Wife Went On A Date Without My Consent; I Changed The Lock Of The House; There’s No Marriage Now

hey hey hey time for the out of this world story from ourspace when your wife says nothing much happened it means so much more than nothing happened today in our space it turns out the grass isn't always greener on the other side wife went on a date without my consent I changed the lock of the house and there's no marriage now well I don't know how to start this first I'm very distraught second I don't know if writing here is even worth it here's the thing yesterday Merlin it disgust me to call her my wife

comes to me and tells me she was going on a date I 33 male have been married to Merlin 34 female for 6 years we decided not to have kids and Lead Our Lives as a happy couple now suddenly a few months ago she starts complaining about how boring life has become and how it would be better if we had kids I said if you really want we can discuss about it we still have some time I guess then the next moment she changed her mind and said it was just her midlife crisis I took

this to be her mood swings and let it slide then yesterday she drops a bombshell that she was going on a date with her colleague a date I thought she was messing up with my head I laughed and said you got me she stared at me with wide eyes and said no I'm dang serious I just couldn't believe she was saying this I mean you know you don't expect your wife to come and tell you she's going to f around with another man oh dear lord for the good 10 minutes I thought that this was

just some sort of prank I asked her why all of a sudden she was heading for a date she said that just to kill the monotonous Rhythm she wants to do something exciting and what was that going on a date with her colleague she shrugs it off and saying it's no big deal and it was just a dinner I was just not able to wrap my head around this information she sat me down and said remember I used to tell you that life has become so monotonous and we need to do something fun but we

couldn't figure figure out a way I cut her off in between and said we did figure out a way we made an allog together new schedule to have a weekly date night and go for a mini vacation every 3 months we did try a bunch of other stuff you suggested she snapped at me and none of it was exciting now let me finish so I was discussing this at work and my colleague Randy you know him right pitched in and said he was also going through the same crap then later he approached me in private

we talked about this to length he too has been trying different stuff with his wife and none of it seems to work just like us so we decided to go on a casual date and see if there's an adrenaline rush that's why we planned this dinner I asked her if she could hear herself she said what's wrong with two people eating dinner I asked if it was just going to be two people eating dinner and nothing else she affirmed yes then why the hell are you calling it a date you could simply say you were

going for dinner with your colleague she sighed God I wanted to be transparent with you who knew you would react in this way well we called it a day because you know our conversation may go below the belt what the hell was that she stood up and said she was getting late she needs to get ready and probably it was a wrong idea to discuss it with me I was like are you still going for it leaving this conversation Midway she turned back and replied in a way to mock my words yes I'm going for

the date leaving the conversation Midway she does this often to annoy me except that it wasn't funny this time I sat there in disbelief 5 minutes later she peeps out of the room and says it's just dinner don't make a big deal out of it pretend this conversation never happened I crawled up on the couch not knowing what to do or how to react she came out of the room looking ravishing in her red dress and said oh look at your face red like my dress hold on to your desires and we'll have fun tonight

she tried to act sweet with loads of I love you I took a deep breath and tried to calm down myself that it was no big deal and she was just going to have dinner and nothing else it was no biggie right but I felt the une easiness the discomfort in my chest I couldn't stay calm no matter how much I tried I called on my friend for a beer and we went out drinking I badly wanted to spit out my anxiety with him but I thought it was a little early so I discussed the

scenario with him as a third person I told him my colleague was facing this trouble I don't know if I was able to put it out accurately or if he understood that it was my situation he said it was not something to be worried about as if it was just a casual dinner at a public place I was still sitting at the bar when I got a call from Merlin asking me to come home I was surprised because it was still 9:00 and she was home she was barely away for a couple of hours I

feel ashamed to admit this but I felt a sense of relief and happiness that she was back home and I was guessing nothing happened between them yeah yeah simp man blah blah read the full thing so I went home and she ran and hugged me at this point I was on a different tangent I was thinking maybe she made up a story just to mess with my mind or maybe just test me you know how women are I asked what's up she sat me down and told me that it was so much fun and exciting

she feels so much alive after this date that they are planning for a weekend getaway what the f I freaked out I snapped her and stood up she held my hands and asked me to calm down she said this is just for fun to make myself Lively again don't you want your old Merlin who is always beaming with fresh energy see I'm already halfway just spending 2 hours on a date with him you know I love you and this is just going to add up to our happiness I said let me get this straight so

you want to F this man over the weekend and you think it would strengthen our relationship she was like yeah pretty much I almost cornered her and asked you slept already didn't you I was an inch closer to being violent only God knows how I controlled myself she pushed me away and swore that nothing had happened yet but she really wanted to go for the weekend trip she said I love you and this won't mean anything but I really want to explore this fantasy of mine just by talking about this I'm getting wet down there

do you want to feel it I yelled out why did you quench it today if you're so desperately wanted to be a she screamed back saying they saved the excitement for the trip she was headstrong that she wanted to go for it and see how it actually felt I was pretty much drunk and before I made a foolish mistake I drove off I called my friend to ask if I could sleep on his couch I came back home in the morning to get ready for work and she was sleeping blissfully when I was getting ready

