Cheating Wife Invited Her AP to Our Kid‘s B-day, So I Made Them Regret It [Full Story]

hey hey hey time for another out of this world story from our space today on our space a broken heart and a broken home a good man tries to make sense of his wife's betrayal can he overcome the pain and take the high road follow along to find out wife cheated next steps hello I've been a lurker here for a little while trying to process infidelity in my life long story short wife and I have been married eight years together a few years longer total and have two small kids this year has been tough but

and we have had our arguments but nothing that I would ever think would push my wife to cheat anyways I noticed her lately being distant and being uncommunicative and decided to confront her one evening at that time she said that she was not happy and couldn't feel a spark anymore at first I freaked out on myself thinking I was being a non-attentive husband truthfully an issue however the next day I caught a very strange message on her phone that was extremely lovey-dovey I took a look and then found my wife was messaging a man for

a long time with lots of I love yous and plans for a future together effing destroyed anyways taking the advice of the many threads on here I didn't confront initially I actually read as much as I could contacted a couple of lawyers of her advice one now on retainer and got my head on straight and calm I confronted my wife a couple days ago calmly and asked if she was having an affair and after a couple of minutes she admitted everything long story short it's been going on for six months and she claims it's the

deepest emotional connection ever complete BS but whatever to end it all I gave my list of boundaries cut off contact marriage counseling Etc the thing that I think is the final nail of an honest attempt to reconcile as she got extremely aggravated with cutting off contact especially when I told her to do it in front of me and even insisted to see him one last time for closure I having held my ground and told her that he is so important pack a bag and go live with him to which she backed off but not before

she told me I wasn't controlling a-hole anyways she sent a text this morning and showed me but my Spidey senses seemed to think she will try different means of communication I'm thinking there is no hope and I honestly don't want it at this point but I just wanted to be able to tell my kids in 20 years I at least tried we have marriage counseling tomorrow but I'm thinking it's time to file before wasting any time or grief I'm cautious to move too fast because of my kids but is this the right way to do

it the op continued in the comments wow this thread got big fast thanks for the awesome comments it's been helpful to get validation I had the paperwork filled out with my lawyer they just need to process it and I will have to pick a date to have her served you're all right this will not end well if I do go the doormat route need to think about my future my kids and move on one person responds it honestly is great to see someone not be a doormat in this situation honestly good on you for playing

it smart it will suck but keep that rage on red hot don't let it cool down because you're keeping your head in the game you will thank yourself later for this your kids will also once they are capable of understanding I would actually consider keeping the evidence locked away in case she ever tries telling the children a different story so they can see it with their own eyes probably too extreme and not a good parent thing to do to go that scorched Earth and salt the fields honestly I think you'd be doing your children a

disservice if you stayed with a woman like that kids aren't dumb they catch on to things if they see you allowing yourself to be mistreated they'd allow themselves to be mistreated with whatever toxic Partners they would gravitate towards later in life if your wife insists to see if air partner one last time you know for certain it's never ever going to be the last time update the past few weeks simply put sucked but it's given me time for a lot of soul searching and thinking as an update from the previous thread the wife and I

did attend some counseling after the initial confrontation and I will say this particular counselor has been very good about listening to both of us and not assigning blame or anything like that and helping to navigate our new reality she has also helped to uncover some structural issues in our relationship and while it doesn't at all excuse my wife's Behavior it's helpful at least knowing for a future relationship and not repeating the same mistakes as also mentioned in the thread my wife's initial reaction to my boundary to cut off contact with the affair partner appeared to

go unheeded and I did catch small messages between them before she completely went dark with her chat logs and phone after seeing that I decided to file and she was served a few days ago and in parallel I decided to have a heart-to-heart with my father-in-law as we are super close and I needed to prioritize this support for our kids versus our relationship as I could see my wife wanted to sweep this under a rug needless to say my wife was initially extremely upset her fantasy was blown up but her therapist did talk it through

