some say women are born with inherited value but men have to create value for themselves reality hits men harder than women while many average women expect high value men average men understand where they fall in the hierarchy high value men sit at the top of the social pyramid and again we're talking about high value skills and attributes here not a person's intrinsic value as a human being out of all men these are the ones who've achieved the highest success and recognition in life they get to live life by very different rules as many women are
interested in them and many other men want to be in their circle by the end of this video you'll have a clear understanding if you are one of them or at least know what you need to improve on to be referred to as one here are 15 signs of a high value man welcome to alex.com the place where future billionaires come to get inspired number one top five to ten percent of the social hierarchy ladder the simplest metric is earnings high value men are in the top ten percent of earners they earn six figures or
more that translates to over fifteen thousand dollars a month every month just to get into the top ten percent in order to make it to the top one percent of earners you need to be considered bringing home over seventy thousand dollars a month and with inflation changing the dynamic like crazy that number is only going up high value men are able to do it over and over again everyone can have a good year or a good season maybe even get lucky for a while but high value men are high value consistently the really high value
men the ones making up the 1 of all men have earned over 1 million dollars per year for over 3 years and they will earn that for the next three just based on income statistics alone there are substantially fewer high value men than beautiful women the kind of man that usually ends up being at this level of earnings are hyper determined hyper focused and have traded at least one decade of their lives in pursuit of success for years they've had little to no social life because they were fully focused on their career now that they've
made it they can truly enjoy the spoils of their work almost all women the straight ones at least want a high value man because of the lifestyle they can provide which makes him a scarce resource in high demand and because of this obsessive personality needed to get them to the top high value men almost never settle for mediocrity in any other part of their lives number two someone who has transformed his life and is able to continuously do it based on choice you know how other men wish their lives were different high value men have
the power the skills the mindset and the understanding of what it takes to do it on demand his life is proof of that high value men are men who despite starting alongside everybody else have managed through sheer dedication to detach themselves from the rest and climb to the top low value men think that having pictures with cars sleeping with a lot of women and making a lot of money is what makes you high value but that's not it boys high value is determined by what you're capable of and the ability to change reality to fit
your goals you're looking at the outcome not the cause you can't fake it till you make it when it comes to being a high value man integrity plays a big role in this as it stops the high value men don't need to pretend or say they are high value this public perception is a byproduct of their main focus not the other way around this puts them in a position of control over their lives and speaking of control number three in control of his own time high value men prioritize freedom and time is the most valuable
asset you have which is why it doesn't matter if you drive a mercedes if you drive it on your way to a nine-to-five job and other people tell you when to show up and what to wear that's not freedom you're not free you can be a high earner and not be a high value man because you don't own your own life someone else does this concept is called the golden handcuffs the money is so good you're trading your time and freedom for it it takes several years before you realize you've made a bad trade this
is why high value men are in most cases older you can't be a high value man in your 20s because you haven't been through enough real life to acquire wisdom no matter how many videos you've watched number four maxed out stats high value men are exceptional in at least one field which is so great nobody cares about the rest stephen hawking got married and even had a few affairs despite not being able to talk walk or move that's the power of maxing out one of your stats if you max out any of your stats you
don't even have to be one of the highest earners to qualify as a high value man because it will open up your life to greatness max out persuasion and you become a politician with political power max out your ability to entertain and you become a famous artist once you max out anything of value it can always be transitioned into money and fame high value men rank high in ethics they're competitive but always remain ethical these men value equality of opportunity because they know they can perform based on their own track record number five recognized by
other high-value peers there's no such thing as a high-value sigma male sigma males are these individuals who see themselves as lone wolves that's we've experienced it ourselves in our early 20s we locked ourselves in a room and went full focus on building a life for ourselves it took roughly seven years to get there and we saw ourselves as successful only to realize that in the process we've become an island so we began building bridges the big shock was that when we realized all the folks at the top of the pyramid were already hanging out with
each other discipline and hard work qualify you to be in the room but you need to build relationships if you really want a deserving seat at the table we don't care if you think of yourself as a high value man the only way to really know is when other high value men give you their stamp of approval and allow you to join their ranks your value is partially determined by the people you surround yourself with there is a nobility to high value both peers and people of a lower value recognize your efforts and this is
