opinion, a man calls attention when he is committed, serious, knows what he wants, he’s unwavering, transmits to her assurance, security, and strength.
A woman likes to feel protected, she wants to know that he is going to be there for her, protect and take care of her. When he transmits uncertainty, fear, is too emotional or any little thing makes him explode, he is not going to call her attention, instead she is not going to notice him. I’m going to give a tip to the men, pay close attention, a women feels insecure when you act irrational, jealous, controlling or you give her the ice treatment – don’t talk to her, instead, you start to show symptoms that you are not in control of yourself much less of the situation.
So you cause her to be insecure and feel unprotected by you. The result of this is that she’s going to depend less of you and depend more on herself. She’s going to become independent and this makes things worse, because he’s going to feel even more isolated but it’s normal because he is the one causing the isolation, her independence, and he is pushing her away.
She sees that he is uncertain and can’t rely on him, that he is not in control of himself and what can be said about the relationship and her. So, men the best way to call your wife’s attention is to be strong, balanced, focused, be sure of yourself, be a leader, and take control of things. When I say to be a leader and strong, I don’t mean that you should take a club and hit your wife like in the time of cavemen.
But for you to consider her, to be strong also means to know how to listen to her and accept her opinion It is not being sexist and give orders but to transmit assurance that you have control of the situation. In the next video, we are going to talk to the women. We do not want to give everything away today.
In the next video we’re going to teach the women how to conquer their husband’s attention. And there are hardly any women out there, who want their husband’s attention. When a man does not give attention to his wife, she makes a scene, and pushes his buttons.
But when a man lacks attention he does not always show it, he acts differently, he might even give his attention to other women, it’s different. Next video, we will talk about how women can have their husband’s attention. One more thing, Cristiane just reminded me, the single men can also apply this same tip so that you can attract the attention of a future candidate because what is attractive in a man is his confidence.
Single men should transmit confidence to his future wife. Be serious; know what he wants, not childish. Always on Facebook, talking to everyone, busy being popular, talking to all of the girls, this doesn’t transmit stability.
This is the tip for the single men; next video we’ll also talk to the single women and for the second time, bye.