with her from my point of view on why this needed to happen and I think she has started to realize the consequence of her actions and start to see there are real things that are going to be lost from here on out I'm just trying to process the new life ahead and the huge change in my identity from a husband father to something else same with her I will say since I filed my wife was immediately shocked when I dropped that on her and she has been very emotional these past few days I honestly think

she thought I would never be able to walk away I've kept her at arm's length but I have seen a distinct change in her and on a positive note we have talked more kept our conversation civil and focused on our shared priorities children mostly I've made it very clear to her that she left a huge wound on me and that she has to do the heavy lifting to help repair and give me space and time if I can ever begin to forgive I'll say it again and again her actions are the most selfish self-centered horrible

thing you could do to a person but I have not lost sight that we still need to raise our children and that is my focus Point as I navigate how I will move forward to the next phase of my personal happiness I wanted to thank everyone for the previous comments and insight I'm honestly proud that I found the strength to not wallow in self-pity anger or sadness and was able to make the Right Moves to retain my dignity and look forward to the bright future I honestly don't know all the next moves and my feelings

are constantly in flux but I'm starting to feel some inner peace thank you all again [Music] small update I'm in the post-serving part and working closely with my counsel what I'm looking for is if any betrayed spouses here took advantage of the affair fog to get better divorce terms and how you pulled it off but soon to be ex-wife is clearly deep in the fog still seeing contacting of her partner which at the moment I haven't bothered her since it's a good distraction what did people get agreements on that were unexpected any advice is greatly

appreciated on how to move through the space and also to keep her off balance is also helpful besides gray rock and 180 I've been going out much more unexpectedly and not divulging details of my activity update advice gray rocking during divorce proceedings hi everyone I posted a few threads about my ongoing saga but the abridge version is wife cheated I caught her she gave me the I love you but not in love and the fair partner is the greatest emotional connection ever BS and has Circle truth gas lit everything through the script I then proceeded

to drop papers on her and well here we are a few weeks later long story short now in the post-serving phase and have to cohabitate for now since I want to spend as much time with my children as possible I'm now in a separate room too so this has helped me begin to get that distance I've implemented the gray rock with my soon to be ex-wife generally trying not to be interested in any discussion but I have to fake it a little especially with kids around they're still small but try to be upbeat as they

can sense a lot I'm also not making myself available in the evening going out with friends working out whatever any other advice on how to best handle the situation it's a delicate balance I want as much bonding time with my kids and have sucked it up for family dinners and whatnot any other do's and don'ts honestly it seems like you're making All the Right Moves op the best thing you can do right now is your children as you said earlier your children look back and see how you treated their mother as you were going through

this will speak volumes of your character it will serve as a huge lesson on how to treat others who have wronged you you're a great father Opie update I've made a few posts prior and to those that don't know the story it's simply wife cheated greatest emotional attachment ever love you but not in love Etc I threw down papers and while I'm just over one and a half months after D-Day and working like hell to move on the purpose of this post is not for any update all I can say is the process is ongoing

and I will give the appropriate update at the right time likely a while my only request is for anyone that has gone through the process please share any good advice Lessons Learned things you would have done differently or good things to know the advice in the previous posts have been super helpful and those that have reached out in other ways have been incredible just reaching out in case there is more that can help update she cheated but I made to feel like the a-hole hey everyone my story can be found in my post history but

long story short as always wife cheated found her greatest emotional disturb ever I threw down papers and the train is writing to D-Town just wanted to get some stories on how folks dealt with in-laws friends Etc making you out to be a bad guy I did get to jump after filing and told some of the in-laws my family and some friends but I didn't broadcast too wide as I wanted to keep some things quiet that being said I know my soon-to-be ex-wife likely threw down her side and well I'm getting some cold vibes from a

lot of her family and some other folks I know blood is thicker than water but it sucks when you're close family turns their backs despite being a good dad and the wife being an immoral turd did people start to see stuff later on and change their opinion or just stop caring and moving on I think it's inevitable for people to take sides in situations like this but those who choose to believe her were never really loyal to you anyways were they you don't need people like that anyways you only need to focus on your kids