why most men can't do it you might get lucky once but you'll meet the same people you stepped on going up on your way back down number six has a valuable network what it would take you three to four years to do on your own can be achieved in six months if you have a powerful network men at the top work in packs when it comes to tackling projects beyond one's solo ability they leverage each other's relationships infrastructure and knowledge to minimize risk they trust each other to hold their word and put their money in
actions where their mouth is that's why the rich are getting richer because they're working together to ensure it and that's the thing poor people actually despise other poor people which stops them from collaborating because high value men have built this valuable network around them others will come to them trying to carry favor and at this point it's like a snowball rolling downhill the more valuable your network is the more high value people will want to join it number seven is an employer high-value men are able to provide a livelihood to others and this means he's
able to generate opportunity structure and a way for others to take care of their own families it's not necessarily that you're an entrepreneur if you're high up in the corporate ladder you can exercise your power and provide opportunity to others although there's an element of self-interest involved the benefit brought to the other party ensures a position higher in the hierarchy high value men are able to see opportunity when other people don't you earn money and status based on your ability to see into the future low value men can barely see toward the end of the
day or maybe week they usually live paycheck to paycheck average value men can see toward the end of the month or the quarter they're usually middle management or higher valued employees high value men see opportunity in years and decades number eight visible and intriguing you know who high value men are everybody does you might not know them but you know of them they're visible they're around they're always doing something extraordinary which puts a spotlight on them high value men move differently for everybody else this is intriguing how is this person able to do so much
consistently well the secret lies in the management of resources at the end of the day you have the same number of hours in a day as they do but they're not being managed in the same way you recognize what they've built and what position they occupy in society others understand the title of their occupation they're not vaguely entrepreneurs they're the ceo of tesla you know what the function is and you know what the company is their activity is transparent legal and by the book they're winning the game fair and square nobody can say otherwise you
can't be a high value man and be in jail you can't be a high value man hustling people there's no honor among thieves trust and reputation are of the utmost importance as you'll learn later today number nine can afford to walk away this right here is the most powerful piece of information you will need in your life and the reason why so many people subscribe to our channel the person who can afford to walk away has all the power if you're in a business negotiation the one who can walk away from the deal because they
can make it somewhere else on their own terms has all the power if you're dating someone who's playing games and you can walk away you've got all the power others will notice and they'll put you on a pedestal because real power is rare the more valuable the thing you're willing to walk away from is the more powerful you are perceived and this is why you can't put high value men in the friend zone while every other man is chasing after partners a high value man will attract them through their status and they'll always have options
games are for children high value men don't play them because they can afford to walk away number 10 has coaches keeping him at top performance high value men never stop learning they never stop climbing for them the climb is the thrill in order to do so high value men leverage the experience of others to get things done quicker you'll never meet a high value man who doesn't read who doesn't hang out with other successful people in order to learn from them high value men pay performance coaches to make sure they operate at the highest level
these coaches are there to make sure the mindset is right and the objective is clear on a consistent basis pick any hedge fund manager and you'll see they're paying over one hundred thousand dollars a year to a high performance coach just to make sure they don't slip up but someone like you probably can't afford that we learned from them and wanted to make sure this luxury is available to everyone so we paid these coaches on your behalf so you can access them through the a lux app at 14.99 a month go to alux.com app right
now and download the app it's gonna be a game changer for you the 10 minutes per day sessions will slowly build you up over time your income should increase your stress should lower and you will bring order into the chaos of your life ready to be more than what you are right now go get the alux app number 11 master of probability not luck low value men operate in luck high value men operate in probability how likely is something to happen if these are the inputs people look at them as risk takers but that's actually
the opposite of what they do high value men look at the setup how a situation is put together and how it will impact the results then based on expertise they slowly shift the odds in their favor and they do that consistently if your odds of success are over 50 then it makes sense to run the experiment for as long as possible because you will inevitably win that's why high value men have built infrastructure around them these men have lawyers accountants financial advisors they have a diversified portfolio of assets all minimizing risk and increasing return number
12 he's not an almost almost graduated almost got the job almost got rich almost got laid almost closed the client almost made it work so many people are almost in their results and you see it all the time when people say but i really tried or i put in a lot of effort high value men only value end results it doesn't matter how hard you tried that's something reserved for little league baseball not for adults they take full ownership over everything that happens in their life if something goes wrong they aren't ready or smart enough
