hi welcome so here are five things about the eyes first of all if someone's eyes are hard you look at the pupil and they're hard and they're cold that person likes to have control that person is a my way or the highway kind of person so unless you like to be on the other end of a lot of control you need to look out this can also be said for eyes that are slit so people have hard cold eyes but they're split again that spells danger unless that person has an eye problem similarly when you
have a person that smiles but that smile doesn't reach the eyes that person is giving a mixed message they want you to think they like you but maybe they really don't so a smile should come through the eyes you should see a sparkle in the person's eye pleasure joy when they're looking at you the next thing to think about are eyes that are needy now needy eyes don't have a big message and say i'm an edi so needy eyes can be big they can be beautiful they can be come hither eyes come to me we
all love those eyes or even big bedroom eyes the problem is that person is very needy now there's nothing wrong with needy people in fact we're all needy some of the time the issue for you is if you get involved with that person is to have good boundaries and be able to say no why don't you do that yourself [Music] another kind of eyes to be careful about or maybe even cautious are eyes that are kind of spacey dull like you wonder where's the person i see their eyes but they don't seem to be in
there with their eyes so we can all be like that some of the time however if someone is like that most of the time that person isn't really comfortable with intimacy they're not gonna want to be too close to you too attached in fact they prefer to be detached because detached is safer sometimes people with spacey eyes or vague eyes are very connected to a higher power they feel more comfortable outside of their body than in their body so just know that very spiritual people can be like that even great psychics or healers but you
might not want to marry one of them finally there are people who stare too long so they look at you and they look at you and they look at you and you you're kind of done with it but they're still looking at you so they could just be weird or again it could be a power play that person might want to have power over you interestingly though the most powerful people we're learning in communications research the people that are your ceos etc are people who don't spend a lot of time staring or even looking at
people when we count number of eye looks people look at them more often than they look at other people so if you're really seriously into power you probably don't have a lot of time for eye contact one other thing before i go is just about being nearsighted i was curious about this because i was nearsighted i think i wore glasses by the age of six or seven so i asked my mentor about it and what he explained besides it being probably genetic is when there are certain things you don't want to see or you're uncomfortable
with um that can actually affect your eyes the retina and the cornea and so forth so uh people who wear glasses if you're interested may have some stuff in their past that they didn't really want to be conscious about so it's been fun talking to you about the eyes and i'm hoping that each of you will give your eyes a thank you for being great uh friends and having helped you along in life and i suggest to you that you bring a little healing energy to your eyes so that you take your palms put them
up against your eyes feel that beautiful healing energy from the palms the chakras in the palms go into your eyes breathe and thank your eyes thank you and have a great day it's been fun being with you