you only need to focus on your side of the Court at the end of the day you know what happened you know the truth that's all that matters update hi everyone as of today there is some closure coming my way in my Saga that started over the summer and have been posting getting advice from everyone here I just want to start off and thank this community for the incredible support advice especially to those folks who privately message and offered words of wisdom along the way this is a crappy process to go through especially when close

family is far away it sucks to be alone with your thoughts but there is some wisdom and introspection to gain during this for those that need a recap one of the many threads is below but the tldr as my wife cheated and tried to hide it I found out realized there was no hope as she was deep in the fog with the fair partner and immediately filed on her anyways the past few months have been Frosty but relatively drama-free as the sunnibi ax and I separated our lives in the house but still did things for

our children the discovery and mediation process proceeded pretty quickly we agreed on 50 50 for our kids along with schedules and holidays and since it's a no-fault state Asset Division was by the book with some give and take I won't go into details too much at this time maybe another Post in the future but I will be finding a place soon for a fresh start the final conclusion is on the horizon but for the most part the D is complete as for my advice from this whole Fiasco I learned a bunch of things one don't

bother with the pygmy dance I tried for a week before wising up to her cheating my soon to be X is still in the fog but it's her decision she needs to live with it two do lawyer up with an experienced family law attorney who is reasonable I can't say enough of the person who took care of me understanding that this is what I want versus reality was important in converging to the end I don't have any crazy ridiculous fees as I did a lot of the prep and avoided hours and hours of back and

forth and this was able to be settled rather quickly three do lean on friends and family to support as much as possible 4. working out exercise is key to keeping your mental health I hit the weights a month after D-Day and I'm starting to reap the benefits and that confidence has been helpful to get across the finish line five get into individual counseling and talk with someone this has helped me tremendously six I realize this from all the posts I read but the cheaters decisions are all on them I heard it all from my soon

to be ex I was a roommate I love you not in love our marriage went so wrong I worked too much blah blah truth be told now that I know the timeline our marriage went wrong after she invited someone in her life that was feeding her lines that stroke her ego and give her extra attention and she had to put up walls and make me the bad guy to justify this in her mind sure she may have been stressed from kids day-to-day life in a long-term marriage but not communicating to her husband and confiding in

a two-time divorce cheater with no moral compass is all on her and a recipe for disaster the exciting final chapter of Captain sack nuts Freeman a cheese Five-Year Plan Sid Affair partner is yet to be written but poor choices carry consequences that is all I will say on the matter again thank you to everyone I still have a lot of work ahead but also Many Adventures in this new chapter of my life I hope I can return the favor to anyone who needs it please reach out if anyone needs a helping hand I am here

update has your ex pushed to still be in your life after divorce got a question for the group I post history details the greatest emotional connection love story ever I'm not so far away from moving into my own place as I have a couple of kids with my soon to be acts and also for legal reasons I have remained in our marital house as this process has taken place I have posted a couple other threads of the ongoing saga thankfully the light is at the end of the tunnel for me soon obviously I have to

co-parent with my cheating acts and will be friendly for that but I have been firm in saying she killed our marriage and by default any sort of friendship I have no room in my life for a lying cheater she has however been insistent about wanting to be there for me promising to help decorate my new house and keeping holiday traditions for the kids again I have remained firm in saying she torpedoed our relationship and wanted to replace me so I'm simply giving her that wish and even gone as far as to say she won't be

a welcome guest at my house has anyone had this happen with the ex wanting to hang around I have to guess it's some sort of optic if we are friends the split can't be so bad so far a fair partner has not shown his face and she tries to hide it but I know it's a matter of time before the greatest emotional connection gets to go live I have no desire to ever be in the same room as them too anyways but will remain outside the blast radius with popcorn when the whole thing goes up

in flames thanks as always to this awesome group some group has some responses first one she's doing it for herself it would absolve her partially from her guilt at least in her mind it would mean that the Betrayal and hurt cannot be that big of a deal if you still let her be in your inner circle don't let her dop replies yep I know she is always concerned with image management constantly posting on social media Etc I've been letting my social media dry up anyways from my mental health but she is definitely not in my

