so you found this video congrats you get nothing or do you the more I grew up the more it felt like my problems were amplifying feelings I repressed grew heavier and denser until they made me sick waking up for work even moving a finger felt like climbing a mountain I started setting my alarm 3 hours early because my body just refused to listen to me and even then I was always late until eventually I got fired I'm better now because of something I decided to do but let's talk about you I'm not here to tell
you to work out or eat healthy to improve your mood I won't tell you to go outside for your daily vitamin D you could be at the South Pole right now where it's always dark after all I won't tell you to quit drinking quit porn or force yourself to build discipline to chase your dreams because all of that is too [ __ ] hard especially when life is already as hard as it is I'm here to tell you that it's okay you're not doing anything wrong not what you expected huh you're probably flooding me with
reasons why you should be doing what your mom told you or your dad or your successful friend or whoever seems to have life all figured out and how you're F you're failing because you're not committed enough or not good enough but the truth is that's simply not true your mom isn't you neither is your dad you're not your successful friend and that person who seems to have life figured out they're not you either what worked out for them won't necessarily work out for you you're a different person if we were all manufactured in a factory
you might have an argument people will keep telling you what to do what you should be doing or what you should be but they're projecting their own desires onto you even me so you're not doing anything wrong everything you are everything you've done so far it's okay it's perfect even you didn't take a wrong path despite what some people might say even if you missed an opportunity to go big you didn't fail you just learned how not to miss it next time but that's not the point what am I telling you actually to listen to
your heart follow your dreams work hard until everything works out to pay attention to Opportunities maybe now I'm telling you that everyone has their own pace and it's different from yours if your friend found their dream by working hard or some other way and you haven't there's nothing wrong with you you just haven't found what you wanted to do yet the person who wrote The Hobbit didn't start writing until his 40s he published the book in his 60s while majoring in something else entirely I forgot his name sure he wasn't some 20-year-old CEO that you
love to admire nowadays but he eventually found it his thing if the thought of not finding your calling until you're older feels depressing that's okay too be depressed cry about it depressed isn't a bad word it just means you're sad that happiness feels like a beacon Out Of Reach and that's part of life most people ignore those feelings this depression because pain sucks facing your problems your inner thoughts and feelings means getting hurt sometimes and I'm here to tell you it's okay to get hurt not that you have to but it's okay to cry when
you feel like crying it's okay if you can't move in the morning when you have to work it's okay to be late even though you probably shouldn't since you'll get fired and if you do that's okay too it's okay to feel bad about it and cuss at me it's okay to feel frustrated when someone shouts at you for being late and all you want to do is get out of there you're not a bad bad person for hating being shouted at you're not a bad son or a bad person for being angry at your parents
you're not lazy for feeling crushed by the thought of going to work or school you're human everyone has something that crushes them yours just happen to be about work or school and that's okay too if you want a dream to follow a way to improve yourself you need to accept that first you need to accept yourself first allow yourself to get hurt allow yourself to hate when you feel like hating to cry when you want to cry to be angry because your anger is never not important because that's the real you and when you accept
yourself everything that you are everything you've done everything you can be dreams will come motivation will come because you will be the one dreaming them not someone else things will get better I promise thanks for watching and have a pleasant day
