okay [ __ ] this intro let's get to the point if you expect a woman on the first date to either pay for it or God forbid go dutch you're either feminine or just a [ __ ] broke boy isn't this so funny oh I really want this yeah it's only 14 oh that's perfect it's really cheap why this is the best time for you to get it for me and if you're broke that's okay [ __ ] [ __ ] expensive even [ __ ] at least they charge by the hour and I'm not
ashamed to admit that I used to be a broke boy I remember one time I went on a date with a female and it wasn't even like an actual date because like I was unemployed so we like really couldn't go anywhere I wasn't looking for a job at the time either I was just looking for [ __ ] so with [ __ ] Up Priorities like that I was destined for failure but for a while I had this method where I would like really mathematically plan out the date to make sure that we didn't go
too far over my budget that's how bad I was that's how struggling I was I'm hungry too hey you want to eat at the happy Palace uh uh how about a hot dog huh hey what luck what Lu yeah hey what can I get you did I have a hot dog with ketchup and sourer CRA please sourer Coss 50 cents extra damn I have not had a hot dog in so long come on let's get out of here anything a drink with that you son of a [ __ ] but one day all that [
__ ] subtracting in my head I must have [ __ ] up somewhere along the lines because I took this girl to a TVs of all places just a random casual store she picked out us one of the fancy Waters was probably Fiji or some [ __ ] I picked out the cheap little store of brand water put it right on the counter gave the cash in my debit card declined what no way try it again decline let me try Decline and the worst part is the girl liked me enough to volunteer to pay I'm
sorry to her you see back then I was really living outside of my means when it came to dated and I think that's the problem most guys have is that they think that because of social media especially that on the first day you really need to go balls to the wall and really go out your way to impress this girl and do [ __ ] outside of your comfort zone do [ __ ] that you probably usually wouldn't do I'll take your backs oh thank you thank you all right come on ready so my personal
rule is whatever I feel like doing that's what we're going to do for the first dat if I want to get burgers I'm going to a burger spot if I want to get sushi we're going to a sushi spot if I want to go to a concert then let's go to a concert you get the point and this works for two reasons one I never go places where I can't afford to pay for somebody else there if I can do something twice over then I'm not doing it and it makes it clear to the female
I'm talking to that hey this is what I want to do you can tag along if you want if not it's no big deal I'm still going to do what I want to do first of all never ask a female hey what do you want to do for the first date as the masculine figure in their relationship it is your job to decide and Lead if you can't even decide where the [ __ ] you guys are going to eat what kind of man are you you pretty much giving her all the power and all
of your masculine energy or lack thereof at this point this is Marin she fell in love with James I'm a masculine presenting woman and I am a feminine presenting strip man I guess people perceive us as weird plus if you're talking to some females that might be a little bit on the scandalous side the city girl side you might get you might go broke trying to impress this girl because trust me bro the few times I've done this I end up going to the most expensive places in the [ __ ] City all because I
couldn't decide where we're going to eat so why go broke trying to impress some girl who might not even remember you a couple years from now but your bank account your check in account your [ __ ] credit score they're never going to forget the day you decided to go to that Steakhouse trying to be Ean gazi or some corny [ __ ] it don't get me wrong if you're broke and you're talking to other broke people then by all means do the coffee shop Daye do the walk in the park whatever floats your boat
that's fine my point is you have to live and date by your means the second you try to exceed you means to impress somebody is the second you fa and immediately feel that pain if you're talking to a girl who's not picky and really knows what's up then just invite her over you can do that on the first day half of these [ __ ] W care they pull up in sweatpants ready to have a good time just like you are so don't let Tik Tok Twitter Instagram fool you everybody wants to go to the
steak house but we all eat McDonald's well if I'm being honest with you those type of dates they don't last forever and those type of chicks they don't age the best so be careful but that's it for today's video bro you can do all that cliche YouTube [ __ ] like comment subscribe share the video boost the algorithm whatever I don't know how any of that [ __ ] works I do know that it is helpful but more importantly if you need more help when it comes to understanding the modern dating SC and just female
nature in general please brother click that one Link in the description below and no it's not some corny overpriced course is actually my free school Community where there's a bunch of valuable information and helpful resources that can take your dating life to the next level so please brother check it out ASAP and bro don't forget just be a [ __ ] chat