inner circle or I've been sharing my thoughts plans with her individual says she's doing it as a control tactic she's taking advantage of the fact that she has a new shag locked and loaded ready to go and you don't help you decorate your new house AKA she's trying to take control and put her stamp on your new family home and yet would in no way allow you to help her with the new greatest of all time decorate their Viper's nest keeping holiday traditions is exactly the same thing as she gets to create the Traditions with

you and in her own home before you get a new person you can bet your boots she'd try to treat your eventual new person as The Outsider the next person offers it's the only way she can save face you'd be her friend and she can say see we were meant to be just friends don't give in hell don't even respond gray rocked the hell out of her I would even consider not telling her where you live the first couple of months and doing handovers in a neutral place or her place to enforce that point otherwise

be consistent with your messaging we are not friends let's learn to strictly co-parent I do not want you in my personal life anymore consider forcing the conversation to a co-parenting app if you need to force the message home she lives in a dueled world here where she fell out of romantic love for you a long time ago but still cares about you as the father of her kids and imagine some scenario where y'all will happily co-parent and share holidays and such zero empathy for your feelings what a sick game she's trying to find ways to

weasel into your life outside of communication purely based on the kids it's just a means of trying to still control you she doesn't want to be your friend she wants you to be her puppet update as of today the official decree went out and I'm no longer married I also picked up the keys to my new house and will start the process to move ASAP I did choose to take a buyout as I felt it was best to start fresh in a place of my own to make new memories and I really got lucky I

found a nicely kept up house barely a minute away from my current home huge fenced-in backyard wood fire pit big garage and Primo location I also back up to a nature preserve as I'm an avid Outdoorsman biker I have a gateway to my own little Paradise some will ask why so close well I want to be close to my kids because they need to know their dad is close by for when they need me thanks for the advice of this community I kept my mind focused on what was important started a workout program and also

dove headfirst into a new career opportunity that recently paid itself huge dividends I have not bothered with online dating or seeking out a new partner and will likely enjoy the single life for a while I have my two little kids to focus on and fully plan on focusing on them and my personal growth for a little while as for my ex and Affair partner I honestly have started to let go of that disaster whatever happens will happen and it's no longer my concern as someone eloquently said before when someone gets with somebody who cheated on

their spouse they are getting someone who cheated on their spouse I did my best as a husband and father and it's time for someone else to appreciate it thank you for all the messages advice well wishes and so on my life has depended on this so much these past months when I didn't have very many close by to turn to for those that are at the very beginning of this crap deal please keep putting one foot in front of the other and surviving every day I'm not an expert in life but I'm also willing to

lend an ear to those who need it good luck y'all update I'll have a life update coming soon as I have some pretty major things mostly good happening after my official divorce that being said in my new free time I unfortunately have looked back and saw the life I had planned evaporate and wonder how could this happen in such a short time I'm sure everyone has had much time to ponder the who what where when why why why but I look back and my wayward spouse and I had a great life ahead of us careers

that are doing great after some initial major efforts to establish ourselves paid off home two beautiful children who are now out of diapers kids college funds being funded amongst the multitude of other things going for us thinking about this is my last hurdle to get over but I really can't understand the mindset of someone who had so much going for her but decided to Nuke it all and is going all in on unreliable serial cheating turd need I mention OMB one more times to this group I know I'm going to struggle for a while to

heal from all this but I just look at our history and lives together and just think how can a person be so selfish and stupid I get the desire can't be negotiated and all that jazz but dang the whole point of being married is to work together through things as a team and to continuously fall back in love with one another thanks again to this great group for all the insights I know I will likely sound like a broken record but these forms have been great to vent this stuff honestly it doesn't really make sense