to see it coming so there's still room for improvement number 13 life has to keep going up high value men derive value from growth a man that's not growing is a man that's just waiting to die and growth for men comes in many ways professional physical emotional spiritual intellectual a man whose value is going down is seen as a liability not an asset high value men don't go through a midlife crisis because their life is full if a high value man were to die today he would know that he's lived a fulfilling life and that
he made the most out of it growth and fulfillment come from the way you live your life you might be the person with the most money in the bank account but you will still lose if you haven't lived at all most men live lives of quiet desperation they hope that one day something will happen where they will be able to live for themselves number 14 able confident and assertive when a high value man walks into a room everybody knows it he's confident in his ability because he's proven it in the past and knows he can
do it again these are not the peacock man you see these days masquerading as high value they have true value based on who they have become high value men are assertive they let the world know what they want and that they're going after it high value men have no problem to compete and make it clear they are a dominant force these men aren't necessarily the strongest but they're the most capable these men are adaptive take everything away from them and they'll still be able to get it back because they didn't get lucky because look you
can't take away who they are and what they know it'll take them substantially less this time around because they know what to do and how to do it high value men are high value no matter where they are in the world self-confidence and assertiveness are both things that one can learn every month we develop a learning pack available in the alux app for purchase or included in the premium subscription this month's pack is about self-confidence and what it takes to master it and it's going live today that's why we keep telling you about the app
it'll blow you away just how much value there is in it number 15 reputation and legacy reputation is the most valuable thing a man can build from a status perspective children are the most valuable thing a man can have from a legacy perspective and both of them are extremely important to a high value man they know their reputation needs to be protected at all costs that's why you don't see high value men with low value women at least not in public if you know what i mean men are status driven so the partner they choose
to be with should increase his status you can tell a lot about a person based on who they choose to build a life and family with if you watched our high value woman video you know what a high value man looks for in a partner and we guarantee it's different than what you expect because high value men are focused on perpetual growth and can provide an incredible lifestyle for their family it's important that his legacy be carefully looked after a high value man is a present father but because of the situation he's responsible for more
than the household that's why the partner needs to be able to raise exceptional children the two forms of legacy a man leaves behind are his children and his work high value men understand that time is finite and he wants something to live beyond him you are the result of thousands of years of evolution and bloodline overcoming incredible adversity although one can choose to not have children and still make an impact on the world it's a shame to allow your bloodline to die actually let's end it here next sunday we're gonna do a final video on
what it means to be a high value couple and then we'll wrap this series up it's time you guys join the conversation what else makes a high value man we know you're smart so go ahead and contribute and as for those of you still watching here's your well-deserved bonus a clown is a clown even if you put them on a throne we've noticed a rise in the interest of men centered content which is why we decided to make this entire series the irony is you don't become a high value man by talking down to women
and making your money off the recordings the same way you're not considered a success if you get rich by teaching others how to get rich it just doesn't work that way we made our first million before talking about money most of these men are pretenders and actually keeping the entire process back it's the same here become high value first and then talk about it and do so from a statistical perspective where you throw in personal experience the problem that we see with this content is that although it's portrayed as self-help it actually isn't in many
cases most of the content produced on the topic is entertainment only and we take problem with this because that's not benefiting the listener a cold shower is welcome only if the path to improvement is available by it that's why we did the duality of these videos both low value and high value to reflect both ends of the spectrum in reality most people watching this video will fall somewhere in the middle but at least now you know what not to do and what to aspire to do high value men don't talk about themselves as pimps high
value men don't need to be loud high value men aren't trying to win because they've already won for as long as you live remember this the rich man in the room doesn't have to tell you he's rich the problem lies when at the helm of the conversation we have people who don't fit the job description put a clown on a throne and the entire kingdom becomes a circus and we feel like this is happening in this space right now there's some foundation of truth but not everything that glitters is gold if you agree with this
take on high value men write the word gold in the comments that way we can differentiate from everything else that only glitters thank you for watching this video alexer if you found it valuable consider subscribing to our channel and joining our awesome community and if you're still hungry for more we hand-picked this video for you to watch next or head over to our website for more amazing content see you tomorrow
