Iím ready Hmmm Iím ready Ready for what? To go out Out, where? So weíre going to stay home today?
Go where? I just got home. Oh no, for the love of God Renato!
We stayed home all week, we need to go out. We have these bills we need to discuss, we have too many bills that need to get paid. Bills?
Yes a whole bunch of past due bills and we need to see what we are going to do about this. And you want to talk about this now? Yes now, because the days are passing by and we need to resolve this problem.
We need to know what to do about this. Baby stay with me, stay with me, stay with me, stay with me. .
. Renato, Renato, you are not going to believe what happened to me today. I was at the gym and that girl, I think her name is Claudia, did not pay attention to me the whole time I had to chase her and call her from far since she was so busy talking to everybody else but me.
Are you even paying attention to what Iím saying? Uh huh What did I just say? What you just finished watching are some examples on how not to call a manís attention.
And our actress here did a great job. Thank you, Thank you. This is tip #15 which many women are anxiously waiting for - how to call a manís attention.
How to call a manís attention? Many women have the wrong idea of how to do this. Many of them think that by wearing a low-cut blouse or tight clothing calls a manís attention.
Yes this also calls a manís attention but the wrong kind of attention which, in reality, is not the attention she wants. Itís that type of attention like when a dog passes by a meat market and sees a piece of meat hanging; itís not the kind of attention women want. This is the wrong type of attention that is cheap, vague, superficial and temporary.
The attention we are referring to is obtained in a different way. The main difference between a man and woman and what makes her attractive is exactly what he doesnít have, itís her graciousness and femininity. Itís rare to see a woman who is gracious, feminine, has values, or manners because these are behaviors that have extinct among women today.
We can see that women in the media donít have this. We can see this in the movie Brave by Disney about a little girl that is a princess but she does not behave like princess. Her parents want her to behave as a princess and marry a prince.
But she doesnít want the life of a princess and this is the message that is transmitted to women today, ìOh being feminine, gracious and sweet are all things from the past, today we are modern,î and modern means to be just like men. ìWe need to rebel and be unsubmissive,î ëthereís no problem saying bad words,î ìwalk around any old way. î You can see Renato, that now days itís rare to see women wear a skirt.
Everyone just wants to wear jeans, there is no problem in using jeans, but itís the culture that is being imposed to women. And everyone is following along without asking. What we have different from men is being thrown away.
We are not here to impose on anyone what to wear, Cristiane wears jeans and I like it when she wears them. But donít only wear jeans like she mentioned. Cristiane usually is complimented by other women exactly for these values she has of being gracious, feminine and appear to be a person that belongs in a fairy tale and sometimes people get angry at her because they think, ìshe looks like a doll,î ìhow does she do it,î ìthis is not possible.
î People react this way because they are not used to seeing someone like that, so they think this does not exist anymore. We live this in our marriage and I can confirm that Cristiane is gracious and feminine but that does not impede her from conquering and being successful, she works, she has conquered her space and sheís not a women thatís overshadowed by her husband, on the other hand, her light makes me shine even more. Wow, so many compliments!
Iím here, someone please bring me down from this pedestal! No, Iím just kidding. My way of being is something natural that is in every woman, the problem is that women have lost this and we need to conquer this again because it's what makes us different.
The examples that we showed at the beginning of the video of what not to do to call your husbandís attention, you can see a woman that has lost their graciousness because she talks too much, talks at the wrong time. Graciousness is not just to sit or walk in a certain way, itís when or how you talk. .
So itís not only a physical behavior but there are many other factors. So when a women is always complaining, arguing, being annoying or frowning. Sheís trying to call his attention but instead sheís losing her graciousness.
She attracts the wrong type of attention Women that impose themselves lose their graciousness and men who also impose themselves are not gentlemen. This is not a value that should be cultivated among them. Graciousness and femininity is the base of what makes women be women, itís what men donít have, and real men are not gracious or feminine.
And this is what attracts a man to a woman. And along this she shows herself confident, she values herself. Because you are gracious you donít need to yell, make drama, a scene or anything that calls attention to you.
She calls attention to herself in a different way; sheís even a little mysterious to the point of awakening curiosity in her husband making him wonder what sheís thinking, itís like heís infatuated by her because she doesnít offer herself to him. Men are naturally hunters and they like to hunt; they donít want to be hunted. A gracious woman knows this so sheís mysterious, reserved and discrete.
Sheís not annoying. I used to be annoying. We think that in order to call attention we need to do something and sometimes you donít have to anything at all, ceding as we mentioned before in the previous videos, all of this makes part of being gracious.
Being sweet, her own special way of speaking to him all of this calls his attention towards her and also makes him feel respected, another thing that attracts a man to a woman. Women that respect their husband donít make him feel that sheís competing with him. She knows the strength she has is masked by her graciousness.
Because she comes up to here, letís say he represents the head and she represents the body. The neck turns and the head follows. Heís still the head and believes that heís taking all of the decisions.
This beautiful strength was given by God and we have this privilege of being gracious and beautiful which doesnít need to be artificial itís a beauty that transpires through our behavior. Your strength is so great that it needs to be disguised by your graciousness and femininity which drives men crazy. Ok!
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God Bless, until next time.