and I think we can drive ourselves Crazy by trying to figure out and understand the whys that being said I think one main reason is insecurity your ex was just an extremely insecure woman update hello all I wanted to give a quick update especially to those folks who just went through their D-Day and are worried about what life may be like I'm six weeks post-decrete and I have moved into my new place a month ago working like a madman to get it set up into My Sanctuary I finally have it well furnished and it feels

like home my home my kids have now been over many times and the rotation is working well I've read many times here that kids are resilient but until you see it firsthand it is worrisome I'm happy to report they are handling things pretty well and we have our own fun at Dad's house and they have told me many times they love being over as for me it's initially been weird having some Newfound freedom but I found making to-do lists and daily weekly long-term goals is helping a lot I was initially sad but keeping busy keeps

that away I'm focused only on self-improvement at the moment I thought about putting myself back on the scene but truthfully I have no interest so I'm keeping focused on Home Improvement Fitness and my kids someone commented on one of my posts that getting out of the house was like being underwater and coming up for air and they were right as for the cheating X I keep it cordial but that's it no sign of the greatest emotional connection Affair partner yet what the f but who cares I'll just say tonight I sat outside had a few

beers in a cigar and enjoyed the peace and Tranquility of my property and thought getting the heck away from the situation my ex put me in was the right thing to those at the beginning and doubting leaving I get it the toughest thing in heartbreaking is a kick in the junk but making the decision to eject a cheater out was the only right decision and I only feel with time it will get better cheers everyone update hi all another update from ac496 once again thank you all to the wonderful people for their comments and support

it's now month two of being on my own and my house is coming together quite nicely my kids have been doing very well and making memories and I have some fun trips planned in the near future as per the usual advice I have kicked my weight training and dieting into the next gear and furnished my home gym with some better equipment and also been hitting the heavy bag very regularly it must be working in my monthly therapy sessions my counselor noticed I was putting on weight in the right places and she said it's great the

progress she is seeing mentally and physically so a little affirmation things are going in the right direction I have not bothered to date look at this point it's early on and I'm just enjoying the free time new projects and time with friends so to the point of the post and I'm sure everyone keeps wondering has crappy luck hit crappy people well I don't have the wonderful post to detail the destruction of OMB or the ex-wife just yet however it's odd as the greatest romance ever hasn't been revealed at all and OMB is still a secret

I wanted to ask why this could be is my ex-wife just playing image management and waiting to reveal all at a time that looks better but isn't the thrill of the affair dead now that they can't sneak around I'm no longer around so I just found it odd I have a feeling they are still communicating she makes it obvious she is by hiding her phone still if I'm around during kids activities but why it's like you wanted this you snuck around and claimed this was the most amazing thing ever why not blast that out now

that the horrible ex-husband is gone has this happened to anyone else with their ex and Affair partner one person has a response mate you probably shouldn't waste time trying to figure out what is going on inside a crazy person's brain there could be dozens of reasons but who knows and mainly who cares I think the comment is right don't waste your time thinking about your ex and her Affair partner what she does doesn't concern you anymore it's really none of your business maintain course foreign update hi all I'm almost to the six month Mark past

divorce and nearly to the year past D-Day it's been cathartic to post but I know a lot of folks have followed my journey commented messaged given hope Etc and like many others posted along the journey to give the unfortunate new folks here some ray of light that despite the darkness you have stepped in there is another side I hope I continue to help in whatever small way I can to anyone in need I greatly appreciate the support I got and in kind would always love to return the favor on that note six months past D-Day

and there is a lot of positive news my house is furnished in a home my kids are comfortable in the routine and love coming over and have made some neighborhood friends I'm beyond thankful that the little ones managed this process so well and they just understand there is Dad time and Mom time and no complaints or tears outside of them being here I have immersed myself into a crap ton of Home Improvements the house I moved into was occupied by an older divorced gentleman and some stuff got left to the Wayside but I look at

it as an opportunity to make it my own along with that I furnished a home gym in my house with everything I need and can say I'm getting my workouts and boxing in four times a week and getting my body back to where I needed to be through this whole ordeal I also went through a major career change internally to where I work and somehow managed to not mess anything up but instead I've gotten Kudos I've kept my situation private arrays and plenty of exposure to get my career trajectory moving up yes I still struggle