she came and hugged me from behind saying I love you I Shrugged her off she said I know you are mad at me now but I'm also sure that you love me enough to let me do what makes me happy I didn't say a word and left for work I'm feeling miserable I cannot focus on anything today Thursday and Saturday she wants to go screwing with that dude I can't stop feeling miserable about it I know my marriage is certainly over now I'm not even thinking about saving it anymore all I want is to make

that pay for opening her legs for another man well you know darn well that more has happened and it was never about just going for dinner it's time to hit and run and leave no prisoners here's a reality check if your wife comes to you and one to go on a date with someone else it's always a big deal time to Buck up op the moment she suggested anything like that in the first place you should have known better update one I made the freeze in the cold chilly night guess her body was too warmed

up with the actions down there hence it needed some cold therapy after I was done sulking about the situation on Thursday I sat down to make my plan like I said I could not let that walk all over me while on my way back home I bought the house lock and appointed a locksmith to come down on Saturday to change it I ordered another name plate for the house with just my name when I went back home she was wearing see-through lingerie I was amazed like what's this all about she looked at me and said

isn't this sultry to make anyone beg for me I want to look my best on Saturday giggled and continued I skipped work and went shopping not that I wanted to save my relationship but I wanted to record her words so that she doesn't back out later my phone was in my pocket with the recorder on I looked at her and said so you still want to do this despite knowing it would lead to a consequence she touches my lips and said what consequences there would be no consequences I love you and I know you love

me this is just for fun like you going fishing to clear your head take it in a similar way I asked her so you're saying you are sure about having sex with your colleague despite knowing the fact that I don't approve of this out of marriage sex she said yes yes yes and why are you making such a big deal out of it it's it's just sex I'm not marrying him or something I don't love him I love you she touched my cheeks with her lips Whispering I love you but I really want to do

this it's just one life I want to experience everything I was disgusted at her touch but I let her do so because I was recording her the closer the better I freshened up and went out with my friend this time I told him everything last time I wanted to save Marlin's reputation in front of my friend but now I don't care she herself wants to expose her tits to the world so be it my friend said I was sleeping on his couch that night pretty much summed up for him but he was shocked to know

that Merlin was up to this I didn't reveal anything about my plan I wanted to keep it discreet until I executed it but I told him I would end the marriage he said he knew a lawyer who helped his uncle save a bomb of alimony going to his narcissistic wife I requested him to get the details of the lawyer funny he already had it for me that's how friendship works you know I went home that night she was in bed I pulled out my pillow and blank it she asked me where I was going I

said why do you care she stared at me and said you remember our vows right that we would never sleep apart I threw the pillows back on the bed and yelled wow let's see who's talking about the vows we also took a vow never to bed anyone else remember she sighed that I was unreasonable tossed to the other side and slept I took my stuff and went to the couch I certainly cannot share a bed with someone who sleeps with me and fantasizes about other men she spent the whole Friday evening grooming herself and packing

her bag for her big day meanwhile I met the divorce lawyer on Friday afternoon and discuss my terms he heard the recordings and asked me to get the evidence of their stay if possible nevertheless the recording is sufficient Saturday morning when she went to take her shower I snooped into her packed bag replaced her tube of lubs with a similar tube filled with a hot white sauce of the same texture and put it back inside I knew she cannot have sex without Lubes she's one of those who's paranoid about painful entry I wish I could

watch the fun when she applied Ed on her lady Parts the fun part is they are going to a resort located in the middle of a forest so sad that she cannot buy another tube herself I sneaked into her phone and then to her messages to get the details of their place of stay I couldn't find it but I found tons of messages exchanged between them in the last few days about how they were going to do it the chats revealed they hadn't done it before doesn't matter my marriage is over I didn't have the

time to take screenshots so I took pictures of their chats from my phone before anyone asks how I access her phone let me tell you you guys we both know each other's phone password I hadn't spied on her phone before because I didn't feel the need for it when she came out of the shower I asked her which place she blushed and said now you care huh I said if your lover chokes you to death with his big tool I should know the place to pick up your dead body she laughed and told me the

name of the resort I messaged it to my lawyer who assured me he would get a copy of their stay apparently hotels reveal this information to lawyers I don't know how so don't ask me after a while I heard a car honk in her driveway she was still not ready she was heading to the window to maybe call him inside I yelled don't you dare call him inside my house you both would lie here with broken limbs she laughed and told him from the window to stay in his car and she would come I increased

the volume of the TV to the maximum she was saying something but I didn't listen after she was gone I called up the locksmith and got the locks changed I removed her name from the name plate at the entrance then I packed all her stuff in large garbage bags and kept them in the backyard reality hit me when I saw the EMP empty closet I sat down and howled like a baby for hours it was already evening by then I had two options pity myself and suffer for the mistakes that I never made or take

charge of my life and move on I chose the latter I took a shower and went out with my friend he has been helping me keep sane today is Sunday I hit the gym early morning to get rid of the negative thoughts and sat down to write this update she supposed to return tonight I can't wait to update you guys about her reaction to the locked house thanks for reading this it's disgusting how she's just rubbing this whole thing in your face she turned you into a cuck update two Merlin got to experience the fun