daily with mental health and focus but I manage it with therapy and workouts and things are getting better I think less and less of my ex-wife each day and each small step is a relief as for her well she's still in la la land but I can only say we co-parent decently well I gray rocked the heck out of her let's be friends but keep us strictly to kids and it's been cordial I'm sure anyone who has followed my story has wondered about The Saga of OMB all I can say is the world's greatest love

story hasn't gone live but my kids have made me aware recently he has been around in a small capacity I have to laugh a little as it's now six months past D-Day and they are still sneaking around all great Hallmarks of a long lasting trusting relationship guaranteed to stand the test of time I've come to terms with whatever is going to happen will happen and at this point I am lucky to be away from a person that is willing to lie to their most trusted Partners face and not feel an ounce of remorse and I

have a solid chance at building an even better life than before good riddance and good luck anyways that is all and yet another big thanks to all those that follow and comment message send Rays of Hope I will keep updating and supporting as always update hi y'all thought I'd pass on the thoughts of a good conversation I had with the Buddy last night over many beers it's amazing sometimes how the world's problems can be solved on Friday night for context my buddy also got divorced seven years ago and his circumstances are eerily similar to mine

even our exes have the same birthday I have mentioned in previous posts recently but the grand reveal of OMB and my ex is slowly taking form I am low contact with my ex but my kids make comments and it's hard not to get hurt whatever anyways my buddy noticed I was a bit frustrated and said this and it helped me a lot dude think about their lives two cheaters getting together and think about how crappy low value turd he is for manipulating a married woman with kids now look at it this way they have to

make it work no matter how bad it becomes you or I can meet women and if it's not good we move on no problem no worry they're stuck he has to be in your old house knowing you built that has to do with your kids and inherits your selfish ex and in-laws but they are stuck or else they look stupid can you imagine that kind of hell but you you're free I stood on that and this morning it really helped to realize that what a horrid future to have to look forward to anyways I wanted

to pass this thought and also ask if others came to this conclusion or sought an action thank you to you awesome people as always wow that makes a lot of sense trying to play house in a home that a fair partner never built a home that he helped to destroy update Affair partner is invited to my kid's birthday hi all it's me here a big thanks to this lovely group as always I have something to get off my chest for those that remember my Saga I've been progressing well and I have some big updates coming

soon as I like to post positive things in my journey to help those in their Journey but for now I'm in need of advice background my daughter's birthday is coming up this weekend I already celebrated last weekend with my family and had a small thing nothing crazy my daughter loved her presence and cake well the ex-wife is having her usual look at how awesome I am party this weekend I did get an invite but I just found out the other day that good old OMB Affair partner is confirmed going to be there I called out

my ex-wife saying this was a pretty crappy thing to do but she didn't reply better yet the ex-wife's co-workers and family and friends who knew about the affair will be there and the party is at my old house enemy territory this is just horrid overall as it's my daughter's party after us divorcing and I can't help but feel it's a setup this is lose lose and after talking with some other supportive members here this feels like entering a pit of vipers the only thing I can think of is going in dressed well fresh haircut and

showing off my new physique hey I've been doing the work and staying a little while but either way I just don't like this I feel this is super manipulative of the ex-wife she knows exactly how she is playing this and wants me to do something Petty any advice is appreciated edit wow the response has been awesome you guys are all awesome I will try and respond to each and every one when my day calms down here's a response from the community don't go you already had your party with for your daughter and have celebrated with

her and it sounds like she enjoyed it that's all that counts tell your ex-wife you don't associate with home Wreckers plural and you'll separate the parties from now on to avoid cross-contamination ultimately it's up to you you can choose to go and be the person you are today the person who has grown so much since the whole debacle you would be showing up as a person who your ex-wife can never live up to it does seem like a very toxic environment to put yourself in but if you feel you're above it all and it can't

phase you then go she might not even expect you to come it might have just been to hurt you in hopes that she'd get the upper hand on you anyways you shouldn't feel obligated to go and you've already celebrated with your daughter so I'm sure she'd understand final update hey everyone I wanted to thank the massive amount of support I got on my post from earlier this week since the beginning of this Saga this community has been my Lifeboat and Savor with advice to get me through all of this thank you all it truly means

the world to me as for the juicy update well this is a good one so I initially told the ex-wife that I'd be joining what I didn't do was tell her I'd changed my mind I waited until Saturday morning to pop by the house and drop off my daughter's card and present well unbeknownst to me the kids were dropped off at Grandma and Grandpa's house for the morning and as I drove up into the driveway in my sports car I may add none other than omb's turd wagon was on the side of the road I

strolled into the backyard quietly with a smile and surprised both the ex-wife and OMB as they were putting up decorations the look of utter Terror was on both their faces and I crap you not OMB didn't look me in the eyes once but was like oh hey man honestly when I look at both of them I didn't feel the anger but just a sense of how sad you both are good luck together is that gross I kept my composure and just said I'm here to give my daughter her present but I won't be joining the

ex-wife was shocked and I swear in the nicest voice I've ever heard in my life she darned or pleaded for me to join I said thanks but no thanks I will go to your parents place to give my daughter her gift and parted ways I did give a hey see you later bro to OMB before strolling out head held high not more than three minutes later I got a phone call from the ex-wife again pleading to come to the party but I held my ground and politely refused a few minutes later I dropped off the

gift went into the ex-in-laws for a few minutes and played with my kids and said my goodbyes all very kindly and not mentioning the situation as for me I kept myself busy tending to my house I got a good workout in much needed after a break and I went out on a date ultimately it was kind of a bust but she was nice and at least it was a distraction my daughter called me today and thanked me for my gift but she didn't ask why I wasn't there so like everyone said she was so busy

she didn't pay attention so there it is I know if I would have went I would have set myself back a ton and for nothing instead she told everyone I'd be there and with me a no-show and OMB there I'm absolutely certain people put two and two together on why now I can go about my weekend not feeling like I'm mentally exhausted and do some fun things thank you again everyone [Music] excellent that was definitely a sign of growth op well done I think you needed that update hey everyone this is going to be a

short but rather humorous update to my previous posts the Outreach was incredible thank you all for your advice and I'm still smiling from the rope-a-dope I pulled last week I really had a really good week since then anyways here's your fight of humor some background since after D-Day if those that have followed my Sago may remember my in-laws drop me like a hot potato I get it blood is thicker than water however I have had one member of my extended family reach out and we regularly hang out he is truly a man of character well

I got a text on Saturday during the party hey man let's grab some beers this week your presence is missed here fast forward to the other day we meet start consuming beers and get down to business he first starts talking about the awkward shy show the party was with people clearly looking at their feet at the situation apparently OMB was not introduced to anyone the ex-wife was deliberately apart from him during the party and was mostly directing him on things to do and the in-laws didn't bother to talk to him and sat with themselves looking

pretty annoyed he clearly was a fish out of water and actually went inside most of the time and avoided of most everyone it was also a quiet comment among some of the in-laws aunt's uncle's side of things that this party is classless I swear I'm heading toward indifference but I just laughed my butt off my absence was well understood and my earlier gift giving to my daughter was also known so it seems like the family had full understanding of my absence mission accomplished anyways that is my Friday humor for those new to your own bad

situation I cannot stress enough of taking the high road acting with dignity in class and just moving toward living the best life it's not always the most satisfactory course of action but like weight training the results take time but are worth it happy Friday y'all you're on the right track op you've grown and learned so much about yourself in this time and you're exactly right the best most noble thing you can do is move forward and live your best life getting over this will take time soon you won't even give it a second thought wishing

you all the best op this high road that you're on will bring you much happiness what do you make of all this what would you have done in op situation what would you have needed to hear let us know in the comments below and thank you for joining us today be sure to like And subscribe and hit the notification Bell so you don't miss out on our next video until next time on our space [Music]