she had been wanting on Sunday she came before time looked like she left the resort in the afternoon without a shower I saw her entering the driveway she looked angry and not all that happy like she was beaming with energy when she left and now she was returning frustrated she looked miserable with smudged makeup her screw partner dropped her but she didn't say goodbye to him too bad for her she tried to open the door but realized it was locked she pulled out her key and tried to unlock it that's where it got interesting I

was watching her through the camera installed above her entrance she was groggy and pulled out other keys to unlock it she threw her bag and wallet on the floor cursing out loud then she started banging on the door hitting the doorbell and yelling are you home why isn't this stupid door opening I texted her look at the name plate in the backyard I then blocked her it was sufficient clue for for her she understood that the lock was changed and she was no longer welcome in the house she started screaming my name asking me to

come out and banging hard on the door I yelled from the window that if she doesn't leave I would send the recordings to her parents and friends she was astonished that I recorded her she started crying why are you doing this to me I am freezing in this cold it's too cold out here my body's already numb in the 4-Hour drive please open the door I didn't open it and let her plead she continued I'm already feeling miserable and guilty about my decision that jerk forced himself upon me despite me telling him that I don't

do it without Lubes I was frozen to death on hearing this I opened the door and let her in she tried to hug me but I blocked her she sat on the couch and broke down I remained silent for a minute then I asked her why she didn't call for help my throat DED up as I asked her did he rape you she shoed and said not rape but he manipulated me into doing it and said it won't hurt but it was hurting and I told him to stop but he didn't I asked if it

happened only once she said no three to four times and every time he convinced you to try again and you did she said yes I lost my cool and snapped at her you manipulative witch who do you think I am a jerk to believe you are you 16 years old who got manipulated you're at a resort and not at his home that you couldn't escape you could have pushed him away and walked out but you didn't you spent the night with him tried God knows how many times with the hope that he would give you

the thrill you were dreaming of she started balling and said the resort was in the middle of a forest how could I escape him sure it was but it wasn't deserted there were resort staff and other guests too who could have come to your rescue also why didn't she call me if you felt so threatened she kept crying because she had no answer I asked her to leave and that she would be served within a week she pleaded please don't do this to me I'm already guilty of my decision and I'm paying the price for

it you already took your Revenge by changing the loop what else do you want I promise I'll be a good wife and never nag about anything I remained unmoved and said the ship had already sailed our marriage was over on Wednesday when you went on a date without my consent she said I assure you nothing much happened between us he barely got inside I mean I hardly let him in you know I cannot do it without Lube I laughed and said good for you but we are done here I told you there would be consequences

remember she again started her water works I thought our marriage is strong enough to sustain it I love you and I know you love me please don't do this I said I loved you very dearly but now I hate you very bitterly now please leave if you don't want me to send all the recordings to your parents she was shocked again that I was recording even these conversations I said I'm no fool to talk to her off record she said she was going to press assault charges on Randy and she needed me in this I

laughed and said too bad you have to deal with it alone and not just the court case but also our divorce case she pleaded with me not to leave me in this stressful time I opened the door for her and said I never wanted to deal with anything alone but you wanted a thrill right what better than two court cases simultaneously to deal with after a lot of friction she finally left the divorce papers have been sent to her office because I didn't know where she currently is living however my lawyer got a call from

the courier company that the recipient has resigned from that office so I had to direct the papers to her parents I decided to drop by and tell them in person about the Fallout before the papers reached them they have been loving in-laws to me so I guess I owed them this much they asked me why I had visited alone and where was Merlin I told them we were to forcing and I didn't know where she was they were scared of my answer I gave them the surface level explanation that she went out with her colleague

despite my disapproval and now I cannot take her back her mom immediately called her asking her to come home she responded she was out of town visiting her best friend Kathy and we be back next weekend Merlin usually visits her whenever she's in crap they are childhood friends ex-mother-in-law called Kathy and she confirmed that Merlin was with her though she's in a miserable state but she assured to take care of her honestly I felt relieved to know that she was safe eventually when my anger subsided and I got to know that she had just quit

her job I felt uneasy and concerned about her well-being Merlin has paid the price of her entitlement big time but this doesn't mean I'm going to take her back never that's it I can't talk in details about my divorce terms because they're still on I'm not sure if I'll even update it because I just want to move on from this I've been connected with this community for over the last month updating replying to comments and connecting on DM M it did help me a lot but sorry to say this I'm unable to move on because

I'm constantly discussing this topic so I'm going to leave it here maybe when everything is over even my feelings I'll update about the remaining stuff thanks for engaging on my post I mean anything consensual is never okay but your ex definitely took some hard lefts to get where she is today and she's delusional to think that you could ever be okay with anything like that especially since you didn't even talk about anything of the sort before that and you're certainly right op she wanted excitement her life what's more exhilarating than the joys of Court pretty

sure you don't treat the ones you love like she treated you but that's just me what would you have done differently thank you for joining us today on ourspace be sure to like And subscribe and hit that notification Bell so you don't miss out on our next video see you next time [Music]